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By *incs.cpl1 OP Couple
over a year ago
Holton le Clay near Cleethorpes |
We have had a message up for about a week saying that we are looking for a meet this Fri or sat. We have not had one serious reply. Not even from any 'hard done by single guys, who find it so hard to meet' Is this really a swingers site? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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your a bit far away from us... and i should imagine alot of people who would search the looking for a meet site would go on on the day or closer to the time when they want a meet. (just an educated guess mind) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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you say you have not had any serious replies, so you have had some replies? how do you define a serious one? maybe the people who replied was being serious |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe there is no one locally available on that day that meet their own or your criteria.
We had had a meet up for a week heard nothing yet other times have been inundated with messages.
Yes this is a swinging site and a i find it a very good effective one. I would not take lack of interest for the meet personally as like i said people may not be available. Have you tried messaging people?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have had a message up for about a week saying that we are looking for a meet this Fri or sat. We have not had one serious reply. Not even from any 'hard done by single guys, who find it so hard to meet' Is this really a swingers site?"
welcome to fab swingers good luck
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"We have had a message up for about a week saying that we are looking for a meet this Fri or sat. We have not had one serious reply. Not even from any 'hard done by single guys, who find it so hard to meet' Is this really a swingers site?"
absolutely....
but like others have said.... did you use all the tools available to you? |
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lol i've been looking for a meet (admittedly preferably with someone from my friends list) to go to a club with me tonight and after having notes and a meet request posted for half the week and four hours online today i've finally got a couple of bites! 
saturday night is often family night, single parents have got the kids or haven't and so have planned way ahead, singles are often out with 'nilla friends.
i have more success looking for meets at short notice during weekdays then i do at weekends.
and since its couples night (the reason i want a meet to go with me, if it was friday i'd go alone) couples often fall back on clubs if their meet request doesn't get much response. |
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"We have had a message up for about a week saying that we are looking for a meet this Fri or sat. We have not had one serious reply. Not even from any 'hard done by single guys, who find it so hard to meet' Is this really a swingers site?"
think by your vertys you ansa your own question, you been here over a year so you know how it works so silly question tbh.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when we post up in the meets section, we message all those on our friends list in the first instance, as well as waiting for people to contact us, and browsing those online recently that fit the criteria and are local enough.
so far has done us ok, a little work goes a long way, we find. |
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"when we post up in the meets section, we message all those on our friends list in the first instance, as well as waiting for people to contact us, and browsing those online recently that fit the criteria and are local enough.
so far has done us ok, a little work goes a long way, we find."
most of our meets come from our friends list, we dont expect to just sit back and ppl drop everything to meet us...it has happened lol we once arranged a meet in 3 hours , but you get back what u put in . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not near to you anyway,
But as we were let down tonight and saw your message thought we should have a quick look! Where is it posted? nothing on your profile, nothing on meet tonight, nothing... hell there are lots of bits on this site we don't really use much, but you would think we could find it when we have the name of those posing it |
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