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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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is just thinking about if i should stay on this site or go its not what it used to be like too many clicks and people up there own arse (no pun intended) |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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one im not married im attached its states it in my profile and two im not saying its all the sites fault only where i live people are wanting meets and saying all the right things but not going ahead with it now everyone can change there mind and i have no problem with that but at the end of the day it is a swinging site not lets just be friends site |
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"one im not married im attached its states it in my profile and two im not saying its all the sites fault only where i live people are wanting meets and saying all the right things but not going ahead with it now everyone can change there mind and i have no problem with that but at the end of the day it is a swinging site not lets just be friends site"
attached, means you are with someone. you are decieving them, for many swingers honesty is the first rule.
You say you want ppl to swing, when u are here looking to cheat...double standard or what! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"one im not married im attached its states it in my profile and two im not saying its all the sites fault only where i live people are wanting meets and saying all the right things but not going ahead with it now everyone can change there mind and i have no problem with that but at the end of the day it is a swinging site not lets just be friends site
attached, means you are with someone. you are decieving them, for many swingers honesty is the first rule.
You say you want ppl to swing, when u are here looking to cheat...double standard or what!"
who am i decieving my partner knows and is ok with it and if people dont read my profile right hows that my fault im being honest |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"who am i decieving my partner knows and is ok with it and if people dont read my profile right hows that my fault im being honest "
That's not what your profile says. And playing alone is a world away from cheating. Maybe clarifying that on your profile would help? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This still the best swing site around, however much you think its changed...your still interested in swinging it seems...so, it is the decision of this court, that you should stay. |
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"i understand that but just where im from getting meets was easy now not so good like getting blood from a stone lol"
sorry what difference does that make as to asking strangers if you should stay or go ??? they cant tell you whats right for you to do ! being honest if you had any intention of leaving site you would of already . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally I think if people have to moan in the forums about how they don't think the site is good anymore and can't get meets then no total stranger is going to beg you to stay and give you a sympathy shag,
So you end up answering your own question really.
Yes there is a lot of rude, arrogant and time wasting dreamers on this site, but that's how it is.
Goodbye "if you leave". |
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"is just thinking about if i should stay on this site or go its not what it used to be like too many clicks and people up there own arse (no pun intended)"
Today, a fly drowned in my urine. I am upset by the tragedy and wonder if there was anything I could have done to prevent it - perhaps if I didn't aim with immaculate precision and knock it off the rim? Yet, overwhelmed as I am by melancholy and remorse, I selflessly forsake my own need to focus on the needs of Internet strangers. Now, onwards with my saintly duty: You strike me as being a person with an IQ ranking of 83, who thinks it's a fantastic score. Contrary to the fictitious propaganda dispersed by the non-insane, Just Remember,the majority of posters on this site are really nice people - once you don't get to know them. Still, leave or go, your decision.  |
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"one im not married im attached its states it in my profile and two im not saying its all the sites fault only where i live people are wanting meets and saying all the right things but not going ahead with it now everyone can change there mind and i have no problem with that but at the end of the day it is a swinging site not lets just be friends site
attached, means you are with someone. you are decieving them, for many swingers honesty is the first rule.
You say you want ppl to swing, when u are here looking to cheat...double standard or what!
who am i decieving my partner knows and is ok with it and if people dont read my profile right hows that my fault im being honest "
you don mention any of that on your profile  |
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"is just thinking about if i should stay on this site or go its not what it used to be like too many clicks and people up there own arse (no pun intended)"
Why do you need to ask something like that. You must be a very insecure person who doesn't know their own mind |
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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When the disatisfaction outweighs the enjoyment then that - for me - would be time to leave.
Id say if youre not enjoying the site then theres really no need to stay.
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I am no expert but I can't imagine any women being attracted by a man asking if he should stay or go. As a previous poster pointed out, it will just make you look insecure.
As has been pointed out numerous times when people whinge about this site, you are on a free site!!! It costs you nothing at all, what on earth can you complain about with a deal like that? This isn't just directed at you OP, but the majority of whingers complain as if they have been paying for membership. Can all of you please keep things in perspective? This is free and anything you get from it is a bonus, even if things are quiet for a while. If you don't like it, leave. And you can leave without a complaint as it has cost you nothing at all, unlike other swinging or dating sites. But if you accept that it costs you nothing at all for the chance you MAY meet people, make a bit of an effort and don't expect unrealistic results. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am no expert but I can't imagine any women being attracted by a man asking if he should stay or go. As a previous poster pointed out, it will just make you look insecure.
As has been pointed out numerous times when people whinge about this site, you are on a free site!!! It costs you nothing at all, what on earth can you complain about with a deal like that? This isn't just directed at you OP, but the majority of whingers complain as if they have been paying for membership. Can all of you please keep things in perspective? This is free and anything you get from it is a bonus, even if things are quiet for a while. If you don't like it, leave. And you can leave without a complaint as it has cost you nothing at all, unlike other swinging or dating sites. But if you accept that it costs you nothing at all for the chance you MAY meet people, make a bit of an effort and don't expect unrealistic results. "
What a bloody good way of putting it!
Still think he ought to go mind you. Once they start whining and attention seeking, it just goes on and on! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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all im saying is what is the point of being on a swing site if no one wants to swing as for my gf and all this cheating im not she knows all about it and i dont see why i should put all my private life on my profile |
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Too right! You put on your profile what you want mate.
I was suggesting you come back as a fake couple. You get more action that way if you pretend your partner has a cold or something when you turn up at meets.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"all im saying is what is the point of being on a swing site if no one wants to swing as for my gf and all this cheating im not she knows all about it and i dont see why i should put all my private life on my profile "
The trouble with this scenario, which most chaeters seem to miss, is that it potentially brings hassle in to the life of the person you swing with. And when you are up against 100's of others many of whom are single surely you can see why it is a potential issue? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why ask a load of people who no nothing about your situation or wants in life
Whether yo should stay or go?
There is only YOU can make that decision and just supposing you were after sympathy please stay and ill shag ya mails
Ya would have more luck with the lottery mate xx |
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By *reyyaMan
over a year ago
North Yorkshire |
"they've changed our local palais into a bowling alley,
'fings ain't what they used t'be,
there's teds in drainpipe trousers and debs in coffee houses,
'fings ain't what they used t'be,
they used to fun dad and old mum paddlin' round Sarfend...
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This is getting rather silly dont you think
The things people will put on here just to get attention
Yes it is a swingers site but that doesnt mean everyone wants to shag you
Just be glad when/if anyone shows you any interest at all after starting all this
good luck in your search  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Phew! Thank heaven that you're gonna grace us with your presence for another week to give us all a chance.
For a hairy scarey minute I thought I wasn't going to sleep again tonight worrying about you leaving.
At least I won't need the Nytol for 7 days anyway |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"is just thinking about if i should stay on this site or go its not what it used to be like too many clicks and people up there own arse (no pun intended)Today, a fly drowned in my urine. I am upset by the tragedy and wonder if there was anything I could have done to prevent it - perhaps if I didn't aim with immaculate precision and knock it off the rim? Yet, overwhelmed as I am by melancholy and remorse, I selflessly forsake my own need to focus on the needs of Internet strangers. Now, onwards with my saintly duty: You strike me as being a person with an IQ ranking of 83, who thinks it's a fantastic score. Contrary to the fictitious propaganda dispersed by the non-insane, Just Remember,the majority of posters on this site are really nice people - once you don't get to know them. Still, leave or go, your decision. "
Everything thats wrong about this site in a single post. How very superior you must feel. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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His rants over..he got it off his chest. Its partly what the forums are for, given that they're conversational in nature....i probably have, and many of you have had your weak moments where you wanted to 'vent'...you'll almost certainly do it in future....and we'll all be here to read with interest. |
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By *un_JuiceCouple
over a year ago
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if you have lost the drive to win over or entice your desired market then perhaps you need a break from it or leave and try elsewhere.
From what we can see single guys must be either thoroughly decent and come across as such, be extremely witty and by that stand out head and shoulders, have that something special in terms of what they express and desire in hope it's read by those targeted for or just have a change of fortune and be postive from then onwards.
There are some cracking members on here and of course some not so.
In our opinion there's a huge array of people with a variety of attributes/things to offer.
Use your thread as a positive, learn from the mistakes from your profile/complaints and be yourself, be honest enough in what you're looking for and with whom.
We find guys are much more appealing and are more respectful than single ladies.
For your sake though we sincerely hope you are being truthful with regards to your partner knowing. We wouldn't judge you. Personally we don't meet anyone involved that are not together in playing. Also including fuck buddies. it's what we're comfy with.
Alls not lost. Good luck. |
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By *abioMan
over a year ago
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"His rants over..he got it off his chest. Its partly what the forums are for, given that they're conversational in nature....i probably have, and many of you have had your weak moments where you wanted to 'vent'...you'll almost certainly do it in future....and we'll all be here to read with interest."
but then I don't think if you decide to "vent" that you can then complain if people decide to "vent" back.... its one of those doors that can only be opened by an OP....
you could call it something akin to newton's third law.....
"for every action there is an equal or opposite reaction"
niceness breeds niceness.... negativity breeds negativity..
as it goes back to the OP...I see it as simple as this..... if they are are not having fun and they have to vent like this, why would you want to stay anywhere you didn't want to? |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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"is just thinking about if i should stay on this site or go its not what it used to be like too many clicks and people up there own arse (no pun intended)"
I think you have answered yourself...why stay anywhere were you are not happy ?
If they are all up their own arses I can't see why you would want to stay.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"His rants over..he got it off his chest. Its partly what the forums are for, given that they're conversational in nature....i probably have, and many of you have had your weak moments where you wanted to 'vent'...you'll almost certainly do it in future....and we'll all be here to read with interest.
but then I don't think if you decide to "vent" that you can then complain if people decide to "vent" back.... its one of those doors that can only be opened by an OP....
you could call it something akin to newton's third law.....
"for every action there is an equal or opposite reaction"
niceness breeds niceness.... negativity breeds negativity..
as it goes back to the OP...I see it as simple as this..... if they are are not having fun and they have to vent like this, why would you want to stay anywhere you didn't want to? "
Is that the impression you got? That the OP wanted out?? |
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