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over a year ago
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As a rule, I am not attracted to gents with flesh that wobbles when I ride them, sorry.
Just because I am no skinny stick insect and allegedly look like the back end of a bus, it does not mean I cannot have a preference for lean muscular gents!
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over a year ago
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Classic case, I don't particularly like fat woman, yet I'm fat, but energetic.
Fact is is you want a fuck and you own a vagina and you're not shy, it as difficult as breathing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Fact is is you want a fuck and you own a vagina and you're not shy, it as difficult as breathing.
And with so many hot fit guys to choose from as well!!!
Just a shame not many on here "
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"Classic case, I don't particularly like fat woman, yet I'm fat, but energetic.
Fact is is you want a fuck and you own a vagina and you're not shy, it as difficult as breathing."
i'm shy but breathe just fine
i dont mind men on the larger side lol and despite what others have said on other threads, i have never had a problem accomodating a gent, no matter how big he or i was the big bits squidge you know lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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These threads always make for a quick list of who to say Hi to and who to avoid! hehe
its a buyers market and the kegs are not selling as well as the 6 packs - but If your happy and confident in your own skin you will be sexy as hell no matter what |
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The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...
FAB does show up some strange paradoxes! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We never meet anyone unless we have chatted to them, having conditions is normal. You may like, tall, VWE or indeed a list of things, thats normal.
The one thing we really hate is narrow minded nasty people, the site poser's, the, I'm so beautiful, type. We steer well clear of them and have met some wonderful people.
Be yourself, talk normally , honestly and don't lie. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...
FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!"
That's not always the case, but it will happen because of supply and demand. Most men are more driven to focus upon sex than women are, therefore in fab men vastly outnumber them. More women focus upon feeling protected and secure therefore have a burning desire to get a ring on their finger. So the on the kind of site aimed at getting couples hitched and into monogamous relationships men will be able to pick and choose a toned woman with classic curves even though they are carrying the weight that would leave them breathless from climbing a flight of stairs.
That's not to say that men can't improve their overall chances on here merely by being warm friendly and genuine. Or hitting the weights for six hours a week as I manage that even though I work 70 hours on average, so its entirely possible. Just catch up on sleep at weekends, lol!
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"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...
FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!"
Worse? How exactly is that a problem for you in any way?
Either the women get a fuck...or
they don't....
Fab shows up some unpleasant attitudes too, just like the real world ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...
FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!
That's not always the case, but it will happen because of supply and demand. Most men are more driven to focus upon sex than women are, therefore in fab men vastly outnumber them. More women focus upon feeling protected and secure therefore have a burning desire to get a ring on their finger. So the on the kind of site aimed at getting couples hitched and into monogamous relationships men will be able to pick and choose a toned woman with classic curves even though they are carrying the weight that would leave them breathless from climbing a flight of stairs.
That's not to say that men can't improve their overall chances on here merely by being warm friendly and genuine. Or hitting the weights for six hours a week as I manage that even though I work 70 hours on average, so its entirely possible. Just catch up on sleep at weekends, lol!
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"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...
FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!
That's not always the case, but it will happen because of supply and demand. Most men are more driven to focus upon sex than women are, therefore in fab men vastly outnumber them. More women focus upon feeling protected and secure therefore have a burning desire to get a ring on their finger. So the on the kind of site aimed at getting couples hitched and into monogamous relationships men will be able to pick and choose a toned woman with classic curves even though they are carrying the weight that would leave them breathless from climbing a flight of stairs.
That's not to say that men can't improve their overall chances on here merely by being warm friendly and genuine. Or hitting the weights for six hours a week as I manage that even though I work 70 hours on average, so its entirely possible. Just catch up on sleep at weekends, lol!
Sleep when you dead...come visit me at weekends "
Many women on this site obviously don't own a mirror. They have demands as to what they want from a man but obviously have a different perception of how they look... I think they're called real women... which basically means they can stuff themselves with bad food, squeeze into an Ann Summers basque and be God's gift to anyone. We go by personality more than anything. But a fat woman who demands a shaven, slim, six-pack guy is pissing in the wind. |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...
FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!
That's not always the case, but it will happen because of supply and demand. Most men are more driven to focus upon sex than women are, therefore in fab men vastly outnumber them. More women focus upon feeling protected and secure therefore have a burning desire to get a ring on their finger. So the on the kind of site aimed at getting couples hitched and into monogamous relationships men will be able to pick and choose a toned woman with classic curves even though they are carrying the weight that would leave them breathless from climbing a flight of stairs.
That's not to say that men can't improve their overall chances on here merely by being warm friendly and genuine. Or hitting the weights for six hours a week as I manage that even though I work 70 hours on average, so its entirely possible. Just catch up on sleep at weekends, lol!
Sleep when you dead...come visit me at weekends
Many women on this site obviously don't own a mirror. They have demands as to what they want from a man but obviously have a different perception of how they look... I think they're called real women... which basically means they can stuff themselves with bad food, squeeze into an Ann Summers basque and be God's gift to anyone. We go by personality more than anything. But a fat woman who demands a shaven, slim, six-pack guy is pissing in the wind." lol...ya see me? Im just plain gorgeous...in fact if i was a man...i would![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By *aceytopWoman
over a year ago
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"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...
FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!" oh dear ![](/icons/s/confused.gif) |
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"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...
FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!"
Think your _iew is quite narrow minded TBH but that is your _iew, your personal opinion. An opinion you're totally entitled to.
But....you suggest that toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc men don't find the larger woman attractive, bit of a generalisation don't you think.
All I can say is thank god we're all different and like different things, life would be very boring otherwise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do some women like men with a chubby tummy or beer belly?
As I dont seem to be able to meet any nice women.
Try dieting then "
Diet for your health or just for your own confidence, don't lose weight just to appeal to certain people and get laid |
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"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...
FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!
That's not always the case, but it will happen because of supply and demand. Most men are more driven to focus upon sex than women are, therefore in fab men vastly outnumber them. More women focus upon feeling protected and secure therefore have a burning desire to get a ring on their finger. So the on the kind of site aimed at getting couples hitched and into monogamous relationships men will be able to pick and choose a toned woman with classic curves even though they are carrying the weight that would leave them breathless from climbing a flight of stairs.
That's not to say that men can't improve their overall chances on here merely by being warm friendly and genuine. Or hitting the weights for six hours a week as I manage that even though I work 70 hours on average, so its entirely possible. Just catch up on sleep at weekends, lol!
Sleep when you dead...come visit me at weekends
Many women on this site obviously don't own a mirror. They have demands as to what they want from a man but obviously have a different perception of how they look... I think they're called real women... which basically means they can stuff themselves with bad food, squeeze into an Ann Summers basque and be God's gift to anyone. We go by personality more than anything. But a fat woman who demands a shaven, slim, six-pack guy is pissing in the wind."
i have a perfectly adequate perception of how i look thank you very much...and Ann Summers does great stockings, wouldn't touch it for anything else though.
i dont demand anything, i am too sub, but i also go off personality, which is handy in this case
If mr lick is in any way offended by my flirting he is a big boy and more than capable of speaking for himself! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Been blunt, many guys will shag anyone, looks not important. How many times do you see guys in chat chatting up any female regardless of looks?
Whereas the ladies are, shall we say somewhat more selective on who they sleep with.
To an extent I think that's the same off the site too, many guys I have worked with, especially those away from home will chase any burd in a bar. They start with the most attractive and work their way through after every knock back.
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" But a fat woman who demands a shaven, slim, six-pack guy is pissing in the wind."
I don't agree with this at all,I know some really ripped guys that adore larger ladies, so no she won't be pissing in the wind at all
She'll be getting what she wants and so will he |
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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" But a fat woman who demands a shaven, slim, six-pack guy is pissing in the wind.
I don't agree with this at all,I know some really ripped guys that adore larger ladies, so no she won't be pissing in the wind at all
She'll be getting what she wants and so will he" they might be if they like watersports ![](/icons/s/cool.gif) |
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" they might be if they like watersports "
Outdoor watersports as well
its the age old argument that people who are deemed by society on a whole as the beautiful people should only be attracted to each other
There are people that will always break those conventions - individuality and confidence and personality count for much more long term
There are ugly slim women on here and beautiful big women, conversely there are hot slim women and ugly bigger women - which category you put people in is down to your tastes - I know I am a bigger guy and if i find someone attractive large or small I will drop them a message and say Hi. Its then upto the person to decide if they want to reply and progress with a conversation, I certainly wouldn't NOT message someone just because I'm fat and they are thin and some people don't think I would have the right to..... |
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" But a fat woman who demands a shaven, slim, six-pack guy is pissing in the wind.
I don't agree with this at all,I know some really ripped guys that adore larger ladies, so no she won't be pissing in the wind at all
She'll be getting what she wants and so will he"
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" But a fat woman who demands a shaven, slim, six-pack guy is pissing in the wind.
I don't agree with this at all,I know some really ripped guys that adore larger ladies, so no she won't be pissing in the wind at all
She'll be getting what she wants and so will hethey might be if they like watersports "
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" they might be if they like watersports
Outdoor watersports as well
its the age old argument that people who are deemed by society on a whole as the beautiful people should only be attracted to each other
There are people that will always break those conventions - individuality and confidence and personality count for much more long term
There are ugly slim women on here and beautiful big women, conversely there are hot slim women and ugly bigger women - which category you put people in is down to your tastes - I know I am a bigger guy and if i find someone attractive large or small I will drop them a message and say Hi. Its then upto the person to decide if they want to reply and progress with a conversation, I certainly wouldn't NOT message someone just because I'm fat and they are thin and some people don't think I would have the right to....."
then there are people with ugly personalities, the biggest turn off ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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then there are people with ugly personalities, the biggest turn off "
or who are missing a personality all together as they have relied on a face and body to get them through all their lives |
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then there are people with ugly personalities, the biggest turn off
or who are missing a personality all together as they have relied on a face and body to get them through all their lives"
ouch!
I'll take personality with a smile - that's why I fancy the pants of the cheshire cat
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As a rule, I am not attracted to gents with flesh that wobbles when I ride them, sorry.
Just because I am no skinny stick insect and allegedly look like the back end of a bus, it does not mean I cannot have a preference for lean muscular gents!
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skinny doesnt = stick insect
ur hating on slim folk same way some hate on chubbs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i think 'chubby chasing' is a largely male domain "
Very much so. I know loads of guys who like larger women, but I only know one woman who likes larger men. |
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When I first joined chat rooms etc I was looking for perfection trust me it does not exist (present company excepted of course) and i did not like the Idea of Large women per se
However over the last couple of years I got a reality check and have had some excellent meets with big ladies, all of which have been amazing, I still like slim girls but at the end of the day corny as it sounds personality is king, If We can have a laugh I'd fuck Bella Emberg lol |
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So my advice is forget looks (that is you and her/him) and concentrate on engaging Dialogue, trust me I am no Oil painting but I can't complain about the quality or number of contacts I have made (Never enough though lol)
I am now getting messages from local guys asking for tips lol |
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then there are people with ugly personalities, the biggest turn off
or who are missing a personality all together as they have relied on a face and body to get them through all their lives"
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then there are people with ugly personalities, the biggest turn off
or who are missing a personality all together as they have relied on a face and body to get them through all their lives
Oooh meow
" So honeypot how do you get on with that body and that personality
I know you have "people" to deal with your box (In-box you filthy minded people) |
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then there are people with ugly personalities, the biggest turn off
or who are missing a personality all together as they have relied on a face and body to get them through all their lives
Oooh meow
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Haha i wasn't directing that at anyone but I spent a lot of time in Southern California and the whole beautiful people thing really pisses me of because over there the most attractive people tend to be the most vapid and arrogant inbreds - but im well aware there will always be exceptions - I think the majority of fabbers don't fall into this category we are all looking for a good time and that is all we should care about |
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"When I first joined chat rooms etc I was looking for perfection trust me it does not exist (present company excepted of course) and i did not like the Idea of Large women per se
However over the last couple of years I got a reality check and have had some excellent meets with big ladies, all of which have been amazing, I still like slim girls but at the end of the day corny as it sounds personality is king, If We can have a laugh I'd fuck Bella Emberg lol "
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"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...
FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!
That's not always the case, but it will happen because of supply and demand. Most men are more driven to focus upon sex than women are, therefore in fab men vastly outnumber them. More women focus upon feeling protected and secure therefore have a burning desire to get a ring on their finger. So the on the kind of site aimed at getting couples hitched and into monogamous relationships men will be able to pick and choose a toned woman with classic curves even though they are carrying the weight that would leave them breathless from climbing a flight of stairs.
That's not to say that men can't improve their overall chances on here merely by being warm friendly and genuine. Or hitting the weights for six hours a week as I manage that even though I work 70 hours on average, so its entirely possible. Just catch up on sleep at weekends, lol!
Sleep when you dead...come visit me at weekends
Many women on this site obviously don't own a mirror. They have demands as to what they want from a man but obviously have a different perception of how they look... I think they're called real women... which basically means they can stuff themselves with bad food, squeeze into an Ann Summers basque and be God's gift to anyone. We go by personality more than anything. But a fat woman who demands a shaven, slim, six-pack guy is pissing in the wind.
i have a perfectly adequate perception of how i look thank you very much...and Ann Summers does great stockings, wouldn't touch it for anything else though.
i dont demand anything, i am too sub, but i also go off personality, which is handy in this case
If mr lick is in any way offended by my flirting he is a big boy and more than capable of speaking for himself!"
Why I'm not offended by your flirting at all, I love compliments! And what you said about me being a big boy...![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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I love this forum,bbws instead of over weight, fabulous bodies instead of obese .. chubby guys instead of bbgs why are men called fat and women called fabulous? I dont get it,i neither like or dislike fat men or women but dont agree with the terminology. Seems a bit unfair to us blokes with a beer belly lol. |
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"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...
FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!
That's not always the case, but it will happen because of supply and demand. Most men are more driven to focus upon sex than women are, therefore in fab men vastly outnumber them. More women focus upon feeling protected and secure therefore have a burning desire to get a ring on their finger. So the on the kind of site aimed at getting couples hitched and into monogamous relationships men will be able to pick and choose a toned woman with classic curves even though they are carrying the weight that would leave them breathless from climbing a flight of stairs.
That's not to say that men can't improve their overall chances on here merely by being warm friendly and genuine. Or hitting the weights for six hours a week as I manage that even though I work 70 hours on average, so its entirely possible. Just catch up on sleep at weekends, lol!
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Lets not forget that some of those toned, gym attending, hairless, muscular guys actually have the total hots for and much prefer larger ladies![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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"I love this forum,bbws instead of over weight, fabulous bodies instead of obese .. chubby guys instead of bbgs why are men called fat and women called fabulous? I dont get it,i neither like or dislike fat men or women but dont agree with the terminology. Seems a bit unfair to us blokes with a beer belly lol."
and big men don't call slim men 'skinny'? ![](/icons/s/confused.gif) |
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"I love this forum,bbws instead of over weight, fabulous bodies instead of obese .. chubby guys instead of bbgs why are men called fat and women called fabulous? I dont get it,i neither like or dislike fat men or women but dont agree with the terminology. Seems a bit unfair to us blokes with a beer belly lol."
not true
you can say your athlectic and if anyone questions it just say Geff Capes was a athlete
or......
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But a fat woman who demands a shaven, slim, six-pack guy is pissing in the wind.
I can assure you they are not
+1 Nope they are not. Totally agree "
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"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...
FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!
That's not always the case, but it will happen because of supply and demand. Most men are more driven to focus upon sex than women are, therefore in fab men vastly outnumber them. More women focus upon feeling protected and secure therefore have a burning desire to get a ring on their finger. So the on the kind of site aimed at getting couples hitched and into monogamous relationships men will be able to pick and choose a toned woman with classic curves even though they are carrying the weight that would leave them breathless from climbing a flight of stairs.
That's not to say that men can't improve their overall chances on here merely by being warm friendly and genuine. Or hitting the weights for six hours a week as I manage that even though I work 70 hours on average, so its entirely possible. Just catch up on sleep at weekends, lol!
Lets not forget that some of those toned, gym attending, hairless, muscular guys actually have the total hots for and much prefer larger ladies "
Now you know that's not true. Old people for old people, tall people for tall people, ugly people for ugly people, fat people for...do you see how it works? ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...
FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!
That's not always the case, but it will happen because of supply and demand. Most men are more driven to focus upon sex than women are, therefore in fab men vastly outnumber them. More women focus upon feeling protected and secure therefore have a burning desire to get a ring on their finger. So the on the kind of site aimed at getting couples hitched and into monogamous relationships men will be able to pick and choose a toned woman with classic curves even though they are carrying the weight that would leave them breathless from climbing a flight of stairs.
That's not to say that men can't improve their overall chances on here merely by being warm friendly and genuine. Or hitting the weights for six hours a week as I manage that even though I work 70 hours on average, so its entirely possible. Just catch up on sleep at weekends, lol!
Sleep when you dead...come visit me at weekends
Many women on this site obviously don't own a mirror. They have demands as to what they want from a man but obviously have a different perception of how they look... I think they're called real women... which basically means they can stuff themselves with bad food, squeeze into an Ann Summers basque and be God's gift to anyone. We go by personality more than anything. But a fat woman who demands a shaven, slim, six-pack guy is pissing in the wind.
i have a perfectly adequate perception of how i look thank you very much...and Ann Summers does great stockings, wouldn't touch it for anything else though.
i dont demand anything, i am too sub, but i also go off personality, which is handy in this case
If mr lick is in any way offended by my flirting he is a big boy and more than capable of speaking for himself!
Why I'm not offended by your flirting at all, I love compliments! And what you said about me being a big boy... "
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"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...
FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!
That's not always the case, but it will happen because of supply and demand. Most men are more driven to focus upon sex than women are, therefore in fab men vastly outnumber them. More women focus upon feeling protected and secure therefore have a burning desire to get a ring on their finger. So the on the kind of site aimed at getting couples hitched and into monogamous relationships men will be able to pick and choose a toned woman with classic curves even though they are carrying the weight that would leave them breathless from climbing a flight of stairs.
That's not to say that men can't improve their overall chances on here merely by being warm friendly and genuine. Or hitting the weights for six hours a week as I manage that even though I work 70 hours on average, so its entirely possible. Just catch up on sleep at weekends, lol!
Sleep when you dead...come visit me at weekends
Many women on this site obviously don't own a mirror. They have demands as to what they want from a man but obviously have a different perception of how they look... I think they're called real women... which basically means they can stuff themselves with bad food, squeeze into an Ann Summers basque and be God's gift to anyone. We go by personality more than anything. But a fat woman who demands a shaven, slim, six-pack guy is pissing in the wind.
i have a perfectly adequate perception of how i look thank you very much...and Ann Summers does great stockings, wouldn't touch it for anything else though.
i dont demand anything, i am too sub, but i also go off personality, which is handy in this case
If mr lick is in any way offended by my flirting he is a big boy and more than capable of speaking for himself!
Why I'm not offended by your flirting at all, I love compliments! And what you said about me being a big boy...
Those trousers need to come a little lower to prove it "
I've sent a friends request to you Madam, as a gentleman should always provide proof to a lady. I imagine you should study the proof long and hard to make sure it is genuine... ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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"The worse thing on Fab is seeing morbidly obese women making a long list of demands about how they want this and that from a man, he should be toned, tall, hairless, muscular etc etc - in the real world they'd get laughed (and humiliated) at if they tried coming on to a guy with those attributes...
FAB does show up some strange paradoxes!
That's not always the case, but it will happen because of supply and demand. Most men are more driven to focus upon sex than women are, therefore in fab men vastly outnumber them. More women focus upon feeling protected and secure therefore have a burning desire to get a ring on their finger. So the on the kind of site aimed at getting couples hitched and into monogamous relationships men will be able to pick and choose a toned woman with classic curves even though they are carrying the weight that would leave them breathless from climbing a flight of stairs.
That's not to say that men can't improve their overall chances on here merely by being warm friendly and genuine. Or hitting the weights for six hours a week as I manage that even though I work 70 hours on average, so its entirely possible. Just catch up on sleep at weekends, lol!
Sleep when you dead...come visit me at weekends
Many women on this site obviously don't own a mirror. They have demands as to what they want from a man but obviously have a different perception of how they look... I think they're called real women... which basically means they can stuff themselves with bad food, squeeze into an Ann Summers basque and be God's gift to anyone. We go by personality more than anything. But a fat woman who demands a shaven, slim, six-pack guy is pissing in the wind.
i have a perfectly adequate perception of how i look thank you very much...and Ann Summers does great stockings, wouldn't touch it for anything else though.
i dont demand anything, i am too sub, but i also go off personality, which is handy in this case
If mr lick is in any way offended by my flirting he is a big boy and more than capable of speaking for himself!
Why I'm not offended by your flirting at all, I love compliments! And what you said about me being a big boy...
Those trousers need to come a little lower to prove it
I've sent a friends request to you Madam, as a gentleman should always provide proof to a lady. I imagine you should study the proof long and hard to make sure it is genuine... "
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Each to there own i say,we are what we are really,i grew up in boxing family so hence why always kept toned..must admit like woman to be in good shape too |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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threads like these always make me laugh because every other persons "neurosis" comes out.....
here is something I learnt from a song a while back.......
"I am what I am"........
I may be a big unit, I may be back, I may tell it like it is from time to time.....
but i am going to be the best "me" I can be.......
and if that ain't enough for some people... I aint going to worry about it, I ain't going to complain, I aint going to shed any tears.......
I will plod along being the most caustic,black,big unit I am, and concentrate on those who like me and i get along with.... rather that worry about those I don't.....![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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"threads like these always make me laugh because every other persons "neurosis" comes out.....
here is something I learnt from a song a while back.......
"I am what I am"........
I may be a big unit, I may be back, I may tell it like it is from time to time.....
but i am going to be the best "me" I can be.......
and if that ain't enough for some people... I aint going to worry about it, I ain't going to complain, I aint going to shed any tears.......
I will plod along being the most caustic,black,big unit I am, and concentrate on those who like me and i get along with.... rather that worry about those I don't..... "
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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That's a long rant to say you dont worry about those who dont like. "
nah...that just me telling people you are not going to appeal to everyone so why people even bother to try is in effect a waste of time.... ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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