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No picture before a meet ?.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thoughts please.
Was just asked by a husband to come round and play with his wife in front of him after i sent a couple of face pics to him.
I asked for the same in return but whilst they wanted to meet, they didnt want to share a pic.
Im verified so clearly genuine.
Would be pretty pretty awkward if i turned up and there was no attraction.
Why wouldn't you show before ? |
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"Well he gave me the address...
Pretty sure turning up and seeing her and then walking out due to no attraction would not be great for them  "
Turning up and finding out he's given you the wrong address (happens) or there's no her wouldn't be great for you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well he gave me the address...
Pretty sure turning up and seeing her and then walking out due to no attraction would not be great for them "
your a man , it's exciting it's like blind date , go for it , you have the address , check it out |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Given you're bi OP - and I am guessing the husband of this "couple" is too? My guess is you'll get there and hubby will tell you the "wife" has been delayed but will be home soon and has suggested you both play together till she gets there and she'll join in....
.....if you go along with that....fast forward an hour and he'll have cum, the "wife" will have texted to say she's not going to make it and can you re-arrange for another day.
If it seems too good to be true, it very likely is  |
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"Agree to meet at a coffee shop/bar?
I never ever meet people without seeing plemty of face photos first, though... "
Huh, I only have one face picture I share (it's a few months old, clear, and I've barely changed, though) |
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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago
Burnleyish (She/They) |
I don't share a face pic, I can't have face pictures linked back to me through swinging or BDSM (or even poly for that matter) so I'm very careful who gets a picture of my face.
Only people who get as far as my actual mobile number and I can count those on one hand (I don't give that out either, I have a burner phone/number to give out on the day for meets) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thoughts please.
Was just asked by a husband to come round and play with his wife in front of him after i sent a couple of face pics to him.
I asked for the same in return but whilst they wanted to meet, they didnt want to share a pic.
Im verified so clearly genuine.
Would be pretty pretty awkward if i turned up and there was no attraction.
Why wouldn't you show before ?"
He didn't want to show their pics,simple as that.Just because you sent yours and he invited you round,you are under no obligation to accept.thats your call.
We won't meet single guys without seeing a clear face pic and we don't send ours.says so on our profile.
It's their choice to send or not and their choice to join us if invited. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No pics then no meet. Would also advise a social meeting first to see if there is mutual attraction.
Pics especially if poor quality will only give you an idea of how someone looks.
An actual meeting will tell you exactly what the other party looks like and if you will feel some chemistry too. This is very important to us. |
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We have met one couple for a social a couple of years back who wouldn’t share their face pics.
We took a risk and it felt a bit uneasy waiting for them to turn up as they had seen our faces.
They were lovely people, attractive but we wouldn’t do it again. |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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"Agree to meet at a coffee shop/bar?
I never ever meet people without seeing plemty of face photos first, though...
Huh, I only have one face picture I share (it's a few months old, clear, and I've barely changed, though) "
That’s fine- but I do ask for several. No hats or sunglasses- or photos cropped at the top of the head. I was caught out a few times with that trick!  |
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"Agree to meet at a coffee shop/bar?
I never ever meet people without seeing plemty of face photos first, though...
Huh, I only have one face picture I share (it's a few months old, clear, and I've barely changed, though)
That’s fine- but I do ask for several. No hats or sunglasses- or photos cropped at the top of the head. I was caught out a few times with that trick! "
Fair enough. I'd see what I made of that request if it came to it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Given you're bi OP - and I am guessing the husband of this "couple" is too? My guess is you'll get there and hubby will tell you the "wife" has been delayed but will be home soon and has suggested you both play together till she gets there and she'll join in....
.....if you go along with that....fast forward an hour and he'll have cum, the "wife" will have texted to say she's not going to make it and can you re-arrange for another day.
If it seems too good to be true, it very likely is "
This is exactly what it sounds like to me. I might be wrong - they might be genuine couple, but I've heard this kind of thing from more than one guy here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Once I agreed to meet a guy after some chatting but haven't seen his face photo just torso. What a great surprise it was
But I go more for the brain than look. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always show before meet and preference meet social away from house etc, that way its easier of all if there is no connection - trust me having had two well written about stalkers, you must protect yourself best you can
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Theres normally a very good reason why someone does not want to show a face pic before a meet. But not one of those reasons will lead to a positive result. They may be unattractive, they may be fake, they may be paranoid, whatever the reason is, it's going to be a red flag. |
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By *uxinteriorMan
over a year ago
south west , continental |
No way, don't go to an address blind. Arrange to meet in a public place, coffee shop, pub, if its genuine then great if not you haven't lost anything. Not showing a photo would send alarm bells ringing for me. |
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It sounds dodgy 
