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We are an Attractive, beautiful, good looking couple!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Such judgments are for the third party to make, not the first party. We all see such things differently and have our own tastes. Also, for many of us such attributes manifest in more ways than physical appearance. To self describe as such comes across as arrogant to me.
To prefix it with “we’ve often been described by other people as...” less so. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?
Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?"
very off putting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?
Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?"
It's their profile, they can say what they like. Obviously they are confident and trying to attract similar people I guess. |
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"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?
Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?"
I’v met people who are just plain looking, and they are the best. Met some ‘beautiful’ people, who are so up themselves, they can barely manage a, ‘hello’.
There seems to be a bigger divide between old and young these days too. |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?
Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?"
Both, but it's off putting for us. We had a invite to play from a profile like that, apparently we were lucky to be considered is what they told us. They were confident but arrogant too in our book, an unattractive trait for us. |
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It's confidence and I like confidence. I think we celebrate and praise low self esteem too much. Someone describing themselves as ugly (well a woman) will get a much more positive reaction from people telling her she's beautiful and should believe in herself than the same woman following that advice and describing herself as beautiful. It's crazy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What if cpls start putting ,we are ugly and unattractive? Would that be good ?
Lol guys, why do you just others so fast? Check their face pics and then decide . |
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"What if cpls start putting ,we are ugly and unattractive? Would that be good ?
Lol guys, why do you just others so fast? Check their face pics and then decide ."
People prefer that. It gives them a chance to boost that person up on order to knock them down. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What if cpls start putting ,we are ugly and unattractive? Would that be good ?
Lol guys, why do you just others so fast? Check their face pics and then decide .
People prefer that. It gives them a chance to boost that person up on order to knock them down. "
Everyone is beautiful and attractive in their own way. We tend to respect that.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What if cpls start putting ,we are ugly and unattractive? Would that be good ?
Lol guys, why do you just others so fast? Check their face pics and then decide ."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It wouldn't put me off but I might not agree with them. If I can't see their faces I couldn't tell anyway as I don't decide if a person is attractive by their body . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it’s off putting because there are couples of all shapes and sizes and I take them has they come, if you have a wife or hubby who has a problem with there self confidence then it may them think twice and does nothing for there confidence too, but some couples are so far up there own arses, it’s about meeting people for fun not how they look, I love the Nextdoor type couple that enjoy people for what they are and not what they look like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely a turn off for us, beauty is subjective, and not all about aesthetics either - a beautiful personality determines how attractive someone is as much as anything else, in my opinion.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Such judgments are for the third party to make, not the first party. We all see such things differently and have our own tastes. Also, for many of us such attributes manifest in more ways than physical appearance. To self describe as such comes across as arrogant to me.
To prefix it with “we’ve often been described by other people as...” less so."
Well said, but if that is their choice of words fine, it would be the rest of the message I would judge them by...by the way, do such people have a hair out of place after sex? |
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"It's confidence and I like confidence. I think we celebrate and praise low self esteem too much. Someone describing themselves as ugly (well a woman) will get a much more positive reaction from people telling her she's beautiful and should believe in herself than the same woman following that advice and describing herself as beautiful. It's crazy"
Big difference between low self esteem and humility. Nobody likes people who, despite being remarkable only for their averageness, parade around with an "I'm too special for the likes of YOU" attitude... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Attractiveness is subjective, I'll let other people decide whether I'm a minger or not.
It's not unlike describing yourself as professional, wearing a suit to work doesnt make you better than a plumber or stay at home parent. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?
Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?"
Totally with you on this..we all have insecurities but to describe yourself basically as a god/goddess is jus pure vanity to me and off putting!! already you are weary as to how they would describe you I think that's just another way to start a fab argument  |
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When written about each other is lovely tbf but to state about self is off putting. Attraction can't be gauged soley on looks. When we started out had a meet but didn't gel so now its clubs social. It's the people as a whole size, looks irrelevant if there's chemistry xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?
Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?
It's their profile, they can say what they like. Obviously they are confident and trying to attract similar people I guess. "
I’m with you on that  |
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"Attractiveness is subjective, I'll let other people decide whether I'm a minger or not.
It's not unlike describing yourself as professional, wearing a suit to work doesnt make you better than a plumber or stay at home parent."
But they aren't saying they're better than anyone else. They're saying they think they're attractive not that they think nobody else is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Attractiveness is subjective, I'll let other people decide whether I'm a minger or not.
It's not unlike describing yourself as professional, wearing a suit to work doesnt make you better than a plumber or stay at home parent.
But they aren't saying they're better than anyone else. They're saying they think they're attractive not that they think nobody else is. "
Exactly,
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By *asco3Man
over a year ago
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Very much agree with this statement.Recently met a woman who described herself as a " stunna" and " a Goddess" To be fair she wasnt bad looking but Id have had more fun fucking an inflatable. Absolutely so concerned about her image she just hardly participated. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Very much agree with this statement.Recently met a woman who described herself as a " stunna" and " a Goddess" To be fair she wasnt bad looking but Id have had more fun fucking an inflatable. Absolutely so concerned about her image she just hardly participated."
I think that's a bit over board
Stunna and Goddess
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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I'm happy for people to describe themselves however they like. I'm just disappointed when their description seems to fly in the face of reality.... But given the different tastes that people on Fab seem to have, it might be my problem that their self descriptions don't match my expectations. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's confidence and I like confidence. I think we celebrate and praise low self esteem too much. Someone describing themselves as ugly (well a woman) will get a much more positive reaction from people telling her she's beautiful and should believe in herself than the same woman following that advice and describing herself as beautiful. It's crazy"
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"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?
Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?"
No there just sorting the wheat from the chaff at the very start. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Confidence is an attractive trait, no point selling yourself short.
It’s all subjective anyway so I’d look at the photos, rest of their profile text and make my decision based on that. |
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"Very much agree with this statement.Recently met a woman who described herself as a " stunna" and " a Goddess" To be fair she wasnt bad looking but Id have had more fun fucking an inflatable. Absolutely so concerned about her image she just hardly participated."
Yes I once had a meet with a woman who was supposedly, (and could well have been) an ex 'Page 3 Model.' Just in no way a person you felt there was communication or bonding with. Other people have said the same about her on that meet and other meets. Yes basically like sex with an inflatable / robot or incredibly bored prostitute. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Confidence is an attractive trait, no point selling yourself short.
It’s all subjective anyway so I’d look at the photos, rest of their profile text and make my decision based on that."
Precisely it's subjective that's why it's in description .
People take it too seriously and pass judgement on description too .
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?
Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?"
I actively seek these couples out and add them to my hotlist.....
There are some real stunners in the swinging world.....
But I need to know something..... if some people find couples/men/women describing themselves as attractive , off putting....
Do you only go for people that describe themselves as average/unattractive? |
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"Confidence is an attractive trait, no point selling yourself short.
It’s all subjective anyway so I’d look at the photos, rest of their profile text and make my decision based on that.
Precisely it's subjective that's why it's in description .
People take it too seriously and pass judgement on description too .
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Thank the lord they didn’t use the words professional and exceptional too, would have caused a fabs meltdown.....  |
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"Confidence is an attractive trait, no point selling yourself short.
It’s all subjective anyway so I’d look at the photos, rest of their profile text and make my decision based on that.
Precisely it's subjective that's why it's in description .
People take it too seriously and pass judgement on description too .
Thank the lord they didn’t use the words professional and exceptional too, would have caused a fabs meltdown..... "
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"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?
Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?
I actively seek these couples out and add them to my hotlist.....
There are some real stunners in the swinging world.....
But I need to know something..... if some people find couples/men/women describing themselves as attractive , off putting....
Do you only go for people that describe themselves as average/unattractive?"
Its fab law, you must not say positive things about yourself in order to give people a chance to shower you with compliments.
This is a serious question the answer to which interests me. Is it a British trait, this knocking down of confident people or does it happen in America too? |
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"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?
Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?
I actively seek these couples out and add them to my hotlist.....
There are some real stunners in the swinging world.....
But I need to know something..... if some people find couples/men/women describing themselves as attractive , off putting....
Do you only go for people that describe themselves as average/unattractive?"
Excellent question!! |
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"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?
Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?
I actively seek these couples out and add them to my hotlist.....
There are some real stunners in the swinging world.....
But I need to know something..... if some people find couples/men/women describing themselves as attractive , off putting....
Do you only go for people that describe themselves as average/unattractive?
Excellent question!!"
It is. I wonder too if when looking forva tradesman people would rather they describe themselves as average or not very good. E.g. "average plumber" or "just about passable electrician" |
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"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?
Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?
I actively seek these couples out and add them to my hotlist.....
There are some real stunners in the swinging world.....
But I need to know something..... if some people find couples/men/women describing themselves as attractive , off putting....
Do you only go for people that describe themselves as average/unattractive?
Excellent question!!
It is. I wonder too if when looking forva tradesman people would rather they describe themselves as average or not very good. E.g. "average plumber" or "just about passable electrician""
Don't want a plastered plaster afterall do we  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Confidence is an attractive trait, no point selling yourself short.
It’s all subjective anyway so I’d look at the photos, rest of their profile text and make my decision based on that.
Precisely it's subjective that's why it's in description .
People take it too seriously and pass judgement on description too .
Thank the lord they didn’t use the words professional and exceptional too, would have caused a fabs meltdown..... "
Oh yes, there was a thread about professional too.
Even that was off putting to some |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?
Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?
I actively seek these couples out and add them to my hotlist.....
There are some real stunners in the swinging world.....
But I need to know something..... if some people find couples/men/women describing themselves as attractive , off putting....
Do you only go for people that describe themselves as average/unattractive?
Its fab law, you must not say positive things about yourself in order to give people a chance to shower you with compliments.
This is a serious question the answer to which interests me. Is it a British trait, this knocking down of confident people or does it happen in America too?"
No this is not a American trait..... we are very boisterous.... |
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'Athletic' can be subjective too. Met a couple where this covered fat too (no pics on their profile). She was described as 'shaved', turned out not recently enough and my face was ripped to pieces |
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"'Athletic' can be subjective too. Met a couple where this covered fat too (no pics on their profile). She was described as 'shaved', turned out not recently enough and my face was ripped to pieces "
Him athletic beer drinking dart player, her hedgehog (should have checked with your hand first mate) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?
Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?
It's their profile, they can say what they like. Obviously they are confident and trying to attract similar people I guess. "
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"Arrogance. It's up to me or others to judge whether they are attractive. I'm totally put off by anyone like this. Great sex doesn't have a body type. "
Why is it less arrogant for you or me to decide if someone is good looking than for the person themselves? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Arrogance. It's up to me or others to judge whether they are attractive. I'm totally put off by anyone like this. Great sex doesn't have a body type.
Why is it less arrogant for you or me to decide if someone is good looking than for the person themselves?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's confidence and I like confidence. I think we celebrate and praise low self esteem too much. Someone describing themselves as ugly (well a woman) will get a much more positive reaction from people telling her she's beautiful and should believe in herself than the same woman following that advice and describing herself as beautiful. It's crazy"
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"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?
Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?
I actively seek these couples out and add them to my hotlist.....
There are some real stunners in the swinging world.....
But I need to know something..... if some people find couples/men/women describing themselves as attractive , off putting....
Do you only go for people that describe themselves as average/unattractive?
Excellent question!!
It is. I wonder too if when looking forva tradesman people would rather they describe themselves as average or not very good. E.g. "average plumber" or "just about passable electrician""
I might be put off by a plumber or electrician who gave the impression that they might be too good to work for me. |
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"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?
Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?
I actively seek these couples out and add them to my hotlist.....
There are some real stunners in the swinging world.....
But I need to know something..... if some people find couples/men/women describing themselves as attractive , off putting....
Do you only go for people that describe themselves as average/unattractive?
Excellent question!!
It is. I wonder too if when looking forva tradesman people would rather they describe themselves as average or not very good. E.g. "average plumber" or "just about passable electrician"
I might be put off by a plumber or electrician who gave the impression that they might be too good to work for me. "
How would they do that? |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?
Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?
I actively seek these couples out and add them to my hotlist.....
There are some real stunners in the swinging world.....
But I need to know something..... if some people find couples/men/women describing themselves as attractive , off putting....
Do you only go for people that describe themselves as average/unattractive?
Excellent question!!
It is. I wonder too if when looking forva tradesman people would rather they describe themselves as average or not very good. E.g. "average plumber" or "just about passable electrician""
I don’t see how you can compare someone who describes their “skill set” to someone describing their looks.
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I like confidence. Confidence is a turn on for me. If you're fortunate to have an attractive face and you're motivated enough to go to the gym and have a good figure, then why not promote that fact? |
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"Yup. Also would anyone ever describe themselves as an unattractive couple? "
It seems that using positive adjectives to describe yourself is frowned on so people might be very successful if they did. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We don't bother describing our looks as positive or negative at all, there really is no point anyway as it's far easier to look at our pics and make your own judgement be it fair or foul obviously!
Far better to concentrate on what the pics don't always reveal, which is our characters, personalities, spirit of adventure and penchant for kink...  |
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"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?
Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?"
It certainly puts us off. It's even worse when they state they'll only meet "exceptional" people. |
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"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?
Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?
It certainly puts us off. It's even worse when they state they'll only meet "exceptional" people."
We all have different versions of what we find attractive in other people. |
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"'Athletic' can be subjective too. Met a couple where this covered fat too (no pics on their profile). She was described as 'shaved', turned out not recently enough and my face was ripped to pieces
Him athletic beer drinking dart player, her hedgehog (should have checked with your hand first mate)"
I like licking pussy, so i don't think it would have stopped me  |
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"Now modesty i do find to be an attractive trait but it does seem to be somewhat lacking with a lot of fabbers."
See I see the opposite and it's like alot of people feel they have to put the downers on themselves or they get accused of being up their own arses. We are realistic. We know we aren't munters, but certainly not models, but we do ok and get lots of offers to play when we go to clubs. No self esteem issues and know our own worth, without having to put others down. Works for us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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does seem extremely shallow.would prefer it if they boasted about their personalities instead.too me that is more important.i do find the contant selfie taking while covered in a ridiculous amount of make-up and pouting so boring and a turn-off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Now the word " attractive" has become a racist word lol
Half of the profiles here say " Mutual attraction is a must"
Many veris describe each others as " stunning, gorgeous ,attractive cpl"
And still people have problems with this word.
Funny hypocrites |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now the word " attractive" has become a racist word lol
Half of the profiles here say " Mutual attraction is a must"
Many veris describe each others as " stunning, gorgeous ,attractive cpl"
And still people have problems with this word.
Funny hypocrites "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now the word " attractive" has become a racist word lol
Half of the profiles here say " Mutual attraction is a must"
Many veris describe each others as " stunning, gorgeous ,attractive cpl"
And still people have problems with this word.
Funny hypocrites "
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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"Now the word " attractive" has become a racist word lol
Half of the profiles here say " Mutual attraction is a must"
Many veris describe each others as " stunning, gorgeous ,attractive cpl"
And still people have problems with this word.
Funny hypocrites "
No it is not hypocritical at all. You and the last 3 posters seem to have missed the point the OP is making.
You say: "Many veris describe each others as " stunning, gorgeous ,attractive cpl"
Well the point here is: When people verify & describe those that they have met as being attractive; it is completely different from when people describe 'themselves' as been attractive, hence praising 'themselves'
Bottom Line is : "Self-praise is no recommendation" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now the word " attractive" has become a racist word lol
Half of the profiles here say " Mutual attraction is a must"
Many veris describe each others as " stunning, gorgeous ,attractive cpl"
And still people have problems with this word.
Funny hypocrites
No it is not hypocritical at all. You and the last 3 posters seem to have missed the point the OP is making.
You say: "Many veris describe each others as " stunning, gorgeous ,attractive cpl"
Well the point here is: When people verify & describe those that they have met as being attractive; it is completely different from when people describe 'themselves' as been attractive, hence praising 'themselves'
Bottom Line is : "Self-praise is no recommendation""
So what should they write ?
People write about their own boobs, cock, stamina, length, booty size and how good are they are licking pussy, sucking cock blah blah blah.
Isn't that self praise ?
According to your logic, all profiles should be plain, without any self description .
The veris will definitely expose if their self praise is true or false anyway .
This reminds me of another similar thread where people were moaning about incomplete half attempt profiles.
Lol! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some have problems with " Fill in later" profiles ,while some have problems about self praise. Lol
You can't win, can you?
Nobody is forcing anyone to meet people. Just use your wise decision , chat, meet socially and decide.
Why pick on people using description?
We absolutely despise 420 profiles, but we don't create a thread about it and mock them.
We just avoid meeting such ppl, simple.
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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"Some have problems with " Fill in later" profiles ,while some have problems about self praise. Lol
You can't win, can you?
Nobody is forcing anyone to meet people. Just use your wise decision , chat, meet socially and decide.
Why pick on people using description?
We absolutely despise 420 profiles, but we don't create a thread about it and mock them.
We just avoid meeting such ppl, simple.
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"We absolutely despise 420 profiles, but we don't create a thread about it and mock them."
By your logic nobody should create a thread about what they think or feel about a subject matter on Fabs.
Might as well close the forums then based on your "logic" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now the word " attractive" has become a racist word lol
Half of the profiles here say " Mutual attraction is a must"
Many veris describe each others as " stunning, gorgeous ,attractive cpl"
And still people have problems with this word.
Funny hypocrites
No it is not hypocritical at all. You and the last 3 posters seem to have missed the point the OP is making.
You say: "Many veris describe each others as " stunning, gorgeous ,attractive cpl"
Well the point here is: When people verify & describe those that they have met as being attractive; it is completely different from when people describe 'themselves' as been attractive, hence praising 'themselves'
Bottom Line is : "Self-praise is no recommendation""
Everyone will have a different opinion. So their view of themselves is still valid. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now the word " attractive" has become a racist word lol
Half of the profiles here say " Mutual attraction is a must"
Many veris describe each others as " stunning, gorgeous ,attractive cpl"
And still people have problems with this word.
Funny hypocrites "
Well not many are in this swinging lark to blow their own horn now, are they..?
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By *exfordMan
over a year ago
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"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?
Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?"
Imagine if they put.. We are ugly #uckers with spots on our genitals... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now the word " attractive" has become a racist word lol
Half of the profiles here say " Mutual attraction is a must"
Many veris describe each others as " stunning, gorgeous ,attractive cpl"
And still people have problems with this word.
Funny hypocrites
Well not many are in this swinging lark to blow their own horn now, are they..?
B"
So terming attractive is blowing their own lark ? Hmmm
How about saying nice boobs, nice cock, very bi , atheltic body etc ?
Would you like the profile to be blank ? |
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"Is it just us or does anyone else get put off when people describe themselves as the above?
Is it just confidence or arrogance? Or both?
Imagine if they put.. We are ugly #uckers with spots on our genitals..."
Hahaha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest op I'd probably take alooksy then think twice about messaging such a profile as I probably wouldn't measure up to what they're after as so called beautiful people want to meet other beautiful people as a rule |
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"To be honest op I'd probably take alooksy then think twice about messaging such a profile as I probably wouldn't measure up to what they're after as so called beautiful people want to meet other beautiful people as a rule"
That's fair point.
But we all read profile, read veris, check the pics and then decide to contact them or not .
If we fit the bill then we approach ,if not then we don't . |
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