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"Hi all Wife out on a date for first time in years. I'm on family duty, left waiting and wondering, thankfully with some red wine. Mind is racing, even though it's just a date with a former colleague" God that sounds so hot. | |||
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"Thanks pal Punching, thankfully I was in the right place at the right time 20 years ago" Does her date know you’re into this lifestyle? | |||
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"Remember it's just a date - for now Latest update is they are just enjoying a catch up at the moment. We'll see how it progresses " Fingers crossed it gets her juices flowing bud | |||
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"Im sharing my experience as the husband that's all I have no influence, or would want any influence on tonight. She asked me if she could go, I said yes. Bearing in mind all the threads on here regarding this kind of thing, I thought it may give a genuine insight to those who are contemplating it. Comments like this make you think why bother " Don't forget keep your little group updated ....half of em have their cocks out waiting...... unbelievable... | |||
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"Thank you for keeping us excited, sorry some people try to spoil it. " I rest my case! | |||
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"Im sharing my experience as the husband that's all I have no influence, or would want any influence on tonight. She asked me if she could go, I said yes. Bearing in mind all the threads on here regarding this kind of thing, I thought it may give a genuine insight to those who are contemplating it. Comments like this make you think why bother " I did say that I used to do something SIMILAR with my ex... Not quite the same thing as you are experiencing right now with your wife. But I’m enjoying contemplating it whilst getting an insight into your experience | |||
"10 years ago this was a swingers website for swingers Things change " Yep things change and dating is not swinging either, is it? | |||
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"More than one way to skin a cat Whatever floats your boat Live and let live What works for some " True true, but you said this used to be a swinging site for swingers, everyone interprets swinging in a different way so let them be, we wouldn’t class you letting the wife go out on a date as swinging but others will do as en example | |||
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"10 years ago this was a swingers website for swingers Things change Yep things change and dating is not swinging either, is it?" What is swinging? Some might say it’s not singles, BdSm or some other practice. Alll feature widely on this site though. If it’s the OPs bag, and his wife isn’t doing something against her will, what’s the drama? Thankfully it’s only the OP that gets to define swinging for him. If you fancy being judgemental,Mumsnet is this way | |||
"Tonight I've been bollocked for having a glass of wine and sharing what's going on. Fabswingers eh" This is probably the most interesting post iv seen. Makes a refreshing change from the "who wants to talk about and swap pics on partners" etc bollox! | |||
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"Oh I'd breed your wife" Oh my lord this site!!! Full of strange people!! | |||
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"Im sharing my experience as the husband that's all I have no influence, or would want any influence on tonight. She asked me if she could go, I said yes. Bearing in mind all the threads on here regarding this kind of thing, I thought it may give a genuine insight to those who are contemplating it. Comments like this make you think why bother Don't forget keep your little group updated ....half of em have their cocks out waiting...... unbelievable... "I think it sounds exciting and exactly what I would like with a future partner. | |||
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"well I hope it all works out for you and your wife and her friend, I can see the appeal and don't let others put you of, after all its your life, and you can still enjoy your wife after she and her friend have been naughty, " | |||
"This is just what we are looking for with a sane sensible sensual guy." I’d happily oblige x | |||
"Thought I had better follow this up. First, thanks to the people who have responded positively, and those who have replied in private. I get that some don’t understand the dynamic, so let’s leave it at that. L had a great time catching up with her friend. They enjoyed a nice meal and a drink, and had a bit of fun afterwards in privacy, but it was too late to get a room. She came home very late, rather happy and very wet (which I enjoyed). Her friend is moving back to the area soon and would like to see her again and more often. L would like that - if I am happy of course. It’s unchartered territory for us, so there is a lot to consider before any decisions are made. " Great scenario OP. My gf has a couple of fuck buddies she can call upon when I work away from home. Love to hear about their meets. Ignore the negative replys, unfortunately people get their kicks knocking other people. This forum has its fair share of people who find it necessary to comment on every thread, usually trying to get a response or a bite from the Op. What a sad existence eh? As you can see 98% of the people have loved your thread. Well done and keep it going buddy. | |||
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"Thought I had better follow this up. First, thanks to the people who have responded positively, and those who have replied in private. I get that some don’t understand the dynamic, so let’s leave it at that. L had a great time catching up with her friend. They enjoyed a nice meal and a drink, and had a bit of fun afterwards in privacy, but it was too late to get a room. She came home very late, rather happy and very wet (which I enjoyed). Her friend is moving back to the area soon and would like to see her again and more often. L would like that - if I am happy of course. It’s unchartered territory for us, so there is a lot to consider before any decisions are made. " Thank you OP for such an great insight to the "other side"! | |||
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"I really appreciate the supportive replies, and I’m glad it’s been an interesting topic. I just wanted to finish things off for those that have been interested. As mentioned, Thursday night went really well. We went out for a few drinks and a meal on Friday afternoon, spending some of the time going over Thursday night. It was great to have that quality time together after the previous day. We talked it through for a good hour, which gave some clarity to why my wife would like to see her friend again. We discussed the benefits, the risks, our individual needs and of course the third person involved. I had lots going on in my head, some positive stuff, but also some negative stuff too. The talk really helped, after having a good few hours to myself on Saturday, I pretty much bottomed it all out - with the help of a few people on here. It was clear that my wife likes this gent, why? He’s good company, attractive and she trusts him. Having made some bad choices on here in the past that led to regrets, this option feels safe to her. One of the main reason she is happy to pursue this is that it gives her freedom, an escape from being a wife, a mum, an employee - just for a few hours. She doesn’t want it often, a date once every couple of months would be enough as me and the kids are her priority. She believes the escape will benefit everyone, as swinging brought us closer together in the past. The sex she see’s as a bonus, yes it’s something she will enjoy, but also something that we can use as a couple to inject that naughtiness we enjoyed in the past. After running it over in my mind for 2 days, and having another chat last night, I’ve given it the green light. We have agreed our ground rules, how I will be involved initially and where we want that involvement to get to - if the friend is on board of course. We both agree we can manage this, we agree don’t need it but know we will enjoy it. We know we have a strong relationship, we understand the risks but are confident we can keep control of things. With that, we are both looking forward to the next date - some time in late April hopefully. " Good luck to you and your lovely wifey, as long as all parties have fun then go for it! Just keep us all updated on their fun and games.  | |||
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"that would work for me if it was The Mr on the date "Quite intresting to see it that some people like it the other way round, the man going on dates while the wife waits at home. I've found that women are quite strict about their man playing on his own. But women play alone because they get support and encouragement from the husband. Anyone else find that? | |||
"that would work for me if it was The Mr on the date
Quite intresting to see it that some people like it the other way round, the man going on dates while the wife waits at home.
I've found that women are quite strict about their man playing on his own. But women play alone because they get support and encouragement from the husband. Anyone else find that? "Doughnut is off on a date next week, I’m very excited by it! Danish x | |||
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"U should of told her to text u updates" This most definitely and be in a respectful public environment, How much do you know trust and feel comfortable about this person old associate or not. | |||
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"Trust - he understands the situation, not too often and with my permission. He lives 80 miles away, so it is never going to be a regular thing anyway, hence why it has taken such a long time to get round to meeting again. My wife herself only wants to see him every once in a while as a little bit of a naughty escape. Our focus is always on each other and always will be. Text updates throughout the evening have been agreed" Trust is such an important factor in this lifestyle, Hope both have a memorable experience. | |||
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"Hi all Wife out on a date for first time in years. I'm on family duty, left waiting and wondering, thankfully with some red wine. Mind is racing, even though it's just a date with a former colleague" Enjoy your throughts | |||
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"All our family have iPhones with find my phone activated - incase we lose them It has her entering hotel 20 mins ago That and a single grey WhatsApp tick is all I have to go on She’s getting fucked - no doubt about it Not bad to say she wasn’t sure about going over the weekend" Lucky you! Lucky Her!! Lucky Him!!! | |||
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"The last date was, tonight is a follow up" Yeah, just read the in between posts. Nice. | |||
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"All gone frustratingly quiet. We discovered this thread just last night. The most erotic we have read. Hope all has gone well for both of you. Started a chat here!" Same!!! | |||
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"On Tuesday of this week we ventured into similar territory but with Mr having a solo play meet and I (her) stayed at home. I recognise the feelings you experienced to those of my own. I planned their meet, I was the go between for their communication and I instructed them both on what I wanted from this play date, video and pics but I didn't want contact as I thought I would rather the tease. It was so horny to be involved in the build up, and to watch my man get ready and look handsome for another woman's pleasure. He kissed me goodbye and messaged me on his arrival and rang me when leaving. If I could change anything it would be that I would have wanted communication from him during the play date, I would have liked a phone call and to listen to them having sex as this would have made me feel included. Instead after a while of no contact he could have been out with work, or his mates or anything as it didn't tease my mind at all. The return home was a little awkward at first, we enjoyed sex together as a couple. It was the sex the night after that was more enjoyable, I wanted to see the pics and videos they had made for me and we had sex as I watched and listened to them. Would I do it again, yes but with more communication. Would I now play solo... yes and I now know how it feels and will know that I need my boyfriend to feel included although remotely. At the end of the day any playtime we have is for us as a couple whether we are physically involved or not and our relationship comes before Fab meets. Good luck OP, I hope your new journey is exciting for you all.... keep communicating and it will work out x" Is the turn on seeing the pleasure he is getting from the other woman,or the pleasure he is giving her... | |||
"On Tuesday of this week we ventured into similar territory but with Mr having a solo play meet and I (her) stayed at home. I recognise the feelings you experienced to those of my own. I planned their meet, I was the go between for their communication and I instructed them both on what I wanted from this play date, video and pics but I didn't want contact as I thought I would rather the tease. It was so horny to be involved in the build up, and to watch my man get ready and look handsome for another woman's pleasure. He kissed me goodbye and messaged me on his arrival and rang me when leaving. If I could change anything it would be that I would have wanted communication from him during the play date, I would have liked a phone call and to listen to them having sex as this would have made me feel included. Instead after a while of no contact he could have been out with work, or his mates or anything as it didn't tease my mind at all. The return home was a little awkward at first, we enjoyed sex together as a couple. It was the sex the night after that was more enjoyable, I wanted to see the pics and videos they had made for me and we had sex as I watched and listened to them. Would I do it again, yes but with more communication. Would I now play solo... yes and I now know how it feels and will know that I need my boyfriend to feel included although remotely. At the end of the day any playtime we have is for us as a couple whether we are physically involved or not and our relationship comes before Fab meets. Good luck OP, I hope your new journey is exciting for you all.... keep communicating and it will work out x" This is me !! I would love mrb to go on dates | |||
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