I know this is a sex site but jesus christ how hard is it to actually have a conversation with anyone!!
We're looking for friendship within the scene and if there's any play then it's an added bonus.
Is there anybody out there that can hold a decent conversation?? Lol
Bruce xx |
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I absolutely agree with the OP.
For me there has to be some cerebral connection as well as physical - it can be difficult to find people willing to respond in more than single syllables...
Sadly I don't venture to Sheffield much... but happy to chat...
They are out there... somewhere... keep trying....
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"I know this is a sex site but jesus christ how hard is it to actually have a conversation with anyone!!
We're looking for friendship within the scene and if there's any play then it's an added bonus.
Is there anybody out there that can hold a decent conversation?? Lol
Bruce xx"
I will be honest I get tongue tied on here and sometimes find it difficult in chat rooms and don’t know what to say But I find it easier to chat f2f. Strange but true. But will be polite and not pushy but if you’re gentle with me I warm up |
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We have put alot of time and effort cultivating friendships on here and have made great fun friends.
But it takes alot of time and energy to find those that love the whole friendship as well as the fun side of things.
We have friends up and down the country now that swing and it's great x |
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We've noticed this too. We made reference to looking for something specifically like this but judging by the messages received since we changed the profile, it looks likely they're not reading that bit  |
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"I know this is a sex site but jesus christ how hard is it to actually have a conversation with anyone!!
We're looking for friendship within the scene and if there's any play then it's an added bonus.
Is there anybody out there that can hold a decent conversation?? Lol
Bruce xx"
I would like to think that I can hold a decent conversation. It's good to find others who can do the same. I enjoy the company of people who are intelligent and have a good snse of humour. I have had the pleasure of meeting quite a lot, sadly I have met some others who I can't say the same of. Hey ho, there you go, part of the risk of the scene. |
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"We've noticed this too. We made reference to looking for something specifically like this but judging by the messages received since we changed the profile, it looks likely they're not reading that bit "
I have techie friend, always a useful person to know. One of his favourite responses is RTFM, (Read The Fucking Manual). We have played together in the past and I discussed the problem you describe. He suggested the letters RTFP, Read The Fucking Profile, I find it has worked for me. |
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"We came to the conclusion long ago that very few people genuinely want to chat, hence we use the forum.
It's much easier face to face which is why organised socials are successful."
some of us are not so confident in face to face encounters or chat i am nearly 60 but find such things awkward and difficult especially to the opposite sex i am looking for friends though (hi from st.leonards btw) |
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"We came to the conclusion long ago that very few people genuinely want to chat, hence we use the forum.
It's much easier face to face which is why organised socials are successful.
some of us are not so confident in face to face encounters or chat i am nearly 60 but find such things awkward and difficult especially to the opposite sex i am looking for friends though (hi from st.leonards btw)"
I understand that it can be awkward. In general though the people who contact us asking if we fancy a chat actually mean do we fancy meeting them next week after asking how we are twice  . |
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I'd suggest maybe organise some non-sex fun day outs with others and see who you click with naturally. Friendship and stimulating conversation will then just happen. |
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By *hloevtTV/TS
over a year ago
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You have a good point, I get LOADS of "Hi, can we meet" and " will you cum to my house now" type of messages . I will never meet without plenty of chat and a vanilla meet for a coffee.
And i can only assume that you get LOADS more requests than me x x |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"We came to the conclusion long ago that very few people genuinely want to chat, hence we use the forum.
It's much easier face to face which is why organised socials are successful."
Indeed they are, attended one in Plymouth Saturday night and met some lovely new people.  |
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"We've noticed this too. We made reference to looking for something specifically like this but judging by the messages received since we changed the profile, it looks likely they're not reading that bit
I have techie friend, always a useful person to know. One of his favourite responses is RTFM, (Read The Fucking Manual). We have played together in the past and I discussed the problem you describe. He suggested the letters RTFP, Read The Fucking Profile, I find it has worked for me."
Omg! Brilliant I'm so going to use this! Give him a kiss from me! |
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By *lsieWoman
over a year ago
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"I know this is a sex site but jesus christ how hard is it to actually have a conversation with anyone!!
We're looking for friendship within the scene and if there's any play then it's an added bonus.
Is there anybody out there that can hold a decent conversation?? Lol
Bruce xx"
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I have made a good friend on Fab with no plans to have a meet but we still have a lot of fun with our banter.
We both enjoy the friendship with no thought of a meet in mind |
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I love to chat. Online or in person can both be great if both people are making the effort.
I'm in Manchester but have seen a few Sheffield people I'd be interested to meet for a social (hello Exquisite Deviance, I'm looking at you!). Maybe we could arrange something? |
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"I know this is a sex site but jesus christ how hard is it to actually have a conversation with anyone!!
We're looking for friendship within the scene and if there's any play then it's an added bonus.
Is there anybody out there that can hold a decent conversation?? Lol
Bruce xx"
Yes. |
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