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"I’m not sure I like the idea of a Sub letting the Dom take over her profile Writing her status’s Answering her messages Are these people just control freaks ?" Sounds dodgy if someone else is using the profile. Surely it's against site rules. | |||
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"I’m not sure I like the idea of a Sub letting the Dom take over her profile Writing her status’s Answering her messages Are these people just control freaks ? Sounds dodgy if someone else is using the profile. Surely it's against site rules." I don't see why it would be against site rules *if* it's genuine (and not just a guy saying that is the case to get wank fodder using borrowed pics) and *if* it's done with the consent of the page owner - realise there are two big ifs in that though. As for the OP *if* it's genuine and consensual and fits their D/s dynamic then I don't see the issue personally - D/s involves control and that can manifest itself in any number of ways 
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"its not about what you like though is it...its not your profile. your knowledge of a Dom/sub dynamic is non exisent. why dont you read up on it and you may get the answer to your question. "Rude | |||
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"So If I message a female profile It’s ok that I’m not actually talking to that person ?" if it clearly states that then I don't see the issue. I used to have a profile many many moons ago where at times I would not log on and it would all be sorted for me. It always said when it was. If it's not your thing. Pass the profile by | |||
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"So If I message a female profile It’s ok that I’m not actually talking to that person ?" *IF* they have been upfront about it and it genuinely is the case that there is a lady involved who has given permission to her Dom to have that level of control - then I personally don't see an issue with it - you're aware of the dynamic so the choice is yours whether to accept it. That said I would be very wary and have my guard up that it wasn't just some bloke saying that was the case to string you along and play games and would want absolute proof that it's genuine, and that there really is a woman involved. As always, if it smells fishy it often is fishy until proven otherwise | |||
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"A couple in a D/s relationship will have rules and boundaries in place, it will have all been discussed and there will be a high level of trust from both Dom and Sub, so yes its fine to talk to the Dom , but then on the complete flipside women on here will claim to be owned after one meet lol" further more men will also put their stamp on a woman early too , you would usually sense who is real and who isnt x | |||
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"Nothing upfront " So when and how did you find out it was a bloke controlling the profile? If they'd led you to believe it was the woman controlling it, but then several messages down the line let slip that it was actually a bloke, then it's somewhat different from them telling you in the first message. Either way, as I said before, if you have your doubts just move on | |||
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"A couple in a D/s relationship will have rules and boundaries in place, it will have all been discussed and there will be a high level of trust from both Dom and Sub, so yes its fine to talk to the Dom , but then on the complete flipside women on here will claim to be owned after one meet lol further more men will also put their stamp on a woman early too , you would usually sense who is real and who isnt x" Paper collar syndrome | |||
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"Nothing upfront " Then report the messages and profile. It's a fake situation. If no-one reports them they'll just carry on duping other people. | |||
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"Nothing upfront So when and how did you find out it was a bloke controlling the profile? If they'd led you to believe it was the woman controlling it, but then several messages down the line let slip that it was actually a bloke, then it's somewhat different from them telling you in the first message. Either way, as I said before, if you have your doubts just move on "A status saying ‘ this is Dom ‘ Then a load of wants and demands You think I’m making it up ? | |||
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"So If I message a female profile It’s ok that I’m not actually talking to that person ?" No,someone else can't use your profile. Report the profile and Admin will take a look. | |||
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