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I see so many gorgeous ladies on here who have a very sexy way about themselves.
And my own personal experience is the more sex you have with someone the better it gets.
What I do not understand is why so many of you gorgeous people do not just find and keep meeting the same person?
I know I would...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have to find them first. Its not as easy as you think.
Not many on here would commit to a long standing thing. For many its about variety.
We are still looking for our male unicorn who would fit the bill. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've had one bloke visit us about 4 or 5 times now and it keeps getting better. Not to mention he's really sound and we can sit and chat for ages. The Mr loves hearing the convo get more sexual hahaha!! It does take time for everyone to properly click I think. We would rather have a couple of 'regular' visitors than a different person every week |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see so many gorgeous ladies on here who have a very sexy way about themselves.
And my own personal experience is the more sex you have with someone the better it gets.
What I do not understand is why so many of you gorgeous people do not just find and keep meeting the same person?
I know I would...
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Because for two singles if you keep having sex with the same person over and over then someone (usually the female) is going to develop feelings. If you are only sleeping with each other and nobody else then that’s basically a relationship which not many guys on here want.
I was meeting a guy end of 2017 and the first time I met him and done stuff he said he never meets anyone off fab more than once but as he was off to the Middle East for 3 weeks the next day he would meet again when he was back. We met when he was back and ended up meeting for the next 2 months at least once or twice a week. He then put a stop to it saying it’s best we don’t meet again! He got back in touch 2 months ago after not hearing off him for 10 months and said could we meet again but for me to leave my emotions at the door!
I don’t think it’s possible for a single woman to not develop feelings for someone she sleeps with multiple times.
I’m having a bit of a  moment here. Maybe I should just fuck loads of guys for one offs. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see so many gorgeous ladies on here who have a very sexy way about themselves.
And my own personal experience is the more sex you have with someone the better it gets.
What I do not understand is why so many of you gorgeous people do not just find and keep meeting the same person?
I know I would...
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Not through lack of trying x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see so many gorgeous ladies on here who have a very sexy way about themselves.
And my own personal experience is the more sex you have with someone the better it gets.
What I do not understand is why so many of you gorgeous people do not just find and keep meeting the same person?
I know I would...
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many people do...we just do it with more than one person... |
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"We've had one bloke visit us about 4 or 5 times now and it keeps getting better. Not to mention he's really sound and we can sit and chat for ages. The Mr loves hearing the convo get more sexual hahaha!! It does take time for everyone to properly click I think. We would rather have a couple of 'regular' visitors than a different person every week"
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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago
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I do meet guys for repeat sessions but enjoy the variety of meeting new men a lot. There have been occasions where the connection got quite deep and was way beyond just sex. We are all adults so feelings have to be managed. |
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By *BCambsCouple
over a year ago
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"We've had one bloke visit us about 4 or 5 times now and it keeps getting better. Not to mention he's really sound and we can sit and chat for ages. The Mr loves hearing the convo get more sexual hahaha!! It does take time for everyone to properly click I think. We would rather have a couple of 'regular' visitors than a different person every week
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This is us. We have our playmates. When you don't get much time to meet its so much easier having a regular guy and the sex gets pretty hot.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are many reasons why not, just as there ate many reasons why people join Fab.
There are the couples who want fun encounters with new people but don't want attachment complications.
There are singles who enjoy being independent, single and not emotionally tied into a relationship.
There are singles who have been heartbroken and let down in love and don't want to risk that pain again.
There's a minority who equate notches on bedposts as a measure of their masculinity / femininity...and a lot of others with lots of other reasons for not meeting a regular FWB.
Then there are also those on here who would prefer a regular FWB.
Personally when I was active in this lifestyle I found that nothing compared to regular and increasingly exciting fun with a woman I clicked with, where there was strong chemistry and similar senses of humour and kinkiness...maybe thats why I was so comfortable on the fringes of swing |
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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago
the right frame of mind -London |
"I see so many gorgeous ladies on here who have a very sexy way about themselves.
And my own personal experience is the more sex you have with someone the better it gets.
What I do not understand is why so many of you gorgeous people do not just find and keep meeting the same person?
I know I would...
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Because that's what monogamy is? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sex with the same person definitely gets better the more you get to know and trust that person and the more confidence you gain and relaxed you feel.
But it can also get dull and boring. With anything you have to put the effort in and keep it alive.
I can understand why someone would want to keep this going, but it would have to be how both parties feel and some people like to move on quickly! Next!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You have to find them first. Its not as easy as you think.
Not many on here would commit to a long standing thing. For many its about variety.
We are still looking for our male unicorn who would fit the bill."
I’m glad you’ve called them that
We have decided it is actually just as hard to find a gorgeous man who fits what we want just as much as a single girl.
Sure there is more choice- but doesn’t mean you can find what you are looking for any easier...
Come find us sexy male unicorns
Mrs P x |
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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago
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Variety is the spice of life. Or so they say.
We have each other for regular sex, and we do meet others more than once for sex, we don't mind 'one-offs', and we don't mind multiple meets either. But we'll keep the regular sex between ourselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see so many gorgeous ladies on here who have a very sexy way about themselves.
And my own personal experience is the more sex you have with someone the better it gets.
What I do not understand is why so many of you gorgeous people do not just find and keep meeting the same person?
I know I would...
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It’s hard to find a regular FWB on here, I’ve tried! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see so many gorgeous ladies on here who have a very sexy way about themselves.
And my own personal experience is the more sex you have with someone the better it gets.
What I do not understand is why so many of you gorgeous people do not just find and keep meeting the same person?
I know I would...
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As others have said, some want more than one regular, others haven’t found anyone that they want to sleep with regularly |
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"I see so many gorgeous ladies on here who have a very sexy way about themselves.
And my own personal experience is the more sex you have with someone the better it gets.
What I do not understand is why so many of you gorgeous people do not just find and keep meeting the same person?
I know I would...
How do you know they are not meeting the same person for sex?
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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I haven't met anyone for nearly two years now!
Not through the lack of looking, may I add, it's more the mens attitude in my area, they just see us as free prostitutes if I am being honest, and I am worth a lot more than that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You have to find them first. Its not as easy as you think.
Not many on here would commit to a long standing thing. For many its about variety.
We are still looking for our male unicorn who would fit the bill."
This. |
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When we were swinging we didn’t want to meet the same people time after time as it became predictable , boring , unexciting , and everything swinging shouldn’t have been .
Having said that , the sex between us has gotten better and better so maybe there is something in the op . |
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"When we were swinging we didn’t want to meet the same people time after time as it became predictable , boring , unexciting , and everything swinging shouldn’t have been .
Having said that , the sex between us has gotten better and better so maybe there is something in the op . "
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"When we were swinging we didn’t want to meet the same people time after time as it became predictable , boring , unexciting , and everything swinging shouldn’t have been .
Having said that , the sex between us has gotten better and better so maybe there is something in the op .
Nice comeback in case one of you read what the other wrote "
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"When we were swinging we didn’t want to meet the same people time after time as it became predictable , boring , unexciting , and everything swinging shouldn’t have been .
Having said that , the sex between us has gotten better and better so maybe there is something in the op .
Nice comeback in case one of you read what the other wrote "
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"I do meet guys for repeat sessions but enjoy the variety of meeting new men a lot. There have been occasions where the connection got quite deep and was way beyond just sex. We are all adults so feelings have to be managed."
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"I see so many gorgeous ladies on here who have a very sexy way about themselves.
And my own personal experience is the more sex you have with someone the better it gets.
What I do not understand is why so many of you gorgeous people do not just find and keep meeting the same person?
I know I would...
Variety of life
Keeps it exciting lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I see so many gorgeous ladies on here who have a very sexy way about themselves.
And my own personal experience is the more sex you have with someone the better it gets.
What I do not understand is why so many of you gorgeous people do not just find and keep meeting the same person?
I know I would...
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It's hard enough to match two people for a regular thing. Try matching 3 or 4 in couples case...
Mrs |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I see so many gorgeous ladies on here who have a very sexy way about themselves.
And my own personal experience is the more sex you have with someone the better it gets.
What I do not understand is why so many of you gorgeous people do not just find and keep meeting the same person?
I know I would...
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Usually real life gets in the way of swinging...
You can have a great time with someone , but trying to get your schedules aligned for a second meet can be hell... |
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Usually real life gets in the way of swinging...
You can have a great time with someone , but trying to get your schedules aligned for a second meet can be hell..."
Actually that's a great point, we have had that problem ourselves.
Sometimes it's difficult for a couple to get quality time for themselves given kids demands, work, family and a whole host of other issues to have a regular sex life, beyond quickies, let alone time to have a good session with another couple.
It's great though when you can get the "lay lines to come together" and make it worth the wait.  |
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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago
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"I see so many gorgeous ladies on here who have a very sexy way about themselves.
And my own personal experience is the more sex you have with someone the better it gets.
What I do not understand is why so many of you gorgeous people do not just find and keep meeting the same person?
I know I would...
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I do. And I want to. But not everyone wants that type of attachment that comes with regularity.
V x |
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