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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
No, its not. Read a profile and respect people's preferences. You aren't wasting my time, your wasting you own. It's a shame for you, certainly not for me. Likewise, telling me I should be more flexible re distance age range what I'm looking for etc is also out of order. Rant over.  |
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"I'm just getting increasingly fed up with it. I do try to be polite in replying and helping as many as I can, but the entitlement is getting a bit much with some."
Don't do it if it doesn't make you happy. You're valuable here, reach out to people via the forum you want to help and save yourself the hassle. |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"I'm just getting increasingly fed up with it. I do try to be polite in replying and helping as many as I can, but the entitlement is getting a bit much with some.
Don't do it if it doesn't make you happy. You're valuable here, reach out to people via the forum you want to help and save yourself the hassle. "
I do this as well on forums and chat rooms. Most of the time I'm happy that I've managed to help people, just the odd few, that's all. Just needed to vent lol. Xx |
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"I'm just getting increasingly fed up with it. I do try to be polite in replying and helping as many as I can, but the entitlement is getting a bit much with some.
Don't do it if it doesn't make you happy. You're valuable here, reach out to people via the forum you want to help and save yourself the hassle.
I do this as well on forums and chat rooms. Most of the time I'm happy that I've managed to help people, just the odd few, that's all. Just needed to vent lol. Xx"
Fair enough. Just, you do a good thing, but you're never obliged. |
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"No, its not. Read a profile and respect people's preferences. You aren't wasting my time, your wasting you own. It's a shame for you, certainly not for me. Likewise, telling me I should be more flexible re distance age range what I'm looking for etc is also out of order. Rant over. "
Haha excellent !! I hear ya lady |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
We are always positive. As we all know nagativety breeds negativety. But just now again we have to have a rant at the frustration of some on here. Wether it be lack of communication from friends, which is so annoying or the all round ignorance of some. Costs nothing to be nice and polite. We feel your annoyance |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"We are always positive. As we all know nagativety breeds negativety. But just now again we have to have a rant at the frustration of some on here. Wether it be lack of communication from friends, which is so annoying or the all round ignorance of some. Costs nothing to be nice and polite. We feel your annoyance"
Thanks, I'm just getting the feeling that the type of people who are now joining fab have changed and see it as a quick hook up site, hence the entitlement issues. I've only been on here a few years but have noticed a difference. Things seem to be moving away from the true ethos of swinging on here. |
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"Despite my profile clearly stating I am not meeting. I politely declined an invite to an orgy. I am not a REAL swinger apparently  "
Real swingers drop their knickers for everyone at no notice no matter what! Get with the programme! |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Despite my profile clearly stating I am not meeting. I politely declined an invite to an orgy. I am not a REAL swinger apparently "
Swingers value the social side of things too. A lot aren't understanding that there needs to be some attraction the person you may be having sex with lol. |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
"We are always positive. As we all know nagativety breeds negativety. But just now again we have to have a rant at the frustration of some on here. Wether it be lack of communication from friends, which is so annoying or the all round ignorance of some. Costs nothing to be nice and polite. We feel your annoyance
Thanks, I'm just getting the feeling that the type of people who are now joining fab have changed and see it as a quick hook up site, hence the entitlement issues. I've only been on here a few years but have noticed a difference. Things seem to be moving away from the true ethos of swinging on here. "
We know what you mean. As you know as well as we do. There's wonderful people on fab to meet and we always remember this when we get frustration like you have. We have seen numerous posts by you helping people in the forums and giving what advice you can. We for two respect everything you are about and do to help folk. Chin up and don't let the fools get you down to much. You are an attribute to this lifestyle
Remember, let the fools pass bye and keep hold of the good ones |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, its not. Read a profile and respect people's preferences. You aren't wasting my time, your wasting you own. It's a shame for you, certainly not for me. Likewise, telling me I should be more flexible re distance age range what I'm looking for etc is also out of order. Rant over. "
sucks like a dyson treat with respect |
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"Oh, another one to add to this rant that I forgot about... "your loss". Erm no, as you aren't who I'm looking for anyway. "
Hehe - I have had that from men (I am not bi) who noticed I was local and offered a hook-up..
Err, no, I am just fine thanks. I would rather solo in my warm hotel room.  |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Oh, another one to add to this rant that I forgot about... "your loss". Erm no, as you aren't who I'm looking for anyway.
Hehe - I have had that from men (I am not bi) who noticed I was local and offered a hook-up..
Err, no, I am just fine thanks. I would rather solo in my warm hotel room. "
Ohhh the fab straighters lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh, another one to add to this rant that I forgot about... "your loss". Erm no, as you aren't who I'm looking for anyway.
Hehe - I have had that from men (I am not bi) who noticed I was local and offered a hook-up..
Err, no, I am just fine thanks. I would rather solo in my warm hotel room.
Ohhh the fab straighters lol"
its that what the ironing threads about  |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Oh, another one to add to this rant that I forgot about... "your loss". Erm no, as you aren't who I'm looking for anyway.
Hehe - I have had that from men (I am not bi) who noticed I was local and offered a hook-up..
Err, no, I am just fine thanks. I would rather solo in my warm hotel room. "
I know the ask me to go to their hotel rooms like I'm a free prostitute to service them because they happen to be in the area. |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
Another rant... People who pm instead of posting on a thread. I understand some may not be able to post on forums, just say so. It's the random "fancy a chat" messages that are a bit annoying when not even telavent to the thread. I'm such a grumpy cow this weekend, hoping that attractions in Cornwall aren't closed again because of the weather warnings in place. Think I need to get out more lol. |
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"Another rant... People who pm instead of posting on a thread. I understand some may not be able to post on forums, just say so. It's the random "fancy a chat" messages that are a bit annoying when not even telavent to the thread. I'm such a grumpy cow this weekend, hoping that attractions in Cornwall aren't closed again because of the weather warnings in place. Think I need to get out more lol. "
I feel you. She posted on my thread, I'm a shoe in! No. No you are not. |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"Another rant... People who pm instead of posting on a thread. I understand some may not be able to post on forums, just say so. It's the random "fancy a chat" messages that are a bit annoying when not even telavent to the thread. I'm such a grumpy cow this weekend, hoping that attractions in Cornwall aren't closed again because of the weather warnings in place. Think I need to get out more lol.
I feel you. She posted on my thread, I'm a shoe in! No. No you are not. "
Most definitely not lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No, its not. Read a profile and respect people's preferences. You aren't wasting my time, your wasting you own. It's a shame for you, certainly not for me. Likewise, telling me I should be more flexible re distance age range what I'm looking for etc is also out of order. Rant over. "
I just tell them they had a lucky escape and I hope they find someone nice. |
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By *sGivesWood OP Woman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"No, its not. Read a profile and respect people's preferences. You aren't wasting my time, your wasting you own. It's a shame for you, certainly not for me. Likewise, telling me I should be more flexible re distance age range what I'm looking for etc is also out of order. Rant over.
I just tell them they had a lucky escape and I hope they find someone nice. "
Oh that is pure genius, I must try that line lol. |
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