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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Imagine you get chatting to someone here. They tick all your boxes, depending on what your preferences are: smoker/non smoker, 420 friendly or not, can accommodate/ can’t.
What could come up in conversation that would put you off?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Talking down to me, or explaining simple things as though i dont know what im doing. "
Oh yeah, people being patronising for condescending irritates me too! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I must admit that I’m a bit of a grammar snob, so I’m put off when messages are hard to read due to basic punctuation and everything is reduced to as short a word as it can be. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"when you read a profile and there are lists of what you can and cant say to them and the sydney uni type pointless statements...
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Aye! With you on that one! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When they request something, lingerie or makeup, in a demanding sort of way. I was told a few years ago, after chatting foe a few days, to have my nails painted red. I never do my nails and said so. They were very insistent so I chose not to meet them. I wish I hadn't bothered with the days of messaging in the first place! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when you read a profile and there are lists of what you can and cant say to them...
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This. 'ooh, demanding and negative; be still my heart!' I think it's even worse on dating sites. |
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As others have said, not being able to hold a conversation, or if sex chat is all that they have
Evidence of bad judgement is a big one for me- for example a guy telling me about rocking straight up to a stranger's house and having them tie him up |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Assumptions.
People assuming what I’m like before they’ve even met me, saying how the meet will go, that kind of thing. I start to wander what else will they assume... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Assumptions.
People assuming what I’m like before they’ve even met me, saying how the meet will go, that kind of thing. I start to wander what else will they assume..."
*wonder*
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Assumptions.
People assuming what I’m like before they’ve even met me, saying how the meet will go, that kind of thing. I start to wander what else will they assume...
*wonder*
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I love it when people check their own mistakes  |
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Sex talk!
Get chatting, going well, all nice, polite, respectful, humorous.
So a social is on the cards, arrange a time/date.
Next thing they're going full on 50 Shades, telling me what they're going to do to me.
To me, not with me.
No idea if that's my thing, what I do & don't like.
Just the assumption, we're meeting, we are going to fuck, and what they want.
Happens 9/10 times
It's a good job I've got a sense of humour... And the block button.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People who approach me on here and then wish to discuss my past verifications or judge me on them.
I was chatting to a guy recently and I was looking to arrange a social until he started judging me on my verifications. Told me "You only seem to go for Love Island contestants who fucking love themselves". Then asked to meet me. I suddenly wasn't so keen
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Anyone who gives orders or demands what they want and no thought about what the other half might like or want"
Yes! This too. Guys who try and tell me what to wear or how to do my makeup just get swerved x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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They start to focus on just me and what they want to do to me or see me do (guys in couples) or they talk as if I’m just there to be a spectator and talk about Mr and will he like them etc (single “bi” women) it’s a couple’s profile, some people don’t seem able to get that. Some seem to want to use me to fuck Mr as they can’t accommodate- not good.
The others are guys we chat to about a bukkake meet, and from accepting that what we offer, they start talking about taking it further.
Get it’s all about chancing their luck xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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All very good points.
I've just come across another thing that puts me off:
"What does it take to get a woman like you interested in me?" Oh god, that infuriates me for so many reasons. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All very good points.
I've just come across another thing that puts me off:
"What does it take to get a woman like you interested in me?" Oh god, that infuriates me for so many reasons. "
Why? |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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"Imagine you get chatting to someone here. They tick all your boxes, depending on what your preferences are: smoker/non smoker, 420 friendly or not, can accommodate/ can’t.
What could come up in conversation that would put you off?
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We were talking about travel, mentioned San Sebastian, the Basque country, how my grandfather came from there, etc- and he said: “St Andrew’s? ST ANDREW’S? you’d never be Scottish, there is nothing Scottish about you!”
Me: “I never said St Andrew’s. I said St Sebastian. Spain?”
Him: “right- it must be because of your accent...”
Unfortunately this was after the sex, lol. Then I had a shower and he claimed I took “bloody ages” when I am a mother of 3 kids with one shower at home- my showers never last more than 3 minutes.
Ugh. Never was I happier to leave a hotel room. Shame, because he was good looking... |
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"Imagine you get chatting to someone here. They tick all your boxes, depending on what your preferences are: smoker/non smoker, 420 friendly or not, can accommodate/ can’t.
What could come up in conversation that would put you off?
Asking me for money!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sex talk!
Get chatting, going well, all nice, polite, respectful, humorous.
So a social is on the cards, arrange a time/date.
Next thing they're going full on 50 Shades, telling me what they're going to do to me.
To me, not with me.
No idea if that's my thing, what I do & don't like.
Just the assumption, we're meeting, we are going to fuck, and what they want.
Happens 9/10 times
It's a good job I've got a sense of humour... And the block button.
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That's a rookie error if ever there was one , whatever happened to all in good time huh ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Similar to Lady Lick. I don't like talking dirty to someone I am newly conversing with. It's tacky and completely changes the dynamic. I just feel like I've been reeled in initially so that i can then be used for wank fodder. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Similar to Lady Lick. I don't like talking dirty to someone I am newly conversing with. It's tacky and completely changes the dynamic. I just feel like I've been reeled in initially so that i can then be used for wank fodder. "
By the way... you are beautiful Mystique! Demure and cute |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
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Had that happen. Then they told me they voted ukip to get all the dirty foreigners out, my dad was born in Rumania and was an israeli citizen before coming to this country) so as you can imagine. That ruined it for me
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not being able to hold a conversation or starting sex chat as soon as they think I'm interested just because I replied. Not taking 'sorry, not interested' for an answer, being pushy.
Asking 'what is your biggest turn on?' or 'what is the naughtiest thing you have ever done?'.
Couples believing they are the centre of the universe and I should be eternally grateful they decided to message me and invite me to play with them. Who didn't bother reading my profile beforehand. When I reply politely telling them I'm not ready to meet a couple yet (too many risks due to my leg not fully healed) or that I already have plans, or simply that I would never meet anyone at the drop of the hat, I get abusive messages, or got questioned what I even do on Fab! Just because I passed the incredible opportunity to play with such an amazing couple! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pushiness, expectations after one message"
This, 100 percent.
I can't stand when anyone assumes that because we have exchanged a few messages we are definitely meeting. |
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