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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do so many people lie about thier body shape/size.
I can understand when someone believes they are larger than they really are, but why do people lie on their profile when their pictures (or a meet in person) tells a different story.
We all have our preferences
Just be honest and don't mess people around!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same reason they lie about their age, i met a man who described himself as curvy and he was huge, i put large on my profile because i am, and dont mind saying so.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do so many people lie about thier body shape/size."
Why do men lie about their endowment
Why do women lie about their age
Why do birds suddenly appear...
Ours is not to reason why... but yeah, it makes ya wonder... 
Wolf
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I thought you were quote the Diane Roos song, why do fools fall in love
Maybe its the swingers version"
I was trying to be environmentally friendly with ma forum post - less characters means less recycling to go in the bit bucket for admin
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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago
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Sometimes people see them themselves differently than others do. Some think themselves as bigger than they are and others smaller.
Plus people's ideas of body shape can vary. Curvy is one that seems to get mixed views.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sometimes people see them themselves differently than others do. Some think themselves as bigger than they are and others smaller.
Plus people's ideas of body shape can vary. Curvy is one that seems to get mixed views.
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Thats fine and I can totally understand that but some on here clearly lie to the point it is beyhond belief |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"My size is clearly written in profile. Clear enough for the nasty fuckwits to single me out and call me fat then block me. Pathetic. And for the record...... Have not eaten all the pies......:D"
Take no notice, idiots like that aren't worth it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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maybe some take pics that flatter but then we all do that
until you see someone in the flesh you arent gonna know if ur as attracted to them as you were their pics
but if the difference is just so massive then i can understand the beef totally |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My size is clearly written in profile. Clear enough for the nasty fuckwits to single me out and call me fat then block me. Pathetic. And for the record...... Have not eaten all the pies......:D"
No way!?!? People do that? Idiots!! You're lovely! |
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"My size is clearly written in profile. Clear enough for the nasty fuckwits to single me out and call me fat then block me. Pathetic. And for the record...... Have not eaten all the pies......:D"
And thats AFTER you turn them down! lol
Love how we all become fat/ugly/frigid etc when we simply not interested in them  |
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Depends really what you mean?
If someone is happy with their body why should't they say its "fabulous"??
Its the ones that state on profile...
Eg..She is a sexy size 12...and Im looking at the pics thinking "Well, if she a size 12 im a feckin size 6.."!!!!
Thats the ones that make me laugh!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends really what you mean?
If someone is happy with their body why should't they say its "fabulous"??
Its the ones that state on profile...
Eg..She is a sexy size 12...and Im looking at the pics thinking "Well, if she a size 12 im a feckin size 6.."!!!!
Thats the ones that make me laugh!
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I don't mind the fabulous, I think its a good addition. But like you say, its when people lie?
What do they think will happen when they meet |
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"maybe some take pics that flatter but then we all do that
until you see someone in the flesh you arent gonna know if ur as attracted to them as you were their pics
but if the difference is just so massive then i can understand the beef totally"
yet another reason i insist on a coffee meet first! after the guy whos pic was four years and five stone out of date 
and for the record i ate all the pies, nom nom nom |
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"My size is clearly written in profile. Clear enough for the nasty fuckwits to single me out and call me fat then block me. Pathetic. And for the record...... Have not eaten all the pies......:D
No way!?!? People do that? Idiots!! You're lovely!"
yeah had it a few times  oh and thank you x |
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"My size is clearly written in profile. Clear enough for the nasty fuckwits to single me out and call me fat then block me. Pathetic. And for the record...... Have not eaten all the pies......:D
And thats AFTER you turn them down! lol
Love how we all become fat/ugly/frigid etc when we simply not interested in them "
not this is was just straight off the bat. No asking to meet, just a abusive message. I know i am fat but not ugly and certainly not frigid hahahahaha |
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By *xscotMan
over a year ago
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I try to be honest - describe myself as large cause i'm 100Kg - but I am fairly fit and can see my toes when I look down.
also Icould not imagine turning up to meet someone who was expecting a something else
in terms of computers im a wysiwyg guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are some very anti-larger people on here which is okay, up until the point where people becoming insulting then it just becomes vile.
Single guys here have a bit of an uphill struggle as it is add large or curvy onto that and its even harder, still hasnt stopped my trying or even having a few meets. so no grumbling, just wished more girls liked chubby funny guys  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are attracted to the person described in the profile. I don't want to meet a totally different person
I'll get off my soapbox now "
i think unfortuntely cam is only way but then when i meet people they always say u look better than u do on cam so not sure i can win but i always want to see before i meet but thats just me (female bit here) like to know what i am getting into and i have to be attracted to person otherwise it don't do anything for me xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why do people take photos of themselves in round shaped mirrors with things in the back ground like clothes horses and photos of their family visible in the bottom corners?
It doesn't give a good impression to anyone, no matter what shape or size they are!
One mans model is another mans munter! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think most we have met look different in the flesh but has always been in a good way. I have put curvy as i feel im not fat and not slim but as had kids and could def improve in certain areas. But im confident in myself and has always had positive feedback from meets. I do think you need to be honest but as said everyone has different views of fat and slim. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i never know what to put on my profile, i find it hard, i used to always put ample because to me i am, i also used to put on my profile that i was a BBW not because i think i weight 20 stone but because i carry extra weight and i just felt that putting BBW was a way for letting others know im not a size 8 but i used to get so many messages from people asking why i had BBW on my profile and that i wasnt ample, plus people i met used to tell me to change it too that i took off the BBW and changed ample to curvy, however i dont feel comfy with that because i do not feel i am curvy i feel im big and sometimes worry that im deceiving people
people may not be doing it to lie but they really may see themselves as they describe, We dont always see ourselves as other do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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mine says curvy as i am curvy , so no lies there oh an a weeble wobble but i dont fall down hehe
no point in lies ye always get found out silly peeps lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Curvys a hard one on here tho
Ive seen slim women with shape put curvy, but curvy also seems to be an acceptable expression for big ladies to use as a lot dont like to use BBW and also feel curvy is more femanine that large
On here courvy could mean anything from a size 8, 18 to 28 |
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We are attracted to the person described in the profile. I don't want to meet a totally different person
I'll get off my soapbox now
i think unfortuntely cam is only way but then when i meet people they always say u look better than u do on cam so not sure i can win but i always want to see before i meet but thats just me (female bit here) like to know what i am getting into and i have to be attracted to person otherwise it don't do anything for me xxxx"
i like the fact everyone says i look better in real life than on cam...better they be pleasantly surprised |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The way I see it is, Brands Hatch has lots of curves and it's fun getting round them
There is a difference between curves and excess fat. We are all different.
I prefer women with curves and a nice rounded bum, but I don't like to see lots of saggy, over weight rolls of flab, yet ask the next person and they will disagree. It's all down to personal preference and don't forget, this is a swinging site and people are selling themselves in their profiles, no-one is going to write "Over the hill munter, lots of flab and stretch marks, own most of my own teeth and has a chuff like a yawning donkey! Wants to meet an adonis with a six pack and 12 inch wang!"
It's horses for courses. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Curvys a hard one on here tho
Ive seen slim women with shape put curvy, but curvy also seems to be an acceptable expression for big ladies to use as a lot dont like to use BBW and also feel curvy is more femanine that large
On here courvy could mean anything from a size 8, 18 to 28 "
Well i say courvy i am 5.8/9 size 14 ... but get now in 12 jeans with big tits so my tops bigger size 16 at times .. |
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well this is a social networking site for people who enjoy the idea of swinging, and as such it will draw peopple from all walks of life, size, colour, religion, sexuality, etc etc and as such, there will always be people on here whos views differ from yours, it's just that way it is I am afraid, and as for people lying about their weight/height/age/endowment, well I am sorry to say that's human nature too, big hugz n stuff, Ruby, xxx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i never know what to put on my profile, i find it hard, i used to always put ample because to me i am, i also used to put on my profile that i was a BBW not because i think i weight 20 stone but because i carry extra weight and i just felt that putting BBW was a way for letting others know im not a size 8 but i used to get so many messages from people asking why i had BBW on my profile and that i wasnt ample, plus people i met used to tell me to change it too that i took off the BBW and changed ample to curvy, however i dont feel comfy with that because i do not feel i am curvy i feel im big and sometimes worry that im deceiving people
people may not be doing it to lie but they really may see themselves as they describe, We dont always see ourselves as other do "
I looked at your pics and I think your slim |
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" Why do men lie about their endowment
Why do women lie about their age
Why do birds suddenly appear...
Ours is not to reason why... but yeah, it makes ya wonder...
Wolf "
Women lying about there age... hey you wanna check out how many years a lot of guys over 40 knock off.... some are really taking the piss.
I've lost count of the number of guys who claim to be late 30's and wouldn't look out of place on an Age UK day trip to the Grannyville peppermint factory. |
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"The way I see it is, Brands Hatch has lots of curves and it's fun getting round them
There is a difference between curves and excess fat. We are all different.
I prefer women with curves and a nice rounded bum, but I don't like to see lots of saggy, over weight rolls of flab, yet ask the next person and they will disagree. It's all down to personal preference and don't forget, this is a swinging site and people are selling themselves in their profiles, no-one is going to write "Over the hill munter, lots of flab and stretch marks, own most of my own teeth and has a chuff like a yawning donkey! Wants to meet an adonis with a six pack and 12 inch wang!"
It's horses for courses."
oi who said you could quote from my profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So many times you see women whom are a size 20 listing themselves as 'curvy' - they aren't curvy, IMO opinion somebody whom is curvy is a size 16 and below with womanly curves: hips, bums and boobs, not a heaving gut. Above that and you're obese, above a size 20 and you're morbidly obese.
But hey let's sugar coat those heading to an early grave by calling them BBW or Fabulous, it'll do wonders for them!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i never know what to put on my profile, i find it hard, i used to always put ample because to me i am, i also used to put on my profile that i was a BBW not because i think i weight 20 stone but because i carry extra weight and i just felt that putting BBW was a way for letting others know im not a size 8 but i used to get so many messages from people asking why i had BBW on my profile and that i wasnt ample, plus people i met used to tell me to change it too that i took off the BBW and changed ample to curvy, however i dont feel comfy with that because i do not feel i am curvy i feel im big and sometimes worry that im deceiving people
people may not be doing it to lie but they really may see themselves as they describe, We dont always see ourselves as other do
I looked at your pics and I think your slim"
lol bloody wish i was, im about a size 14/16 at the mo, i am a yoy yoy dieter tho so does tend to go up and down lol but i mainly average out about that size, however i am above average high for a woman so may carrry my weight a little better than most women my size
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So many times you see women whom are a size 20 listing themselves as 'curvy' - they aren't curvy, IMO opinion somebody whom is curvy is a size 16 and below with womanly curves: hips, bums and boobs, not a heaving gut. Above that and you're obese, above a size 20 and you're morbidly obese.
But hey let's sugar coat those heading to an early grave by calling them BBW or Fabulous, it'll do wonders for them!
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its not always as simple as that tho is it, hight plays a big part in it as well, plus its not only women who lie about their size, ive looked at many a mans profile who say they are athletic but look like they have never seen a guy in their life |
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