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Should I cheat on my girlfriend with my ex wife
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ve been separated from my ex wife (of 10 years) for 5 years and have been with my girlfriend for 2 our sex life is amazing. Last week my ex wife (who I have been in contact with the whole time about because of child arrangements) told me that she still fantasies about me and would love some no strings attached sex as she has dated guys but none of them have satisfyed he like I could not going to lie even though sex with my girlfriend is amazing the thought of some nsa sex with my ex is a massive turn on so I’m very tempted just wondering people thoughts or advice from someone who has been in the same situation |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don’t go back... it will come out at some point to your girlfriend and others...you will get found out, not worth it if you don’t want to lose your girl. That’s too close to home |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Theres absolutely nothing that is even nearly right about this OP
V x "
In a nutshell - this 
Cannot think of any possible outcome to this other than heartache for all concerned OP - given you've been in the lifestyle for 10 years though, am presuming it's possible your girlfriend is someone you met through it? Maybe discuss it with her - although can probably tell you now what her reaction would be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Does it really matter what others say or think?
After all you are going to do what you want to do.
Do you you consider cheating with your ex any less deceitful and hurtful than being on a swingers site hoping to hook up with others for no strings sex,without your present girlfriend? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well what is worst that could happen?
I guess your gf could find out, go into a “Bobbit” rage, remove your tackle and leave you gelded and alone. Your ex wouldn’t take you back (ex for a reason) and you would end up alone and cockles.
Or you read the very wise and erudite advice in the first comment.
“NO, NO AND THRICE NO”
- I added the capitals because ... well it is that important why not. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So does your girlfriend know you are on fab and you are a swinger ?, because you said you have been with her for 2 years, so you are cheating on her on fab and now you want to cheat on her again and fuck your ex wife, yet you say sex with your girlfriend is great ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Me and my ex used to swing as a couple have never do it with my girlfriend plus I am on here just for looking at photos and horny chat hence no verifications |
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By *am4CamWoman
over a year ago
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I don’t know why you even need to ask OP, sounds like a really wonderful idea and holds absolutely no chance of a total shit bomb descending all over your life, their lives and the lives of your children.
Alternatively this is one of many head furrowing “real life” scenarios that people knock one off over. |
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Profile says you are genuine ? In what respect? Genuine as In up front and don’t tell lies? It’s all a bit contradictory. Perhaps if you flipped the situation and your girlfriend was in the same scenario and asking the same question to a bunch of strangers . You might feel enlightened |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve been separated from my ex wife (of 10 years) for 5 years and have been with my girlfriend for 2 our sex life is amazing. Last week my ex wife (who I have been in contact with the whole time about because of child arrangements) told me that she still fantasies about me and would love some no strings attached sex as she has dated guys but none of them have satisfyed he like I could not going to lie even though sex with my girlfriend is amazing the thought of some nsa sex with my ex is a massive turn on so I’m very tempted just wondering people thoughts or advice from someone who has been in the same situation "
You’re on this site, so having that intention shouldn’t be problem, just have an honest conversation with the girlfriend, say you want to do that and see what happens.
Hell you might get a three way out of it.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Keep it a fantasy, don’t act on it. The potential fall out can affect the people who should matter most- your children, not just your gf to hurt in all of this. There is absolutely nothing good that can come from this, other than a fuck with a woman you separated from five years ago. Is it really worth it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does it really matter what others say or think?
After all you are going to do what you want to do.
Do you you consider cheating with your ex any less deceitful and hurtful than being on a swingers site hoping to hook up with others for no strings sex,without your present girlfriend?"
Exactly what I was thinking.
Does it really matter that the person he's considering cheating on his partner with is his ex-wife?
The fact that he has absolutely no respect for his current partner is the problem here.
OP, I would suggest you show your partner your fab profile. Then you'll be free to shag whoever you like |
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"I’ve been separated from my ex wife (of 10 years) for 5 years and have been with my girlfriend for 2 our sex life is amazing. Last week my ex wife (who I have been in contact with the whole time about because of child arrangements) told me that she still fantasies about me and would love some no strings attached sex as she has dated guys but none of them have satisfyed he like I could not going to lie even though sex with my girlfriend is amazing the thought of some nsa sex with my ex is a massive turn on so I’m very tempted just wondering people thoughts or advice from someone who has been in the same situation "
Omg is this a joke ? C’mon really ??
This has ‘Jeremy Kyle’ written all over it lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Me and my ex used to swing as a couple have never do it with my girlfriend plus I am on here just for looking at photos and horny chat hence no verifications"
horny chat with others without her knowledge is still a betrayal of trust |
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"I’ve been separated from my ex wife (of 10 years) for 5 years and have been with my girlfriend for 2 our sex life is amazing. Last week my ex wife (who I have been in contact with the whole time about because of child arrangements) told me that she still fantasies about me and would love some no strings attached sex as she has dated guys but none of them have satisfyed he like I could not going to lie even though sex with my girlfriend is amazing the thought of some nsa sex with my ex is a massive turn on so I’m very tempted just wondering people thoughts or advice from someone who has been in the same situation
Omg is this a joke ? C’mon really ??
This has ‘Jeremy Kyle’ written all over it lol "
haha! Brilliant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cheating is cheating in my book .. It's a big NO! .. Also it could make things difficult if it all goes pear shaped with your children's mum for the future.. Did you really need to ask this question? .. I think you just needed to hear it confirmed by others on here. Good luck whatever your decision |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex with the ex is a very popular fantasy apparently. Not sure why, you already know all about them sexually. Just like a quick squeeze on a comforter maybe, or another ride on an old faithful.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The very fact you are asking this question you already know the answer. No!!!!. You will always have a connection due to your child but that’s it, I mean I am friends with my ex but the thought of going ‘there’ again gives me the shudders.
Danish x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Buy your ex-wife a Vibrator and a laminated photo of you, for her personal use ....
Ask your current partner how she would feel about swinging with your ex.
Get off this site unless you are playing as a couple. Your partner WILL find out. It's what happens.
If you have to ask whether what you are doing is right, that suggests that you already know the answer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He's on single profile
No mention of girlfriend swinging or going on meets so cheating on her now
So get girlfriend to go to ex too and have fun with both"
How do you know he's cheating?
The girlfriend could be imaginary...  |
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Whats the story in balamory....
Its simple....
Think like this... You have a daughter, she goes out with a bloke like you.. Chances are you would knock the lad out.... Now either one gets hurt, two get hurt or all involved get hurt.
Seriously... Some men need to slap themsevles fucking hard and wake the fuck up.
Boo
*p.s forgive the language |
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"I’ve been separated from my ex wife (of 10 years) for 5 years and have been with my girlfriend for 2 our sex life is amazing. Last week my ex wife (who I have been in contact with the whole time about because of child arrangements) told me that she still fantasies about me and would love some no strings attached sex as she has dated guys but none of them have satisfyed he like I could not going to lie even though sex with my girlfriend is amazing the thought of some nsa sex with my ex is a massive turn on so I’m very tempted just wondering people thoughts or advice from someone who has been in the same situation "
How would you feel if your girlfriend have some NSA sex with her ex-boyfriend/husband?
You say sex with her amazing why would you want to wreck that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Buy your ex-wife a Vibrator and a laminated photo of you, for her personal use ....
Ask your current partner how she would feel about swinging with your ex.
Get off this site unless you are playing as a couple. Your partner WILL find out. It's what happens.
If you have to ask whether what you are doing is right, that suggests that you already know the answer. "
Ouch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having read and looked at your profile I agree with fellow fabbers this is either a fake news attention getter ( kiss fuck avoid blah blah yawn) or you are trying to justify being a cheat and believe you me after you have had a great time with your ex wife ( 10 mins) you will go running back to your GF.
So either stop dreaming or go and see what happens after you are found out. |
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"Shag that bitch hard for all the shit she put u through what did she put him through?"
Clearly copious amounts of mind blowing sex that’s why he wants to cheat on his GF and go back there haha
Maybe the Ex wants to shag hon hard for all the shit he put her through and send the pics to his current GF
Pmsl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As per the majority of replies - NO!
Think why thiabhas suddenly come up. Is she going through a dry spell and you’re an easy target.
If you give in she has the power to hold it against you for ever and a day, plus in a way she thinks you want her too.
Be happy and stick with current gf and have a relationship with the ex which is purely for the kids |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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End of the day OP nothing anyone says here will influence your decision, who knows you may even get fucked twice by your ex. The first time when you actually fuck her, and then when she fucks you back by destroying your relationship. Two for one, can’t be bad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"End of the day OP nothing anyone says here will influence your decision, who knows you may even get fucked twice by your ex. The first time when you actually fuck her, and then when she fucks you back by destroying your relationship. Two for one, can’t be bad "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are cheating on her anyway..asking for a meet today on your profile and even being on here.....I love these types of post..cock before brain's"
Ten a penny on here x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You are cheating on her anyway..asking for a meet today on your profile and even being on here.....I love these types of post..cock before brain's
Ten a penny on here x"
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"I’ve been separated from my ex wife (of 10 years) for 5 years and have been with my girlfriend for 2 our sex life is amazing. Last week my ex wife (who I have been in contact with the whole time about because of child arrangements) told me that she still fantasies about me and would love some no strings attached sex as she has dated guys but none of them have satisfyed he like I could not going to lie even though sex with my girlfriend is amazing the thought of some nsa sex with my ex is a massive turn on so I’m very tempted just wondering people thoughts or advice from someone who has been in the same situation "
Should have been in the stories and fantasies section. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And the OP has left the site lol..new account probably..think what you post beforhand fellas. You see these sort of posts on a daily basis, when the OP has not thought about what they are posting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve been separated from my ex wife (of 10 years) for 5 years and have been with my girlfriend for 2 our sex life is amazing. Last week my ex wife (who I have been in contact with the whole time about because of child arrangements) told me that she still fantasies about me and would love some no strings attached sex as she has dated guys but none of them have satisfyed he like I could not going to lie even though sex with my girlfriend is amazing the thought of some nsa sex with my ex is a massive turn on so I’m very tempted just wondering people thoughts or advice from someone who has been in the same situation "
Do you even need to ask that question. Look in the mirror and a pic of your girlfriend and ask again |
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I've heard of a situation where having sex with an ex was a trap, it was secretly recorded and used as leverage material. In the end the guy bowed down to the demands and the tape still got sent to the girlfriend. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve been separated from my ex wife (of 10 years) for 5 years and have been with my girlfriend for 2 our sex life is amazing. Last week my ex wife (who I have been in contact with the whole time about because of child arrangements) told me that she still fantasies about me and would love some no strings attached sex as she has dated guys but none of them have satisfyed he like I could not going to lie even though sex with my girlfriend is amazing the thought of some nsa sex with my ex is a massive turn on so I’m very tempted just wondering people thoughts or advice from someone who has been in the same situation
Do you even need to ask that question. Look in the mirror and a pic of your girlfriend and ask again"
He's left the site |
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"I've heard of a situation where having sex with an ex was a trap, it was secretly recorded and used as leverage material. In the end the guy bowed down to the demands and the tape still got sent to the girlfriend. "
He was b****mailed And she broke the revenge porn laws. Why didn't he just go to the police? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve been separated from my ex wife (of 10 years) for 5 years and have been with my girlfriend for 2 our sex life is amazing. Last week my ex wife (who I have been in contact with the whole time about because of child arrangements) told me that she still fantasies about me and would love some no strings attached sex as she has dated guys but none of them have satisfyed he like I could not going to lie even though sex with my girlfriend is amazing the thought of some nsa sex with my ex is a massive turn on so I’m very tempted just wondering people thoughts or advice from someone who has been in the same situation
Do you even need to ask that question. Look in the mirror and a pic of your girlfriend and ask again
He's left the site"
Oh yes so he has |
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