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Mrs here, I love the forums and used to post a lot. Anyway started to realise that whenever I contributed anything the thread stopped. After a month or so I started I interacting again, today and same thing .
I honestly want to know if there's a problem with me.
Thanks in advance xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m new to the forums and finding it hard as everyone seems to know each other well but I enjoy reading and just contribute when I can . Maybe it’s just been coincidence, don’t stop posting |
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"Mrs here, I love the forums and used to post a lot. Anyway started to realise that whenever I contributed anything the thread stopped. After a month or so I started I interacting again, today and same thing .
I honestly want to know if there's a problem with me.
Thanks in advance xx"
Just be yourself. Keep on keeping on. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mrs here, I love the forums and used to post a lot. Anyway started to realise that whenever I contributed anything the thread stopped. After a month or so I started I interacting again, today and same thing .
I honestly want to know if there's a problem with me.
Thanks in advance xx"
It happens more to me than I'd like to to admit.
Quite often the more regular forumites seem to ignore your points.
Makes me giggle when I post something on a thread which is ignored and then 10 minutes later, I somebody at the same and everyone picks up their comment and not yours.
It happens to us all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mrs here, I love the forums and used to post a lot. Anyway started to realise that whenever I contributed anything the thread stopped. After a month or so I started I interacting again, today and same thing .
I honestly want to know if there's a problem with me.
Thanks in advance xx"
Don’t let it get you down OP. I used to feel like I was the kiss of death to threads when using this profile and my joint one.
I love the forums and will keep contributing. You keep doing the same. You can get to know some lovely people on here.
V x |
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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago
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"I’m new to the forums and finding it hard as everyone seems to know each other well but I enjoy reading and just contribute when I can . Maybe it’s just been coincidence, don’t stop posting "
Many forum regulars have known eachother for a long time, through Fab or through socials etc, so are good friends. However, don't let that stop you posting, and maybe try to get to an organised social; they're great fun! |
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"Mrs here, I love the forums and used to post a lot. Anyway started to realise that whenever I contributed anything the thread stopped. After a month or so I started I interacting again, today and same thing .
I honestly want to know if there's a problem with me.
Thanks in advance xx
It happens more to me than I'd like to to admit.
Quite often the more regular forumites seem to ignore your points.
Makes me giggle when I post something on a thread which is ignored and then 10 minutes later, I somebody at the same and everyone picks up their comment and not yours.
It happens to us all"
This is exactly what I was talking about ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Mrs here, I love the forums and used to post a lot. Anyway started to realise that whenever I contributed anything the thread stopped. After a month or so I started I interacting again, today and same thing .
I honestly want to know if there's a problem with me.
Thanks in advance xx"
Just bad timing I guess, don't take it personally. |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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Naaaah...definitely not just you. I’ve been knocking about here for three years and still feel like I’m the kiss of death to the threads. I tend to post now, then not go back to that thread again unless it shows up regularly in the latest feed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Naaaah...definitely not just you. I’ve been knocking about here for three years and still feel like I’m the kiss of death to the threads. I tend to post now, then not go back to that thread again unless it shows up regularly in the latest feed. "
Hi not the kiss of death now I like your profile! |
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"Mrs here, I love the forums and used to post a lot. Anyway started to realise that whenever I contributed anything the thread stopped. After a month or so I started I interacting again, today and same thing .
I honestly want to know if there's a problem with me.
Thanks in advance xx
It happens more to me than I'd like to to admit.
Quite often the more regular forumites seem to ignore your points.
Makes me giggle when I post something on a thread which is ignored and then 10 minutes later, I somebody at the same and everyone picks up their comment and not yours.
It happens to us all"
Totally with you on that although I have noticed the ‘swingers chat’ is more accepting to everyone than ‘the lounge’
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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It's the same with internet forums on any subject - there will always be threads that are fast moving and where comments get missed, always will be a group of people who know each other and bounce off one another, and those that feel they're ignored etc. - then sometimes you have the thing where you post something that doesn't require a response etc.
Reality is you're often noticed more than you think you are - just post away when you have something you think is relevant to say, and if people don't respond, don't take it to heart  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just remember it is all a bit of fun too
I think there are the social clubbing clicks other people have mentioned
You seem a nice couple with a nice profile good luck with everything xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’m new to the forums and finding it hard as everyone seems to know each other well but I enjoy reading and just contribute when I can . Maybe it’s just been coincidence, don’t stop posting "
I’m the same but you can get ignored a lot by the cliques lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To all concerned:
You have heard of freedom of speech, but guess what the forums are for...
Freedom of thought!
As long as you enjoy the forums carry on posting because many want to read your ideas and viewpoint. People will start to engage with you and it does not matter if you're the last poster in the thread because that happens to everyone at some point. Even the regulars sometimes feel when they post everyone else disappears so please don't dwell on it. |
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"Mrs here, I love the forums and used to post a lot. Anyway started to realise that whenever I contributed anything the thread stopped. After a month or so I started I interacting again, today and same thing .
I honestly want to know if there's a problem with me.
Thanks in advance xx"
the same thing happens to me. I usually go back to a forum and I'm the last one there.
I thinks it's the site |
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Ok!!! This isn't actually about being the last person to post. My point has been missed , one comment earlier said it: sometimes I may post a comment on a thread which gets completely ignored and then shortly afterwards someone else says the same thing and gets responses. That's all. I'm obviously a boring twat so will say no more xxx |
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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago
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" sometimes I may post a comment on a thread which gets completely ignored and then shortly afterwards someone else says the same thing and gets responses. "
Happens to me too. Generally the other person saying it is either less adversarial about it, or has nicer tits. Sometimes both.
It's not to be taken either personally or seriously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks everyone, thought it was just me xxx "
OP, there is always the chance that after you've posted something everyone clicks on you profile, looks through your gorgeous photos and then forget all about the thread 
You do have some very nice pics x
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By *inkySeeKinkyDoWoman
over a year ago
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"Mrs here, I love the forums and used to post a lot. Anyway started to realise that whenever I contributed anything the thread stopped. After a month or so I started I interacting again, today and same thing .
I honestly want to know if there's a problem with me.
Thanks in advance xx
It happens more to me than I'd like to to admit.
Quite often the more regular forumites seem to ignore your points.
Makes me giggle when I post something on a thread which is ignored and then 10 minutes later, I somebody at the same and everyone picks up their comment and not yours.
It happens to us all"
Exactly this.
This happens to me all the time and ive also been a notorious thread killer for around 7 years, but I just keep posting because i can.
Ive had some fantastic meets from the forum, and been part of some hilarious and usefully informative threads.
For those that choose to ignore you when you make a valid contribution or overlook your post in favour of the same comment from a seemingly more popular forumite later in the thread, then it says more about them than you...they are just trying to get into their pants...which is quite funny to witness when they dont have a cat in hells chance  xx |
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"Mrs here, I love the forums and used to post a lot. Anyway started to realise that whenever I contributed anything the thread stopped. After a month or so I started I interacting again, today and same thing .
I honestly want to know if there's a problem with me.
Thanks in advance xx
It happens more to me than I'd like to to admit.
Quite often the more regular forumites seem to ignore your points.
Makes me giggle when I post something on a thread which is ignored and then 10 minutes later, I somebody at the same and everyone picks up their comment and not yours.
It happens to us all
Exactly this.
This happens to me all the time and ive also been a notorious thread killer for around 7 years, but I just keep posting because i can.
Ive had some fantastic meets from the forum, and been part of some hilarious and usefully informative threads.
For those that choose to ignore you when you make a valid contribution or overlook your post in favour of the same comment from a seemingly more popular forumite later in the thread, then it says more about them than you...they are just trying to get into their pants...which is quite funny to witness when they dont have a cat in hells chance xx"
Brilliant love this!!! |
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"Mrs here, I love the forums and used to post a lot. Anyway started to realise that whenever I contributed anything the thread stopped. After a month or so I started I interacting again, today and same thing .
I honestly want to know if there's a problem with me.
Thanks in advance xx"
Definitely |
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