Great time to enjoy of hobby of running so many benefits obviously the fitness side.
But then the turn on of running in my lycrs bottoms and noticing women looking at your crouch wen u pass them
Also and omg there is some really fit women out there jogging just need to start chatting with them.  |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"Also and omg there is some really fit women out there jogging just need to start chatting with them. "
Or don't.
Do you have any idea what goes through a woman's head when she is planning a run? Before she even leaves the house she has to think about:
* Her clothing, don't want to be accused of "asking for it" if anything happens
* Her route - is it well lit, public enough, is it safe, if she's driven there is the car park safe.
* Does someone know where she is, what time she's expected back
* Can she still hear people approaching when or if she listens to music
God damn when I run I just want to run, I don't want to be bothered with guys trying to chat, let alone chat me up... I barely want to chat to the people I run with when I'm not on my own... |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
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"Lady Jayne agree its all about safety and I respect anyone out there putting the effort in.
This wasn't intended to upset anyone  "
Not upset don't worry. It always amazes me how many men don't even think about how threatened/vunerable/creeped out being approached unsolicited makes a woman feel.
It's bad enough in a bar or a club the 'accepted' (I use the term loosely) place to chat someone up, but that's amplified if your out in the street, especially if you're on your own.
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"Also and omg there is some really fit women out there jogging just need to start chatting with them.
Or don't.
Do you have any idea what goes through a woman's head when she is planning a run? Before she even leaves the house she has to think about:
* Her clothing, don't want to be accused of "asking for it" if anything happens
* Her route - is it well lit, public enough, is it safe, if she's driven there is the car park safe.
* Does someone know where she is, what time she's expected back
* Can she still hear people approaching when or if she listens to music
God damn when I run I just want to run, I don't want to be bothered with guys trying to chat, let alone chat me up... I barely want to chat to the people I run with when I'm not on my own..."
The worst is cars beeping because you’re in fitness gear, even shouting out the van windows. Then you finally reach the gym and you’re getting the odd balls staring and trying to catch your eye.
Sadly main reason I don’t want to go back to The Gym as I have nobody to go along with. |
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By *adyJayneWoman
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"The worst is cars beeping because you’re in fitness gear, even shouting out the van windows. Then you finally reach the gym and you’re getting the odd balls staring and trying to catch your eye.
Sadly main reason I don’t want to go back to The Gym as I have nobody to go along with. "
Yeah 
Thankfully my gym are great if anyone is pestering you. Helps that I have a PT so half the time I'm there with her and she doesn't stand for any shit from the gymbros. |
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"Also and omg there is some really fit women out there jogging just need to start chatting with them.
Or don't.
Do you have any idea what goes through a woman's head when she is planning a run? Before she even leaves the house she has to think about:
* Her clothing, don't want to be accused of "asking for it" if anything happens
* Her route - is it well lit, public enough, is it safe, if she's driven there is the car park safe.
* Does someone know where she is, what time she's expected back
* Can she still hear people approaching when or if she listens to music
God damn when I run I just want to run, I don't want to be bothered with guys trying to chat, let alone chat me up... I barely want to chat to the people I run with when I'm not on my own...
The worst is cars beeping because you’re in fitness gear, even shouting out the van windows. Then you finally reach the gym and you’re getting the odd balls staring and trying to catch your eye.
Sadly main reason I don’t want to go back to The Gym as I have nobody to go along with. "
My ex Wife used to suffer from this badly,cars beeping and guys shouting as she ran past them, when I mentioned it on a running website the majority went that she should 'man up,about the abuse' oh the irony.
Amazing that these guys when the ladies are running with a club, are suddenly quiet. |
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