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What do women actually want in the bedroom ?!!
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Been trying to work out what women really want . Once read up that women only like plenty of play and not so much pounding . Also asked a woman i used to play with and she said the same .
For me in my 40s now plenty of playing is top of the agenda lol . Tbh i was never keen on every postion under the sun for hours on end coz you can see its pretty much one way as the woman likes only one or two postions haha .
So what do you women want hours and hours of pounding Or 50 50 Or a 75% oral play ......ect  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just like all men like different things so do all ladies what you have to do is listen to them not just what they say but there body language as well when you feel you know them well is when they surprise you lol but please treat them all as individuals xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I want a nice firm mattress. I need a new one.
Also no one will ever give you the exact same answer. Everyone is different.
For example; I love lots of ‘pounding’. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Surely you should know by now at 40 op ?
If not your not doing it right 
*roxi I'm city and guilds qualified in .............hanging blinds and i fit em in my birthday suit  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Breakfast in bed"
I thought that was the thread topic Diane?
Now how would you like your breakfast in bed hard n fast or nice and slow for easier digestion
Or 50/50 |
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"Been trying to work out what women really want . Once read up that women only like plenty of play and not so much pounding . Also asked a woman i used to play with and she said the same .
For me in my 40s now plenty of playing is top of the agenda lol . Tbh i was never keen on every postion under the sun for hours on end coz you can see its pretty much one way as the woman likes only one or two postions haha .
So what do you women want hours and hours of pounding Or 50 50 Or a 75% oral play ......ect "
To each their own... personally I like the chat, banter and that bit of erm dunno what to call it but it’s the thing that makes that first kiss so damn good... |
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"Been trying to work out what women really want . Once read up that women only like plenty of play and not so much pounding . Also asked a woman i used to play with and she said the same .
For me in my 40s now plenty of playing is top of the agenda lol . Tbh i was never keen on every postion under the sun for hours on end coz you can see its pretty much one way as the woman likes only one or two postions haha .
So what do you women want hours and hours of pounding Or 50 50 Or a 75% oral play ......ect
To each their own... personally I like the chat, banter and that bit of erm dunno what to call it but it’s the thing that makes that first kiss so damn good... "
Seduction ffg |
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Women in my experience want orgasms from someone that can read the body language and the person. Knowing the spots to touch and from the foreplay spots you can take a rough guess at what positions they like  but I'm a big fan of giving women a good foreplay session before a shag |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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I’ve never really thought about it...certainly not to the point of working out some sort of perfect ratio *laughs*
It would depend on the partner and the dynamic and where the session was going and whether I’ve just eaten a Sunday carvery and a litre of ice cream  |
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"Women in my experience want orgasms from someone that can read the body language and the person. Knowing the spots to touch and from the foreplay spots you can take a rough guess at what positions they like but I'm a big fan of giving women a good foreplay session before a shag"
See op Neils got it covered
Stud of the north
New nickname my friend  |
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"Been trying to work out what women really want . Once read up that women only like plenty of play and not so much pounding . Also asked a woman i used to play with and she said the same .
For me in my 40s now plenty of playing is top of the agenda lol . Tbh i was never keen on every postion under the sun for hours on end coz you can see its pretty much one way as the woman likes only one or two postions haha .
So what do you women want hours and hours of pounding Or 50 50 Or a 75% oral play ......ect
To each their own... personally I like the chat, banter and that bit of erm dunno what to call it but it’s the thing that makes that first kiss so damn good...
Seduction ffg "
Don’t even know if it’s that... whatever it is I wasn’t complaining x |
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"Been trying to work out what women really want . Once read up that women only like plenty of play and not so much pounding . Also asked a woman i used to play with and she said the same .
For me in my 40s now plenty of playing is top of the agenda lol . Tbh i was never keen on every postion under the sun for hours on end coz you can see its pretty much one way as the woman likes only one or two postions haha .
So what do you women want hours and hours of pounding Or 50 50 Or a 75% oral play ......ect
To each their own... personally I like the chat, banter and that bit of erm dunno what to call it but it’s the thing that makes that first kiss so damn good...
Seduction ffg
Don’t even know if it’s that... whatever it is I wasn’t complaining x"
When he pushes you against the wall, holds your hands above your head,eases his leg inbetween yours and comes in for that first smoldering kiss
You gaze deeply into his eyes and your totally and utterly lost in the moment
*should have been an erotic novelist instead of a bloody window fitter babe lol jx  |
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"Been trying to work out what women really want . Once read up that women only like plenty of play and not so much pounding . Also asked a woman i used to play with and she said the same .
For me in my 40s now plenty of playing is top of the agenda lol . Tbh i was never keen on every postion under the sun for hours on end coz you can see its pretty much one way as the woman likes only one or two postions haha .
So what do you women want hours and hours of pounding Or 50 50 Or a 75% oral play ......ect
To each their own... personally I like the chat, banter and that bit of erm dunno what to call it but it’s the thing that makes that first kiss so damn good...
Seduction ffg
Don’t even know if it’s that... whatever it is I wasn’t complaining x
When he pushes you against the wall, holds your hands above your head,eases his leg inbetween yours and comes in for that first smoldering kiss
You gaze deeply into his eyes and your totally and utterly lost in the moment
*should have been an erotic novelist instead of a bloody window fitter babe lol jx "
Something like that... and that’s me off to have a cold shower |
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"Been trying to work out what women really want . Once read up that women only like plenty of play and not so much pounding . Also asked a woman i used to play with and she said the same .
For me in my 40s now plenty of playing is top of the agenda lol . Tbh i was never keen on every postion under the sun for hours on end coz you can see its pretty much one way as the woman likes only one or two postions haha .
So what do you women want hours and hours of pounding Or 50 50 Or a 75% oral play ......ect
To each their own... personally I like the chat, banter and that bit of erm dunno what to call it but it’s the thing that makes that first kiss so damn good...
Seduction ffg
Don’t even know if it’s that... whatever it is I wasn’t complaining x
When he pushes you against the wall, holds your hands above your head,eases his leg inbetween yours and comes in for that first smoldering kiss
You gaze deeply into his eyes and your totally and utterly lost in the moment
*should have been an erotic novelist instead of a bloody window fitter babe lol jx
Something like that... and that’s me off to have a cold shower "
I could throw a bucket of water over you instead gawjus x *giggling |
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"Swingingdress I just put things out there see if there's replies lol"
It's extremely difficult to follow without a quote before it. Try it, more people might engage with you. This is a conversation, not just an echo chamber. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What you need to work out is what the woman you are with at the time wants!!!
If only there was a way of find out... talking perhaps."
Smoke signals from the heat of her vagina ? |
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"Respect.
Is earned not given.
Perhaps, but whatever you call "treating us as equal human beings with our own desires and a right to be as we want to be" should be automatic.
And visa versa"
Sure. But that's not what's being asked here. |
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If you’re asking it says to me you’re too lazy to find out OP
I find it exciting when a partner starts finding all those little things that get me going!
A year later and hubby is finding things about me that even I didn’t know!
Learn and enjoy and then reap the rewards! |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"Respect.
Is earned not given.
Perhaps, but whatever you call "treating us as equal human beings with our own desires and a right to be as we want to be" should be automatic.
And visa versa
Sure. But that's not what's being asked here. "
Wise man once said you can not expect what you want us less you are prepared to give. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I might call myself bora the explorer lol"
Oops Neil
A fave and fabulous
formulite
And not to be messed with
If you've become attatched to your gonads that is |
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"Respect.
Is earned not given.
Perhaps, but whatever you call "treating us as equal human beings with our own desires and a right to be as we want to be" should be automatic.
And visa versa
Sure. But that's not what's being asked here.
Wise man once said you can not expect what you want us less you are prepared to give."
I'm not sure why you think I don't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They want an attentive partner (or more).
Someone that can read them, their subtle movements, sighs and general signals.
Knowing how and when to be gentle or rough, etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A mural that says “live laugh love” an abstract photo of some pebbles, one furry cushion “for display” that never actually gets used for sleeping and a walk In wardrobe |
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I want what I want at that time. Do you have a formula for how you do sex or just read each other at the time whilst also talking.
Hours and hours of pounding doesn't really happen does it. One or both of you must pass out or die of boredom? |
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"I want what I want at that time. Do you have a formula for how you do sex or just read each other at the time whilst also talking.
Hours and hours of pounding doesn't really happen does it. One or both of you must pass out or die of boredom? "
Actually, this brings up an excellent point. I hate little more than a sexual formula. No matter what the damn formula is! |
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"I want what I want at that time. Do you have a formula for how you do sex or just read each other at the time whilst also talking.
Hours and hours of pounding doesn't really happen does it. One or both of you must pass out or die of boredom?
Actually, this brings up an excellent point. I hate little more than a sexual formula. No matter what the damn formula is! "
A little stopwatch ticking down. Aaaaand next is .... cock sucking. *tick tock |
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over a year ago
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I just want the duvet to myself and the Netflix button tbf, though a cuddle buddy would be good, after he's put the kettle on provided biscuits mind.
Theres me all happy days! |
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"Respect.
Is earned not given.
Perhaps, but whatever you call "treating us as equal human beings with our own desires and a right to be as we want to be" should be automatic.
And visa versa
Sure. But that's not what's being asked here.
Wise man once said you can not expect what you want us less you are prepared to give."
Sounds like MRA nonsense but ok |
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"I want what I want at that time. Do you have a formula for how you do sex or just read each other at the time whilst also talking.
Hours and hours of pounding doesn't really happen does it. One or both of you must pass out or die of boredom? "
Spot on for me |
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Just been reading on here what woman want, some say a quite fuck and go, my experience it’s always been a nice relaxing meet taking your time kissing, slowly running your hands all over there body’s and plenty of oral has most orgasm though oral sex and then a nice slow fuck it’s about enjoyment and making sure they are fully satisfied not just shoving you dick in and cumming |
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"Just been reading on here what woman want, some say a quite fuck and go, my experience it’s always been a nice relaxing meet taking your time kissing, slowly running your hands all over there body’s and plenty of oral has most orgasm though oral sex and then a nice slow fuck it’s about enjoyment and making sure they are fully satisfied not just shoving you dick in and cumming "
Nothing prescriptive ^^^ for me please! It all depends on so many factors ... |
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"Just been reading on here what woman want, some say a quite fuck and go, my experience it’s always been a nice relaxing meet taking your time kissing, slowly running your hands all over there body’s and plenty of oral has most orgasm though oral sex and then a nice slow fuck it’s about enjoyment and making sure they are fully satisfied not just shoving you dick in and cumming "
That sounds like you've found something you think is one size fits all. One size never fits all. |
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Yes of course, in clubs and on Greedy girls night and that’s all about just fucking, but in private meets it’s different and couples have said it’s nice when I guy that’s takes his time then just fuck and go, but you may be different |
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"Yes of course, in clubs and on Greedy girls night and that’s all about just fucking, but in private meets it’s different and couples have said it’s nice when I guy that’s takes his time then just fuck and go, but you may be different "
I just like what I feel like at the time ... it all depends on so many things really e.g. mood |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe try chatting to the woman individually before you meet, they may tell you! We don’t all like the same thing btw lol!!"
I’ve finally learnt this, a one size fits all approach doesn’t work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe try chatting to the woman individually before you meet, they may tell you! We don’t all like the same thing btw lol!!
I’ve finally learnt this, a one size fits all approach doesn’t work. "
Good choice lol |
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"Been trying to work out what women really want . Once read up that women only like plenty of play and not so much pounding . Also asked a woman i used to play with and she said the same .
For me in my 40s now plenty of playing is top of the agenda lol . Tbh i was never keen on every postion under the sun for hours on end coz you can see its pretty much one way as the woman likes only one or two postions haha .
So what do you women want hours and hours of pounding Or 50 50 Or a 75% oral play ......ect "
My best guess a boudoir filled with naked beutifull guys....
All hung like a horse feeding her grapes,massaging her and awaiting her every command
Apologies for my bad grammar  xxxxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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In my opinion? Women want to feel special & comfortable with a partner.
Of course they want/like orgasms & a bit of kink. But if that spark isn’t their? It’s just another bonk with a stranger.
However, some women, especially on fab. Are only after that?
Personally, when your packing 9inches of prime British like me! Life’s a doddle. Lol
Bless all you fabbers! And those who sail in you! |
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