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over a year ago
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Nice guys finish last.
Women want men that make them feel alive. They thrive on the danger, the drama and the belief they can be the one to tame him.
Once he is tamed, they seek out the next one to make them feel alive...
(This is only my opinion) |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Nice guys finish last.
Women want men that make them feel alive. They thrive on the danger, the drama and the belief they can be the one to tame him.
Once he is tamed, they seek out the next one to make them feel alive...
(This is only my opinion)"
It's not true, women who know what they want don't. You can't be a doormat though have to have some backbone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nice guys finish last.
Women want men that make them feel alive. They thrive on the danger, the drama and the belief they can be the one to tame him.
Once he is tamed, they seek out the next one to make them feel alive...
(This is only my opinion)"
Most women will love a guy cumming last  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nice guys finish last.
Women want men that make them feel alive. They thrive on the danger, the drama and the belief they can be the one to tame him.
Once he is tamed, they seek out the next one to make them feel alive...
(This is only my opinion)"
I love a strong man that values their own worth. Not a bad boy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nice guys finish last.
Women want men that make them feel alive. They thrive on the danger, the drama and the belief they can be the one to tame him.
Once he is tamed, they seek out the next one to make them feel alive...
(This is only my opinion)"
Nonsense |
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"Maybe I've been on the internet too long but I'm instantly suspicious when a guy describes himself as a "nice guy" "
God yes.
I want someone who's actually nice, not claiming to be so for points. But with that a cheeky and adventurous side.
Bad boys so often lack basic respect. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I have and always will be a nice guy. Will always be polite, hold a door, pull out a chair etc etc.
One in that bedroom though i am a nice guy but filthy, not so much as pull out a chair, as reach up and pull your hair. Always respectful though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have and always will be a nice guy. Will always be polite, hold a door, pull out a chair etc etc.
One in that bedroom though i am a nice guy but filthy, not so much as pull out a chair, as reach up and pull your hair. Always respectful though "
Why do guys use holding doors and pulling out chairs as examples to show they are nice?
This always puzzles me  |
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"I have and always will be a nice guy. Will always be polite, hold a door, pull out a chair etc etc.
One in that bedroom though i am a nice guy but filthy, not so much as pull out a chair, as reach up and pull your hair. Always respectful though
Why do guys use holding doors and pulling out chairs as examples to show they are nice?
This always puzzles me "
Yeah, that's somewhere between not important and annoying. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"I have and always will be a nice guy. Will always be polite, hold a door, pull out a chair etc etc.
One in that bedroom though i am a nice guy but filthy, not so much as pull out a chair, as reach up and pull your hair. Always respectful though
Why do guys use holding doors and pulling out chairs as examples to show they are nice?
This always puzzles me "
Just a chivalrous thing to do.
Don't do it to a feminist though!  |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"A gentleman on the streets and a bad boy in the sheets  . Please. Thankyou "
See I'm a gentleman in the streets but I'm questioning if I'm a bad boy in the sheets lately because I'm pretty vanilla. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have and always will be a nice guy. Will always be polite, hold a door, pull out a chair etc etc.
One in that bedroom though i am a nice guy but filthy, not so much as pull out a chair, as reach up and pull your hair. Always respectful though
Why do guys use holding doors and pulling out chairs as examples to show they are nice?
This always puzzles me "
Maybe they don’t do it to show they’re nice. Maybe they do it automatically because thats how they were brought up. That shows a gentleman to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A gentleman on the streets and a bad boy in the sheets . Please. Thankyou See I'm a gentleman in the streets but I'm questioning if I'm a bad boy in the sheets lately because I'm pretty vanilla. "
You think you’re vanilla! You go to clubs. I don’t call that vanilla. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"I have and always will be a nice guy. Will always be polite, hold a door, pull out a chair etc etc.
One in that bedroom though i am a nice guy but filthy, not so much as pull out a chair, as reach up and pull your hair. Always respectful though
Why do guys use holding doors and pulling out chairs as examples to show they are nice?
This always puzzles me
Maybe they don’t do it to show they’re nice. Maybe they do it automatically because thats how they were brought up. That shows a gentleman to me. "
My old man is a true gent, taught me a few things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have and always will be a nice guy. Will always be polite, hold a door, pull out a chair etc etc.
One in that bedroom though i am a nice guy but filthy, not so much as pull out a chair, as reach up and pull your hair. Always respectful though
Why do guys use holding doors and pulling out chairs as examples to show they are nice?
This always puzzles me
Maybe they don’t do it to show they’re nice. Maybe they do it automatically because thats how they were brought up. That shows a gentleman to me. My old man is a true gent, taught me a few things. "
As much as you annoy me and wind up I don’t doubt for a minute that you’re not. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"A gentleman on the streets and a bad boy in the sheets . Please. Thankyou See I'm a gentleman in the streets but I'm questioning if I'm a bad boy in the sheets lately because I'm pretty vanilla.
You think you’re vanilla! You go to clubs. I don’t call that vanilla. "
Just have vanilla sex though and not kinky. Everyone into this kink lately. Just not for me though. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"I have and always will be a nice guy. Will always be polite, hold a door, pull out a chair etc etc.
One in that bedroom though i am a nice guy but filthy, not so much as pull out a chair, as reach up and pull your hair. Always respectful though
Why do guys use holding doors and pulling out chairs as examples to show they are nice?
This always puzzles me
Maybe they don’t do it to show they’re nice. Maybe they do it automatically because thats how they were brought up. That shows a gentleman to me. My old man is a true gent, taught me a few things.
As much as you annoy me and wind up I don’t doubt for a minute that you’re not. "
I just bribe people for good veris. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe I've been on the internet too long but I'm instantly suspicious when a guy describes himself as a "nice guy"
God yes.
I want someone who's actually nice, not claiming to be so for points. But with that a cheeky and adventurous side.
Bad boys so often lack basic respect. "
In my experience, referring to yourself as a “nice guy” tends to mean you actually hold chauvistic attitudes towards women. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A gentleman on the streets and a bad boy in the sheets . Please. Thankyou See I'm a gentleman in the streets but I'm questioning if I'm a bad boy in the sheets lately because I'm pretty vanilla.
You think you’re vanilla! You go to clubs. I don’t call that vanilla. Just have vanilla sex though and not kinky. Everyone into this kink lately. Just not for me though. "
Depends how people define kink. I’ve never had to google so much stuff since joining this place. I’ve now decided if I have to google it I’m definitely not gonna like it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have and always will be a nice guy. Will always be polite, hold a door, pull out a chair etc etc.
One in that bedroom though i am a nice guy but filthy, not so much as pull out a chair, as reach up and pull your hair. Always respectful though
Why do guys use holding doors and pulling out chairs as examples to show they are nice?
This always puzzles me
Maybe they don’t do it to show they’re nice. Maybe they do it automatically because thats how they were brought up. That shows a gentleman to me. "
This is me. Not just a nice guy to women though. I generally try to be a nice guy to everyone where it is due. I'm not a doormat though, and will not be treaded like one.
Have been brought up that way, don't see any reason to be otherwise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Maybe I've been on the internet too long but I'm instantly suspicious when a guy describes himself as a "nice guy"
God yes.
I want someone who's actually nice, not claiming to be so for points. But with that a cheeky and adventurous side.
Bad boys so often lack basic respect.
In my experience, referring to yourself as a “nice guy” tends to mean you actually hold chauvistic attitudes towards women. "
Like what? Define chauvinism. If holding doors and pulling chairs out is chauvinistic then this is a very sad world we live in. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"A gentleman on the streets and a bad boy in the sheets . Please. Thankyou See I'm a gentleman in the streets but I'm questioning if I'm a bad boy in the sheets lately because I'm pretty vanilla.
You think you’re vanilla! You go to clubs. I don’t call that vanilla. Just have vanilla sex though and not kinky. Everyone into this kink lately. Just not for me though.
Depends how people define kink. I’ve never had to google so much stuff since joining this place. I’ve now decided if I have to google it I’m definitely not gonna like it!"
Yeah I thought vanilla just meant missionary position. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have and always will be a nice guy. Will always be polite, hold a door, pull out a chair etc etc.
One in that bedroom though i am a nice guy but filthy, not so much as pull out a chair, as reach up and pull your hair. Always respectful though
Why do guys use holding doors and pulling out chairs as examples to show they are nice?
This always puzzles me
Maybe they don’t do it to show they’re nice. Maybe they do it automatically because thats how they were brought up. That shows a gentleman to me.
This is me. Not just a nice guy to women though. I generally try to be a nice guy to everyone where it is due. I'm not a doormat though, and will not be treated like one.
Have been brought up that way, don't see any reason to be otherwise. "
I was brought up to respect everyone and treat people how I expect to be treated. I wouldn't know how to be a bad boy as its just not in me to be one. Has it hampered my sexual endeavours....well yes, yes it has but so be it. I am who i am and i won't change that!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have and always will be a nice guy. Will always be polite, hold a door, pull out a chair etc etc.
One in that bedroom though i am a nice guy but filthy, not so much as pull out a chair, as reach up and pull your hair. Always respectful though
Why do guys use holding doors and pulling out chairs as examples to show they are nice?
This always puzzles me
Maybe they don’t do it to show they’re nice. Maybe they do it automatically because thats how they were brought up. That shows a gentleman to me.
This is me. Not just a nice guy to women though. I generally try to be a nice guy to everyone where it is due. I'm not a doormat though, and will not be treated like one.
Have been brought up that way, don't see any reason to be otherwise.
I was brought up to respect everyone and treat people how I expect to be treated. I wouldn't know how to be a bad boy as its just not in me to be one. Has it hampered my sexual endeavours....well yes, yes it has but so be it. I am who i am and i won't change that!!"
Do you really believe that not being a 'bad boy' has ruined your chance of a shag sometimes? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have and always will be a nice guy. Will always be polite, hold a door, pull out a chair etc etc.
One in that bedroom though i am a nice guy but filthy, not so much as pull out a chair, as reach up and pull your hair. Always respectful though
Why do guys use holding doors and pulling out chairs as examples to show they are nice?
This always puzzles me
Maybe they don’t do it to show they’re nice. Maybe they do it automatically because thats how they were brought up. That shows a gentleman to me.
This is me. Not just a nice guy to women though. I generally try to be a nice guy to everyone where it is due. I'm not a doormat though, and will not be treated like one.
Have been brought up that way, don't see any reason to be otherwise.
I was brought up to respect everyone and treat people how I expect to be treated. I wouldn't know how to be a bad boy as its just not in me to be one. Has it hampered my sexual endeavours....well yes, yes it has but so be it. I am who i am and i won't change that!!"
I think by bad boy people mean naughty |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A gentleman on the streets and a bad boy in the sheets . Please. Thankyou See I'm a gentleman in the streets but I'm questioning if I'm a bad boy in the sheets lately because I'm pretty vanilla.
You think you’re vanilla! You go to clubs. I don’t call that vanilla. Just have vanilla sex though and not kinky. Everyone into this kink lately. Just not for me though.
Depends how people define kink. I’ve never had to google so much stuff since joining this place. I’ve now decided if I have to google it I’m definitely not gonna like it! Yeah I thought vanilla just meant missionary position."
I don’t have a clue what it is. I like what I like and won’t do what I don’t like. Whatever that makes me I don’t know. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Both are just as appealing if authentic. Authenticity and being true to yourself is what is attractive. Men trying to be bad when they aren't is very unattractive. I have fallen in love with bad boys and nice boys. Can't say i prefer one over the other. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"A gentleman on the streets and a bad boy in the sheets . Please. Thankyou See I'm a gentleman in the streets but I'm questioning if I'm a bad boy in the sheets lately because I'm pretty vanilla.
You think you’re vanilla! You go to clubs. I don’t call that vanilla. Just have vanilla sex though and not kinky. Everyone into this kink lately. Just not for me though.
Depends how people define kink. I’ve never had to google so much stuff since joining this place. I’ve now decided if I have to google it I’m definitely not gonna like it! Yeah I thought vanilla just meant missionary position.
I don’t have a clue what it is. I like what I like and won’t do what I don’t like. Whatever that makes me I don’t know. "
Yeah same, just find compatible people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I fell for a real bad boy when is 16, still with him now and he is a really nice guy, and everyone who knows him, knows this.
They say a leopard never changes its spots, I disagree, he is my proof. 
Jo.Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I fell for a real bad boy when is 16, still with him now and he is a really nice guy, and everyone who knows him, knows this.
They say a leopard never changes its spots, I disagree, he is my proof.
Jo.Xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
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Both are just as appealing if authentic. Authenticity and being true to yourself is what is attractive. Men trying to be bad when they aren't is very unattractive. I have fallen in love with bad boys and nice boys. Can't say i prefer one over the other. |
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"I have and always will be a nice guy. Will always be polite, hold a door, pull out a chair etc etc.
One in that bedroom though i am a nice guy but filthy, not so much as pull out a chair, as reach up and pull your hair. Always respectful though
Why do guys use holding doors and pulling out chairs as examples to show they are nice?
This always puzzles me
Maybe they don’t do it to show they’re nice. Maybe they do it automatically because thats how they were brought up. That shows a gentleman to me.
This is me. Not just a nice guy to women though. I generally try to be a nice guy to everyone where it is due. I'm not a doormat though, and will not be treated like one.
Have been brought up that way, don't see any reason to be otherwise.
I was brought up to respect everyone and treat people how I expect to be treated. I wouldn't know how to be a bad boy as its just not in me to be one. Has it hampered my sexual endeavours....well yes, yes it has but so be it. I am who I am and I won't change that!!
Do you really believe that not being a 'bad boy' has ruined your chance of a shag sometimes?"
100% definitely, being the nice guy tends to get you friend zoned, particularly if there us a bad boy within the group as well!! |
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So if everyone wants a nice guy.
Why is it that the nice guys like myself can't for the life or want of trying so dam hard get a meeting.
But then here from ladies and couples about the amount of guys that are not doing things the right way.
But for some reason still go with them.
So this nice guy thing is pants.
Because we try try try so hard to get the door shut in are face.
But be the other side of the coin and happy day's.
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Some years ago I knew a lass who's boyfriend was sent down for robbing a taxi driver. He had been sent down for robbery before, she told me that the first time they met he stole her mobile. However she told me that she liked 'bad boys.' I advised her that if she wanted a 'bad boy,' date a banker, they can steal millions and get away from it |
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