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over a year ago
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Definitely not!
I've met my Mr actually at a swingers party, we both understand we love the swingers world as is apart of each others lives and we get to enjoy it together now  |
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We grew up as kids in the same street as kids. 30 odd years later met and got together. We fell in love straight away and totally get each other and what we both want and enjoy. Started swinging and made our relationship even stronger as there are no lies, cheating or bullshit etc we love the lifestyle and wouldn’t go back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Do you think once you’ve dived in to the world of swinging, you could ever go back to a vanilla relationship? "
No and as a single man that’s a huge huge issue! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This isn't a lifestyle choice for us but a bit of fun. If it stops being fun for either of us then we stop do it and without any resentment from either side. |
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Definitely could not go back to vanilla. I have been on the scene for over 20 years and I sometimes think about stopping but don't think I could. I do have a break due to everyday life but it's our thing now. I am sure one day when everything heads south I will have to lol |
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"Do you think once you’ve dived in to the world of swinging, you could ever go back to a vanilla relationship? "
We have , and from being the most prolific swingers for seven years , we just stopped last May , and don’t miss it at all .  |
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We could, but it takes a lot of effort for a couple to keep it fresh decade after decade, involving other people is an easy and hot way to keep the spark. If we do stop at least we have lots of fun times to talk about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i could .......
ive had meets and played, been to clubs but never played.
if i left this site id never mingle with people into the scene so would be easy.
loadsa blokes in the real world dont swing as such but spend fortunes on happy ending massages and lap dancing clubs
not surewhat the girls do , either double happy with one man or there life or might have a bit on the side. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think Mr P would happily leave it behind and not look back... he tells me I’m all the lady for him and he wouldn’t miss it....
I’m not certain I could... I was on here as a single girl and I’m back again ‘dragging’ Mr P- not!
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"Do you think once you’ve dived in to the world of swinging, you could ever go back to a vanilla relationship? "
Swinging is not important. I am a deviant, a perv, a kinky individual. But being with someone who accepts me for all I am (including the deviant), loves me and loves to revel in my deviance with me is a must. I could never be in a relationship were I could not be myself and share my deviance with the one I love. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Do you think once you’ve dived in to the world of swinging, you could ever go back to a vanilla relationship?
Swinging is not important. I am a deviant, a perv, a kinky individual. But being with someone who accepts me for all I am (including the deviant), loves me and loves to revel in my deviance with me is a must. I could never be in a relationship were I could not be myself and share my deviance with the one I love."
Well said!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did try to find someone on here to play as a couple. No luck which is annoying to say the least. If I met the right person on here it could be fun, that being said I would only partake now and again as I treat. Gets boring if it's all the time. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I asked this question for many reasons, main one is I don’t seem to click with people on vanilla dates, I have a dark sense of humour and very open minded but find “vanilla guys” are to boring, close minded and generally uptight! Maybe I should state on my profile that I’m open to dating, may not go down well but worth a shot I suppose |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I asked this question for many reasons, main one is I don’t seem to click with people on vanilla dates, I have a dark sense of humour and very open minded but find “vanilla guys” are to boring, close minded and generally uptight! Maybe I should state on my profile that I’m open to dating, may not go down well but worth a shot I suppose "
Do it. There's been quite a few posts recently from men looking for a relationship. |
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