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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Interesting question
Depends on context as sometimes a “quickie” is massively satisfying other times you just want to keep going for ever
I’m sure I read somewhere the average length of a fuck was 5-7 minutes ( not sure if that includes the cuddle afterwards)? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't like being finished off either. Once a man cums I don't want him cleaning himself up and coming back to fiddle around with his fingers to get me off. |
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By *amesB66Man
over a year ago
St Peter Port |
"It would be a problem for me if I had travelled an hour, we kissed for a minute and after 10 minutes of penetrative sex he came, then left.
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Absolutely!
10 minutes of mind blowing sex can be incredible, but I'd certainly be keen to stay for more |
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Look it up, most men last no more than 15 minutes apparently so 10 isn't exactly below par is it?
A good long session can get to be very tedious if not done right. Pounding away can become very boring. Skill and ability are preferable to looking at the clock hoping he'll finish soon  |
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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago
London |
"Ladies is it a problem if a guy cums after 10 minutes or so ?? I mean as long as we finish you off or have some before is it a problem"
I like long sessions if the passion and intensity are there and changing up the positions.
But if the sex is boring? Just cum already haha |
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There can be far more to a gourmet sexual interaction than the hydraulic aspects, and - if the people involved are creative, imaginative, sensitive and responsive and preferably also have a sense of humour - you can work with various scripts, probably including at some point(s) but certainly not limited to male ejaculation.
Personally I love to make a woman cum before I get my cock inside her (and indeed penetrative intercourse need not always be part of the script.) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We can go for hours and then I'm still not ready to unload, and the Mrs is ready again next morning. If I gave her 10 minutes at a time I think she'd be permanently grabbing me cock haha. |
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Doesn’t matter to us . Guys we have met say they are worried about it . But we just say don’t worry you cum when you cum. It’s about the whole experience for us . Being pounded at for hours isn’t something I want. Kissing, oral couple of dicks in me for a few mins and some spanking is all I need rom a meet lol |
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Just today I told a woman I was concerned I might cum too soon. As in 15 mins or something, and she said she would take it as a compliment that she had turned me on so much i couldn't control myself |
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Well this thread is topping off my day 
And kudos to the ladies who don't get pissed off, continue playing and know that round 2 will be better, or that there's plenty of other activities to get into, other than just fucking  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Are you talking about penetrative sex or wanks & blowjobs too?
I'd need a repeater if any cock stimulation will mean that he cums in 10mins or less. I like to torture & tease with an oily hand job & I'd be disappointed if it didn't last at least 30 mins.
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"Are you talking about penetrative sex or wanks & blowjobs too?
I'd need a repeater if any cock stimulation will mean that he cums in 10mins or less. I like to torture & tease with an oily hand job & I'd be disappointed if it didn't last at least 30 mins.
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Sounds great but you better be very aware of the signs and good at the edging |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you talking about penetrative sex or wanks & blowjobs too?
I'd need a repeater if any cock stimulation will mean that he cums in 10mins or less. I like to torture & tease with an oily hand job & I'd be disappointed if it didn't last at least 30 mins.
Sounds great but you better be very aware of the signs and good at the edging "
Oh I am, I do it tantra-esque |
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"Are you talking about penetrative sex or wanks & blowjobs too?
I'd need a repeater if any cock stimulation will mean that he cums in 10mins or less. I like to torture & tease with an oily hand job & I'd be disappointed if it didn't last at least 30 mins.
Sounds great but you better be very aware of the signs and good at the edging
Oh I am, I do it tantra-esque"
Ah! Hence the oil. Excellent |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are you talking about penetrative sex or wanks & blowjobs too?
I'd need a repeater if any cock stimulation will mean that he cums in 10mins or less. I like to torture & tease with an oily hand job & I'd be disappointed if it didn't last at least 30 mins.
Sounds great but you better be very aware of the signs and good at the edging
Oh I am, I do it tantra-esque
Ah! Hence the oil. Excellent "
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By *inful xWoman
over a year ago
In a sleepy little village |
If you can repeat it's not an issue. If you can't, I'd feel a bit miffed that I'd paid for a room and gone to all the trouble of getting ready just to have a quickie. I'd rather have a wank if that's the case ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ladies is it a problem if a guy cums after 10 minutes or so ?? I mean as long as we finish you off or have some before is it a problem"
It will matter to some but not to others I would say though if you can repeat it shouldn't be a problem because its all about mutual fun. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
I think it's something that us men perennially fret about but most women aren't overly concerned - think about it another way OP, I'm presuming the 7.5-10 mins is for penetrative sex and not including foreplay?
If that's the case then spend your time on foreplay, touching and teasing and building up to penetration, maybe even have penetrative sex but stop before cumming to do other stuff while you're "calming down", before you know it an hour or more will have passed, and that 10 minutes suddenly doesn't seem so quick when put in that context.
Banging away for ages in one position bores me and I'm sure it would a partner most of the time. |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
"It would be a problem for me if I had travelled an hour, we kissed for a minute and after 10 minutes of penetrative sex he came, then left.
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This happened to me, lol! well, not an hour, but I travelled a good 45 minutes... and I think it was more like 5 mins of sex instead of 10...
He wonders why I don’t want to meet again...  don’t have the heart to tell him lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would be a problem for me if I had travelled an hour, we kissed for a minute and after 10 minutes of penetrative sex he came, then left.
This happened to me, lol! well, not an hour, but I travelled a good 45 minutes... and I think it was more like 5 mins of sex instead of 10...
He wonders why I don’t want to meet again... don’t have the heart to tell him lol"
Hope he reads that message then  |
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"It would be a problem for me if I had travelled an hour, we kissed for a minute and after 10 minutes of penetrative sex he came, then left.
This happened to me, lol! well, not an hour, but I travelled a good 45 minutes... and I think it was more like 5 mins of sex instead of 10...
He wonders why I don’t want to meet again... don’t have the heart to tell him lol"
I’m sure it knocked his confidence and gave him anxiety about sex No one wants to cum quick and be embarrassed but it happens. Some oriole get excited too quick and some just have a more sensitive area. Luckily women don’t have this problem all they have to worry about is their foo drying up but guys have lube to help the women there. |
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No i met a man who came in less than that, mind you i didnt time it, but i really enjoyed meeting him and having sex with him, met him twice but was unable to meet him the third time as i had relatives staying with me. |
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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough |
One of the best things about couples having a meet off this site is the marathon, all night, close the club down sex. We have only had MFMF meets which have all gone on for hours but have heard, admittedly anecdotal evidence, that MFM lasts a much shorter time. If that is true, we wonder why? |
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