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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or do you have to be David beckham to at least start a conversation? This place is giving me a complex "
You don't have to be Beckham to get Messi with a lady on here  |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or do you have to be David beckham to at least start a conversation? This place is giving me a complex "
Not just David Beckham, Tom Hardy, Leo Di Caprio, Tom Hiddleston, Richard Madden, any close resemblance would help.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or do you have to be David beckham to at least start a conversation? This place is giving me a complex
You don't have to be Beckham to get Messi with a lady on here "
Bravo.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well it definitely helps (The only six pack I have is the pepsi max in my fridge, which doesn't help when older women seem to like buff guys ) but remember that guys outnumber women here probably 50 to 1 as far as messages are concerned, yesterday I saw a woman who joined 5 hours ago and she already had 80 'fabs' on her picture
Even if you are david beckham, there's a fair chance she's got so many messages she wont reply to all of them, which is totally fair. I've been left on 'read' 3/3 times today, that's just life.
Be patient and you will strike it lucky with someone in the future no doubt |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just me or do you have to be David beckham to at least start a conversation? This place is giving me a complex "
It must be just you.
I'm not even David Seaman never mind David Beckham but get messages and replies. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Use the "search the forums" option for advice and take the advise. This is not instashag as someone above said.
You have been a member for 6 weeks and i feel your expectations are far greater than reality. You say you have no problems with meeting in clubs, so why worry about on here. It can be extremly difficult to get conversations started on here and meets aranged. In real life it is simple compared to here simply because of the ratio of men to women.
Dont fret, keep going and certainly dont start threads about it being impossible to get meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are so many more women on here you have to make yourself stand out don’t be boring with messages be original be funny be respectful . I nearly always get a reply but I do look stunning as well xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me or do you have to be David beckham to at least start a conversation? This place is giving me a complex "
I'd only shag David Beckham if I could gag him!
Not my type. I like a tall rugby forward size man
Patience x |
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It's like a job interview, remember you're competing with alot of candidates, there are alot of guys out there. Stand out without being pretentious, be imaginative not boring, subtle not creepy. Pics always help, she might think you're her boss or a neighbour or even worse another member of her family arrrrgh,! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hi Been here for more years than I care to remember and it has got worst no replies no no thanks messages and a lot of threads like this and time wasters pic collectors and wannabes.
Take heart its not just guys couples have the same problem so I`am told!
Use the site but do not rely on it fun can be found elsewhere |
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"Most women look at a profile before a message OP
You haven't asked for advice so can't give if,however look at how you can change or improve it so it sells you better."
Yep. I prioritise who I reply to based on profile and the msg they send. |
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"It's like a job interview, remember you're competing with alot of candidates, there are alot of guys out there. Stand out without being pretentious, be imaginative not boring, subtle not creepy. Pics always help, she might think you're her boss or a neighbour or even worse another member of her family arrrrgh,!"
lol
job interview..... ive been self employed for 30 years, that explains a lot! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just me or do you have to be David beckham to at least start a conversation? This place is giving me a complex "
No you don't but lots look at profiles and decide if they are interested based on that so a poor profile tends to mean someone is passed over. |
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