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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Was chatting to a femdom earlier and was way more of a turn on than I expected. Doing all the things she told me and to refering her as Mistress. How many others are on here? |
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"Was chatting to a femdom earlier and was way more of a turn on than I expected. Doing all the things she told me and to refering her as Mistress. How many others are on here?"
I love to chat to dommes, I’m naturally very sub but happily play both sides |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Was chatting to a femdom earlier and was way more of a turn on than I expected. Doing all the things she told me and to refering her as Mistress. How many others are on here?"
Oh...to just find one. |
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Femdom is one of those terms that riles me. Sometimes it seems to mean female domination (by someone else) and sometimes it seems to mean a female dominant.
Is one of those answers definitively correct? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Femdom is one of those terms that riles me. Sometimes it seems to mean female domination (by someone else) and sometimes it seems to mean a female dominant.
Is one of those answers definitively correct?"
I thought it was a female condom  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am the dominant one in our marriage. My cuckold husband does as he is told. I do whatever I want with whoever I want. ( he loves it )
I guess I’ve always been dominant. My husband is quite sub so it works great in our marriage. |
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"Femdom is one of those terms that riles me. Sometimes it seems to mean female domination (by someone else) and sometimes it seems to mean a female dominant.
Is one of those answers definitively correct?"
It's definitely a dominant female, or Domme |
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"Femdom is one of those terms that riles me. Sometimes it seems to mean female domination (by someone else) and sometimes it seems to mean a female dominant.
Is one of those answers definitively correct?
I thought it was a female condom "
Close, that's a femidom |
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By *ub_boiMan
over a year ago
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"I am the dominant one in our marriage. My cuckold husband does as he is told. I do whatever I want with whoever I want. ( he loves it )
I guess I’ve always been dominant. My husband is quite sub so it works great in our marriage. "
I do hope he realises just how lucky he is. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am the dominant one in our marriage. My cuckold husband does as he is told. I do whatever I want with whoever I want. ( he loves it )
I guess I’ve always been dominant. My husband is quite sub so it works great in our marriage. "
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Definitely a rare breed and made all the rarer for me by the fact that I believe the "connection" between a Domme and sub has to go a lot deeper than a swinging/casual sex type of relationship for it to truly work.
I need to "feel" submissive to someone for me to give myself to them and that is something I won't compromise on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely a rare breed and made all the rarer for me by the fact that I believe the "connection" between a Domme and sub has to go a lot deeper than a swinging/casual sex type of relationship for it to truly work.
I need to "feel" submissive to someone for me to give myself to them and that is something I won't compromise on. "
Totally agree with this |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's natural thing when person is alpha, those who thinks are dom (in real life not in role play) tell how extend or rather harsh you can be with person ? Mentally not physically. Alpha or Dom don't care about others they live for themselves. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"It's natural thing when person is alpha, those who thinks are dom (in real life not in role play) tell how extend or rather harsh you can be with person ? Mentally not physically. Alpha or Dom don't care about others they live for themselves. "
Not entirely sure what you're trying to say here but one thing any Dom/me worth their salt will have at the top of their priority list is a duty of care towards their submissive and ensuring they are both safe and comfortable with anything that may happen during a scene - it's why open and honest communication, establishment of boundaries, limits and safe words are so important |
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"It's natural thing when person is alpha, those who thinks are dom (in real life not in role play) tell how extend or rather harsh you can be with person ? Mentally not physically. Alpha or Dom don't care about others they live for themselves.
Not entirely sure what you're trying to say here but one thing any Dom/me worth their salt will have at the top of their priority list is a duty of care towards their submissive and ensuring they are both safe and comfortable with anything that may happen during a scene - it's why open and honest communication, establishment of boundaries, limits and safe words are so important "
Dom is male
Domme is female
Some Women are switch (Mrs is anyway lol) Domme and Sub. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's natural thing when person is alpha, those who thinks are dom (in real life not in role play) tell how extend or rather harsh you can be with person ? Mentally not physically. Alpha or Dom don't care about others they live for themselves.
Not entirely sure what you're trying to say here but one thing any Dom/me worth their salt will have at the top of their priority list is a duty of care towards their submissive and ensuring they are both safe and comfortable with anything that may happen during a scene - it's why open and honest communication, establishment of boundaries, limits and safe words are so important
Dom is male
Domme is female
Some Women are switch (Mrs is anyway lol) Domme and Sub."
Are you both switch? Looking for a kinky switch couple to play with and explore or the variants of this and see what fun we can all have. PM me. |
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"Definitely a rare breed and made all the rarer for me by the fact that I believe the "connection" between a Domme and sub has to go a lot deeper than a swinging/casual sex type of relationship for it to truly work.
I need to "feel" submissive to someone for me to give myself to them and that is something I won't compromise on. "
Yes I find this very true, And few inspire me to be willing to submit despite my desire to do so. |
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There’s plenty around but not so prevalent on this site. I expect that to be because the true dommes are lifestyle and not just for bedroom antics and the Dom / sub relationship is far deeper than swinging. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wish Scarlett was Switch so I could experience a bit of Femme Domme play once in a while but alas she is very sub so It’s very rare that I get to switch.
We’ve talked about finding a Domme to dominate us both in the past but it hasn’t materialised so far.
It’s on our Fucket List
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish Scarlett was Switch so I could experience a bit of Femme Domme play once in a while but alas she is very sub so It’s very rare that I get to switch.
We’ve talked about finding a Domme to dominate us both in the past but it hasn’t materialised so far.
It’s on our Fucket List
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I does seem hard to find a female don I have been looking for years and still had no luck |
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I am a total switch, cant decide which I prefer overall; but I do know I am more dominant with women my own age and much more submissive with younger women.
My ultimate fantasy is to serve a young dominant lady with a young bi male sub ….
in my dreams I know !  |
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"Was chatting to a femdom earlier and was way more of a turn on than I expected. Doing all the things she told me and to refering her as Mistress. How many others are on here?"
Love Mistress Domme's pegging me.
Love to Domm sub guys, eventually make them cum on my ass, tits n feet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's natural thing when person is alpha, those who thinks are dom (in real life not in role play) tell how extend or rather harsh you can be with person ? Mentally not physically. Alpha or Dom don't care about others they live for themselves.
Not entirely sure what you're trying to say here but one thing any Dom/me worth their salt will have at the top of their priority list is a duty of care towards their submissive and ensuring they are both safe and comfortable with anything that may happen during a scene - it's why open and honest communication, establishment of boundaries, limits and safe words are so important "
Absolutely, during and after. Some subs go into subspace where they are unable to function properly for a littor while so aftercare is very important too. It's a big responsibility having a sub. It's not about just flicking their bollocks ya know  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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"It's natural thing when person is alpha, those who thinks are dom (in real life not in role play) tell how extend or rather harsh you can be with person ? Mentally not physically. Alpha or Dom don't care about others they live for themselves.
Not entirely sure what you're trying to say here but one thing any Dom/me worth their salt will have at the top of their priority list is a duty of care towards their submissive and ensuring they are both safe and comfortable with anything that may happen during a scene - it's why open and honest communication, establishment of boundaries, limits and safe words are so important
Absolutely, during and after. Some subs go into subspace where they are unable to function properly for a littor while so aftercare is very important too. It's a big responsibility having a sub. It's not about just flicking their bollocks ya know "
If I *just* wanted my bollocks flicking I'd buy myself a rubber band!!
Unfortunately there *are* those (both Dom/me and sub) who think that's all being a Dom/me amounts to and that's when a danger of abuse arises. Which is why it is so important for players on both sides of the coin to be knowledgeable and informed before contemplating entering into D/s play, particularly with people they don't know and trust.
I couldn't contemplate giving myself to someone without having had long conversations on the subject and being as sure as I could be that they were the right Dom/me for me. I need to "feel" submissive to someone too, which is a rare thing indeed and why my practical experience is limited by comparison to my knowledge. |
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"Definitely a rare breed and made all the rarer for me by the fact that I believe the "connection" between a Domme and sub has to go a lot deeper than a swinging/casual sex type of relationship for it to truly work.
I need to "feel" submissive to someone for me to give myself to them and that is something I won't compromise on. "
Absolutely agree, connection must be based on feelings and trust; it has nothing to do with casual sex
And most people simply don't understand it |
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