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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"write the initial of your name somewhere on her body, take a pic of it and send it to you everyday xx"
That's one of my favourite tasks.....but instead of name or initial it is a random word  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Housework
Clean shoes
Reorganise cupboards
Gardening
Wash the car
Clean the windows
She is a submissive not an unplayed cleaner! "
 Wel, she kinda gets paid....I guess  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Housework
Clean shoes
Reorganise cupboards
Gardening
Wash the car
Clean the windows
She is a submissive not an unplayed cleaner!
Wel, she kinda gets paid....I guess "
I think people often misunderstand what a true sub is! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am looking for tasks to set my sub looking for inspiration hope someone can help me"
Evade capture, stay silent and torpedo the hell out of anyone else just because you can.
Hope that helps.
Up Periscopes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just a few simple tasks,Ask her to wear a curtain item of lingerie/ clothing of your choice or colour.. then post a pic to you.
Ask her to wear her hair or makeup a curtain way..
Ask her to wear something that signifies you maybe something you have gifted to her?..
Tell her what you would like her to eat/drink throughout the day/Evening..
This is what my ex Dom and I use to do.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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* Mow the lawn
* clean the garage
* service the car
* change the light bulbs
* put some shelves up
Get some alone time to yourself and go out for a coffee and shopping spree  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a few simple tasks,Ask her to wear a curtain item of lingerie/ clothing of your choice or colour.. then post a pic to you.
Ask her to wear her hair or makeup a curtain way..
Ask her to wear something that signifies you maybe something you have gifted to her?..
Tell her what you would like her to eat/drink throughout the day/Evening..
This is what my ex Dom and I use to do.
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I bought my last sub a necklace and she wore it instead of her husband's anniversary pressie |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a few simple tasks,Ask her to wear a curtain item of lingerie/ clothing of your choice or colour.. then post a pic to you.
Ask her to wear her hair or makeup a curtain way..
Ask her to wear something that signifies you maybe something you have gifted to her?..
Tell her what you would like her to eat/drink throughout the day/Evening..
This is what my ex Dom and I use to do.
I bought my last sub a necklace and she wore it instead of her husband's anniversary pressie"
A good Dom would have respected that she's married and insisted she wore her husband's present instead.
No disrespect, I just think that the Dominant should always put Thier subs family ( if married or with someone) first,just as should the sub to her Dominant. X
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a few simple tasks,Ask her to wear a curtain item of lingerie/ clothing of your choice or colour.. then post a pic to you.
Ask her to wear her hair or makeup a curtain way..
Ask her to wear something that signifies you maybe something you have gifted to her?..
Tell her what you would like her to eat/drink throughout the day/Evening..
This is what my ex Dom and I use to do.
I bought my last sub a necklace and she wore it instead of her husband's anniversary pressie
A good Dom would have respected that she's married and insisted she wore her husband's present instead.
No disrespect, I just think that the Dominant should always put Thier subs family ( if married or with someone) first,just as should the sub to her Dominant. X
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It was her decision I said the same to her but she made the choice |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"Housework
Clean shoes
Reorganise cupboards
Gardening
Wash the car
Clean the windows
She is a submissive not an unplayed cleaner!
Wel, she kinda gets paid....I guess
I think people often misunderstand what a true sub is!"
Different strokes for different folks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Housework
Clean shoes
Reorganise cupboards
Gardening
Wash the car
Clean the windows
She is a submissive not an unplayed cleaner!
Wel, she kinda gets paid....I guess
I think people often misunderstand what a true sub is!
Different strokes for different folks "
That doesn't make any sense! |
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"Just a few simple tasks,Ask her to wear a curtain item of lingerie/ clothing of your choice or colour.. then post a pic to you.
Ask her to wear her hair or makeup a curtain way..
Ask her to wear something that signifies you maybe something you have gifted to her?..
Tell her what you would like her to eat/drink throughout the day/Evening..
This is what my ex Dom and I use to do.
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What’s with the curtains? You got a curtain kink? Ha ha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a few simple tasks,Ask her to wear a curtain item of lingerie/ clothing of your choice or colour.. then post a pic to you.
Ask her to wear her hair or makeup a curtain way..
Ask her to wear something that signifies you maybe something you have gifted to her?..
Tell her what you would like her to eat/drink throughout the day/Evening..
This is what my ex Dom and I use to do.
What’s with the curtains? You got a curtain kink? Ha ha. "
I blame my type errors..lol.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just a few simple tasks,Ask her to wear a curtain item of lingerie/ clothing of your choice or colour.. then post a pic to you.
Ask her to wear her hair or makeup a curtain way..
Ask her to wear something that signifies you maybe something you have gifted to her?..
Tell her what you would like her to eat/drink throughout the day/Evening..
This is what my ex Dom and I use to do.
I bought my last sub a necklace and she wore it instead of her husband's anniversary pressie
A good Dom would have respected that she's married and insisted she wore her husband's present instead.
No disrespect, I just think that the Dominant should always put Thier subs family ( if married or with someone) first,just as should the sub to her Dominant. X
It was her decision I said the same to her but she made the choice "
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"Housework
Clean shoes
Reorganise cupboards
Gardening
Wash the car
Clean the windows
She is a submissive not an unplayed cleaner!
Wel, she kinda gets paid....I guess
I think people often misunderstand what a true sub is!
Different strokes for different folks
That doesn't make any sense!"
Well there isn’t any such thing as a ‘true sub’, is there? One’s submission is entirely personal.
So one submissive may find being treated like an unpaid cleaner the most erotic and deliciously humiliating thing ever, another may be highly offended by the suggestion and yet another will find it just plain silly.
Because of this, rather than seeking random suggestions, perhaps the OP should have a conversation with the submissive in question and find out what their submission means to them, and what they want to experience by sharing it by being set tasks. That should help start the process of inspiration, at least. |
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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago
South Wales |
"Housework
Clean shoes
Reorganise cupboards
Gardening
Wash the car
Clean the windows
She is a submissive not an unplayed cleaner!
Wel, she kinda gets paid....I guess
I think people often misunderstand what a true sub is!
Different strokes for different folks
That doesn't make any sense!
Well there isn’t any such thing as a ‘true sub’, is there? One’s submission is entirely personal.
So one submissive may find being treated like an unpaid cleaner the most erotic and deliciously humiliating thing ever, another may be highly offended by the suggestion and yet another will find it just plain silly.
Because of this, rather than seeking random suggestions, perhaps the OP should have a conversation with the submissive in question and find out what their submission means to them, and what they want to experience by sharing it by being set tasks. That should help start the process of inspiration, at least."
You got my gist, thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well there isn’t any such thing as a ‘true sub’, is there? One’s submission is entirely personal.
So one submissive may find being treated like an unpaid cleaner the most erotic and deliciously humiliating thing ever, another may be highly offended by the suggestion and yet another will find it just plain silly.
Because of this, rather than seeking random suggestions, perhaps the OP should have a conversation with the submissive in question and find out what their submission means to them, and what they want to experience by sharing it by being set tasks. That should help start the process of inspiration, at least."
THIS is exactly what I've been saying! I am more of a purist, in that I try and take things down to their most base level before building it up. The way I view it, and I may be wrong, it is more about trust than anything. Also a freedom for the sub. Freedom from having to choose what they want, sexually anyway. Once that choice is gone they are left with raw emotion and feeling, which should heighten all the sexual play during that time. The trust is the most important thing though. They should trust that the dom will protect them from any sort of harm that they do not want. I feel that being a dom is a huge responsibility because if you have someone that is giving their all to you, and you ask too much of them, then the trust is lost. So there really should be a huge amount of communication before going too far into it, as it is a very intense and deep connection.
That's my two pennies worth anyway.
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By *an_LexaCouple
over a year ago
Sunderland |
Surely only you and your sub can come up with the right tasks for yourselves.
You need to know what is the purpose of the task, what is it trying to achieve, that will help you to deceide what kind of task to set. Only you yourselves know the boundaries and limitations you have set,so really again, no one else can just pop in with necessarily the right idea.
Unless of course this is just a bit of fun to titallate you |
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"Housework
Clean shoes
Reorganise cupboards
Gardening
Wash the car
Clean the windows
She is a submissive not an unplayed cleaner!
Wel, she kinda gets paid....I guess
I think people often misunderstand what a true sub is!
Different strokes for different folks
That doesn't make any sense!
Well there isn’t any such thing as a ‘true sub’, is there? One’s submission is entirely personal.
So one submissive may find being treated like an unpaid cleaner the most erotic and deliciously humiliating thing ever, another may be highly offended by the suggestion and yet another will find it just plain silly.
Because of this, rather than seeking random suggestions, perhaps the OP should have a conversation with the submissive in question and find out what their submission means to them, and what they want to experience by sharing it by being set tasks. That should help start the process of inspiration, at least."
someone who understands kink, well well written reply. |
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