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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok so I've been on the sure for a couple of weeks (been on before but back) and I've made contact with a few people but I'm carfull about who I contact on the hole. I normaly only contact people who are photo verified and verified by others.
What I've found though is there are a few people who after chatting with them on here and then trying to arange something cone across as fakes/time wasters. Has any one else come across this or is it just me lol. For example there gave been a couple of couples who have all the verifications right but when you ask to ring them to arrange confirm they become very defensive or arange a meet then you get to the meeting place and no one shows and then they won't answer any contracts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd be very careful about anyone who tried to contact me on the 'hole' 
But to address your question, people can change their minds at any time, and for all kinds of reasons. It doesn't make them timewasters or fakes. |
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"I'd be very careful about anyone who tried to contact me on the 'hole'
But to address your question, people can change their minds at any time, and for all kinds of reasons. It doesn't make them timewasters or fakes."
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"Ok so I've been on the sure for a couple of weeks (been on before but back) and I've made contact with a few people but I'm carfull about who I contact on the hole. I normaly only contact people who are photo verified and verified by others.
What I've found though is there are a few people who after chatting with them on here and then trying to arange something cone across as fakes/time wasters. Has any one else come across this or is it just me lol. For example there gave been a couple of couples who have all the verifications right but when you ask to ring them to arrange confirm they become very defensive or arange a meet then you get to the meeting place and no one shows and then they won't answer any contracts."
We wouldn't give our number out early on, we confirm we are a couple by showing face on cam, but obviously we give out a number if we have arranged a meet.
I personally wouldn't go ahead with a meet if you didn't have a number to call or they didn't call you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with the above poster
A verified account does'nt mean that they'll meet everyone they speak too
Communication is a way of working out who you want to meet and who you don't,sometimes I change my mind after a few messages because something has'nt been right and I don't feel a connection
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'd be very careful about anyone who tried to contact me on the 'hole'
But to address your question, people can change their minds at any time, and for all kinds of reasons. It doesn't make them timewasters or fakes."
Lol my bad 
No that's not my problem, although if I changed my mind I'd at least explain that but I guess I'm a bit more polite than some people.
No what I'm getting at is if a unverifide couple started say "we won't talk on the phone" or "wife dose not talk on the phone" we would all cry foul but but it seems fine for verified couples/singles. I was also asking if any one else has come across someone who was verified but just screamed fake ect. |
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"I'd be very careful about anyone who tried to contact me on the 'hole'
But to address your question, people can change their minds at any time, and for all kinds of reasons. It doesn't make them timewasters or fakes.
Lol my bad
No that's not my problem, although if I changed my mind I'd at least explain that but I guess I'm a bit more polite than some people.
No what I'm getting at is if a unverifide couple started say "we won't talk on the phone" or "wife dose not talk on the phone" we would all cry foul but but it seems fine for verified couples/singles. I was also asking if any one else has come across someone who was verified but just screamed fake ect."
ahhh understand now.
It has never happened to us but the fact you get the warning when you veri someone suggests that it must go on. |
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"I'd be very careful about anyone who tried to contact me on the 'hole'
But to address your question, people can change their minds at any time, and for all kinds of reasons. It doesn't make them timewasters or fakes.
Lol my bad
No that's not my problem, although if I changed my mind I'd at least explain that but I guess I'm a bit more polite than some people.
No what I'm getting at is if a unverifide couple started say "we won't talk on the phone" or "wife dose not talk on the phone" we would all cry foul but but it seems fine for verified couples/singles. I was also asking if any one else has come across someone who was verified but just screamed fake ect."
OK, can't say we've seen this. We'd take the view that a verification merely indicates that a profile is genuine rather than guarantees it. The proof lies in communication, and if they wouldn't talk on the phone we'd kill it there and then and move on.
As for people not turning up, we've never had the issue, but yes we'd like to think people would try to let us know in advance.  |
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