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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Where is the line? It's very confusing. |
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"fat" a very disrespectful term.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Upto size 18 ,hope that's curvy ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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In the eye of the beholder and the person whose body it is, but calling someone fat rarely goes down well. |
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I'd say the line is when the curves turns to flaps ![](/icons/s/redface.gif) |
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Bingo wings, a belly ‘apron’ you can lift, dimply bum, double chin(s), wobbly thighs... that’s me and I’m fat. I’d say more toned but with at least a handful of boobs and bum, rounded hips with a nipped in waist would be curvy... I live in hope!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely a difficult one, I think you can be curvy and overweight, but not classed as "fat" its different for each person I think |
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Who cares? Do you find someone attractive, do they find you attractive? Then you're sorted. |
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""fat" a very disrespectful term.."
Yesssss ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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"Does it really matter?
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No, but then nor do most of the other questions on here. They’re just conversation starters.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When you can’t shave your bits coz your belly’s in the way ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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Step away from the shovel I say to myself !!! Curvy is great Xx |
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By *lceeWoman
over a year ago
Leeds |
Ooohhhh...I struggle with this.
When I started on here over three years ago I was a size 22-24. I had no problem with being called fat. I was. Still am. It’s just a word for someone carrying excess weight. Which I do.
I was open with it on my profile - giving my height and dress size - and marked myself as ample.
Over the last three and a half years, though, I’ve been losing weight steadily. I didn’t do it to lose weight, I just had one of those penny-dropping moments when I sprinted for a train and was still in recovery half an hour later. I realised I missed what I’d been like three years before that when I was fit and active and healthy.
However, while I’ve notched down the dress sizes on my profile as I’ve gone down, I don’t know at what point I’ll move the ample to curvy.
Curvy to me is a body type. It means you have a frame with a small waist, with larger upper body and hips as opposed to the more streamlined skeleton. I do have that body type, but it’s still under a decent layer of padding.
I’ll likely change it when my body fat percentage/BMI has dropped to more normal parameters.
But everyone is different - it means different things to different people.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’d say curvy is a shape.
To me fat conjures up more wobbly bits than toned ones. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fat is what I cut off my steak, curvy is what makes me ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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"Where is the line? It's very confusing. "
Has someone called you fat? ![](/icons/s/2/eh.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's how a user defines themselves. Curvy isnt a size. It's a definition. In fact, most on fab aren't even curvy. There's a ratio and most dont have it, despite labelling themselves as this. Thin and large are both guilty of doing this. |
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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago
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I'm curvy and fat at a size 14 with 32 hh boobs.
My waist is smaller and my hips bigger..hence having curves!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are a thousand answer to one question. Everyone will have a different view and opinion.
In the long run who cares. |
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By *sm81Couple
over a year ago
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"Upto size 18 ,hope that's curvy "
Agree ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Instead if rehashing a thread over and over again why not search in the 100s on here already |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tight lips or flappy Turkey neck? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pleasingly plump is what I like lol. No but curvy is nice or thick |
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If you like the look of someone, message. If you don't, don't. And be respectful. That's all that really matters. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Pleasingly plump is what I like lol. No but curvy is nice or thick "
Haha I label myself as a chunky monkey when I talk to someone ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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"Pleasingly plump is what I like lol. No but curvy is nice or thick
Haha I label myself as a chunky monkey when I talk to someone "
You are very attractive x |
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Who gives a fuck if you can walk the talk and stick a few moves on its far more eye catching |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love curvy women,,, but confidence is key for me.... a women who owns her body is perfect! |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"Where is the line? It's very confusing.
Has someone called you fat?
Mr here
It was my question
Why some fat women don't want be honest and tell the truth. I don't say that I have six pack or am bodybuilder "
Because it has become more socially accepted in western culture. The definition of curvy has changed. |
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"Where is the line? It's very confusing.
Has someone called you fat?
Mr here
It was my question
Why some fat women don't want be honest and tell the truth. I don't say that I have six pack or am bodybuilder "
Because it's subjective, because women (people, but often women) have a lot of baggage around it, and because it can make you a target for abuse. |
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By *sRedbbwWoman
over a year ago
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"Upto size 18 ,hope that's curvy
Agree "
Dammit still borderline curvy/fat ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where is the line? It's very confusing.
Has someone called you fat?
Mr here
It was my question
Why some fat women don't want be honest and tell the truth. I don't say that I have six pack or am bodybuilder "
Ahhhhh.... ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Where is the line? It's very confusing.
Has someone called you fat?
Mr here
It was my question
Why some fat women don't want be honest and tell the truth. I don't say that I have six pack or am bodybuilder
Because it's subjective, because women (people, but often women) have a lot of baggage around it, and because it can make you a target for abuse. " Sometimes it isn't subjective it's as clear as night & day unless they are Stevie Wonder. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say I am fat because j carry excess weight.. but I fit the curvy body type due to my shape. If that makes sense? |
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"Where is the line? It's very confusing.
Has someone called you fat?
Mr here
It was my question
Why some fat women don't want be honest and tell the truth. I don't say that I have six pack or am bodybuilder
Because it's subjective, because women (people, but often women) have a lot of baggage around it, and because it can make you a target for abuse. Sometimes it isn't subjective it's as clear as night & day unless they are Stevie Wonder."
Maybe. I call myself curvy partly because (although I have weight to lose) it's subjective for me, at slightly above average height, UK average dress size, and a body that errs towards (lopsided) hourglass anyway. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"Where is the line? It's very confusing.
Has someone called you fat?
Mr here
It was my question
Why some fat women don't want be honest and tell the truth. I don't say that I have six pack or am bodybuilder
Because it's subjective, because women (people, but often women) have a lot of baggage around it, and because it can make you a target for abuse. Sometimes it isn't subjective it's as clear as night & day unless they are Stevie Wonder.
Maybe. I call myself curvy partly because (although I have weight to lose) it's subjective for me, at slightly above average height, UK average dress size, and a body that errs towards (lopsided) hourglass anyway. " I wasn't referring to you specifically by the way either. Some are taking liberties with the use of the word though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That sounds like perfection,,, |
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My theory is that people start these threads to have a dig at a certain section of the Fab membership, and hide behind a thread in order to make it look like they are opening a discussion when in fact they have opened the thread to be nasty.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Seriously some people are too hung up on this shit. Like the pictures? Message. Don't like the pictures? Don't message. No pictures to see? Ask for some and decide whether you want to continue messaging based on their reply/pics. It's not rocket science. Let people label themselves however they want. Their body, their self esteem, their profile, their right. ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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"Where is the line? It's very confusing.
Has someone called you fat?
Mr here
It was my question
Why some fat women don't want be honest and tell the truth. I don't say that I have six pack or am bodybuilder
Because it's subjective, because women (people, but often women) have a lot of baggage around it, and because it can make you a target for abuse. Sometimes it isn't subjective it's as clear as night & day unless they are Stevie Wonder.
Maybe. I call myself curvy partly because (although I have weight to lose) it's subjective for me, at slightly above average height, UK average dress size, and a body that errs towards (lopsided) hourglass anyway. I wasn't referring to you specifically by the way either. Some are taking liberties with the use of the word though."
No, I realise that. But it can be fraught, and I'm happy to use myself to demonstrate that. |
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Curvy is a shape. Fat is the percentage of well, fat. |
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"My theory is that people start these threads to have a dig at a certain section of the Fab membership, and hide behind a thread in order to make it look like they are opening a discussion when in fact they have opened the thread to be nasty...."
I think that can be the case. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"Where is the line? It's very confusing.
Has someone called you fat?
Mr here
It was my question
Why some fat women don't want be honest and tell the truth. I don't say that I have six pack or am bodybuilder
Because it's subjective, because women (people, but often women) have a lot of baggage around it, and because it can make you a target for abuse. Sometimes it isn't subjective it's as clear as night & day unless they are Stevie Wonder.
Maybe. I call myself curvy partly because (although I have weight to lose) it's subjective for me, at slightly above average height, UK average dress size, and a body that errs towards (lopsided) hourglass anyway. I wasn't referring to you specifically by the way either. Some are taking liberties with the use of the word though.
No, I realise that. But it can be fraught, and I'm happy to use myself to demonstrate that. " Yeah true but you can't just put it all under the umbrella of being subjective is all I'm saying. |
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"Where is the line? It's very confusing. "
Is it really though? The line is ic6 you wanna fuck them. Look at their picture and if your cock gets hard or your fanny gets wet then jobs a goodun ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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Of I walk up to a wall my boobs touch before my tummy does. Just. According to a previous thread, I get to be curvy. If my tummy hit first then I'd be ample. Either way, I'm fabulous so that's what I opted for.
'pleasantly plump' is my new favourite term though and sums me up quite well!
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No. That is top heavy. However, if your bum touches the wall and your back never reaches it, that is definitely curvy. ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"Where is the line? It's very confusing.
Has someone called you fat?
Mr here
It was my question
Why some fat women don't want be honest and tell the truth. I don't say that I have six pack or am bodybuilder
Because it's subjective, because women (people, but often women) have a lot of baggage around it, and because it can make you a target for abuse. Sometimes it isn't subjective it's as clear as night & day unless they are Stevie Wonder.
Maybe. I call myself curvy partly because (although I have weight to lose) it's subjective for me, at slightly above average height, UK average dress size, and a body that errs towards (lopsided) hourglass anyway. I wasn't referring to you specifically by the way either. Some are taking liberties with the use of the word though.
No, I realise that. But it can be fraught, and I'm happy to use myself to demonstrate that. Yeah true but you can't just put it all under the umbrella of being subjective is all I'm saying. "
"it's subjective" doesn't necessarily mean that there aren't clear cut cases. But ultimately I think, as long as there are photos, it doesn't matter much. No one is going to look at me and think I'm a size 8. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where is the line? It's very confusing.
Has someone called you fat?
Mr here
It was my question
Why some fat women don't want be honest and tell the truth. I don't say that I have six pack or am bodybuilder
Because it's subjective, because women (people, but often women) have a lot of baggage around it, and because it can make you a target for abuse. Sometimes it isn't subjective it's as clear as night & day unless they are Stevie Wonder.
Maybe. I call myself curvy partly because (although I have weight to lose) it's subjective for me, at slightly above average height, UK average dress size, and a body that errs towards (lopsided) hourglass anyway. I wasn't referring to you specifically by the way either. Some are taking liberties with the use of the word though.
No, I realise that. But it can be fraught, and I'm happy to use myself to demonstrate that. Yeah true but you can't just put it all under the umbrella of being subjective is all I'm saying. "
Seriously why do care? I see you all over these types of threads. If you don't fancy fat people, don't meet them. You can tell from their pictures, so why are you so hung up on what they call themselves? It's really nothing to do you with you, how people see themselves. Just move on to a profile you do like. |
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"Where is the line? It's very confusing.
Has someone called you fat?
Mr here
It was my question
Why some fat women don't want be honest and tell the truth. I don't say that I have six pack or am bodybuilder
Because it's subjective, because women (people, but often women) have a lot of baggage around it, and because it can make you a target for abuse. Sometimes it isn't subjective it's as clear as night & day unless they are Stevie Wonder.
Maybe. I call myself curvy partly because (although I have weight to lose) it's subjective for me, at slightly above average height, UK average dress size, and a body that errs towards (lopsided) hourglass anyway. I wasn't referring to you specifically by the way either. Some are taking liberties with the use of the word though.
No, I realise that. But it can be fraught, and I'm happy to use myself to demonstrate that. Yeah true but you can't just put it all under the umbrella of being subjective is all I'm saying. "
Might have known you'd pop up.... You love a fat bash.
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"Where is the line? It's very confusing.
Has someone called you fat?
Mr here
It was my question
Why some fat women don't want be honest and tell the truth. I don't say that I have six pack or am bodybuilder "
I suppose you’re next thread will be life’s like a box of chocolates |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"Where is the line? It's very confusing.
Has someone called you fat?
Mr here
It was my question
Why some fat women don't want be honest and tell the truth. I don't say that I have six pack or am bodybuilder
Because it's subjective, because women (people, but often women) have a lot of baggage around it, and because it can make you a target for abuse. Sometimes it isn't subjective it's as clear as night & day unless they are Stevie Wonder.
Maybe. I call myself curvy partly because (although I have weight to lose) it's subjective for me, at slightly above average height, UK average dress size, and a body that errs towards (lopsided) hourglass anyway. I wasn't referring to you specifically by the way either. Some are taking liberties with the use of the word though.
No, I realise that. But it can be fraught, and I'm happy to use myself to demonstrate that. Yeah true but you can't just put it all under the umbrella of being subjective is all I'm saying.
"it's subjective" doesn't necessarily mean that there aren't clear cut cases. But ultimately I think, as long as there are photos, it doesn't matter much. No one is going to look at me and think I'm a size 8."
Yeah, some can be deceptive though. People only represent themselves in the best possible way online. Use old pictures etc.
I guess I'm just more objective than subjective. |
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""fat" a very disrespectful term.."
It's not really if used purely as a descriptive words. Trouble is most people can't leave it at that. They have to be derogatory |
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There's way more heat and hate over this than say, fat guys calling themselves athletic. I think that says a lot. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"Where is the line? It's very confusing.
Has someone called you fat?
Mr here
It was my question
Why some fat women don't want be honest and tell the truth. I don't say that I have six pack or am bodybuilder
Because it's subjective, because women (people, but often women) have a lot of baggage around it, and because it can make you a target for abuse. Sometimes it isn't subjective it's as clear as night & day unless they are Stevie Wonder.
Maybe. I call myself curvy partly because (although I have weight to lose) it's subjective for me, at slightly above average height, UK average dress size, and a body that errs towards (lopsided) hourglass anyway. I wasn't referring to you specifically by the way either. Some are taking liberties with the use of the word though.
No, I realise that. But it can be fraught, and I'm happy to use myself to demonstrate that. Yeah true but you can't just put it all under the umbrella of being subjective is all I'm saying.
Seriously why do care? I see you all over these types of threads. If you don't fancy fat people, don't meet them. You can tell from their pictures, so why are you so hung up on what they call themselves? It's really nothing to do you with you, how people see themselves. Just move on to a profile you do like. " See my latest response above. |
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"Where is the line? It's very confusing.
Has someone called you fat?
Mr here
It was my question
Why some fat women don't want be honest and tell the truth. I don't say that I have six pack or am bodybuilder
Because it's subjective, because women (people, but often women) have a lot of baggage around it, and because it can make you a target for abuse. Sometimes it isn't subjective it's as clear as night & day unless they are Stevie Wonder.
Maybe. I call myself curvy partly because (although I have weight to lose) it's subjective for me, at slightly above average height, UK average dress size, and a body that errs towards (lopsided) hourglass anyway. I wasn't referring to you specifically by the way either. Some are taking liberties with the use of the word though.
No, I realise that. But it can be fraught, and I'm happy to use myself to demonstrate that. Yeah true but you can't just put it all under the umbrella of being subjective is all I'm saying.
"it's subjective" doesn't necessarily mean that there aren't clear cut cases. But ultimately I think, as long as there are photos, it doesn't matter much. No one is going to look at me and think I'm a size 8.
Yeah, some can be deceptive though. People only represent themselves in the best possible way online. Use old pictures etc.
I guess I'm just more objective than subjective."
But, except for outlier cases, it is subjective. I'm significantly overweight. I'm UK average dress size. I work out more days than I don't and have (a little) visible muscle tone because I lift. I carry more weight in my breasts, thighs, and bum than in my stomach. There's no one answer as to whether I'm fat or curvy. My doctor would say fat. The man on the street wouldn't bat an eye. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fat" is an honest description, "curvy", less so. Everyone has curves, there are no straight lines or definable angles on the human body. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where is the line? It's very confusing.
Has someone called you fat?
Mr here
It was my question
Why some fat women don't want be honest and tell the truth. I don't say that I have six pack or am bodybuilder
Because it's subjective, because women (people, but often women) have a lot of baggage around it, and because it can make you a target for abuse. Sometimes it isn't subjective it's as clear as night & day unless they are Stevie Wonder.
Maybe. I call myself curvy partly because (although I have weight to lose) it's subjective for me, at slightly above average height, UK average dress size, and a body that errs towards (lopsided) hourglass anyway. I wasn't referring to you specifically by the way either. Some are taking liberties with the use of the word though.
No, I realise that. But it can be fraught, and I'm happy to use myself to demonstrate that. Yeah true but you can't just put it all under the umbrella of being subjective is all I'm saying.
Seriously why do care? I see you all over these types of threads. If you don't fancy fat people, don't meet them. You can tell from their pictures, so why are you so hung up on what they call themselves? It's really nothing to do you with you, how people see themselves. Just move on to a profile you do like. See my latest response above."
How they state their body type will have no impact on their pictures. So If someone had ample on their profile, but you liked their pictures. You'd not meet them, because you'd feel their pictures were not a true representation of them, because they must be bigger in the flesh? Is that the point you're trying to make? |
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And do due diligence if it worries you. Ask for recent photos, meet for a social etc.
Some of my photos, most notably my profile picture, actually display me as bigger and less defined than I am now. But no one is going to wring their hands about that. |
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I've seen profiles where women were sub size 12, not short, and described themselves as ample or large. The description itself can be meaningless. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"Where is the line? It's very confusing.
Has someone called you fat?
Mr here
It was my question
Why some fat women don't want be honest and tell the truth. I don't say that I have six pack or am bodybuilder
Because it's subjective, because women (people, but often women) have a lot of baggage around it, and because it can make you a target for abuse. Sometimes it isn't subjective it's as clear as night & day unless they are Stevie Wonder.
Maybe. I call myself curvy partly because (although I have weight to lose) it's subjective for me, at slightly above average height, UK average dress size, and a body that errs towards (lopsided) hourglass anyway. I wasn't referring to you specifically by the way either. Some are taking liberties with the use of the word though.
No, I realise that. But it can be fraught, and I'm happy to use myself to demonstrate that. Yeah true but you can't just put it all under the umbrella of being subjective is all I'm saying.
Seriously why do care? I see you all over these types of threads. If you don't fancy fat people, don't meet them. You can tell from their pictures, so why are you so hung up on what they call themselves? It's really nothing to do you with you, how people see themselves. Just move on to a profile you do like. See my latest response above.
How they state their body type will have no impact on their pictures. So If someone had ample on their profile, but you liked their pictures. You'd not meet them, because you'd feel their pictures were not a true representation of them, because they must be bigger in the flesh? Is that the point you're trying to make? " Yeah, personally I don't meet ample. Yeah it would probably be the case. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"And do due diligence if it worries you. Ask for recent photos, meet for a social etc.
Some of my photos, most notably my profile picture, actually display me as bigger and less defined than I am now. But no one is going to wring their hands about that. " Joking aren't ya, some want a pen pal on here and I can't be arsed wasting time if I might not be attracted to them. |
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over a year ago
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"I've seen profiles where women were sub size 12, not short, and described themselves as ample or large. The description itself can be meaningless. "
My mate has a lovely figure. She has her body shape down as ample, because that is how she sees herself. You don't see people jumping on that though. |
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"And do due diligence if it worries you. Ask for recent photos, meet for a social etc.
Some of my photos, most notably my profile picture, actually display me as bigger and less defined than I am now. But no one is going to wring their hands about that. Joking aren't ya, some want a pen pal on here and I can't be arsed wasting time if I might not be attracted to them. "
No, I'm not joking. Do the things that satisfy you that this person is who they claim to be. Same as avoiding timewasters, fakes, etc. |
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"I've seen profiles where women were sub size 12, not short, and described themselves as ample or large. The description itself can be meaningless.
My mate has a lovely figure. She has her body shape down as ample, because that is how she sees herself. You don't see people jumping on that though. "
Exactly. This is all about women choosing less hurtful terms for themselves and daring to have excess weight in public. |
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over a year ago
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"Where is the line? It's very confusing.
Has someone called you fat?
Mr here
It was my question
Why some fat women don't want be honest and tell the truth. I don't say that I have six pack or am bodybuilder
Because it's subjective, because women (people, but often women) have a lot of baggage around it, and because it can make you a target for abuse. Sometimes it isn't subjective it's as clear as night & day unless they are Stevie Wonder.
Maybe. I call myself curvy partly because (although I have weight to lose) it's subjective for me, at slightly above average height, UK average dress size, and a body that errs towards (lopsided) hourglass anyway. I wasn't referring to you specifically by the way either. Some are taking liberties with the use of the word though.
No, I realise that. But it can be fraught, and I'm happy to use myself to demonstrate that. Yeah true but you can't just put it all under the umbrella of being subjective is all I'm saying.
Seriously why do care? I see you all over these types of threads. If you don't fancy fat people, don't meet them. You can tell from their pictures, so why are you so hung up on what they call themselves? It's really nothing to do you with you, how people see themselves. Just move on to a profile you do like. See my latest response above.
How they state their body type will have no impact on their pictures. So If someone had ample on their profile, but you liked their pictures. You'd not meet them, because you'd feel their pictures were not a true representation of them, because they must be bigger in the flesh? Is that the point you're trying to make? Yeah, personally I don't meet ample. Yeah it would probably be the case. "
Well maybe stay away from curvy too, given you have such an issue about how some women perceive themselves. After all their pictures could be lies too. |
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over a year ago
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""Fat" is an honest description, "curvy", less so. Everyone has curves, there are no straight lines or definable angles on the human body."
Once again you are wrong. Curvy has no limits either minimum or maximum. Show me where it says you can only have curves up to certain weight or dress size?
I'd say you were fat rather than large but no one questions your body shape. It's always body shaming against women. If you do like fat people then stay away from them and their threads lol |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Where is the line? It's very confusing.
Has someone called you fat?
Mr here
It was my question
Why some fat women don't want be honest and tell the truth. I don't say that I have six pack or am bodybuilder
Because it's subjective, because women (people, but often women) have a lot of baggage around it, and because it can make you a target for abuse. Sometimes it isn't subjective it's as clear as night & day unless they are Stevie Wonder.
Maybe. I call myself curvy partly because (although I have weight to lose) it's subjective for me, at slightly above average height, UK average dress size, and a body that errs towards (lopsided) hourglass anyway. I wasn't referring to you specifically by the way either. Some are taking liberties with the use of the word though.
No, I realise that. But it can be fraught, and I'm happy to use myself to demonstrate that. Yeah true but you can't just put it all under the umbrella of being subjective is all I'm saying.
Seriously why do care? I see you all over these types of threads. If you don't fancy fat people, don't meet them. You can tell from their pictures, so why are you so hung up on what they call themselves? It's really nothing to do you with you, how people see themselves. Just move on to a profile you do like. See my latest response above.
How they state their body type will have no impact on their pictures. So If someone had ample on their profile, but you liked their pictures. You'd not meet them, because you'd feel their pictures were not a true representation of them, because they must be bigger in the flesh? Is that the point you're trying to make? Yeah, personally I don't meet ample. Yeah it would probably be the case.
Well maybe stay away from curvy too, given you have such an issue about how some women perceive themselves. After all their pictures could be lies too. " I don't have such an issue. I'm just giving the devils advocate on how it can be deceptive. |
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over a year ago
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"I've seen profiles where women were sub size 12, not short, and described themselves as ample or large. The description itself can be meaningless.
My mate has a lovely figure. She has her body shape down as ample, because that is how she sees herself. You don't see people jumping on that though.
Exactly. This is all about women choosing less hurtful terms for themselves and daring to have excess weight in public. "
And people come on here and slate them for choosing one that is kinder to them, despite it being none of their damn business how someone sees themselves. Says more about the ones moaning, than the ones who choose to put curvy on their profile, if you ask me. |
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"I've seen profiles where women were sub size 12, not short, and described themselves as ample or large. The description itself can be meaningless.
My mate has a lovely figure. She has her body shape down as ample, because that is how she sees herself. You don't see people jumping on that though.
Exactly. This is all about women choosing less hurtful terms for themselves and daring to have excess weight in public.
And people come on here and slate them for choosing one that is kinder to them, despite it being none of their damn business how someone sees themselves. Says more about the ones moaning, than the ones who choose to put curvy on their profile, if you ask me. "
Quite. And people wonder why women don't do this sort of thing. We get slated from so many damn angles. (including some categories of flattery, negging etc) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does it really matter?
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This ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yawn yawn yawn here we go again
Guess what? I'm far... I mean really fat... Does that offend you OP my fatness? And I'm also curvy... I have bloody fantastic curves... Forget a curby road, I'm the full roller coaster.
For the billionth time to people who are too silly to understand the difference, curvy is not a size, it's a patten, a shape, like swirly but curvy. If a woman is straight up and down whether a size 8 or 28 she's not curvy but if she has a much smaller waist to hips and boobs then Damn right she's curvy. |
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over a year ago
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"I have no opinion on this subject, but felt compelled to comment. "
Sensible.... This time ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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over a year ago
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"I have no opinion on this subject, but felt compelled to comment.
Sensible.... This time "
I’m not falling into this trap again! |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"I have no opinion on this subject, but felt compelled to comment.
Sensible.... This time
I’m not falling into this trap again! " Lost your balls ![](/icons/s/redface.gif) |
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Hell hath no fury like a woman unafraid to voice her opinion. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"Hell hath no fury like a woman unafraid to voice her opinion. " Women, know your limits. ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By *issnwtyWoman
over a year ago
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I’m a 16 I’m fat simple as that |
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over a year ago
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"I have no opinion on this subject, but felt compelled to comment.
Sensible.... This time
I’m not falling into this trap again! Lost your balls "
Hardly, I’m just bored of this topic, it’s like Groundhog Day, people know where I stand on the subject, cause they remind now and again. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"I have no opinion on this subject, but felt compelled to comment.
Sensible.... This time
I’m not falling into this trap again! Lost your balls
Hardly, I’m just bored of this topic, it’s like Groundhog Day, people know where I stand on the subject, cause they remind now and again. " I don't know where you stand. I thought you liked bbw
You used to be friends with that Hannah off here. |
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over a year ago
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"Hell hath no fury like a woman unafraid to voice her opinion. Women, know your limits. "
Likewise ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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"I’m a 16 I’m fat simple as that " ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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"Hell hath no fury like a woman unafraid to voice her opinion. Women, know your limits. "
The sky, the moon, the stars. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hell hath no fury like a woman unafraid to voice her opinion. Women, know your limits.
The sky, the moon, the stars. "
I felt like I'd timewarped back to the 1950's then. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have no opinion on this subject, but felt compelled to comment.
Sensible.... This time
I’m not falling into this trap again! Lost your balls
Hardly, I’m just bored of this topic, it’s like Groundhog Day, people know where I stand on the subject, cause they remind now and again. I don't know where you stand. I thought you liked bbw
You used to be friends with that Hannah off here. "
Oh, she’s gonna love that comment
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"I have no opinion on this subject, but felt compelled to comment.
Sensible.... This time
I’m not falling into this trap again! Lost your balls
Hardly, I’m just bored of this topic, it’s like Groundhog Day, people know where I stand on the subject, cause they remind now and again. I don't know where you stand. I thought you liked bbw
You used to be friends with that Hannah off here.
Oh, she’s gonna love that comment
" It's ok, she loves me anyway. ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hell hath no fury like a woman unafraid to voice her opinion. Women, know your limits. "
Limitless |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"Hell hath no fury like a woman unafraid to voice her opinion. Women, know your limits.
Limitless " You been watching too many films. ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It all comes down to looks on here but in reality looks can be deceiving you should look beyond that point ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hell hath no fury like a woman unafraid to voice her opinion. Women, know your limits.
Limitless You been watching too many films. "
Nope. I'm speaking for myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It all comes down to looks on here but in reality looks can be deceiving you should look beyond that point "
I do, and then it's the personality that puts me off |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"It all comes down to looks on here but in reality looks can be deceiving you should look beyond that point
I do, and then it's the personality that puts me off" I'm actually alright If you met me. ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It all comes down to looks on here but in reality looks can be deceiving you should look beyond that point
I do, and then it's the personality that puts me off"
Some personalities just make them ugly. Good looks will only get someone so far. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It all comes down to looks on here but in reality looks can be deceiving you should look beyond that point
I do, and then it's the personality that puts me off I'm actually alright If you met me. "
You love putting out fires with gasoline.....
Now stop picking on the everybody’s beautiful crowd....
They already have their torches and pitchforks out.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It all comes down to looks on here but in reality looks can be deceiving you should look beyond that point
I do, and then it's the personality that puts me off
Some personalities just make them ugly. Good looks will only get someone so far. " i see well i am too ugly but have a nice personality ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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"Where is the line? It's very confusing. "
Not really as a curvy person is also fat! But why try and label people its a pointless exercise people are individuals after all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It all comes down to looks on here but in reality looks can be deceiving you should look beyond that point "
Looks are important to me. If I'm not attracted to someone then they don't put their willy inside me. It doesn't have to be classically handsome but there has to be a attraction.
My pet hate is when someone says I dont like fat girls but your so beautiful that I want to fuck you... Erm nope all that's gonna happen then is that I will be a shit fuck because I'll be self conscious of my fatness |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Where is the line? It's very confusing.
Not really as a curvy person is also fat! But why try and label people its a pointless exercise people are individuals after all." that's true but some get treaty different to other which is not nice thing. ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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""fat" a very disrespectful term.."
This
I say curvy to up to a 16 then voluptuous over that.
The term fat and even BBW I don’t like. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all have our different flavours, it doesn't matter |
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over a year ago
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Curvy covers all size I think but it don't matter what size you are if you've got that instant attraction to a lady's face. |
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"It all comes down to looks on here but in reality looks can be deceiving you should look beyond that point
Looks are important to me. If I'm not attracted to someone then they don't put their willy inside me. It doesn't have to be classically handsome but there has to be a attraction.
My pet hate is when someone says I dont like fat girls but your so beautiful that I want to fuck you... Erm nope all that's gonna happen then is that I will be a shit fuck because I'll be self conscious of my fatness "
Oh god I hate "I don't do x but I'll make an exception for you." No. No you will not. Piss off. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"It all comes down to looks on here but in reality looks can be deceiving you should look beyond that point
I do, and then it's the personality that puts me off I'm actually alright If you met me.
You love putting out fires with gasoline.....
Now stop picking on the everybody’s beautiful crowd....
They already have their torches and pitchforks out...." Just a big Bowie fan, what can I say. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fat is rude and offensive to both men and women, my thoughts.
Curvy is much more polite and friendly and on this site you should be both.
on a positive note though i Heard the song "Fat bottom Girls" yesterday which is a great tune, always makes me smile and sing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Isn’t it the same ? |
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over a year ago
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I agree being called Fat is just plain rude, but a s a lover of the fuller figure its all about the connection and whole package for me rather than size. |
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"Where is the line? It's very confusing. "
Well for a man if you can't see your cock your fat.
If your belly button sticks out further then your nose you're fat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been honest with yourself, man or woman.
Denial, such a useful tool. Blocks out all of the harsh truths. |
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over a year ago
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Fat ruins all. How people can enjoy that! Crazy world! |
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"Fat ruins all. How people can enjoy that! Crazy world! "
Oh dear, people enjoying other people and making the most of their lives where they are now. What a travesty! Shame on us! |
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over a year ago
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"Fat ruins all. How people can enjoy that! Crazy world!
Oh dear, people enjoying other people and making the most of their lives where they are now. What a travesty! Shame on us! "
Enjoying even when can't do their own shoe laces! Love it! ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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In the eye of the viewer. I don’t care either way. I would rather fat than skinny |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm fat, wobbly and curvy ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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over a year ago
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Quite simply, curvy is wider hips than the waist and shoulders. No waist that doesn't curve in over the hips and then the term is probably fat or overweight, no point pasting over the cracks. It is what it is, but know some women don't like to be called fat when they are not curvy but overweight, honesty is the best policy. ![](/icons/s/mrgreen.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Am fat am trying to cut down. But been ill so not been able to run around as much ![](/icons/s/redface.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm fat, wobbly and curvy "
No your lush |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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And, yes you can be fat and curvy. Curvy is the shape in and out above the hips, but there might be a few rolls of fat too. Isn't curvy all about the hips? |
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over a year ago
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Surely curvy is exactly that, a curvy figure no matter what size? We class the Mrs as curvy as she's got an hour glass figure, but it's still curvy. |
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over a year ago
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"Surely curvy is exactly that, a curvy figure no matter what size? We class the Mrs as curvy as she's got an hour glass figure, but it's still curvy."
The Mrs looks slim to average to me if that is not an insult, lucky Mr.![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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over a year ago
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"Surely curvy is exactly that, a curvy figure no matter what size? We class the Mrs as curvy as she's got an hour glass figure, but it's still curvy.
The Mrs looks slim to average to me if that is not an insult, lucky Mr. "
Thanks, not an insult. People see things in different ways I suppose, but agreed she's a looker and I am lucky lol. |
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"Where is the line? It's very confusing.
Has someone called you fat?
Mr here
It was my question
Why some fat women don't want be honest and tell the truth. I don't say that I have six pack or am bodybuilder "
There is nothing dishonest in how someone sees their own body image. Whether you agree with how they see themselves is an issue for you and no one else. Some guys call themselves well endowed when the photos quite clearly say otherwise but we don’t see threads on here taking a pop at them for the way they choose to describe themselves.
Look at the pictures op and decide if you find their body size/shape attractive, if not then move on to the next profile |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Where is the line? It's very confusing.
Has someone called you fat?
Mr here
It was my question
Why some fat women don't want be honest and tell the truth. I don't say that I have six pack or am bodybuilder
There is nothing dishonest in how someone sees their own body image. Whether you agree with how they see themselves is an issue for you and no one else. Some guys call themselves well endowed when the photos quite clearly say otherwise but we don’t see threads on here taking a pop at them for the way they choose to describe themselves.
Look at the pictures op and decide if you find their body size/shape attractive, if not then move on to the next profile"
Nobody can stop you dreaming that you are going to win a lottery... You are right there... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is no right way, everyone's definition is different either way there will always be nasty people putting larger folk down and larger folk being nasty about slim people it seems adults can't be respectful and just keep their opinions to them selves.
We are all body beautiful in our own way I say |
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over a year ago
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"Fat ruins all. How people can enjoy that! Crazy world! "
There are a lot of things that I'm sure a lot could say about you and your pics too OP but not worth the ban... Heard of the saying don't throw stones in class houses ![](/icons/s/cool.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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*glass |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I refer to myself as curvy as I have a waist, but anyone can call themselves whatever they like |
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over a year ago
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"It's how a user defines themselves. Curvy isnt a size. It's a definition. In fact, most on fab aren't even curvy. There's a ratio and most dont have it, despite labelling themselves as this. Thin and large are both guilty of doing this. "
The phrase "Dad bod" is abused just as much by blokes...
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Body shaming in any form, be it against fat or thin people is a very ugly way to behave and speaks volumes about the type of person someone is.
I’d rather be fat, than ugly on the inside. I can diet. Changing an ugly personality is almost impossible |
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"fat" is only disrespectful because of the way its been used. It can be merely a descriptor. |
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over a year ago
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"Fat ruins all. How people can enjoy that! Crazy world! "
Some people on here are vile. They have nothing better to do than give abuse to others. The reason for this...they're sad individuals who are far from perfect themselves (photos clearly show this) and have nothing better to do with their time!
I'm big/large/plus size/curvy/bbw...but I have a great looking cunt!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fat ruins all. How people can enjoy that! Crazy world!
Some people on here are vile. They have nothing better to do than give abuse to others. The reason for this...they're sad individuals who are far from perfect themselves (photos clearly show this) and have nothing better to do with their time!
I'm big/large/plus size/curvy/bbw...but I have a great looking cunt!!!"
You have a fucking gorgeous cunt... Infact your gorgeous all over I could just eat you up ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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over a year ago
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Well...being curvy there is plenty of me lol x |
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over a year ago
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"Mr here, It was my question
Why some fat women don't want be honest and tell the truth. I don't say that I have six pack or am bodybuilder "
And if "fat women" are honest on their profiles, then that's acceptable for you, gets your stamp of approval then does it OP. Don't think I want it x
HAVE you been honest on your profile and stated "body shaming male half" xx |
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over a year ago
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And I do list myself as Fat, as that's what I am |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Body shaming in any form, be it against fat or thin people is a very ugly way to behave and speaks volumes about the type of person someone is.
I’d rather be fat, than ugly on the inside. I can diet. Changing an ugly personality is almost impossible "
I d rather complaint about my burger in Mac that there is not enough souce, than go for 10km run |
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"Fat ruins all. How people can enjoy that! Crazy world!
Oh dear, people enjoying other people and making the most of their lives where they are now. What a travesty! Shame on us!
Enjoying even when can't do their own shoe laces! Love it! "
Do you know what's obescenogenic? Shaming. Well done, you're part of the problem. |
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I going to close this now as there has been more than enough body shaming.
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As others have said, if you don't like what is in peoples pics then just move on. |
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