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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Has anyone had someone turn up for a meet that looked different from their pics and you had no attraction there.
I did and was awkward as fuck, needless to say not alot happened that night lol x |
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By *.D.I.D.A.SMan
over a year ago
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If he does... His night just got worse. I've been in your shoes before though. Am sure we're not the first nor the last. I wonder if anyone has ever thought that about me after meeting? Guess I'll keep my eyes peeled on the forum in case a thread appears! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is why I always meet socially for a drink. Many times I finished my drink and went home alone. If mutual attraction is not present, there'll be no fun. |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
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What Jessica said...the no strings social is my way of ensuring both parties want to be in a bedroom together after meeting up in real life. Then you go home alone but the awkwardness is reduced. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What Jessica said...the no strings social is my way of ensuring both parties want to be in a bedroom together after meeting up in real life. Then you go home alone but the awkwardness is reduced."
 I never feel awkward as men usually say I look better than my pictures. But it's quite disappointing meeting someone who has hair in his pictures, didn't wear glasses, looks fit and well groomed etc when reality is somewhat very different. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Has anyone had someone turn up for a meet that looked different from their pics and you had no attraction there.
I did and was awkward as fuck, needless to say not alot happened that night lol x"
Yeah. It was horrendous. I wanted to jump out the window! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yup on a couple of occasions. I meet for a strict social only first. They are told nothing but a social will be happening on that day/night. For me this way I feel it gives them chance to back out of a further meet as it does me as well. The thing for me is it's not just how they look. Height has a factor for me, lots lie about their height. Their natural smell can put me off and finally the kiss. I always kiss on a social. If the kiss leaves me feeling dead I can't go further |
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"What Jessica said...the no strings social is my way of ensuring both parties want to be in a bedroom together after meeting up in real life. Then you go home alone but the awkwardness is reduced.
I never feel awkward as men usually say I look better than my pictures. But it's quite disappointing meeting someone who has hair in his pictures, didn't wear glasses, looks fit and well groomed etc when reality is somewhat very different. "
The other physical bits I get but glasses? Lol.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What Jessica said...the no strings social is my way of ensuring both parties want to be in a bedroom together after meeting up in real life. Then you go home alone but the awkwardness is reduced.
I never feel awkward as men usually say I look better than my pictures. But it's quite disappointing meeting someone who has hair in his pictures, didn't wear glasses, looks fit and well groomed etc when reality is somewhat very different.
The other physical bits I get but glasses? Lol. "
He admitted picture was 7 years old. Glasses were just cherry on the top he wanted to escort me home after I finished my drink but I politely declined. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Strictly social is the way forward after a meeting of the minds via the initial connection then the swapping of messages etc.
I'm not so shallow as to put looks above all that has been shared to instigate the social in the first place. |
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Yeah we always meet for a couple of drinks close to our flat first. If they look different to their pictures or there is no connection we can leave it there. Luckily all of our meets have resulted in us going back home for sex. |
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We have yet to meet someone outside of a club but when we do it will be social only meet. Then we go away and if we want to play will get back in touch...if feelings are mutual. Otherwise it’s a nice coffee and chat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep hear what you're saying i usually prefer a social first but get told this isn't a dating site lol x"
Don’t let others dictate how you use the site, meet how you want to not how they think you should. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What Jessica said...the no strings social is my way of ensuring both parties want to be in a bedroom together after meeting up in real life. Then you go home alone but the awkwardness is reduced.
I never feel awkward as men usually say I look better than my pictures. But it's quite disappointing meeting someone who has hair in his pictures, didn't wear glasses, looks fit and well groomed etc when reality is somewhat very different.
The other physical bits I get but glasses? Lol.
He admitted picture was 7 years old. Glasses were just cherry on the top he wanted to escort me home after I finished my drink but I politely declined."
I’ve had 10 years out of date before, I didn’t recognise him in the bar, turned to leave and he came up to me and said who he was, I replied with where’s the person gone in the photos....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s only happened once to me. She actually said that she thought my interest in her may diminish when we met !! Shared a coffee and chalked it down to experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All the time. Most people who meet me say "fuck no". Lucky escape."
Yep we are lucky most will say to us “oh well we are here now, might as well give you a sympathy play” |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All the time. Most people who meet me say "fuck no". Lucky escape.
Yep we are lucky most will say to us “oh well we are here now, might as well give you a sympathy play”"
 xx You're lucky |
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