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Where do you find a unicorn??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We are new to this lifestyle but not new to fab.
Can anyone advise us to where we can find a woman who wants to have sex with a man and a woman at the same time. Surely these woman exist? Maybe it’s time to look elsewhere away from fab!
Thank you in advance xxxx |
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By *ruebameMan
over a year ago
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Op if your looking for a unicorn
Try a toy shop they sell loads  if you mean a female that likes to have fun with men and women then try a club or just hit the forums and strike up conversations from there plenty on here if your compatible  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We are new to this lifestyle but not new to fab.
Can anyone advise us to where we can find a woman who wants to have sex with a man and a woman at the same time. Surely these woman exist? Maybe it’s time to look elsewhere away from fab!
Thank you in advance xxxx"
Fab.
Clubs.
Good luck |
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It's not a term I like but I get that it's used to explain what someone's looking for. There are plenty of single women around, just get out there and you'll find the right person.
I was very lucky and met a great couple I now have a profile with so it does happen! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are new to this lifestyle but not new to fab.
Can anyone advise us to where we can find a woman who wants to have sex with a man and a woman at the same time. Surely these woman exist? Maybe it’s time to look elsewhere away from fab!
Thank you in advance xxxx"
There are some about but many don't like being called a unicorn you just have to look for them. |
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"I'm surprised that it's seems so hard for a couple to find a unicorn (single lady) 
That's not the hard part, it's whether WE want to meet them. "
Yeah. Couples find us, but getting from first message to meet is another matter. |
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Don't really struggle meeting single ladies, but we do it in clubs and don't rely on here. That way everyone can see if it's a mutual/all round attraction. Levels out the playing field, as we don't just meet any single ladies to tick that 'we've done a unicorn' box. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We’ve been on the look out for a very long time. We have met with someone but not in the last year. We are trying to get to more socials and go to places like BGHS, ‘networking’ if you wish, it’s quite difficult it seems, even for the ‘hot couples’ that we like to call them, patience is a virtue though.
Good luck!
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We've spoken to many on here but it don't lead to nothing, we currently have about 6 females on our friends list but always busy can't get childcare, there is always some reason or other they can't meet and all are verified and 2 sought us out why keep them on there I hear you ask lol well one can only live in hope |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"We've spoken to many on here but it don't lead to nothing, we currently have about 6 females on our friends list but always busy can't get childcare, there is always some reason or other they can't meet and all are verified and 2 sought us out why keep them on there I hear you ask lol well one can only live in hope "
Unicorns have non fab lives too. Particularly harder if they are single parents as well. |
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"We've spoken to many on here but it don't lead to nothing, we currently have about 6 females on our friends list but always busy can't get childcare, there is always some reason or other they can't meet and all are verified and 2 sought us out why keep them on there I hear you ask lol well one can only live in hope
Unicorns have non fab lives too. Particularly harder if they are single parents as well. "
We understand this just letting the op know of our experience we have met one off here but on an old profile no so luck this time round but we have our fingers firmly crossed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are new to this lifestyle but not new to fab.
Can anyone advise us to where we can find a woman who wants to have sex with a man and a woman at the same time. Surely these woman exist? Maybe it’s time to look elsewhere away from fab!
Thank you in advance xxxx"
I’m a unicorn but sadly u live to far away |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
To use, without using boxes, there are loads of fun ladies who like to play.
I suspect it is more down to attitude and being relaxed than an intense need.
Clues are there, you just need a little awareness and fun element.
Kisses to the fun ladies.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Unicorns" are not as rare as people think but for 1 reason or another bisexual single females are so heavily outnumbered by couples this allows them to be super selective. This makes them hard to find |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
""Unicorns" are not as rare as people think but for 1 reason or another bisexual single females are so heavily outnumbered by couples this allows them to be super selective. This makes them hard to find"
Sorry, have to disagree, I suspect it is the couples attitude that makes the difference.
We like to play in a dungeon, we have found there is more female bisexual play and is fantastic, fun, no preconceived plans/ thought, just stunning
In my world, it what you bring to the party, not what lady brings.
Equally, could be totally wrong. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I was more talking about on here the are 10-20 couples looking for a single bi fem for every 1 single bi fem looking for a couple. Im sure you have had fun at clubs with single fems. Meeting 1 on here is alot harder |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""Unicorns" are not as rare as people think but for 1 reason or another bisexual single females are so heavily outnumbered by couples this allows them to be super selective. This makes them hard to find
Sorry, have to disagree, I suspect it is the couples attitude that makes the difference.
We like to play in a dungeon, we have found there is more female bisexual play and is fantastic, fun, no preconceived plans/ thought, just stunning
In my world, it what you bring to the party, not what lady brings.
Equally, could be totally wrong."
speaking as bisexual women i can assure you you are not wrong!
often it is the attitude of couples that is the problem.
More often than not i get messages from couples usually from the man, saying i want you in the wife to put a show on for me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was more talking about on here the are 10-20 couples looking for a single bi fem for every 1 single bi fem looking for a couple. Im sure you have had fun at clubs with single fems. Meeting 1 on here is alot harder "
i think clubs it probably the only feasible way for a lot of couples to achieve this.
I used to play with single guys and couples 1 to 1 all the time, then i just got sick of the hassle! often being cancelled on or mainly couples just wanting to meet at the last minute. So now i only play in clubs, i think a lot of woman do this. |
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By *uriousk22Couple
over a year ago
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"I was more talking about on here the are 10-20 couples looking for a single bi fem for every 1 single bi fem looking for a couple. Im sure you have had fun at clubs with single fems. Meeting 1 on here is alot harder
i think clubs it probably the only feasible way for a lot of couples to achieve this.
I used to play with single guys and couples 1 to 1 all the time, then i just got sick of the hassle! often being cancelled on or mainly couples just wanting to meet at the last minute. So now i only play in clubs, i think a lot of woman do this. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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One can mostly assume that a couple are attracted to each other.
If they are looking for another couple to play with as long as none of the 4 a are repulsed by any other of the 4 then as long as both women find the extra male to be shagable, and both the men find both the women ok. all is good.
Add bisexuality to the mix and then everyone has to find everyone shagable, plus the couple have to give 75% to the same sex couple whilst giving the third party an equal share of what he or she is looking for, as they have plenty of time for heterosexual, but no concept of the proportion of male to female pleasure ratio is required for total fun without the third party. Then the maths gets complex |
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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago
Up on them there hills |
""Unicorns" are not as rare as people think but for 1 reason or another bisexual single females are so heavily outnumbered by couples this allows them to be super selective. This makes them hard to find
Sorry, have to disagree, I suspect it is the couples attitude that makes the difference.
We like to play in a dungeon, we have found there is more female bisexual play and is fantastic, fun, no preconceived plans/ thought, just stunning
In my world, it what you bring to the party, not what lady brings.
Equally, could be totally wrong.
speaking as bisexual women i can assure you you are not wrong!
often it is the attitude of couples that is the problem.
More often than not i get messages from couples usually from the man, saying i want you in the wife to put a show on for me "
Never thought of that one.  |
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"We are new to this lifestyle but not new to fab.
Can anyone advise us to where we can find a woman who wants to have sex with a man and a woman at the same time. Surely these woman exist? Maybe it’s time to look elsewhere away from fab!
Thank you in advance xxxx"
It might help if you realised unicorn was said with a deep sigh and an eye roll by said single bi women about couples looking for one
Or, to be blunt, don't say you are looking for a unicorn
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""Unicorns" are not as rare as people think but for 1 reason or another bisexual single females are so heavily outnumbered by couples this allows them to be super selective. This makes them hard to find
Sorry, have to disagree, I suspect it is the couples attitude that makes the difference.
We like to play in a dungeon, we have found there is more female bisexual play and is fantastic, fun, no preconceived plans/ thought, just stunning
In my world, it what you bring to the party, not what lady brings.
Equally, could be totally wrong.
speaking as bisexual women i can assure you you are not wrong!
often it is the attitude of couples that is the problem.
More often than not i get messages from couples usually from the man, saying i want you in the wife to put a show on for me "
This 1000% |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
""Unicorns" are not as rare as people think but for 1 reason or another bisexual single females are so heavily outnumbered by couples this allows them to be super selective. This makes them hard to find
Sorry, have to disagree, I suspect it is the couples attitude that makes the difference.
We like to play in a dungeon, we have found there is more female bisexual play and is fantastic, fun, no preconceived plans/ thought, just stunning
In my world, it what you bring to the party, not what lady brings.
Equally, could be totally wrong.
speaking as bisexual women i can assure you you are not wrong!
often it is the attitude of couples that is the problem.
More often than not i get messages from couples usually from the man, saying i want you in the wife to put a show on for me
This 1000%"
Or to add or enhance their already fantastic sex life. The other thing is Mrs wants to try or experiment. No thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""Unicorns" are not as rare as people think but for 1 reason or another bisexual single females are so heavily outnumbered by couples this allows them to be super selective. This makes them hard to find
Sorry, have to disagree, I suspect it is the couples attitude that makes the difference.
We like to play in a dungeon, we have found there is more female bisexual play and is fantastic, fun, no preconceived plans/ thought, just stunning
In my world, it what you bring to the party, not what lady brings.
Equally, could be totally wrong.
speaking as bisexual women i can assure you you are not wrong!
often it is the attitude of couples that is the problem.
More often than not i get messages from couples usually from the man, saying i want you in the wife to put a show on for me
This 1000%
Or to add or enhance their already fantastic sex life. The other thing is Mrs wants to try or experiment. No thanks. "
Agree...also couples starting message with we are searching for a unicorn puts me off chatting to them |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
""Unicorns" are not as rare as people think but for 1 reason or another bisexual single females are so heavily outnumbered by couples this allows them to be super selective. This makes them hard to find
Sorry, have to disagree, I suspect it is the couples attitude that makes the difference.
We like to play in a dungeon, we have found there is more female bisexual play and is fantastic, fun, no preconceived plans/ thought, just stunning
In my world, it what you bring to the party, not what lady brings.
Equally, could be totally wrong.
speaking as bisexual women i can assure you you are not wrong!
often it is the attitude of couples that is the problem.
More often than not i get messages from couples usually from the man, saying i want you in the wife to put a show on for me
This 1000%
Or to add or enhance their already fantastic sex life. The other thing is Mrs wants to try or experiment. No thanks.
Agree...also couples starting message with we are searching for a unicorn puts me off chatting to them"
I'd just delete straight after reading and not respond. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
"We’re finding it increasingly difficult too. Not sure what we’re doing wrong lol. Anyone want to give us a clue feel free to message us x"
Status and profile put me right off. No pics of hubby either. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well, I didn’t expect my question to get such a response. I have read through everyone’s message and taken everything on board. I have made the changes people have suggested and I will not use the word ‘unicorn’ again ( had no idea it was such a forbidden word!!??)
Thank you everyone, wish you all the very best. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"To me your profile reads a bit like the man wouldn't be involved, so maybe reword it a wee bit?"
No, please don't, as this would be meeting under false pretences and will only come out during chat, so you'd just be wasting your time and the time of others when they say no because you weren't upfront with them. Nothing more annoying than false information on profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well, I didn’t expect my question to get such a response. I have read through everyone’s message and taken everything on board. I have made the changes people have suggested and I will not use the word ‘unicorn’ again ( had no idea it was such a forbidden word!!??)
Thank you everyone, wish you all the very best."
I do not think unicorn is a forbidden word some people do not like being addressed as it some love the status of being called a unicorn just peoples preference. Good luck |
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Sainsburys! That's where my mum bought the giant one that sleeps on my pillow came from.
If you're looking for a female who's willing to meet a couple, then I'd suggest a club.
As a single female I've found the couples that contact me, have never led anywhere
As one half of a couple on here, it's tough.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Grow up and swing with a couple, in the meet you can have your FFM and swap around so they can too, simple
Most single girls avoid couples just looking to play with women only for numerous reasons... |
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"I don't find the term 'unicorn' offensive at all. Its hard to find a couple where the attraction is 3 way and where I won't be a 'treat' for the boyfriend/husband/other half x"
Not always the case it's the wife here who says who we meet, if she don't like them we don't meet,as it's her who wants to explore her bi side
I do agree tho it is a nice treat for me  but I'd happily just watch her |
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"We’re finding it increasingly difficult too. Not sure what we’re doing wrong lol. Anyone want to give us a clue feel free to message us x
Status and profile put me right off. No pics of hubby either. "
Can you elaborate why? Never realised there’s no pics of mr so will sort that. But why would profile and status put you off? |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"We’re finding it increasingly difficult too. Not sure what we’re doing wrong lol. Anyone want to give us a clue feel free to message us x
Status and profile put me right off. No pics of hubby either.
Can you elaborate why? Never realised there’s no pics of mr so will sort that. But why would profile and status put you off? "
"Friday... Any sexy ladies out there want to help me give mr a birthday present he’ll never forget? Get in touch x" also nothing in your profile about what you can offer the female. A lot of ladies aren't interested in being a couples plaything or a "birthday present" for hubby. Definate no from me. Some may well be into this scenario. |
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"We’re finding it increasingly difficult too. Not sure what we’re doing wrong lol. Anyone want to give us a clue feel free to message us x
Status and profile put me right off. No pics of hubby either.
Can you elaborate why? Never realised there’s no pics of mr so will sort that. But why would profile and status put you off?
"Friday... Any sexy ladies out there want to help me give mr a birthday present he’ll never forget? Get in touch x" also nothing in your profile about what you can offer the female. A lot of ladies aren't interested in being a couples plaything or a "birthday present" for hubby. Definate no from me. Some may well be into this scenario. "
Take your comments on board regarding the status, although it was a spur of the moment thing and wasn’t intended to be a couples plaything at all. As for the “What we can offer?”
We’re wanting to meet with another female luv not sign her upto for a new mobile phone contract....  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"We’re finding it increasingly difficult too. Not sure what we’re doing wrong lol. Anyone want to give us a clue feel free to message us x
Status and profile put me right off. No pics of hubby either.
Can you elaborate why? Never realised there’s no pics of mr so will sort that. But why would profile and status put you off?
"Friday... Any sexy ladies out there want to help me give mr a birthday present he’ll never forget? Get in touch x" also nothing in your profile about what you can offer the female. A lot of ladies aren't interested in being a couples plaything or a "birthday present" for hubby. Definate no from me. Some may well be into this scenario.
Take your comments on board regarding the status, although it was a spur of the moment thing and wasn’t intended to be a couples plaything at all. As for the “What we can offer?”
We’re wanting to meet with another female luv not sign her upto for a new mobile phone contract.... "
If you have nothing to offer her apart from being your walking, talking sex toy then good luck. |
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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago
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"To me your profile reads a bit like the man wouldn't be involved, so maybe reword it a wee bit?
No, please don't, as this would be meeting under false pretences and will only come out during chat, so you'd just be wasting your time and the time of others when they say no because you weren't upfront with them. Nothing more annoying than false information on profiles. "
It wouldn't be false though, they said in the op they want a woman who will have sex with both of them. If they reword the profile to say that, then it's the truth. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Most single ladies on here are hard work you will struggle to attract and keep there attention unless your profile is completely on point, you reiterate you are not after a plaything or just fulfilling a fantasy. After all it’s a 3 way meet of equal dynamics
Then again what would we know! Only met over 50 single ladies and had maybe 100 plus FFM meets.....
You know the number 1 thing that puts single ladies off meeting a couple? That the couple are ONLY looking for a single lady to play with! It’s not swinging |
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"We’re finding it increasingly difficult too. Not sure what we’re doing wrong lol. Anyone want to give us a clue feel free to message us x
Status and profile put me right off. No pics of hubby either.
Can you elaborate why? Never realised there’s no pics of mr so will sort that. But why would profile and status put you off?
"Friday... Any sexy ladies out there want to help me give mr a birthday present he’ll never forget? Get in touch x" also nothing in your profile about what you can offer the female. A lot of ladies aren't interested in being a couples plaything or a "birthday present" for hubby. Definate no from me. Some may well be into this scenario.
Take your comments on board regarding the status, although it was a spur of the moment thing and wasn’t intended to be a couples plaything at all. As for the “What we can offer?”
We’re wanting to meet with another female luv not sign her upto for a new mobile phone contract....
If you have nothing to offer her apart from being your walking, talking sex toy then good luck. "
Cup of tea and a sandwich then? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We are new to this lifestyle but not new to fab.
Can anyone advise us to where we can find a woman who wants to have sex with a man and a woman at the same time. Surely these woman exist? Maybe it’s time to look elsewhere away from fab!
Thank you in advance xxxx"
It sounds more like the female half of the couple and the bi fem would be putting on a show for the Mr, based on the wording. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"We’re finding it increasingly difficult too. Not sure what we’re doing wrong lol. Anyone want to give us a clue feel free to message us x
Status and profile put me right off. No pics of hubby either.
Can you elaborate why? Never realised there’s no pics of mr so will sort that. But why would profile and status put you off?
"Friday... Any sexy ladies out there want to help me give mr a birthday present he’ll never forget? Get in touch x" also nothing in your profile about what you can offer the female. A lot of ladies aren't interested in being a couples plaything or a "birthday present" for hubby. Definate no from me. Some may well be into this scenario.
Take your comments on board regarding the status, although it was a spur of the moment thing and wasn’t intended to be a couples plaything at all. As for the “What we can offer?”
We’re wanting to meet with another female luv not sign her upto for a new mobile phone contract....
If you have nothing to offer her apart from being your walking, talking sex toy then good luck.
Cup of tea and a sandwich then? "
Lol, is cake included?! |
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"We’re finding it increasingly difficult too. Not sure what we’re doing wrong lol. Anyone want to give us a clue feel free to message us x
Status and profile put me right off. No pics of hubby either.
Can you elaborate why? Never realised there’s no pics of mr so will sort that. But why would profile and status put you off?
"Friday... Any sexy ladies out there want to help me give mr a birthday present he’ll never forget? Get in touch x" also nothing in your profile about what you can offer the female. A lot of ladies aren't interested in being a couples plaything or a "birthday present" for hubby. Definate no from me. Some may well be into this scenario.
Take your comments on board regarding the status, although it was a spur of the moment thing and wasn’t intended to be a couples plaything at all. As for the “What we can offer?”
We’re wanting to meet with another female luv not sign her upto for a new mobile phone contract....
If you have nothing to offer her apart from being your walking, talking sex toy then good luck.
Cup of tea and a sandwich then?
Lol, is cake included?! "
Well, it is the mr’s birthday after all  |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"We’re finding it increasingly difficult too. Not sure what we’re doing wrong lol. Anyone want to give us a clue feel free to message us x
Status and profile put me right off. No pics of hubby either.
Can you elaborate why? Never realised there’s no pics of mr so will sort that. But why would profile and status put you off?
"Friday... Any sexy ladies out there want to help me give mr a birthday present he’ll never forget? Get in touch x" also nothing in your profile about what you can offer the female. A lot of ladies aren't interested in being a couples plaything or a "birthday present" for hubby. Definate no from me. Some may well be into this scenario.
Take your comments on board regarding the status, although it was a spur of the moment thing and wasn’t intended to be a couples plaything at all. As for the “What we can offer?”
We’re wanting to meet with another female luv not sign her upto for a new mobile phone contract....
If you have nothing to offer her apart from being your walking, talking sex toy then good luck.
Cup of tea and a sandwich then?
Lol, is cake included?!
Well, it is the mr’s birthday after all "
Oh now you are talking! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think a lot of the couples comments on here is exactly why a lot of women just meet in clubs.
As one couple said we are not hard work and also as already has been mentioned we are not a birthday present for hubby!
The amount of messages and updates saying "would love to surprise the Mr" or "would love to surprise the wife" is ridiculous. |
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When I first went to a club I had never even heard of a unicorn (in sexual terms). And I never really understood why couples were drawn to me- it felt super weird until someone passed off in conversation at my second club that that’s what almost every couple is after.
We do exist- we are out there haha. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Grow up and swing with a couple, in the meet you can have your FFM and swap around so they can too, simple
Most single girls avoid couples just looking to play with women only for numerous reasons..."
”Grow up’ What the fuck does that mean!! We will look for what we want to and do what we want to with whom ever we want thanks. I have no interest in having any sexual relations with another man whatsoever. Thanks for your input though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Grow up and swing with a couple, in the meet you can have your FFM and swap around so they can too, simple
Most single girls avoid couples just looking to play with women only for numerous reasons...”Grow up’ What the fuck does that mean!! We will look for what we want to and do what we want to with whom ever we want thanks. I have no interest in having any sexual relations with another man whatsoever. Thanks for your input though."
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""Unicorns" are not as rare as people think but for 1 reason or another bisexual single females are so heavily outnumbered by couples this allows them to be super selective. This makes them hard to find
Sorry, have to disagree, I suspect it is the couples attitude that makes the difference.
We like to play in a dungeon, we have found there is more female bisexual play and is fantastic, fun, no preconceived plans/ thought, just stunning
In my world, it what you bring to the party, not what lady brings.
Equally, could be totally wrong.
speaking as bisexual women i can assure you you are not wrong!
often it is the attitude of couples that is the problem.
More often than not i get messages from couples usually from the man, saying i want you in the wife to put a show on for me
This 1000%
Or to add or enhance their already fantastic sex life. The other thing is Mrs wants to try or experiment. No thanks. "
We like everyone to enjoy themselves as much as we do I hate doing anything thing if I think the other people I’m doing it with aren’t having fun.
So when we have a lady with us it’s for her benefit as much as it is ours!
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over a year ago
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"We like everyone to enjoy themselves as much as we do I hate doing anything thing if I think the other people I’m doing it with aren’t having fun.
So when we have a lady with us it’s for her benefit as much as it is ours!
Doughnut "
Sod that, it's all about me. If my wife and some other woman can't feel pleasure in the knowledge they have totally satisfied me, then they just need to try harder
Yeah OK I will go sit in the kitchen and wait for the more wine bell... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Most single ladies on here are hard work you will struggle to attract and keep there attention unless your profile is completely on point, you reiterate you are not after a plaything or just fulfilling a fantasy. After all it’s a 3 way meet of equal dynamics
Then again what would we know! Only met over 50 single ladies and had maybe 100 plus FFM meets.....
You know the number 1 thing that puts single ladies off meeting a couple? That the couple are ONLY looking for a single lady to play with! It’s not swinging"
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over a year ago
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I am a single lady aka a Unicorn but I am straight.
So if a couple approaches me, it would only be the man I would want to play with. Some couples are ok with this but some really don't like it. I don't approach couples for that very reason  |
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"I am a single lady aka a Unicorn but I am straight.
So if a couple approaches me, it would only be the man I would want to play with. Some couples are ok with this but some really don't like it. I don't approach couples for that very reason "
It's the opposite way for us the wife won't ay with other men but wants to have fun with other females, yes I am a lucky man lol |
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over a year ago
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"Grow up and swing with a couple, in the meet you can have your FFM and swap around so they can too, simple
Most single girls avoid couples just looking to play with women only for numerous reasons..."
Oooooh huge generalisation there!
We do exist and we do play nicely with the male and female half of the couple. I tend to go for PEOPLE I'm attracted to - either their looks or more importantly, their personalities, whether they are a couple or a single man.
I find the term 'grow up' offensive. Swinging is about personal choice. Not other people's value judgements or requirements. We all play as we see fit. That's the whole point of being on here. |
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"Grow up and swing with a couple, in the meet you can have your FFM and swap around so they can too, simple
Most single girls avoid couples just looking to play with women only for numerous reasons...
Oooooh huge generalisation there!
We do exist and we do play nicely with the male and female half of the couple. I tend to go for PEOPLE I'm attracted to - either their looks or more importantly, their personalities, whether they are a couple or a single man.
I find the term 'grow up' offensive. Swinging is about personal choice. Not other people's value judgements or requirements. We all play as we see fit. That's the whole point of being on here. "
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"We are new to this lifestyle but not new to fab.
Can anyone advise us to where we can find a woman who wants to have sex with a man and a woman at the same time. Surely these woman exist? Maybe it’s time to look elsewhere away from fab!
Thank you in advance xxxx"
in a virtual parallel world |
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over a year ago
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"Grow up and swing with a couple, in the meet you can have your FFM and swap around so they can too, simple
Most single girls avoid couples just looking to play with women only for numerous reasons...
Oooooh huge generalisation there!
We do exist and we do play nicely with the male and female half of the couple. I tend to go for PEOPLE I'm attracted to - either their looks or more importantly, their personalities, whether they are a couple or a single man.
I find the term 'grow up' offensive. Swinging is about personal choice. Not other people's value judgements or requirements. We all play as we see fit. That's the whole point of being on here. "
This is the best reply on this thread, brilliant.
Every single other reply has also been brilliant by being either informative, helpful, critical (constructively) or funny, with the exception of the two comments from MontyandCoco. Oh well, there’s always one! |
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More a train of thought than anything - thinking out loud.
While harder to find initially, is it then more likely you'll connect with a single bi lady/[insert your word of choice here] when you have met? By that I mean compared to a cpl with a bi lady.
So if we approach a lady, we both have to like her, and her like us, so 4 points of attraction.
With a bi lady in a cpl there's that plus the ladies have to like the men, plus the men have to like each other too - as in, I'm straight but if I don't like a guy as a person, I don't want to watch him with my partner. My math isn't great until I've had more coffee, but a lot more than 4!
Or am I overthinking this? (Answer: yes!)
Hmm x |
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over a year ago
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"Try Narnia or Never, Never land.
Better still try a club, they do exist in a club they aren't unicorns ,unicorns are myths remember
I have been the Unicorn so we do exist."
you're a couple so you can't be a myth long live the legenext that is |
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"Try Narnia or Never, Never land.
Better still try a club, they do exist in a club they aren't unicorns ,unicorns are myths remember
I have been the Unicorn so we do exist.you're a couple so you can't be a myth long live the legenext that is"
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"I think a lot of the couples comments on here is exactly why a lot of women just meet in clubs.
As one couple said we are not hard work and also as already has been mentioned we are not a birthday present for hubby!
The amount of messages and updates saying "would love to surprise the Mr" or "would love to surprise the wife" is ridiculous. "
This Having been a ‘unicorn’ on a few occasions, as well as enjoying the company of a sexy lady with my fella, the main thing that appeals is that every person feels equal when playing. Each to their own, some ladies state they want to be treated like a “toy”...not this lady
Offering a female to female phone chat always helps (if you can get the lady to agree and she’s not actually a male posing as a single fem) - a great icebreaker and also provides reassurance on both sides as to what each party is looking for xx |
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"I think a lot of the couples comments on here is exactly why a lot of women just meet in clubs.
As one couple said we are not hard work and also as already has been mentioned we are not a birthday present for hubby!
The amount of messages and updates saying "would love to surprise the Mr" or "would love to surprise the wife" is ridiculous.
This Having been a ‘unicorn’ on a few occasions, as well as enjoying the company of a sexy lady with my fella, the main thing that appeals is that every person feels equal when playing. Each to their own, some ladies state they want to be treated like a “toy”...not this lady
Offering a female to female phone chat always helps (if you can get the lady to agree and she’s not actually a male posing as a single fem) - a great icebreaker and also provides reassurance on both sides as to what each party is looking for xx"
Hence our strap line on our profile, we don’t find it overly difficult to find single females and have regulars too x |
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"Join bumba or tonder, well, similar sounding sites as a couple and search for single women, you might just be in for a surprise."
Tried this as a couple - the latter banned us as they don’t allow couple accounts and our profile was reported We chatted to several ladies but it never ever went anywhere! |
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"We are new to this lifestyle but not new to fab.
Can anyone advise us to where we can find a woman who wants to have sex with a man and a woman at the same time. Surely these woman exist? Maybe it’s time to look elsewhere away from fab!
Thank you in advance xxxx"
We do exist! It's just (not being big headed now) we get so many messages and 90% of them either don't put any effort into what they write or they simply don't bother to read our profiles, so in my case I simply ignore the ones who can't be bothered because if they can't then why should I? My advice woukd be, when you do find one then read the profile, and then put some thought into the message you send to them, show that you did read it and also add face pictures (it really does make a difference) x |
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T has had a couple meets with women alone and likes the freedom she can do that. She's hopefully planning some meets with coupled too (although it's much harder, as she's hella picky). So don't discount couples either, sometimes it's our kink too! |
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The whole "Unicorns" thing is a myth.
Firstly, stop trying, nothing good ever comes of chasing shadows.
Then, get out into the swinging world, parties, clubs, and socials, and make friends.
When you make friends, some will be single bi ladies, and you can let them know that you like them, and would like to take it further, if they are up for it. Then just leave the idea with them, and carry on making friends and enjoying the scene. When folks see you as genuine, fun, friendly people, you will soon be having the kind of fun you are looking for.
We have never played with a "Unicorn"... but we have played with loads of our friends who just so happen to be single, female and bi.
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"The whole "Unicorns" thing is a myth.
Firstly, stop trying, nothing good ever comes of chasing shadows.
Then, get out into the swinging world, parties, clubs, and socials, and make friends.
When you make friends, some will be single bi ladies, and you can let them know that you like them, and would like to take it further, if they are up for it. Then just leave the idea with them, and carry on making friends and enjoying the scene. When folks see you as genuine, fun, friendly people, you will soon be having the kind of fun you are looking for.
We have never played with a "Unicorn"... but we have played with loads of our friends who just so happen to be single, female and bi.
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