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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi ladies I'm getting a lot of offers to be served by cucks. Usually adorable guys with small dicks. They're offering to treat me like a queen and in return maybe get perusal as I sleep with bigger men. It just seems too good to be true so my question is is it too good to be true or can I really get that spoiled? |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Question, and one to which I don't know the answer - can you be a cuck in a "no strings" situation? I thought part of the thing of cuckolding was being in a relationship with the person who is doing the cuckolding, and them controlling when and if the cuckold is allowed to play, with the added thing of the cuckolder taking lovers with the cuckolds knowledge, and with (in some situations) humiliation elements thrown in.
Would cuckolding work if that relationship element is not there? Or would it just be a strand of voyeurism, being allowed to watch but not play? |
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"Question, and one to which I don't know the answer - can you be a cuck in a "no strings" situation? I thought part of the thing of cuckolding was being in a relationship with the person who is doing the cuckolding, and them controlling when and if the cuckold is allowed to play, with the added thing of the cuckolder taking lovers with the cuckolds knowledge, and with (in some situations) humiliation elements thrown in.
Would cuckolding work if that relationship element is not there? Or would it just be a strand of voyeurism, being allowed to watch but not play?"
Hmm interesting question. The process defines that it’s an enforced voyeuristic experience when more would be preferable? So perhaps yes it is possible providing the attraction and denial element still has power? |
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I could never understand what pleasure a cuck gets from this . I presume it's kinda like a slave being dominated bye his mistress. I would take those guys up on their offers cos I remember this lady she was looking for a cuck for herself . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I was wondering about the relationship element too. I can see a genuine need in these guys and I can also see how I would find this a great outlet for some deeper psyche stuff I have to process too. Like a sort of voice of playful anger that I don't get a chance to express anywhere else as a woman. I could see us becoming friends |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Question, and one to which I don't know the answer - can you be a cuck in a "no strings" situation? I thought part of the thing of cuckolding was being in a relationship with the person who is doing the cuckolding, and them controlling when and if the cuckold is allowed to play, with the added thing of the cuckolder taking lovers with the cuckolds knowledge, and with (in some situations) humiliation elements thrown in.
Would cuckolding work if that relationship element is not there? Or would it just be a strand of voyeurism, being allowed to watch but not play?
Hmm interesting question. The process defines that it’s an enforced voyeuristic experience when more would be preferable? So perhaps yes it is possible providing the attraction and denial element still has power?"
And it's that last part I struggle with in the context of the OP - surely by offering themselves up to a random person on a site like this, in a "meet" scenario, that "power" wouldn't be there, or would be difficult to eatablish and so really all it would be would be a voyeuristic cheap thrill for the "cuckold" - which in itself I can see the appeal of, just not in the way presented  |
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I think that’s it. This is a psychological power play for some and a handing over of power release for others.
It’s an ego boost and deeply satisfying if you can carry it off. There has to be some reality to it otherwise it’s an impotent activity. |
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"Question, and one to which I don't know the answer - can you be a cuck in a "no strings" situation? I thought part of the thing of cuckolding was being in a relationship with the person who is doing the cuckolding, and them controlling when and if the cuckold is allowed to play, with the added thing of the cuckolder taking lovers with the cuckolds knowledge, and with (in some situations) humiliation elements thrown in.
Would cuckolding work if that relationship element is not there? Or would it just be a strand of voyeurism, being allowed to watch but not play?
Hmm interesting question. The process defines that it’s an enforced voyeuristic experience when more would be preferable? So perhaps yes it is possible providing the attraction and denial element still has power?
And it's that last part I struggle with in the context of the OP - surely by offering themselves up to a random person on a site like this, in a "meet" scenario, that "power" wouldn't be there, or would be difficult to eatablish and so really all it would be would be a voyeuristic cheap thrill for the "cuckold" - which in itself I can see the appeal of, just not in the way presented "
Is it all not the implicit lie scenario? |
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We’ve been offered all sorts from cleaning the house, doing ironing, getting our shopping (so not sexual at all) to watching while we fuck, bringing drinks when needed, buying lingerie or paying for hotel room.
One that intrigued us most was an individual would stay in the same hotel, watch us from across the room in the bar, ordering drinks to be sent over once we clicked our fingers then we would go upstairs and send him down a couple of pictures. We thought about it and how just before we would go upstairs I would slip my knickers off put them in my hand and as I walked past whisper in his ear “enjoy fantasising about dmfucking me” as I placed my lingerie on the table for him.  
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Question, and one to which I don't know the answer - can you be a cuck in a "no strings" situation? I thought part of the thing of cuckolding was being in a relationship with the person who is doing the cuckolding, and them controlling when and if the cuckold is allowed to play, with the added thing of the cuckolder taking lovers with the cuckolds knowledge, and with (in some situations) humiliation elements thrown in.
Would cuckolding work if that relationship element is not there? Or would it just be a strand of voyeurism, being allowed to watch but not play?
Hmm interesting question. The process defines that it’s an enforced voyeuristic experience when more would be preferable? So perhaps yes it is possible providing the attraction and denial element still has power?
And it's that last part I struggle with in the context of the OP - surely by offering themselves up to a random person on a site like this, in a "meet" scenario, that "power" wouldn't be there, or would be difficult to eatablish and so really all it would be would be a voyeuristic cheap thrill for the "cuckold" - which in itself I can see the appeal of, just not in the way presented
Is it all not the implicit lie scenario? "
It is, and ultimately if all concerned go away happy then it doesn't really matter how it's labelled, just idle musings on my part really  |
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"Question, and one to which I don't know the answer - can you be a cuck in a "no strings" situation? I thought part of the thing of cuckolding was being in a relationship with the person who is doing the cuckolding, and them controlling when and if the cuckold is allowed to play, with the added thing of the cuckolder taking lovers with the cuckolds knowledge, and with (in some situations) humiliation elements thrown in.
Would cuckolding work if that relationship element is not there? Or would it just be a strand of voyeurism, being allowed to watch but not play?"
we have met a cuck for over 2 years he can watch but not touch it turns him on more if we try to get him hard it want work but when we insult him he gets hard and cums. we stopped seeing them when he asked my man to make a hole in condom when he fucked her so he could lick it out of her when they got home |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks Antony. I'm not used to being told I can get anything I like. It's an empowering feeling."
Get used to it. a ladie should always get what she wants. Xx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If they have experience as a cuckold in a full time relationship, then why not? I enjoy the cuckold lifestyle as both a Bull when meeting couples when single and have had a previous relationship where I was cuck and had to find her men to meet and enjoy.
You will need to qualify them and work out if they are real would be my advice.
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Ive been a cuck before and would happily be again.
Be great to get a new gf and be cucked from the start, never having fucked her and never being allowed to, but being able to help her dress for her guys, sometimes watch her, sometimes clean up after, whatever she says really!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you everyone you're amazing x"
Hi,
Not cuckold but love the hotwife scenario/lifestyle.
I have little or no interest in meeting other women but enjoy my partner having sex with others.
I am still dominant and don’t like to be humiliated in any way.
But find it a huge turn on to see my partner with others, especially gangbangs.
Also the excitement of waiting for her to get home is unbearable (in the nicest possible way)
Hope that helps? |
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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago
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Whilst the idea or fantasy sounds fantastic, you will probably find that when it actually comes to arranging the meets with the cuckold and it suddenly becomes real that they will disappear. We've yet to have one follow through with their kind offers for fun as a cuckold . |
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