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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Complimented a lady on her pictures which were all very tasteful and her well written profile and was immediately blocked. Maybe I should be nasty and obnoxious |
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"Complimented a lady on her pictures which were all very tasteful and her well written profile and was immediately blocked. Maybe I should be nasty and obnoxious "
Did you read her profile and match her met criteria or did you just send a random message? |
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"Complimented a lady on her pictures which were all very tasteful and her well written profile and was immediately blocked. Maybe I should be nasty and obnoxious "
O dear, don't change who you are....their problem obviously not yours  |
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"Complimented a lady on her pictures which were all very tasteful and her well written profile and was immediately blocked. Maybe I should be nasty and obnoxious "
If the compliment was not genuine maybe she saw thro it. Your last line tells me all I need to know. Good luck. |
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"Complimented a lady on her pictures which were all very tasteful and her well written profile and was immediately blocked. Maybe I should be nasty and obnoxious "
She just doesn't want to fuck you and has blocked you to avoid any further messages regardless of how polite you are. It's anyone's prerogative to block anyone else for any reason. I doubt a change in tone of message would have resulted any differently.
Dust yourself off and move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's just the way some people run their profiles. They don't want to waste their time entering into dialogue with someone they're uninterested in...
why people get all flouncy about being blocked really escapes me... |
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"It's just the way some people run their profiles. They don't want to waste their time entering into dialogue with someone they're uninterested in...
why people get all flouncy about being blocked really escapes me..."
I'm going to make flouncy my word of the day! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's just the way some people run their profiles. They don't want to waste their time entering into dialogue with someone they're uninterested in...
why people get all flouncy about being blocked really escapes me..."
“Flouncy” - love it |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
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"Why do you think being rude would get a better result? That’s just a bit childish and reactionary tbh- like a child being naughty, just to get attention, as anything is better than nothing.
She may have simply decided that she didn’t want to open a dialogue as you’re not her type, and be concerned that you may have wanted to continue it if she did. Maybe your tone may have been polite to you, but if she had said a “polite” thank you, would you have left it at that or tried to chat more.
Accept she doesn’t want to chat, forget about it and move on x"
Just because you compliment someone on here doesn't mean they should reply back. However, had you been her type and complimented her, I'm sure she would had responded with a flirty reply.
Stand up, move on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been blocked in the past after I said "no, thank you". Discussed it with few people and been advised that lot of men do it purely so they don't bother you again in the future. Which is fair enough. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Amended:
Why do you think being rude would get a better result? That last line just seems a bit childish and reactionary tbh- like a child being naughty, just to get attention, as anything is better than nothing.
She may have simply decided that she didn’t want to open a dialogue as you’re not her type, and be concerned that you may have wanted to continue it if she did. Maybe your tone may have been polite to you, but if she had said a “polite” thank you, would you have left it at that or tried to chat more.
Accept she doesn’t want to chat, forget about it and move on x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's just the way some people run their profiles. They don't want to waste their time entering into dialogue with someone they're uninterested in...
why people get all flouncy about being blocked really escapes me...
I'm going to make flouncy my word of the day!"
Do it, and report back all the times you used it... |
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"Complimented a lady on her pictures which were all very tasteful and her well written profile and was immediately blocked. Maybe I should be nasty and obnoxious "
Erm you realise it was because she found you unattractive not because of your words
Get over it move on blocking you was the best thing she could have done decisively lets you know she has zero interest in you regardless how much you like her pics |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Complimented a lady on her pictures which were all very tasteful and her well written profile and was immediately blocked. Maybe I should be nasty and obnoxious "
it happens both ways nice or nasty they block you make you think are the real when they do that loll
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Complimented a lady on her pictures which were all very tasteful and her well written profile and was immediately blocked. Maybe I should be nasty and obnoxious "
People can block for whatever reason they like. I’ll sometimes block people I’m not interested in so they can’t contact me again. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Complimented a lady on her pictures which were all very tasteful and her well written profile and was immediately blocked. Maybe I should be nasty and obnoxious it happens both ways nice or nasty they block you make you think are the real when they do that loll"
If you mean a block to a first message, of course they're very likely to be real, probably more so. The last thing a fake profile would do is block really as unlike profiles that exist to find the people they're interested in, a fake profile exists largely to wind people up?
If someone sends them a message they're not going to block are they? They're going to giggle, think "Ooh, I've got a bite! Time to lather on the bullshit..." and after rubbing their sweaty palms together in glee start typing utter hogwash in reply. A block to a first contact means they're more likely to be genuine, not that that's any use to you of course. |
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By *iavoloCouple
over a year ago
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"Complimented a lady on her pictures which were all very tasteful and her well written profile and was immediately blocked. Maybe I should be nasty and obnoxious
People can block for whatever reason they like. I’ll sometimes block people I’m not interested in so they can’t contact me again. "
Yep saves getting pestered. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Complimented a lady on her pictures which were all very tasteful and her well written profile and was immediately blocked. Maybe I should be nasty and obnoxious "
It’s her way of saying your not for me |
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