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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Had argument with someone on here so like opinion please. So I met,i mean a friend of mine met a married couple who blindfolded him,tied him to bed then took it in turns swapping regularly to tease,stroke,suck him off and then both rode his ,he absolutely loved it all and enjoyed bloke pleasuring him more than the wife,does that mean he's Bicurious,Bisexual,Straight etc.sorry if silly question |
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Since he actually did have bi sex, he was already bi curious beforehand. Now that he's had bi sex, he is curious to try more bi type sex again I'm sure, which still makes him bi curious. A one time bi experience doesn't make you bi sexual, but if he tries it again and continues to want more, he's definitely bisexual. |
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"Had argument with someone on here so like opinion please. So I met,i mean a friend of mine met a married couple who blindfolded him,tied him to bed then took it in turns swapping regularly to tease,stroke,suck him off and then both rode his ,he absolutely loved it all and enjoyed bloke pleasuring him more than the wife,does that mean he's Bicurious,Bisexual,Straight etc.sorry if silly question"
was big curious now bisexual
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had argument with someone on here so like opinion please. So I met,i mean a friend of mine met a married couple who blindfolded him,tied him to bed then took it in turns swapping regularly to tease,stroke,suck him off and then both rode his ,he absolutely loved it all and enjoyed bloke pleasuring him more than the wife,does that mean he's Bicurious,Bisexual,Straight etc.sorry if silly question"
Honestly who bloody cares?
These ‘label’ threads are posted daily and it’s the same nonsense, there is no measuring standard. Let people just be people |
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By *adyA01Woman
over a year ago
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OP, I am not bi... But in past when in a couple playing with other couples I have got lost in the moment and ended up very intimate with other women..
I don't fancy women, I don't want 1 on 1 experiences with women.
But as part of a couples play it is great. Don't try to put a label in yourself... You were in a highly erotic situation and you enjoyed it |
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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago
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"Had argument with someone on here so like opinion please. So I met,i mean a friend of mine met a married couple who blindfolded him,tied him to bed then took it in turns swapping regularly to tease,stroke,suck him off and then both rode his ,he absolutely loved it all and enjoyed bloke pleasuring him more than the wife,does that mean he's Bicurious,Bisexual,Straight etc.sorry if silly question"
Does it matter? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It means he’s on the sexuality spectrum like all of us and enjoys adventures.
Pretty good skills for a profile on here I reckon.
Take the ysing out if analysing and enjoy! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"OP, I am not bi... But in past when in a couple playing with other couples I have got lost in the moment and ended up very intimate with other women..
I don't fancy women, I don't want 1 on 1 experiences with women.
But as part of a couples play it is great. Don't try to put a label in yourself... You were in a highly erotic situation and you enjoyed it "
Yeh he doesn't find blokes attractive at all,just maybe the taboo or the fact it's somethjng new.the husband was amazing apparently. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Had argument with someone on here so like opinion please. So I met,i mean a friend of mine met a married couple who blindfolded him,tied him to bed then took it in turns swapping regularly to tease,stroke,suck him off and then both rode his ,he absolutely loved it all and enjoyed bloke pleasuring him more than the wife,does that mean he's Bicurious,Bisexual,Straight etc.sorry if silly question
Does it matter? "
absolutely not but a woman on here said he was gay and started being abusive,like he said gay,bi,or wotever he had great time |
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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago
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"Had argument with someone on here so like opinion please. So I met,i mean a friend of mine met a married couple who blindfolded him,tied him to bed then took it in turns swapping regularly to tease,stroke,suck him off and then both rode his ,he absolutely loved it all and enjoyed bloke pleasuring him more than the wife,does that mean he's Bicurious,Bisexual,Straight etc.sorry if silly question
Does it matter? absolutely not but a woman on here said he was gay and started being abusive,like he said gay,bi,or wotever he had great time"
Whatever makes you happy OP. And by “you” clearly I mean your “friend”. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Had argument with someone on here so like opinion please. So I met,i mean a friend of mine met a married couple who blindfolded him,tied him to bed then took it in turns swapping regularly to tease,stroke,suck him off and then both rode his ,he absolutely loved it all and enjoyed bloke pleasuring him more than the wife,does that mean he's Bicurious,Bisexual,Straight etc.sorry if silly question
Does it matter? absolutely not but a woman on here said he was gay and started being abusive,like he said gay,bi,or wotever he had great time
Whatever makes you happy OP. And by “you” clearly I mean your “friend”. "
Yeh i thought you did,i will pass on the feedback.x |
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"Both of them rode him?
He's a bicycle."
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OP, I reckon your trysexual.. you’ll try anything. Personally, I’m bi-playful - I’m not actively seeking women and wouldn’t want 1 on 1 with a lady but in the right group scenario with the right people I might get a little frisky with the other lady.
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"Both of them rode him?
He's a bicycle.
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OP, I reckon your trysexual.. you’ll try anything. Personally, I’m bi-playful - I’m not actively seeking women and wouldn’t want 1 on 1 with a lady but in the right group scenario with the right people I might get a little frisky with the other lady.
Lou x "
I’d put thumbs up the the previous post, no idea why it’s changed to question marks. |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
Ramsgate |
"Had argument with someone on here so like opinion please. So I met,i mean a friend of mine met a married couple who blindfolded him,tied him to bed then took it in turns swapping regularly to tease,stroke,suck him off and then both rode his ,he absolutely loved it all and enjoyed bloke pleasuring him more than the wife,does that mean he's Bicurious,Bisexual,Straight etc.sorry if silly question
Does it matter? absolutely not but a woman on here said he was gay and started being abusive,like he said gay,bi,or wotever he had great time"
Who cares what his sexuality is - sounds like everyone had a great time |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had argument with someone on here so like opinion please. So I met,i mean a friend of mine met a married couple who blindfolded him,tied him to bed then took it in turns swapping regularly to tease,stroke,suck him off and then both rode his ,he absolutely loved it all and enjoyed bloke pleasuring him more than the wife,does that mean he's Bicurious,Bisexual,Straight etc.sorry if silly question"
Means he bi, maybe just got them out that experience
But if fucking love that so so much! |
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By *ea monkeyMan
over a year ago
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"Had argument with someone on here so like opinion please. So I met,i mean a friend of mine met a married couple who blindfolded him,tied him to bed then took it in turns swapping regularly to tease,stroke,suck him off and then both rode his ,he absolutely loved it all and enjoyed bloke pleasuring him more than the wife,does that mean he's Bicurious,Bisexual,Straight etc.sorry if silly question
Does it matter? absolutely not but a woman on here said he was gay and started being abusive,like he said gay,bi,or wotever he had great time"
Sadly there are some people who only deal in binary options on here and get abusive. Many people still equate male on male penetrative sex as being very high risk and dirty (not true), which possibly explains the abuse, although it's never justified.
As for what it makes 'your friend'? It entirely depends on if her wants to repeat the situation. Whilst many will rail against labels on here, labels help you and others to find what you're looking for. You don't have to put it on your driving license, but changing the profile to bi curious will help in repeating the experience, keeping it as straight will rule out others who enjoy same sex encounters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If someone decides to give themselves a label and identify as a certain sexuality then that's up to them. It's not for another to decide what label they should have, or for a forum audience to decide based on a given set of circumstances. The only person that could answer this question is your friend....not that I'd advocate asking him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I myself call myself straight, but once met a trance girl we both wanked sucked each other off , am I now bi sexual with just that occasion a couple of years ago ? |
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Instead of labels, categories, and all this bullshit of identity politics and activism of marginalized people, we can focus on erotic and sexual scenarios which vary from person to person. Our sexual scenarios can involve any gender and thanks to the internet, we can meet the appropriate persons without any obligation to belong to any sexual minority just because some activists with unbearable lives want to impose the visibility of everyone's sexual tastes and the acquisition of permanent identities. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"Many people still equate male on male penetrative sex as being very high risk and dirty (not true), which possibly explains the abuse, although it's never justified."
It's not justified in general in that it's no more risky than having heterosexual anal sex, which is an increased risk because there
However the sheer amount of posts on here from bi/straight men talking about how much they love bareback anal sex I can understand why people equate it to being high risk. Because bareback anal with anyone is! |
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"Had argument with someone on here so like opinion please. So I met,i mean a friend of mine met a married couple who blindfolded him,tied him to bed then took it in turns swapping regularly to tease,stroke,suck him off and then both rode his ,he absolutely loved it all and enjoyed bloke pleasuring him more than the wife,does that mean he's Bicurious,Bisexual,Straight etc.sorry if silly question
Honestly who bloody cares?
These ‘label’ threads are posted daily and it’s the same nonsense, there is no measuring standard. Let people just be people"
Not much good in attracting that experience if you don't have a name for what you want.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Bisexuality is an outdated term based on the assumption that there are only 2 genders. You -sorry, your friend - has had oral and anal sex with another man, thoroughly enjoyed it and is likely, at some stage, to repeat the experience or one similar. I wouldn't consider you/your friend to be straight; how he chooses to define himself further, should he want to, is an entirely personal matter.
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"OP, I am not bi... But in past when in a couple playing with other couples I have got lost in the moment and ended up very intimate with other women..
I don't fancy women, I don't want 1 on 1 experiences with women.
But as part of a couples play it is great. Don't try to put a label in yourself... You were in a highly erotic situation and you enjoyed it "
Yes that's how I see myself too  |
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I can only speak for myself..
But I have straight on my profile, I’ve no intention of meeting men for sex ..
But in past threesomes I’ve touched and played with guys and vice versa ..
As i say I’m not looking for that , but if you’re part of a true threesome then it’s important to go with the flow ..
Otherwise your constantly worrying where your putting your hand and how close the swords are .. that’s not relaxing x |
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I'm bi on my profile as I only show pictures of me crossdressed. That's because I'm only bi when dressed, have absolutely no interest in a guy on guy experience at all. Take away the women's clothing and I see myself as straight, but the exception that proves the rule is I do actually find some younger feminine guys sexy, even as a guy 
So I see it as fluid, I do go through long periods of not wanting to dress and have a normal sex life with a woman but I know those feelings are there, and as I've got older I'm comfortable with them.
How others perceive me and my sexuality has no real impact for me, the older I get the less I particularly care  |
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By *ethRyanCouple
over a year ago
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Got to wonder why we feel the need to label, if it's fun, consensual and legal enjoy it!! Given that they prefer a sexuality label on here Ryan would prefer the bi-playful option another site offers... |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
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"Got to wonder why we feel the need to label, if it's fun, consensual and legal enjoy it!! Given that they prefer a sexuality label on here Ryan would prefer the bi-playful option another site offers..."
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Knowing a little bit more about "the lifestyle" by now lol, think you're absolutely right,
a bi-playful option would be a really good addition and a more accurate description for some |
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"Got to wonder why we feel the need to label, if it's fun, consensual and legal enjoy it!! Given that they prefer a sexuality label on here Ryan would prefer the bi-playful option another site offers...
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Knowing a little bit more about "the lifestyle" by now lol, think you're absolutely right,
a bi-playful option would be a really good addition and a more accurate description for some "
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"I have no idea what the definition is but that scenario sounds hot as fuck"
Try anything sexual....
However, I do draw the line at paedophilia, bestiality and necrophilia.
One of my friends has a motto.. anything with a pulse lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Got to wonder why we feel the need to label, if it's fun, consensual and legal enjoy it!! Given that they prefer a sexuality label on here Ryan would prefer the bi-playful option another site offers..."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Got to wonder why we feel the need to label, if it's fun, consensual and legal enjoy it!! Given that they prefer a sexuality label on here Ryan would prefer the bi-playful option another site offers...
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Yep spot on xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had argument with someone on here so like opinion please. So I met,i mean a friend of mine met a married couple who blindfolded him,tied him to bed then took it in turns swapping regularly to tease,stroke,suck him off and then both rode his ,he absolutely loved it all and enjoyed bloke pleasuring him more than the wife,does that mean he's Bicurious,Bisexual,Straight etc.sorry if silly question"
If you, I mean your friend, could pass my name on that would be great  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have no idea what the definition is but that scenario sounds hot as fuck
Try anything sexual....
However, I do draw the line at paedophilia, bestiality and necrophilia.
One of my friends has a motto.. anything with a pulse lol"
Defo but u get what I meant |
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"Had argument with someone on here so like opinion please. So I met,i mean a friend of mine met a married couple who blindfolded him,tied him to bed then took it in turns swapping regularly to tease,stroke,suck him off and then both rode his ,he absolutely loved it all and enjoyed bloke pleasuring him more than the wife,does that mean he's Bicurious,Bisexual,Straight etc.sorry if silly question"
So what ? It doesn’t matter he had a good time and got off and lived a fantasy of many a guy so good luck but next tine invite me lol |
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"OP, I am not bi... But in past when in a couple playing with other couples I have got lost in the moment and ended up very intimate with other women..
I don't fancy women, I don't want 1 on 1 experiences with women.
But as part of a couples play it is great. Don't try to put a label in yourself... You were in a highly erotic situation and you enjoyed it "
This for me too ...I think.of myself of bi playful in the right company. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it makes your friend very trusting.
As for labels if your friend is interested in repeating the experience then his profile probably should reflect his openness to male on male interaction while not excluding the male on female option by selecting one of the bi options. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had argument with someone on here so like opinion please. So I met,i mean a friend of mine met a married couple who blindfolded him,tied him to bed then took it in turns swapping regularly to tease,stroke,suck him off and then both rode his ,he absolutely loved it all and enjoyed bloke pleasuring him more than the wife,does that mean he's Bicurious,Bisexual,Straight etc.sorry if silly question"
can we know his name so we can put fab str8 next to it  ...........only kidding |
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"I have been amazed how non judgmental and easy going people have been.feel much better now. So does my mate.lol"
Way it should be. No attitudes. We all need to explore what we like doing. Then if we like it do it lots |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Simple question with a simple answer:
Is the person attracted to two or more genders?
If the answer is yes, they're bi.
If no, they're either gay or straight (or asexual, but less likely in the swinging community).
If they're not sure, they're bi-curious/questioning. |
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By *uss49Man
over a year ago
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I've been contacted so many times from "straight" men on here it just puzzles me why aren't they saying bi or bi curious ?
I'm on both Fab sites as bi and have found men's profiles on here as straight & yet on Fabguys as bi.
My opinion is that they don't want to show women on here that they're attracted to the same sex just so that could be a man's man in front of a female.
Sort yourselves out guys ! Lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just having pleasures of 'the flesh'... No problem with that and it is typical of the contributors on this site that we are all labelled....
Who cares and at least there are some that like erotic adventure.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP, I am not bi... But in past when in a couple playing with other couples I have got lost in the moment and ended up very intimate with other women..
I don't fancy women, I don't want 1 on 1 experiences with women.
But as part of a couples play it is great. Don't try to put a label in yourself... You were in a highly erotic situation and you enjoyed it "
???? totally agree, I’d call it bi-playful
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Both of them rode him?
He's a bicycle.
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OP, I reckon your trysexual.. you’ll try anything. Personally, I’m bi-playful - I’m not actively seeking women and wouldn’t want 1 on 1 with a lady but in the right group scenario with the right people I might get a little frisky with the other lady.
Lou x "
Agree |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Simple question with a simple answer:
Is the person attracted to two or more genders?
If the answer is yes, they're bi.
If no, they're either gay or straight (or asexual, but less likely in the swinging community).
If they're not sure, they're bi-curious/questioning."
no I don't sorry my friend doesn't find men attractive at all. |
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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago
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"I've been contacted so many times from "straight" men on here it just puzzles me why aren't they saying bi or bi curious ?
I'm on both Fab sites as bi and have found men's profiles on here as straight & yet on Fabguys as bi.
My opinion is that they don't want to show women on here that they're attracted to the same sex just so that could be a man's man in front of a female.
Sort yourselves out guys ! Lol
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I’m on both sites as well, but I’ve met more guys from FabSwingers than Fabguys. Not all of them say that they’re bi curious or bi which is a shame as I tend to only contact those who say they’re bi curious or bi. I’m a bit shy about contacting the straight ones who look at my profile as I don’t want to offend them in any way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Had argument with someone on here so like opinion please. So I met,i mean a friend of mine met a married couple who blindfolded him,tied him to bed then took it in turns swapping regularly to tease,stroke,suck him off and then both rode his ,he absolutely loved it all and enjoyed bloke pleasuring him more than the wife,does that mean he's Bicurious,Bisexual,Straight etc.sorry if silly question"
He is now officially bisexual. He needs to report the change in his sexual orientation immediately to the Ministry of Pigeon Holes. Failure to dislose this is punishable by shaming and endless cyberbullying. He will know his status is officially changed when a plane writes it in the sky in a trail of smoke. He should be aware that he should always take the dare option when playing truth or dare..... |
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No labels needed. He enjoyed himself and so did they.
I’m always amazed by the number of fab straight guys who contact me saying they’d like to come to a party with me when I mention bi couples are going to be there... |
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"No labels needed. He enjoyed himself and so did they.
I’m always amazed by the number of fab straight guys who contact me saying they’d like to come to a party with me when I mention bi couples are going to be there..."
Yep been there. |
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