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By *went OP Man
over a year ago
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"It’s a fine line
Confidence is a BIG yes
But then Arrogance is a BIG DELETE
Without confidence just hide away."
Just been off the bicycle for a while. It's also very nervous meeting people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish they sold confidence in bottles what little i had is going by the day
Is confidence gained from yourself or others? "
Confidence is a belief in yourself and is not gained or gifted from others. Is it lack of confidence or nerves OP? .. only you can answer that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Fake it till you make it. Some days I have none but build my own confidence. Mines been hit this week by ending things with a regular meet. But I'm determined to come out stronger and more confident |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
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Confidence is a funny bugger - you can't *make* yourself be confident purely by thinking about it as such, but you can drain your confidence completely by thinking about it in a negative way.
The only real way to gain confidence is by doing the very thing you are lacking confidence in, and accepting that sometimes it just might not go the way you want it to, but the more you do it, the more it goes right and the more you gain confidence or come to realise that the things you were doubting yourself for weren't worth worrying about.
I find it helps to try and think of the positives even if they're just tiny seemingly meaningless ones, of any given situation and try and focus on them, rather than the negatives - you'll be amazed how much positive thinking can help.
Now I know all that is easier said than done, but just thinking of the positives is a good way to start to turn your thoughts around. |
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By *went OP Man
over a year ago
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"Confidence is a funny bugger - you can't *make* yourself be confident purely by thinking about it as such, but you can drain your confidence completely by thinking about it in a negative way.
The only real way to gain confidence is by doing the very thing you are lacking confidence in, and accepting that sometimes it just might not go the way you want it to, but the more you do it, the more it goes right and the more you gain confidence or come to realise that the things you were doubting yourself for weren't worth worrying about.
I find it helps to try and think of the positives even if they're just tiny seemingly meaningless ones, of any given situation and try and focus on them, rather than the negatives - you'll be amazed how much positive thinking can help.
Now I know all that is easier said than done, but just thinking of the positives is a good way to start to turn your thoughts around."
PMA! |
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"At the moment, want to meet new people but lacking a bit of confidence to go and meet. "
go to clubs that's were I started you want get sex first time but the more you go the better and in time you get lots that can see your real and not just someone off here |
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