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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So we are new to the scene and we want to know what is classed as soft swing
My understanding is anything but penetrative sex. Welcome btw  "
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over a year ago
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"So we are new to the scene and we want to know what is classed as soft swing
My understanding is anything but penetrative sex. Welcome btw
Thank you"
I agree although for some people it can mean just being in the same room as another couple and not actually touching each other but I would go with what _amiss said. |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"So we are new to the scene and we want to know what is classed as soft swing
My understanding is anything but penetrative sex. Welcome btw
Thank you
I agree although for some people it can mean just being in the same room as another couple and not actually touching each other but I would go with what _amiss said. "
I agree Lorna, it is different things to different people OP as long as you are both clear what you want to do and ensure any prospective meets know, then that is all that matters |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So we are new to the scene and we want to know what is classed as soft swing
My understanding is anything but penetrative sex. Welcome btw
Thank you
I agree although for some people it can mean just being in the same room as another couple and not actually touching each other but I would go with what _amiss said.
I agree Lorna, it is different things to different people OP as long as you are both clear what you want to do and ensure any prospective meets know, then that is all that matters "
Exactly that 
If you are new to this the most important advice I can give you is to talk about things and keep talking about it to make sure you are both comfortable and you are both aware of each other's boundaries then you can't go wrong.
Other than that just enjoy yourselves |
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
chelmsford |
"So we are new to the scene and we want to know what is classed as soft swing
My understanding is anything but penetrative sex. Welcome btw
Thank you
I agree although for some people it can mean just being in the same room as another couple and not actually touching each other but I would go with what _amiss said.
I agree Lorna, it is different things to different people OP as long as you are both clear what you want to do and ensure any prospective meets know, then that is all that matters
Exactly that
If you are new to this the most important advice I can give you is to talk about things and keep talking about it to make sure you are both comfortable and you are both aware of each other's boundaries then you can't go wrong.
Other than that just enjoy yourselves "
Great advice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Soft swap/swing is everything but full sex, watching in same room is NOT soft swing/swap that’s called voyerisum, can’t see any way these could be confused.
We started with voyerisium, then soft swing, then full swap, we still soft swap with some regulars now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Soft swap/swing is everything but full sex, watching in same room is NOT soft swing/swap that’s called voyerisum, can’t see any way these could be confused.
We started with voyerisium, then soft swing, then full swap, we still soft swap with some regulars now. "
Actually I think you will find it is whatever you want it to be and I don't think there was any need for the snide remarks! |
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Basically as long as you make it clear to prospective meets where your boundaries lay and you ensure that you understand theirs it doesn't matter what you call it. For ease of communication on your profile if you put "soft swing" most people will understand that penetration is off the cards. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Soft swap/swing is everything but full sex, watching in same room is NOT soft swing/swap that’s called voyerisum, can’t see any way these could be confused.
We started with voyerisium, then soft swing, then full swap, we still soft swap with some regulars now.
Actually I think you will find it is whatever you want it to be and I don't think there was any need for the snide remarks!"
Wasn’t a snide remark aimed at anyone just pointing out the fact that being in the same room and not touching others is called voyerisium.
How many hands is your horse? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Basically as long as you make it clear to prospective meets where your boundaries lay and you ensure that you understand theirs it doesn't matter what you call it. For ease of communication on your profile if you put "soft swing" most people will understand that penetration is off the cards."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Soft swap/swing is everything but full sex, watching in same room is NOT soft swing/swap that’s called voyerisum, can’t see any way these could be confused.
We started with voyerisium, then soft swing, then full swap, we still soft swap with some regulars now.
Actually I think you will find it is whatever you want it to be and I don't think there was any need for the snide remarks!
Wasn’t a snide remark aimed at anyone just pointing out the fact that being in the same room and not touching others is called voyerisium.
How many hands is your horse? "
There was no need to point it out we were trying to be helpful to someone who was asking for advice. I'm not on my high horse I was trying to be nice and give advice and I was able to do it whilst being respectful. |
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"Soft swap/swing is everything but full sex, watching in same room is NOT soft swing/swap that’s called voyerisum, can’t see any way these could be confused.
We started with voyerisium, then soft swing, then full swap, we still soft swap with some regulars now.
Actually I think you will find it is whatever you want it to be and I don't think there was any need for the snide remarks!
Wasn’t a snide remark aimed at anyone just pointing out the fact that being in the same room and not touching others is called voyerisium.
How many hands is your horse? "
Best to ignore each other than argue, derail a thread and risk bans |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Soft swap/swing is everything but full sex, watching in same room is NOT soft swing/swap that’s called voyerisum, can’t see any way these could be confused.
We started with voyerisium, then soft swing, then full swap, we still soft swap with some regulars now.
Actually I think you will find it is whatever you want it to be and I don't think there was any need for the snide remarks!
Wasn’t a snide remark aimed at anyone just pointing out the fact that being in the same room and not touching others is called voyerisium.
How many hands is your horse? "
I have seen many threads on here with couple saying they only like soft swing preferably just being in the same room as another couple but not touching so I was simply trying to point out but it can mean different things to different people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Soft swap/swing is everything but full sex, watching in same room is NOT soft swing/swap that’s called voyerisum, can’t see any way these could be confused.
We started with voyerisium, then soft swing, then full swap, we still soft swap with some regulars now.
Actually I think you will find it is whatever you want it to be and I don't think there was any need for the snide remarks!
Wasn’t a snide remark aimed at anyone just pointing out the fact that being in the same room and not touching others is called voyerisium.
How many hands is your horse?
Best to ignore each other than argue, derail a thread and risk bans "
sorry I wasn't trying to argue I was just simply pointing out I didn't feel it was necessary. I wasn't trying to cause any offence I was trying to be helpful to a new couple.
Wont happen again  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Soft swap/swing is everything but full sex, watching in same room is NOT soft swing/swap that’s called voyerisum, can’t see any way these could be confused.
We started with voyerisium, then soft swing, then full swap, we still soft swap with some regulars now.
Actually I think you will find it is whatever you want it to be and I don't think there was any need for the snide remarks!
Wasn’t a snide remark aimed at anyone just pointing out the fact that being in the same room and not touching others is called voyerisium.
How many hands is your horse?
Best to ignore each other than argue, derail a thread and risk bans
sorry I wasn't trying to argue I was just simply pointing out I didn't feel it was necessary. I wasn't trying to cause any offence I was trying to be helpful to a new couple.
Wont happen again "
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