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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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been talking for weeks too someone exchanging text messages etc , look fwd meet you cant wait blah de blah, too log in too see shes now a couple? Rather be told at the begining than lies n false promises etc |
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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago
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" been talking for weeks too someone exchanging text messages etc , look fwd meet you cant wait blah de blah, too log in too see shes now a couple? Rather be told at the begining than lies n false promises etc "
Things change and life evolves, not necessarily lies and false promises. Unless she has told you otherwise perhaps she still wants to meet you even though she has now 'coupled up'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" been talking for weeks too someone exchanging text messages etc , look fwd meet you cant wait blah de blah, too log in too see shes now a couple? Rather be told at the begining than lies n false promises etc "
Not nice OP.
However, pick yourself up, dust yourself down and find someone new.
BTW, does she still want to meet of has she ghosted you too?
The could be 3sum dynamic on the cards |
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Honesty is always appropriate but may also be contextual. For example, a relationship involves more than one person, yet you were only talking to one partner. It's feasible that this relationship currently means that your contact wasn't formerly associated with someone in the same way.
And it may also mean that someone else is now their preferred partner and that you may have - in the past - been considered differently. Relationships meander, change course, end and re-start - those of us on the outside will typically not be given full insight into others' relationships: it's priviliged material.
Whenever we learn that one option is now closed-off, then it merely is better suited to motivate us to find others that we'd now like. Fab isn't primarily a vehicle for LTR and interaciton with others, when we haven't met, should be valued for what is - that it holds potential.It's better for us to cast our nets wide. Learn from our experiences, then move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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" been talking for weeks too someone exchanging text messages etc , look fwd meet you cant wait blah de blah, too log in too see shes now a couple? Rather be told at the begining than lies n false promises etc "
Has she told you she doesn't want to meet you now?
Maybe she was talking to the other guy at the same time and she met him first.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I genuinely thought this was going to be about a Led Zeppelin tribute band
It happens op, onwards and upwards "
This never occurred to me, but now I'm slightly disappointed that it wasn't about the cover band... |
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" been talking for weeks too someone exchanging text messages etc , look fwd meet you cant wait blah de blah, too log in too see shes now a couple? Rather be told at the begining than lies n false promises etc "
Maybe she finds him more to her liking. It happens! |
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