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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm sure we've all been there ladies and gents. You meet someone on here, think they're wonderful and then they turn out to be a whole bucket of crazy. So this is a thread for anyone who needs a little bit of cheering up, support a good rant etc  |
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"I'm sure we've all been there ladies and gents. You meet someone on here, think they're wonderful and then they turn out to be a whole bucket of crazy. So this is a thread for anyone who needs a little bit of cheering up, support a good rant etc "
there is lots on here sick men I mean they meet for sex only and then get controlling if you meet anyone eles |
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By (user no longer on site)
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As you know from our chats I dealt with a psychopath for a year. Couldn't see it despite friends warnings. Interesting the amount of girls that said to me after that they wanted to warn me but didn't until we broke up |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm sure we've all been there ladies and gents. You meet someone on here, think they're wonderful and then they turn out to be a whole bucket of crazy. So this is a thread for anyone who needs a little bit of cheering up, support a good rant etc
there is lots on here sick men I mean they meet for sex only and then get controlling if you meet anyone eles"
God yes, that happens a hell of a lot! |
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"I'm sure we've all been there ladies and gents. You meet someone on here, think they're wonderful and then they turn out to be a whole bucket of crazy. So this is a thread for anyone who needs a little bit of cheering up, support a good rant etc "
Needed men and women. Unfortunately you never know until it’s too late as many are good at hiding their crazy side. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As you know from our chats I dealt with a psychopath for a year. Couldn't see it despite friends warnings. Interesting the amount of girls that said to me after that they wanted to warn me but didn't until we broke up "
Yeah sometimes you feel like you need to give them a chance, but then they don't dissapoint and do it all over again to the next person! |
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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago
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"I'm sure we've all been there ladies and gents. You meet someone on here, think they're wonderful and then they turn out to be a whole bucket of crazy. So this is a thread for anyone who needs a little bit of cheering up, support a good rant etc
there is lots on here sick men I mean they meet for sex only and then get controlling if you meet anyone eles"
Wow -lets put all men in a box shall we -or is there another box lying about for sick/ manipulative (insert other gender/ transitory gender state here) too? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sure we've all been there ladies and gents. You meet someone on here, think they're wonderful and then they turn out to be a whole bucket of crazy. So this is a thread for anyone who needs a little bit of cheering up, support a good rant etc
there is lots on here sick men I mean they meet for sex only and then get controlling if you meet anyone eles
Wow -lets put all men in a box shall we -or is there another box lying about for sick/ manipulative (insert other gender/ transitory gender state here) too?"
Got to agree with this there are some pretty mental woman too not just down to men. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm sure we've all been there ladies and gents. You meet someone on here, think they're wonderful and then they turn out to be a whole bucket of crazy. So this is a thread for anyone who needs a little bit of cheering up, support a good rant etc
there is lots on here sick men I mean they meet for sex only and then get controlling if you meet anyone eles
Wow -lets put all men in a box shall we -or is there another box lying about for sick/ manipulative (insert other gender/ transitory gender state here) too?"
I didn't say just men! I addressed my thread to ladies and gents. I meant both men and women |
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Didn't date a psychopath but not long out of a relationship with a total narcissist... it's took some time to be able to admit that.
The gaslighting was one of the worst bits but I'm out now and the only way to go is forward.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Didn't date a psychopath but not long out of a relationship with a total narcissist... it's took some time to be able to admit that.
The gaslighting was one of the worst bits but I'm out now and the only way to go is forward.
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And becoming a much stronger person because of it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sure we've all been there ladies and gents. You meet someone on here, think they're wonderful and then they turn out to be a whole bucket of crazy. So this is a thread for anyone who needs a little bit of cheering up, support a good rant etc "
Had a meet just before Crimbo (he’s not on here anymore, thank fuck)
Lovely social then he turned out all stalkerish asking when I was meeting him and that my husband wasn’t good enough etc etc! Had to block him and report in the end. Some people think once you’ve met them once they own you! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As you know from our chats I dealt with a psychopath for a year. Couldn't see it despite friends warnings. Interesting the amount of girls that said to me after that they wanted to warn me but didn't until we broke up "
The issue with warning someone is that they most often just don't want to hear the opinion if wrapped up in the other person. |
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"Didn't date a psychopath but not long out of a relationship with a total narcissist... it's took some time to be able to admit that.
The gaslighting was one of the worst bits but I'm out now and the only way to go is forward.
And becoming a much stronger person because of it "
I am getting there but it has left it's scars .. but also I've pulled some positives from it.. as because of what I shared I've now been able to expand my sexual likes and wants |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just wish I could spot them the last gf i had put me off dating again I don't need this shit at my age x"
Same!! I was happy single and thought why not lets try! It was a car crash, so glad it was only for such a short time! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sure we've all been there ladies and gents. You meet someone on here, think they're wonderful and then they turn out to be a whole bucket of crazy. So this is a thread for anyone who needs a little bit of cheering up, support a good rant etc
there is lots on here sick men I mean they meet for sex only and then get controlling if you meet anyone eles"
Had this for almost 8 months! But came to an end just after Christmas when I just couldn't take anymore of his controlling shit..thank fuck. The relief is amazing & now getting back to my old 'fab' self xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm sure we've all been there ladies and gents. You meet someone on here, think they're wonderful and then they turn out to be a whole bucket of crazy. So this is a thread for anyone who needs a little bit of cheering up, support a good rant etc
there is lots on here sick men I mean they meet for sex only and then get controlling if you meet anyone eles
Had this for almost 8 months! But came to an end just after Christmas when I just couldn't take anymore of his controlling shit..thank fuck. The relief is amazing & now getting back to my old 'fab' self xx"
Same here, luckily mine showed his true colours after literally a week of us being official! So not entirely sure it counts as dating  but still. I nearly deleted my fab for him! Not now... I'm back to being fun me again! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm sure we've all been there ladies and gents. You meet someone on here, think they're wonderful and then they turn out to be a whole bucket of crazy. So this is a thread for anyone who needs a little bit of cheering up, support a good rant etc
there is lots on here sick men I mean they meet for sex only and then get controlling if you meet anyone eles
Had this for almost 8 months! But came to an end just after Christmas when I just couldn't take anymore of his controlling shit..thank fuck. The relief is amazing & now getting back to my old 'fab' self xx
Same here, luckily mine showed his true colours after literally a week of us being official! So not entirely sure it counts as dating but still. I nearly deleted my fab for him! Not now... I'm back to being fun me again!"
Good on you & good you didn't leave!!
I hid my profile for a bit but then thought fuck it I can't let him win I need to get back out there again.
Best thing I ever did!!
My moto is just do what pleases me now & so far it's working  xxx |
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By *e_jpMan
over a year ago
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"I'm sure we've all been there ladies and gents. You meet someone on here, think they're wonderful and then they turn out to be a whole bucket of crazy. So this is a thread for anyone who needs a little bit of cheering up, support a good rant etc
there is lots on here sick men I mean they meet for sex only and then get controlling if you meet anyone eles
Had this for almost 8 months! But came to an end just after Christmas when I just couldn't take anymore of his controlling shit..thank fuck. The relief is amazing & now getting back to my old 'fab' self xx
Same here, luckily mine showed his true colours after literally a week of us being official! So not entirely sure it counts as dating but still. I nearly deleted my fab for him! Not now... I'm back to being fun me again!
Good on you & good you didn't leave!!
I hid my profile for a bit but then thought fuck it I can't let him win I need to get back out there again.
Best thing I ever did!!
My moto is just do what pleases me now & so far it's working xxx "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I'm sure we've all been there ladies and gents. You meet someone on here, think they're wonderful and then they turn out to be a whole bucket of crazy. So this is a thread for anyone who needs a little bit of cheering up, support a good rant etc
there is lots on here sick men I mean they meet for sex only and then get controlling if you meet anyone eles
Had this for almost 8 months! But came to an end just after Christmas when I just couldn't take anymore of his controlling shit..thank fuck. The relief is amazing & now getting back to my old 'fab' self xx
Same here, luckily mine showed his true colours after literally a week of us being official! So not entirely sure it counts as dating but still. I nearly deleted my fab for him! Not now... I'm back to being fun me again!
Good on you & good you didn't leave!!
I hid my profile for a bit but then thought fuck it I can't let him win I need to get back out there again.
Best thing I ever did!!
My moto is just do what pleases me now & so far it's working xxx "
Absolutely the only way to be!!  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My ex Dom of a nearly 2 years! Not a psychopath but a pathological liar and risk taker & Narcissistic. Still now he tries to worm his way out forever sending messages and trying to call me and get to others to try to get to me!..not interested and ignoring his stupidity.
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I've had kids with a sociopath, it actually suited me at the time to be with him. I noticed so long as they gain access to other people to use then they tend to be alright with a partner.
Fucked him off for good when he punched me in the head when i was pregnant with his 3rd child. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You should never call a psychopath a psychopath. It makes them sad
(bottom lip out, rubbing away pretend tear)
If ever I become victim of a psychopath, I hope it will be Villanelle. What a way to go  |
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By *osco78Man
over a year ago
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God. I could write a book. On my. Exfiance, controlling. Little pyscho... Did everything I shouldn't, gave up. Friends all the things I said I'd. Never do.. Best thing I ever did was.mkve away without telling. Her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Didn't date a psychopath but not long out of a relationship with a total narcissist... it's took some time to be able to admit that.
The gaslighting was one of the worst bits but I'm out now and the only way to go is forward.
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Good for you, I was married to a narcissist for 22 years. Almost destroyed me but I’m stronger now I’ve come out the other side x |
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