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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to meet fairly local as repeat funtime is always easier if there isn't a long way to travel but I don't like to meet so close that it is on mt doorstep x |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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York is a very small city but I've only bumped into a shag once, in a pub.
York is difficult, swinging wise, so I go to Leeds to get my funsies. But I have met guys in York, and have met a guy in my village. Happy to, cos it saves on train fare.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As singles I never cared (but I lived in London which I think changes things), where as Boho was more cautious. As a couple we fall somewhere between the 2 scenarios.
Personaly, when I was single I think it was quite easy to not worry about it - I may be wrong but I suspect single fems are probably the most discrete demographic on here. |
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"we prefer a long way away saves chance of comlications, i know we' are all here for same reason but some tend to talk or brag to much we like our privicy "
our thought too, and if things go tits up i dont want it being discussed in the village shop or pub |
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"we prefer a long way away saves chance of comlications, i know we' are all here for same reason but some tend to talk or brag to much we like our privicy
our thought too, and if things go tits up i dont want it being discussed in the village shop or pub"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've bumped into a meet in Sainsbury's and we've both been alone. You wouldn't believe the day before he had his tongue buried in my arse...we didn't even acknowledge each other.
We've also sat beside each other on the train, feeling him tremble as he watched the videos of our play I was Bluetoothing him.
I've a playmate that lives 10 minutes drive from me and we're comfortable with that because we've built up a trust over the years, respect boundaries and are not needy. It wouldn't cross either of our minds to go knocking on the others door uninvited.
Every Friday I used to travel to Wilmslow from London. Too much like hard work, I like the fact my playmates are local for when I need them.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I prefer out of my local area if I'm honest. have bumped into a couple of people while out shopping. Fairly embarrassing.
Then I thought I'd be safe venturing further afield - a different county, only to bump into a family friend ( female) . well thankfully her eyesight is pretty poor, cos I managed to escape before she saw me. That was a close call.. |
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"I prefer out of my local area if I'm honest. have bumped into a couple of people while out shopping. Fairly embarrassing.
Then I thought I'd be safe venturing further afield - a different county, only to bump into a family friend ( female) . well thankfully her eyesight is pretty poor, cos I managed to escape before she saw me. That was a close call.."
we often bump into swinging friends in the supermarket, dont see why it should be embarrassing at all...unless i start fondling the cucumber 
The words close call suggest u either play with ppl u dont trust or consider swinging in some way sordid  Neither say much about your choice to be on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wish. Unfortunately my local area seems to be populated by the narrow minded and plain odd! I am yet to speak to anyone local that seems sane.
Must be the water. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We don't mind meeting people fairly local to where we live and I live in a small village...I'm not particularly well known here but won't meet people from where we work...I know people get their knickers in a twist about the whole "professional" thing but it would have very severe consequences if I ran into someone I'd swung with through work... |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
Newcastle and Gateshead |
doesn't really bother me... but then I think there is a difference between living in a big city which i do)... and living in a little village like jemima does about 15 miles down the road....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i tend to use the advanced search option when browsing
'north west' is too broad an area for me so i search by the 3 postcodes that are closest to me
i am in 1 postcode, yet travel a mile or two from my front door and you are in different postcode areas |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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local ,however it can be a bit riski,was letting this good looking guy use me ,i new he was married and we had had some realy wild sex one day in asda ,i looked up and there he was walking hand and hand with his wife all kisses and cuddles ,bloody hel i thought as he looked at me ,his wife was a stunner why he was fucking me i will never no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"local ,however it can be a bit riski,was letting this good looking guy use me ,i new he was married and we had had some realy wild sex one day in asda ,i looked up and there he was walking hand and hand with his wife all kisses and cuddles ,bloody hel i thought as he looked at me ,his wife was a stunner why he was fucking me i will never no"
i've thought that many a time too
the only thing i can think is cos if you eat fillet steak every day, a mcdonalds burger tastes fkin awesome now and again |
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We live in a rural location, so there are very few local swingers.
Having had one or two contact us when we first appeared on the scene, and having had one or two worrying messages, we decided very early on to look further afeild for our fun.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"do you look for people that live real close like in the same town or rather keep a bit of distance !!!"
We meet away from home, as we live in a small and Bigoted town, also we work with the public....
We also had a nasty experience when a local chap we had met at home just "popped" in for a cuppa one tea time....could not believe it!
Soooo we only meet away from home and block guys who contact us from our town!
Sad..but just the way we work now  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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got to be carfull ,i met a guy thought he was gen local ,then like others he just poped round ,my wife and daughter were in ,he was told my bi sex life was privatre form wife at the time of meet ,i am sure he thought it was some kind of drop in for sex centre, he left after i told him my wife was in ,but for days after he sat outside my house, the moment my wife left he would knock at the door,sorry guys but i had to get realy hevy with him, so far he has not came back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"doesn't really bother me... but then I think there is a difference between living in a big city which i do)... and living in a little village like jemima does about 15 miles down the road....
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would you find many swingers in a small village 1 cpl would prob be rare |
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By *ruitWoman
over a year ago
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I met a guy that turned out to be in the same town. I checked to make sure there was no connection with kids and work etc. His kids have now moved to the same school and it makes me feel very uncomfy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"doesn't really bother me... but then I think there is a difference between living in a big city which i do)... and living in a little village like jemima does about 15 miles down the road....
would you find many swingers in a small village 1 cpl would prob be rare"
Surprisingly loads in my village and it's tiny! lol...one guy just walked round the corner to meet us... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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(Note: Rob has never been to a club or party and reserves the right to change his opinion if he meets his granny at a gangbang).
I've never seen the logic behind the "own doorstep/bigoted local area" argument for looking further afield. Surely anyone who you recognise at a club or party is in just the same boat? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Feel a bit wary about meeting local, don't really want to turn up to a works meeting etc to find that the host of the meeting is the same man whos had his cock in your every orifice, lol |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Feel a bit wary about meeting local, don't really want to turn up to a works meeting etc to find that the host of the meeting is the same man whos had his cock in your every orifice, lol "
I would find that hilarious! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"got to be carfull ,i met a guy thought he was gen local ,then like others he just poped round ,my wife and daughter were in ,he was told my bi sex life was privatre form wife at the time of meet ,i am sure he thought it was some kind of drop in for sex centre, he left after i told him my wife was in ,but for days after he sat outside my house, the moment my wife left he would knock at the door,sorry guys but i had to get realy hevy with him, so far he has not came back"
OMG creepy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Feel a bit wary about meeting local, don't really want to turn up to a works meeting etc to find that the host of the meeting is the same man whos had his cock in your every orifice, lol
I would find that hilarious! "
Oh nooo, I think I would have to feign sickness and leave, lol |
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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago
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"Feel a bit wary about meeting local, don't really want to turn up to a works meeting etc to find that the host of the meeting is the same man whos had his cock in your every orifice, lol
I would find that hilarious!
Oh nooo, I think I would have to feign sickness and leave, lol "
I'd spend the entire meeting winking at him. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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prefer not more that 30 minutes drive but 2 minutes walk would be absolutely ideal. Dont mind being recognised and would hate to think Id missed out because someone recognised me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"got to be carfull ,i met a guy thought he was gen local ,then like others he just poped round ,my wife and daughter were in ,he was told my bi sex life was privatre form wife at the time of meet ,i am sure he thought it was some kind of drop in for sex centre, he left after i told him my wife was in ,but for days after he sat outside my house, the moment my wife left he would knock at the door,sorry guys but i had to get realy hevy with him, so far he has not came back"
Unfortunately this could happen no matter where the stalker was from |
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"doesn't really bother me... but then I think there is a difference between living in a big city which i do)... and living in a little village like jemima does about 15 miles down the road....
would you find many swingers in a small village 1 cpl would prob be rare"
there are about 900 ppl in our village and to our knowledge, 2 other swinging couples, one of whom know we know, cos we recognised their back garden in pics The other who like us feel it is too close if things go wrong. We have never played with either and wouldnt. Living in a small village we know where ppl work ect, things could go badly wrong.
There is also a single bloke ,who we have played with, he is a friend of my dad's and knows if he was indiscrete, the first thing that would happen is my dad would kill him!
It is a bit odd at first sucking the cock of someone who knew you when you were 12, but he has a very nice cock
i think you have to live in a village to really understand how insular and inward looking they are. |
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