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I don't see them as childish but I don't think there would be much common ground between me and a man 40 odd years younger than me. I know you're not looking for women of my age though  .
There are women who love younger guys though, you just need to look out for them  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't see them as childish but I don't think there would be much common ground between me and a man 40 odd years younger than me. I know you're not looking for women of my age though .
There are women who love younger guys though, you just need to look out for them "
What's your lowest age u would go to? |
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over a year ago
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May prefers young men. We’ee Not looking for a deep connection, just good fun, so the age difference isn’t a big deal to us. We understand why it’s different for others though
David |
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"I don't see them as childish but I don't think there would be much common ground between me and a man 40 odd years younger than me. I know you're not looking for women of my age though .
There are women who love younger guys though, you just need to look out for them
What's your lowest age u would go to?"
39 or 40 but that's pushing it I prefer men of 50 and over. I have no problem socialising with younger men or women I think it's good to mix with people of all ages but for sexual partners I prefer older |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Depends on your idea of how old an older woman is?
For me you are way to young but to someone in their 30’s it may work.
I don’t think it’s an easy ride on here for young men, give yourself a head start by having a decent profile and looking through old forum threads for advice / tips. You’re not the 1st and won’t be last to ask this kind of question. |
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"Also, I'm not sure where this caps out, but I don't love being called mature or old or anything like that. I'm 33 not 93!"
You're not old though, I wouldn't have liked being called old at 33. I honestly don't mind now, old, older, mature etc is fine by me. What I don't like is people saying "you look great...for your age"  |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Your profile says you're 21 OP - which I know is only a years difference but the suggestion that your profile is not accurate (possibly deliberately so) may not help your cause.
As for older women liking younger men, simple answer is some will some won't - maybe try an advanced search for the age range you are looking for, and tick the "Will meet people of my age" box, that should help narrow it down.
After that it's down to having an appealing profile and pics, the right approach and attitude in your messages and finding those that you connect with |
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"Also, I'm not sure where this caps out, but I don't love being called mature or old or anything like that. I'm 33 not 93!
You're not old though, I wouldn't have liked being called old at 33. I honestly don't mind now, old, older, mature etc is fine by me. What I don't like is people saying "you look great...for your age" "
I occasionally get messages from guys less than five years younger than me calling me old. Ffs I have a sibling that age, sod off. |
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"Also, I'm not sure where this caps out, but I don't love being called mature or old or anything like that. I'm 33 not 93!
You're not old though, I wouldn't have liked being called old at 33. I honestly don't mind now, old, older, mature etc is fine by me. What I don't like is people saying "you look great...for your age"
I occasionally get messages from guys less than five years younger than me calling me old. Ffs I have a sibling that age, sod off. "
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"I prefer around my own age. It's all subjective... The next lady to post may adore 20yr olds "
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Yes, must be said that I do like younger men. Not just any though...as in all things, depends on the man. |
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"I prefer around my own age. It's all subjective... The next lady to post may adore 20yr olds
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Yes, must be said that I do like younger men. Not just any though...as in all things, depends on the man."
What sort of age difference? 5yrs? 10yrs? 20yrs? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I prefer around my own age. It's all subjective... The next lady to post may adore 20yr olds
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Yes, must be said that I do like younger men. Not just any though...as in all things, depends on the man."
Ah ha! See.. from out of thin air!! |
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"I prefer around my own age. It's all subjective... The next lady to post may adore 20yr olds
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Yes, must be said that I do like younger men. Not just any though...as in all things, depends on the man.
What sort of age difference? 5yrs? 10yrs? 20yrs?"
Oh, it depends on the man! My partner is 15 years younger; had a thing a while ago with someone 26 years younger. I find that so many men my age or similar have a more jaded outlook on life. I like vibrancy! |
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"I prefer around my own age. It's all subjective... The next lady to post may adore 20yr olds
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Yes, must be said that I do like younger men. Not just any though...as in all things, depends on the man.
What sort of age difference? 5yrs? 10yrs? 20yrs?
Oh, it depends on the man! My partner is 15 years younger; had a thing a while ago with someone 26 years younger. I find that so many men my age or similar have a more jaded outlook on life. I like vibrancy!"
Good answer |
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I think there’s lots of women who like younger men. However, I find that older women tend to be fetishised a lot by younger men. It would certainly put me off, if I was attracted to younger men (when I’m older that is). |
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"I think there’s lots of women who like younger men. However, I find that older women tend to be fetishised a lot by younger men. It would certainly put me off, if I was attracted to younger men (when I’m older that is). "
That and the teacher thing. Guys looking for a teacher often seems like, I want a wild sexual experience but without being able to return the favour. I've had enough crap sex from selfish lovers to last a lifetime! |
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"I think there’s lots of women who like younger men. However, I find that older women tend to be fetishised a lot by younger men. It would certainly put me off, if I was attracted to younger men (when I’m older that is).
That and the teacher thing. Guys looking for a teacher often seems like, I want a wild sexual experience but without being able to return the favour. I've had enough crap sex from selfish lovers to last a lifetime! "
That as well! So many men my age want to meet older women to ‘show me the ropes’ 
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"I think there’s lots of women who like younger men. However, I find that older women tend to be fetishised a lot by younger men. It would certainly put me off, if I was attracted to younger men (when I’m older that is).
That and the teacher thing. Guys looking for a teacher often seems like, I want a wild sexual experience but without being able to return the favour. I've had enough crap sex from selfish lovers to last a lifetime!
That as well! So many men my age want to meet older women to ‘show me the ropes’
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Yeah. Younger guys reading this: don't do this. |
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"Also, I'm not sure where this caps out, but I don't love being called mature or old or anything like that. I'm 33 not 93!"
That is definitely still young. Mature/old is surely double that at least. |
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"I think there’s lots of women who like younger men. However, I find that older women tend to be fetishised a lot by younger men. It would certainly put me off, if I was attracted to younger men (when I’m older that is).
That and the teacher thing. Guys looking for a teacher often seems like, I want a wild sexual experience but without being able to return the favour. I've had enough crap sex from selfish lovers to last a lifetime! "
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"Also, I'm not sure where this caps out, but I don't love being called mature or old or anything like that. I'm 33 not 93!
That is definitely still young. Mature/old is surely double that at least. "
I occasionally get messages from guys who I'd consider roughly my contemporaries, even up to 30, calling me old. Not a good look. |
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I love younger guys, both on here and in relationships. Since I returned to Fab last year, the youngest guy I have met with has been 22. But if I really wanted to meet the guy, I would meet a 20 year old.
But that is the key point, it depends much more on how the guy appeals to me in looks, chat, interests....than his age. I just wouldn't say no because of his age.
The one thing I would say here is I don't have kids so maybe I don't have the issue of comparing young guys to my kids' age. Also, I am only 38.
So as with everything, we all have our own likes and preferences. Mine happens to be meeting younger guys for fantastic sex. And many of my favourite meets and repeat meets have been with guys in their 20s.
I'd say though that the majority of my meets have been with guys aged 24 - 34 and this is the age range I actively look for on here and for a boyfriend. But I do sometimes meet someone older than me the same way I may meet someone younger. There's always exceptions to my rules! Or maybe I should say rules are made to be broken  |
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As others have said, I'm not on here to teach an inexperienced guy the ropes - I want great sex, I like meeting someone I can hold a conversation with and find that hard with much younger guys I have little in common with, and even if it's true I don't appreciate being called older, mature or experienced - all a turn off. Therefore I rarely consider guys at the lower end of my age range let alone younger. |
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Over 50s big breasted milf with under 25 yr old guy or even 3 guys is my idea of ideal viewing so keep up the good work you mature ladies & come on lads give her a try she's the ride of your life if you'd just give her a go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I'm only here for older women but I don't seem to be what many people are after looks wise, if you're not completely average height and you're muscular you'll probably have more success  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Roarrr I prefer younger any day 22 to 30 is my best with tats nothing better than a younger fit hung lad amazed by my oral skills plus they fuck much better I think |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Roarrr I prefer younger any day 22 to 30 is my best with tats nothing better than a younger fit hung lad amazed by my oral skills plus they fuck much better I think"
Can confirm, we are pretty great  |
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