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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed...
Is this normal ?  "
Depends.
Were they verified? Did you chat on the phone or just arrange everything via messages on here? Daytime or evening?
So many factors to take into account but I'd say four in a week is either very bad luck or very bad selection criteria.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No I wouldn't take offense to that. If you look at it as they really aren't worth meeting if this happens and the good ones will happily meet for a social and go at the pace you're happy with. |
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I wouldn't say it's normal, I do a few socials and have never been bailed on (yet - don't want to tempt fate)
You might want to think about who you're talking to, are they verified and if so what sort, are you swapping loads of extra pics - are they just fantasists, that sort of thing.
Also as a rule I only arrange socials where if they don't turn up or cancel last minute I'm not put out greatly in terms of time or cost. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer.
Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first?
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Quite a few are down to play if it goes well. Do you stipulate no play at all? |
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By *onygirlie OP Woman
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed...
Is this normal ?
Depends.
Were they verified? Did you chat on the phone or just arrange everything via messages on here? Daytime or evening?
So many factors to take into account but I'd say four in a week is either very bad luck or very bad selection criteria.
A"
Ok perhaps need to be more careful with veris. Must admit usually message perhaps phone is a way to suss out the ones who maybe just want some dirty sex chat while they can get it lol! |
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer.
Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first?
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Very much so. With the exception of the women I have formally dated, I have never had a social prior to sex. I have absolutely no problem with a social first, it certainly wouldn't put me off, but the idea had never even been suggested when making arrangemnets wuth any of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"January = hibernation mode, people can’t be arsed.
I know I can’t, but then again that might just be me....
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Hibernating is not a bad thing as hopefully you come back feeling refreshed and looking forward to fun times ahead. |
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By *onygirlie OP Woman
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer.
Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first?
Quite a few are down to play if it goes well. Do you stipulate no play at all?"
I do only because I don’t want to be under pressure if I don’t like the guy. Seems like could be awkward if you promise play and then don’t follow through. Not to say that I haven’t played at what was supposed to be a social .... |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer.
Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first?
Quite a few are down to play if it goes well. Do you stipulate no play at all?
I do only because I don’t want to be under pressure if I don’t like the guy. Seems like could be awkward if you promise play and then don’t follow through. Not to say that I haven’t played at what was supposed to be a social ...."
Yeah don't guarantee it but If they think there's no chance it might be why they flaked on you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer.
Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first?
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I have done many times, still do! |
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By *ankie303Woman
over a year ago
Weirdsville South Coast Dorset |
"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer.
Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first?
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Yes, loads.
Like everything in life, some weeks are good some are full of let downs and disappointment. Brush it off, onwards and upwards! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed...
Is this normal ?
Depends.
Were they verified? Did you chat on the phone or just arrange everything via messages on here? Daytime or evening?
So many factors to take into account but I'd say four in a week is either very bad luck or very bad selection criteria.
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I've had 2 requests for WebCam from members with veri's, but come the time we've arranged they were nowhere to be found, but I get accused of being a time waster cos I'm not verified. I took it they had a better offer at the time and haven't heard from either couple since. I have never had the chance to waste anyone's time as I can't get a meet , social or other, cos I have no veri's. When I 1st joined I was a newbie, caution advised, I was told the other day I must be a time waster cos I'd had no meets in 6 months. If I'd arranged a meet of any kind I'd attend, using veri's guarantees nothing , but that's all you'll read |
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Anyone we meet will be in a club, so avoid disappointment by having our own fun, and we use the social areas to for social chat.
So not nailed on to play but all in a environment you can carry on and enjoy regardless |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer.
Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first?
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Definitely not social first always |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hi Sharon, Sorry to read that you've been let down ... they're idiots, so I wouldn't give them the time of day if they message you again.
Everyone has their own way of getting to know someone before a meet...social or otherwise. I've just come back to Fab after 3 months off with a hip injury. But prior to this I had some amazing meets and a couple of them became regular playmates.
I have a really hectic life so like others on here have said ... time is precious. So, for me, I want to make sure I select the right playmate. I like to chat on Fabs for a day or two and share further pics. If all is good, we'll swap numbers and chat on Whatsapp for a few days, then arrange a date to meet and before the date we'll have a couple of phone calls.
We always agree to meet with no expectations of sex, but if we click then yes, it pretty much happens the same day.
I've been lucky not to have been stood up. However, since I've come back out to play...I haven't stuck to my tried and tested format ... I made rash decisions with the guy and he turned out to be a real arsehole
Anyway Sharon ... there is no right or wrong way. Just do what you feel is right for you  X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed...
Is this normal ? "
I'd social with you any daytime or evening any day or night .
I'll turn up guaranteed.
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By *onygirlie OP Woman
over a year ago
Leicestershire |
"Hi Sharon, Sorry to read that you've been let down ... they're idiots, so I wouldn't give them the time of day if they message you again.
Everyone has their own way of getting to know someone before a meet...social or otherwise. I've just come back to Fab after 3 months off with a hip injury. But prior to this I had some amazing meets and a couple of them became regular playmates.
I have a really hectic life so like others on here have said ... time is precious. So, for me, I want to make sure I select the right playmate. I like to chat on Fabs for a day or two and share further pics. If all is good, we'll swap numbers and chat on Whatsapp for a few days, then arrange a date to meet and before the date we'll have a couple of phone calls.
We always agree to meet with no expectations of sex, but if we click then yes, it pretty much happens the same day.
I've been lucky not to have been stood up. However, since I've come back out to play...I haven't stuck to my tried and tested format ... I made rash decisions with the guy and he turned out to be a real arsehole
Anyway Sharon ... there is no right or wrong way. Just do what you feel is right for you X"
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"i only ever did social meets and never got let down once. I did chat for ages before i met though That seems to be a trend now. Get them invested it seems."
trend. i was doing it for 12 years and i know loads of women that would only do socials first
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"i only ever did social meets and never got let down once. I did chat for ages before i met though That seems to be a trend now. Get them invested it seems.trend. i was doing it for 12 years and i know loads of women that would only do socials first"
See on dating apps etc it is much quicker to meet than on here.
I suppose it's because it could be like jumping straight to the 3rd or 4th date if you have sex. |
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"i only ever did social meets and never got let down once. I did chat for ages before i met though That seems to be a trend now. Get them invested it seems.trend. i was doing it for 12 years and i know loads of women that would only do socials first See on dating apps etc it is much quicker to meet than on here.
I suppose it's because it could be like jumping straight to the 3rd or 4th date if you have sex. "
ive no experience with dating sites as im not looking to date i use or used this site to meet like minded people to swing with
By swing i mean not just hook up for sex but to find someone to have different experiences. Maybe guys are coming from dating sites and wanting it to be the same here. Think is we all do things our own way and its finding others that want to do things the same way |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer.
Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first?
Quite a few are down to play if it goes well. Do you stipulate no play at all?
I do only because I don’t want to be under pressure if I don’t like the guy. Seems like could be awkward if you promise play and then don’t follow through. Not to say that I haven’t played at what was supposed to be a social ...."
Don’t feel you have to justify anything on here hun. I don’t meet anyone unless they agree to a social first. Pics can be deceiving, or I might just not like the aftershave someone is wearing! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i only ever did social meets and never got let down once. I did chat for ages before i met though That seems to be a trend now. Get them invested it seems.trend. i was doing it for 12 years and i know loads of women that would only do socials first See on dating apps etc it is much quicker to meet than on here.
I suppose it's because it could be like jumping straight to the 3rd or 4th date if you have sex. "
It is. And it’s because you can normally see a face on dating sites. The sheer number of guys on here who expect a woman to meet them without sending a face picture (often just a dick pic) is just mind-blowing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The ones that message you to death before a meet and ask every daft question going, their the ones that are usually a total waste of time."
I agree. Normally they’re just after wanking material. I don’t give anything away (pics, dirty chat) until I’ve met a person, as you’ll find a lot of them disappear before the actual meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I feel your pain Op....
But you have to realize that most of the good looking men on here are married or attached...
It’s very hard to sneak away from the family for a no sex social....
If they are making a excuse, the prospect of sex has to be on the table..... |
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By *rkeb3Man
over a year ago
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer.
Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first?
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yes plenty never been on a social meet here n never will it works for me tho |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer.
Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first?
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Lots just do it as a combined thing.
The idea of an interview csn be a bit off putting |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"I feel your pain Op....
But you have to realize that most of the good looking men on here are married or attached...
It’s very hard to sneak away from the family for a no sex social....
If they are making a excuse, the prospect of sex has to be on the table....."
I'm an anomaly  |
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By *m3232Man
over a year ago
maidenhead |
"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed...
Is this normal ? "
More fools them looking at your pictures  |
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer.
Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first?
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No there aren't. There are however alot of men who talk a good talk and then bottle it at the last minute. If socials work for you then keep asking for them. |
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Four guys in one week...
Maybe they were each speaking to four other women?
How can anyone possibly get a good feel for someone, develop a discussion, build a confidence, etc, at the rate of four meets in one week?
That's what I feel is wrong with this site.
Too many people talking to too many other people at the same time.
Not enough attention or commitment given to any one opportunity.
No offense to the op - I have also been let down many times, one way or another.
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
Craggy Island |
"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed...
Is this normal ? "
Some men get so far with a lady or couple then their bottle goes. It not reflection on you.
For future reference I won't let you down if you ever pass my way xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed...
Is this normal ? "
We tend to over invite. If we want to meet 2 guys or couple's then invite 10, if they all turn up then WOW what a night, but its inevitable most wont show |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's all them woman hiding on men's accounts  seriously though 4 no shows just makes it harder for us genuine men to get meets "
If you didnt get invited the first 4 times why do you think tbe fact they didnt turn up makes it harder for you? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I feel your pain Op....
But you have to realize that most of the good looking men on here are married or attached...
It’s very hard to sneak away from the family for a no sex social....
If they are making a excuse, the prospect of sex has to be on the table..... I'm an anomaly "
Yes you are a man amongst boys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I usually talk to people awhile before I agree to go on a social, not had anyone cancel yet"
If youd like to try something new im near by and currently got the excuse of being snowed in as im on a bike.
We could not meet for coffe in Rhyl at around 5 o'clock if you like :p |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Four guys in one week...
Maybe they were each speaking to four other women?
How can anyone possibly get a good feel for someone, develop a discussion, build a confidence, etc, at the rate of four meets in one week?
That's what I feel is wrong with this site.
Too many people talking to too many other people at the same time.
Not enough attention or commitment given to any one opportunity.
No offense to the op - I have also been let down many times, one way or another.
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The few that I've managed to get a chat going with, I've felt I was 1 of many and they were mostly casting a wide net for choice or having a back up or 2 in case their 1st choice didn't work out |
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"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed...
Is this normal ? "
Would love to know what excuses are classed as good.... surely you suss this out before hand... |
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The few that I've managed to get a chat going with, I've felt I was 1 of many and they were mostly casting a wide net for choice or having a back up or 2 in case their 1st choice didn't work out "
Yes but these are people, with feelings, that we are talking about.
And someone is going to get dropped last minute if one of those other choice's turn into something.
It happens on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer.
Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first?
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I do, but they have to talk on here a lot first. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We do feel for people that really put the effort in for example, id hosting at home, wasted meals cocked and extra wine bought. traveling to meet, driving all that way, some people do put the miles in |
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By *onygirlie OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed...
Is this normal ?
Some men get so far with a lady or couple then their bottle goes. It not reflection on you.
For future reference I won't let you down if you ever pass my way xx"
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By *onygirlie OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Four guys in one week...
Maybe they were each speaking to four other women?
How can anyone possibly get a good feel for someone, develop a discussion, build a confidence, etc, at the rate of four meets in one week?
That's what I feel is wrong with this site.
Too many people talking to too many other people at the same time.
Not enough attention or commitment given to any one opportunity.
No offense to the op - I have also been let down many times, one way or another.
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Actually I wasn't speaking to 4 at a time, only 2 and one of those I had been chatting to since before Christmas never seemed to be able to pin him down and so not really surprised he let me down really although he has good veri's.
Guy two arranged date for weds, he cancelled on Tuesday.
Guy three starting chatting Thursday arranged for sat, cancelled on sat.
Last guy started chatting sat arranged date for Monday cancelled sun. |
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"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed...
Is this normal ?
We tend to over invite. If we want to meet 2 guys or couple's then invite 10, if they all turn up then WOW what a night, but its inevitable most wont show "
It’s seems very strange to us that you would invite 10 people who you don’t know at all to your home ? Are you being serious or is this some sort of joke ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed...
Is this normal ? "
I didn’t experience this at all for my first year here, now it’s happened a few times.
I havent changed, I still meet socially first, I still choose carefully (check verifications, establish common ground).
I was let down for Tuesday evening, he picked the date, loads of chat on Kik, I’d have bet anything he was genuine.
He just stoped talking the Thursday before, didn’t read his Kik messages and I’ve not heard from him since. It’s annoying, but that’s just the way it is. I try not to let it bother me, there are some truly lovely people here who don’t mess me around
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Happens all the time with socials. I've had guys cancel social meets with some excuse to then have a sex veri pop up the next day. Then they are stupid enough to ask to rearrange!
If someone cancells I don't rearrange now. If someone was really interested they wouldn't cancel. |
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We have had a few last one we booked a hotel in Heathrow couple said on way after hour and half saying traffic bad stuck on m3
Etc never turned up trouble is we googled trafic
Updates no traffic at all. We still had fun in the hotel room |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed...
Is this normal ?
I didn’t experience this at all for my first year here, now it’s happened a few times.
I havent changed, I still meet socially first, I still choose carefully (check verifications, establish common ground).
I was let down for Tuesday evening, he picked the date, loads of chat on Kik, I’d have bet anything he was genuine.
He just stoped talking the Thursday before, didn’t read his Kik messages and I’ve not heard from him since. It’s annoying, but that’s just the way it is. I try not to let it bother me, there are some truly lovely people here who don’t mess me around
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I’ve found guys that use Kik - on the whole - aren’t really genuine. Secret lives, not single, etc.
If they’re happy to give out their number I’ve found they’re normally ok. There are, of course, exceptions. Just my experience. |
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If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . |
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By *emel9Man
over a year ago
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . "
Or there is the fact that even single people work, and may need to be a sleep at midnight.
If they are that desperate for a shag I'd not consider them a swinger personally, but a player. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . "
So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims
How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep |
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By *emel9Man
over a year ago
West Midlands |
I was a single swinger for a long time, I now have a partner, that I met through Fabs, and we swing together.
From my experience the options for me are to meet for a social first, which might end up in play, or simply chat to people at clubs, and see if you click with anyone.
The other option is to look for organised group socials near you. The people attending those tend to be genuine, and at least you know they can turn up to things. You can even end up arranging a play meet from that.
We all have our own ways to do it. But typically, a good chat here, then by some medium away from here, usually shows good intent.
Also look for peole able to message at different times of day and night, and especially weekends. If there is a patern of no availability, outside of work times, then that might show some red flags.
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . "
Or 7:30 pm! the mrs may go to bed at 11pm |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse .
So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims
How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep"
I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet.
As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse .
So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims
How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep
I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet.
As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me. "
Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway....
Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed... |
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over a year ago
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse .
So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims
How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep
I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet.
As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me.
Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway....
Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed..."
What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks.
The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer.
Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first?
"
Not many. I certainly wouldn't. In fact, I'm on my 3rd social meet with the same guy, next week  . If the reason is the social element and it's something you need, they are clearly not the right type for you... though it could also be genuine excuses and just a bad coincidence, in regards to the timing |
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over a year ago
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse .
So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims
How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep
I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet.
As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me.
Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway....
Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed...
What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks.
The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there."
I think you took what I wrote a little out of context....
I’ll put it this way... if you see a guy online that ticks all your boxes.. expect him to be dating, friends with benefits, girlfriend, or married...
If he is 100% single he won’t be for very long because he will also tick other women’s boxes...
So if women keep this in mind , they can save themselves hurt down the line.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse .
So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims
How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep
I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet.
As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me.
Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway....
Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed...
What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks.
The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there.
I think you took what I wrote a little out of context....
I’ll put it this way... if you see a guy online that ticks all your boxes.. expect him to be dating, friends with benefits, girlfriend, or married...
If he is 100% single he won’t be for very long because he will also tick other women’s boxes...
So if women keep this in mind , they can save themselves hurt down the line...."
What are you talking about!
My experience is attractiveness has nothing to do with whether someone is more or less likely to be in a relationship.
You can be an absolute Adonis but a complete cockwomble that nobody wants to be in a relationship with.
You can also be short and fat and an absolute diamond and a great person to be in a relationship with so your theory holds and no ground. |
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over a year ago
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse .
So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims
How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep
I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet.
As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me.
Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway....
Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed...
What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks.
The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there.
I think you took what I wrote a little out of context....
I’ll put it this way... if you see a guy online that ticks all your boxes.. expect him to be dating, friends with benefits, girlfriend, or married...
If he is 100% single he won’t be for very long because he will also tick other women’s boxes...
So if women keep this in mind , they can save themselves hurt down the line....
What are you talking about!
My experience is attractiveness has nothing to do with whether someone is more or less likely to be in a relationship.
You can be an absolute Adonis but a complete cockwomble that nobody wants to be in a relationship with.
You can also be short and fat and an absolute diamond and a great person to be in a relationship with so your theory holds and no ground. "
I’m sorry you disagree with me , but if you take your Fab glasses off , you might understand what I’m saying... |
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over a year ago
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse .
So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims
How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep
I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet.
As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me.
Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway....
Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed...
What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks.
The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there.
I think you took what I wrote a little out of context....
I’ll put it this way... if you see a guy online that ticks all your boxes.. expect him to be dating, friends with benefits, girlfriend, or married...
If he is 100% single he won’t be for very long because he will also tick other women’s boxes...
So if women keep this in mind , they can save themselves hurt down the line....
What are you talking about!
My experience is attractiveness has nothing to do with whether someone is more or less likely to be in a relationship.
You can be an absolute Adonis but a complete cockwomble that nobody wants to be in a relationship with.
You can also be short and fat and an absolute diamond and a great person to be in a relationship with so your theory holds and no ground.
I’m sorry you disagree with me , but if you take your Fab glasses off , you might understand what I’m saying..."
I never understand what you're saying because you twist a lot of the topics into something that fits your own agenda. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse .
So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims
How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep
I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet.
As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me.
Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway....
Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed...
What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks.
The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there.
I think you took what I wrote a little out of context....
I’ll put it this way... if you see a guy online that ticks all your boxes.. expect him to be dating, friends with benefits, girlfriend, or married...
If he is 100% single he won’t be for very long because he will also tick other women’s boxes...
So if women keep this in mind , they can save themselves hurt down the line....
What are you talking about!
My experience is attractiveness has nothing to do with whether someone is more or less likely to be in a relationship.
You can be an absolute Adonis but a complete cockwomble that nobody wants to be in a relationship with.
You can also be short and fat and an absolute diamond and a great person to be in a relationship with so your theory holds and no ground.
I’m sorry you disagree with me , but if you take your Fab glasses off , you might understand what I’m saying...
I never understand what you're saying because you twist a lot of the topics into something that fits your own agenda. "
Touché
In the normal vanilla world, I have many vanilla female friends and colleagues... they are on all the dating sites and apps...
They all say all the great guys on these dating apps are married, attached, or just looking for something casual.
My advice to them has been to enjoy Mr. Right Now until Mr. Right comes along...
Each one has told me no way, they have been there and done that... they are looking for something more substantial....
So these same great guys that are on these dating apps , are also on all the sex/swinging sites because it’s easier to find someone that just wants sex...
I have no agenda, I’m just giving my real world experience from what women I know.... have told me.....
So this is how I have come to the conclusion that women should just expect the fact that all the great guys they meet , to be some what attached.. if you meet a great guy that is not , that is a manicorn.... hold on to him
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over a year ago
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse .
So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims
How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep
I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet.
As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me. "
No shes using the time as the idea is to catch him when he's with his partner not just a phone call |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse .
So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims
How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep
I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet.
As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me.
Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway....
Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed...
What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks.
The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there.
I think you took what I wrote a little out of context....
I’ll put it this way... if you see a guy online that ticks all your boxes.. expect him to be dating, friends with benefits, girlfriend, or married...
If he is 100% single he won’t be for very long because he will also tick other women’s boxes...
So if women keep this in mind , they can save themselves hurt down the line....
What are you talking about!
My experience is attractiveness has nothing to do with whether someone is more or less likely to be in a relationship.
You can be an absolute Adonis but a complete cockwomble that nobody wants to be in a relationship with.
You can also be short and fat and an absolute diamond and a great person to be in a relationship with so your theory holds and no ground.
I’m sorry you disagree with me , but if you take your Fab glasses off , you might understand what I’m saying...
I never understand what you're saying because you twist a lot of the topics into something that fits your own agenda.
Touché
In the normal vanilla world, I have many vanilla female friends and colleagues... they are on all the dating sites and apps...
They all say all the great guys on these dating apps are married, attached, or just looking for something casual.
My advice to them has been to enjoy Mr. Right Now until Mr. Right comes along...
Each one has told me no way, they have been there and done that... they are looking for something more substantial....
So these same great guys that are on these dating apps , are also on all the sex/swinging sites because it’s easier to find someone that just wants sex...
I have no agenda, I’m just giving my real world experience from what women I know.... have told me.....
So this is how I have come to the conclusion that women should just expect the fact that all the great guys they meet , to be some what attached.. if you meet a great guy that is not , that is a manicorn.... hold on to him
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over a year ago
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . "
Omg I'm single but wouldn't take a call at midnight to check! I'd be asleep! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse .
So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims
How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep
I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet.
As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me.
Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway....
Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed...
What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks.
The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there.
I think you took what I wrote a little out of context....
I’ll put it this way... if you see a guy online that ticks all your boxes.. expect him to be dating, friends with benefits, girlfriend, or married...
If he is 100% single he won’t be for very long because he will also tick other women’s boxes...
So if women keep this in mind , they can save themselves hurt down the line....
What are you talking about!
My experience is attractiveness has nothing to do with whether someone is more or less likely to be in a relationship.
You can be an absolute Adonis but a complete cockwomble that nobody wants to be in a relationship with.
You can also be short and fat and an absolute diamond and a great person to be in a relationship with so your theory holds and no ground.
I’m sorry you disagree with me , but if you take your Fab glasses off , you might understand what I’m saying...
I never understand what you're saying because you twist a lot of the topics into something that fits your own agenda.
Touché
In the normal vanilla world, I have many vanilla female friends and colleagues... they are on all the dating sites and apps...
They all say all the great guys on these dating apps are married, attached, or just looking for something casual.
My advice to them has been to enjoy Mr. Right Now until Mr. Right comes along...
Each one has told me no way, they have been there and done that... they are looking for something more substantial....
So these same great guys that are on these dating apps , are also on all the sex/swinging sites because it’s easier to find someone that just wants sex...
I have no agenda, I’m just giving my real world experience from what women I know.... have told me.....
So this is how I have come to the conclusion that women should just expect the fact that all the great guys they meet , to be some what attached.. if you meet a great guy that is not , that is a manicorn.... hold on to him
That's me! Mr right now"
Lol you get it..... I honestly think people don’t like to have discussions anymore... they just want people to agree with them...
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over a year ago
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer.
Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first?
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i know plenty that do |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse .
So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims
How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep
I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet.
As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me.
Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway....
Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed...
What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks.
The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there.
I think you took what I wrote a little out of context....
I’ll put it this way... if you see a guy online that ticks all your boxes.. expect him to be dating, friends with benefits, girlfriend, or married...
If he is 100% single he won’t be for very long because he will also tick other women’s boxes...
So if women keep this in mind , they can save themselves hurt down the line....
What are you talking about!
My experience is attractiveness has nothing to do with whether someone is more or less likely to be in a relationship.
You can be an absolute Adonis but a complete cockwomble that nobody wants to be in a relationship with.
You can also be short and fat and an absolute diamond and a great person to be in a relationship with so your theory holds and no ground.
I’m sorry you disagree with me , but if you take your Fab glasses off , you might understand what I’m saying...
I never understand what you're saying because you twist a lot of the topics into something that fits your own agenda.
Touché
In the normal vanilla world, I have many vanilla female friends and colleagues... they are on all the dating sites and apps...
They all say all the great guys on these dating apps are married, attached, or just looking for something casual.
My advice to them has been to enjoy Mr. Right Now until Mr. Right comes along...
Each one has told me no way, they have been there and done that... they are looking for something more substantial....
So these same great guys that are on these dating apps , are also on all the sex/swinging sites because it’s easier to find someone that just wants sex...
I have no agenda, I’m just giving my real world experience from what women I know.... have told me.....
So this is how I have come to the conclusion that women should just expect the fact that all the great guys they meet , to be some what attached.. if you meet a great guy that is not , that is a manicorn.... hold on to him
That's me! Mr right now
Lol you get it..... I honestly think people don’t like to have discussions anymore... they just want people to agree with them...
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I'm an anomaly though as I've said.
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over a year ago
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer.
Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first?
"
Like lots of married men, lots of married ladies prefer not to do socials and I only know this because a few of my male friends on here have told me it's bit of a giveaway |
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over a year ago
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse .
So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims
How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep
I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet.
As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me.
Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway....
Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed...
What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks.
The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there.
I think you took what I wrote a little out of context....
I’ll put it this way... if you see a guy online that ticks all your boxes.. expect him to be dating, friends with benefits, girlfriend, or married...
If he is 100% single he won’t be for very long because he will also tick other women’s boxes...
So if women keep this in mind , they can save themselves hurt down the line....
What are you talking about!
My experience is attractiveness has nothing to do with whether someone is more or less likely to be in a relationship.
You can be an absolute Adonis but a complete cockwomble that nobody wants to be in a relationship with.
You can also be short and fat and an absolute diamond and a great person to be in a relationship with so your theory holds and no ground.
I’m sorry you disagree with me , but if you take your Fab glasses off , you might understand what I’m saying...
I never understand what you're saying because you twist a lot of the topics into something that fits your own agenda.
Touché
In the normal vanilla world, I have many vanilla female friends and colleagues... they are on all the dating sites and apps...
They all say all the great guys on these dating apps are married, attached, or just looking for something casual.
My advice to them has been to enjoy Mr. Right Now until Mr. Right comes along...
Each one has told me no way, they have been there and done that... they are looking for something more substantial....
So these same great guys that are on these dating apps , are also on all the sex/swinging sites because it’s easier to find someone that just wants sex...
I have no agenda, I’m just giving my real world experience from what women I know.... have told me.....
So this is how I have come to the conclusion that women should just expect the fact that all the great guys they meet , to be some what attached.. if you meet a great guy that is not , that is a manicorn.... hold on to him
That's me! Mr right now
Lol you get it..... I honestly think people don’t like to have discussions anymore... they just want people to agree with them...
I'm an anomaly though as I've said.
Oh, where is the fun in agreeing all the time? "
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse .
So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims
How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep
I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet.
As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me.
Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway....
Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed...
What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks.
The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there.
I think you took what I wrote a little out of context....
I’ll put it this way... if you see a guy online that ticks all your boxes.. expect him to be dating, friends with benefits, girlfriend, or married...
If he is 100% single he won’t be for very long because he will also tick other women’s boxes...
So if women keep this in mind , they can save themselves hurt down the line....
What are you talking about!
My experience is attractiveness has nothing to do with whether someone is more or less likely to be in a relationship.
You can be an absolute Adonis but a complete cockwomble that nobody wants to be in a relationship with.
You can also be short and fat and an absolute diamond and a great person to be in a relationship with so your theory holds and no ground.
I’m sorry you disagree with me , but if you take your Fab glasses off , you might understand what I’m saying...
I never understand what you're saying because you twist a lot of the topics into something that fits your own agenda.
Touché
In the normal vanilla world, I have many vanilla female friends and colleagues... they are on all the dating sites and apps...
They all say all the great guys on these dating apps are married, attached, or just looking for something casual.
My advice to them has been to enjoy Mr. Right Now until Mr. Right comes along...
Each one has told me no way, they have been there and done that... they are looking for something more substantial....
So these same great guys that are on these dating apps , are also on all the sex/swinging sites because it’s easier to find someone that just wants sex...
I have no agenda, I’m just giving my real world experience from what women I know.... have told me.....
So this is how I have come to the conclusion that women should just expect the fact that all the great guys they meet , to be some what attached.. if you meet a great guy that is not , that is a manicorn.... hold on to him
That's me! Mr right now
Lol you get it..... I honestly think people don’t like to have discussions anymore... they just want people to agree with them...
I'm an anomaly though as I've said.
Oh, where is the fun in agreeing all the time?
Hugs , they always want hugs"
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse .
So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims
How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep
I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet.
As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me.
Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway....
Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed...
What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks.
The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there.
I think you took what I wrote a little out of context....
I’ll put it this way... if you see a guy online that ticks all your boxes.. expect him to be dating, friends with benefits, girlfriend, or married...
If he is 100% single he won’t be for very long because he will also tick other women’s boxes...
So if women keep this in mind , they can save themselves hurt down the line....
What are you talking about!
My experience is attractiveness has nothing to do with whether someone is more or less likely to be in a relationship.
You can be an absolute Adonis but a complete cockwomble that nobody wants to be in a relationship with.
You can also be short and fat and an absolute diamond and a great person to be in a relationship with so your theory holds and no ground.
I’m sorry you disagree with me , but if you take your Fab glasses off , you might understand what I’m saying...
I never understand what you're saying because you twist a lot of the topics into something that fits your own agenda.
Touché
In the normal vanilla world, I have many vanilla female friends and colleagues... they are on all the dating sites and apps...
They all say all the great guys on these dating apps are married, attached, or just looking for something casual.
My advice to them has been to enjoy Mr. Right Now until Mr. Right comes along...
Each one has told me no way, they have been there and done that... they are looking for something more substantial....
So these same great guys that are on these dating apps , are also on all the sex/swinging sites because it’s easier to find someone that just wants sex...
I have no agenda, I’m just giving my real world experience from what women I know.... have told me.....
So this is how I have come to the conclusion that women should just expect the fact that all the great guys they meet , to be some what attached.. if you meet a great guy that is not , that is a manicorn.... hold on to him
That's me! Mr right now
Lol you get it..... I honestly think people don’t like to have discussions anymore... they just want people to agree with them...
I'm an anomaly though as I've said.
Oh, where is the fun in agreeing all the time?
Hugs , they always want hugs If it's an attractive woman, I'll be the hug monster."
Shut your mouth every woman is attractive on here and there are no leagues...
Men not so much.....
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse .
So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims
How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep
I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet.
As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me.
Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway....
Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed...
What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks.
The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there.
I think you took what I wrote a little out of context....
I’ll put it this way... if you see a guy online that ticks all your boxes.. expect him to be dating, friends with benefits, girlfriend, or married...
If he is 100% single he won’t be for very long because he will also tick other women’s boxes...
So if women keep this in mind , they can save themselves hurt down the line....
What are you talking about!
My experience is attractiveness has nothing to do with whether someone is more or less likely to be in a relationship.
You can be an absolute Adonis but a complete cockwomble that nobody wants to be in a relationship with.
You can also be short and fat and an absolute diamond and a great person to be in a relationship with so your theory holds and no ground.
I’m sorry you disagree with me , but if you take your Fab glasses off , you might understand what I’m saying...
I never understand what you're saying because you twist a lot of the topics into something that fits your own agenda.
Touché
In the normal vanilla world, I have many vanilla female friends and colleagues... they are on all the dating sites and apps...
They all say all the great guys on these dating apps are married, attached, or just looking for something casual.
My advice to them has been to enjoy Mr. Right Now until Mr. Right comes along...
Each one has told me no way, they have been there and done that... they are looking for something more substantial....
So these same great guys that are on these dating apps , are also on all the sex/swinging sites because it’s easier to find someone that just wants sex...
I have no agenda, I’m just giving my real world experience from what women I know.... have told me.....
So this is how I have come to the conclusion that women should just expect the fact that all the great guys they meet , to be some what attached.. if you meet a great guy that is not , that is a manicorn.... hold on to him
That's me! Mr right now
Lol you get it..... I honestly think people don’t like to have discussions anymore... they just want people to agree with them...
I'm an anomaly though as I've said.
Oh, where is the fun in agreeing all the time?
Hugs , they always want hugs If it's an attractive woman, I'll be the hug monster.
Shut your mouth every woman is attractive on here and there are no leagues...
Men not so much.....
You didn’t get the memo? "
I like it when you are dominant
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over a year ago
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"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed...
Is this normal ? "
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By *onygirlie OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer.
Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first?
i know plenty that do"
How does that work if he turns out to be not what you expected. 10 year old photos, bad breath, no chemistry. Just shag anyway? Not me but each to their own. |
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse .
Omg I'm single but wouldn't take a call at midnight to check! I'd be asleep! "
The point is you wouldn’t even need to ring . If he won’t give you his number or comes up with an excuse why it’s inconvenient then that tells you everything you need to know about him . |
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Had a timewaster earlier this evening. The genuine timewaster, you know, the type that block you after failing to show up. Anyhow the loser is blocked back and reported to admin.
We have each other for sex. He's sat at home having a party with his hand. |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
Merseyside |
"Had a timewaster earlier this evening. The genuine timewaster, you know, the type that block you after failing to show up. Anyhow the loser is blocked back and reported to admin.
We have each other for sex. He's sat at home having a party with his hand."
may have chosen a different meet? he may just be ignorant |
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Sorry to break it to everyone, but most good looking guys are attached in someway....
Just temper your expectations and you won’t be disappointed...
What? Go for unattractive people who are - you say - likely to be single? No thanks.
The most attractive women I know are all single, so something is amiss there.
I think you took what I wrote a little out of context....
I’ll put it this way... if you see a guy online that ticks all your boxes.. expect him to be dating, friends with benefits, girlfriend, or married...
If he is 100% single he won’t be for very long because he will also tick other women’s boxes...
So if women keep this in mind , they can save themselves hurt down the line....
What are you talking about!
My experience is attractiveness has nothing to do with whether someone is more or less likely to be in a relationship.
You can be an absolute Adonis but a complete cockwomble that nobody wants to be in a relationship with.
You can also be short and fat and an absolute diamond and a great person to be in a relationship with so your theory holds and no ground. "
Who's on here looking for a relationship? I think what he means is unless you're looking for the perfect guy to be at your beck and call, but leave him ticking over while you have no use for him, don't expect him to be single and "available" all the time, but accept the guys you're interested in others will be too and that gives him choice, he may choose someone that's not beating his balls |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
Merseyside |
"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer.
Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first?
Like lots of married men, lots of married ladies prefer not to do socials and I only know this because a few of my male friends on here have told me it's bit of a giveaway "
what about the group who'd shag someone but wouldn't want to be seen with them??? i.e. a older lady i wanted too meet told me she wanted to fuck me but couldn't be seen out with me so refused a social 1st? no 'giveaway' there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why has this thread become all about men bashing? I've had 3 couples and 2 women chatting for ages into it , getting of on swapping fantasies, wanting to meet, when we meet, can't wait to meet, let's arrange a meet, then oh can't meet and go silent. There are lots of genuine and lots of time wasters, but also those that don't set out to time waste but bottle it when it comes to it too |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
Merseyside |
"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse . "
thats a ridiculous assumption!!! plus slightly offensive to single men? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse .
So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims
How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep
I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet.
As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me.
No shes using the time as the idea is to catch him when he's with his partner not just a phone call"
No shit Sherlock. I know that. I was saying it doesn’t have to be midnight as you said something about nightworkers...hard work or what! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer.
Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first?
Like lots of married men, lots of married ladies prefer not to do socials and I only know this because a few of my male friends on here have told me it's bit of a giveaway "
Really? I didn’t get the memo & neither did some of the men I meet.
The only times I haven’t had just a social is when distance is involved. However, if there was no desire to take it any further then both parties are free to say so with no hard feelings.
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse .
thats a ridiculous assumption!!! plus slightly offensive to single men? "
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"I wonder if this thread will get back to the Ops original point before it gets too big and has to close lol"
Chances are the 4 guys that cancelled were all married ,had partners ,or were sad pervy picture collectors getting online kicks. Recognising that early and blocking them is so easy but people are just too trusting and gullible on here so keep getting caught out. |
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"I wonder if this thread will get back to the Ops original point before it gets too big and has to close lol
Chances are the 4 guys that cancelled were all married ,had partners ,or were sad pervy picture collectors getting online kicks. Recognising that early and blocking them is so easy but people are just too trusting and gullible on here so keep getting caught out. "
Its really not "the chances" though.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse .
So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims
How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep
I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet.
As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me.
No shes using the time as the idea is to catch him when he's with his partner not just a phone call
No shit Sherlock. I know that. I was saying it doesn’t have to be midnight as you said something about nightworkers...hard work or what! "
So you see why its a retarded idea when you dont know somones circumstances.
Not to mention the anything to get a shag line. |
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By *sAllowedCouple
over a year ago
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Omg.. this site is full of them. 4 meets in row is our most. We only meet now if we know the person or have had some good communication for a while and have no doubt about their keenness to meet. Don't give up, there are plenty of proper, genuine swingers out there. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer.
Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first?
Like lots of married men, lots of married ladies prefer not to do socials and I only know this because a few of my male friends on here have told me it's bit of a giveaway
what about the group who'd shag someone but wouldn't want to be seen with them??? i.e. a older lady i wanted too meet told me she wanted to fuck me but couldn't be seen out with me so refused a social 1st? no 'giveaway' there "
I think she made it quite clear that she wouldn't be seen out with you! Isn't that's just being honest? |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
Merseyside |
"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer.
Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first?
Like lots of married men, lots of married ladies prefer not to do socials and I only know this because a few of my male friends on here have told me it's bit of a giveaway
what about the group who'd shag someone but wouldn't want to be seen with them??? i.e. a older lady i wanted too meet told me she wanted to fuck me but couldn't be seen out with me so refused a social 1st? no 'giveaway' there
I think she made it quite clear that she wouldn't be seen out with you! Isn't that's just being honest?"
because of the age difference not because she was married?? your point was people with 'excuses' must be in a relationship or married?? my point is EVERYONE'S circumstances are different and people shouldn't make assumptions |
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer.
Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first?
Like lots of married men, lots of married ladies prefer not to do socials and I only know this because a few of my male friends on here have told me it's bit of a giveaway
what about the group who'd shag someone but wouldn't want to be seen with them??? i.e. a older lady i wanted too meet told me she wanted to fuck me but couldn't be seen out with me so refused a social 1st? no 'giveaway' there
I think she made it quite clear that she wouldn't be seen out with you! Isn't that's just being honest?
because of the age difference not because she was married?? your point was people with 'excuses' must be in a relationship or married?? my point is EVERYONE'S circumstances are different and people shouldn't make assumptions "
No all I said is it can be a giveaway that a person may not be single if they won't meet for a public social! When looking for red flags it's a good one ... nothing is infallible and on here people will lie simple |
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over a year ago
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All my in person verifications were social meets first. One or two in the man's home where they behaved like a gent but most were socials in a coffee shop.
Yes I've slept with some of my meets but not all. I've not stated on my profile sex is a guarantee! Nor have I stated it isn't. I just haven't mentioned sex at all.
I've only been stood up twice within all the time I've been on this site. Which is why I typically do daytime socials only. More often then not, you're out shopping or whatever during the day. Meet in a coffee shop and if you're stood up, all you've lost is an hour of your time and the cost of a coffee. I refuse to waste my precious evening time on a social only. |
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over a year ago
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I would rather have a social before naughty play. I like to chat to a lady or couple and find it easier than chat rooms. But having trouble finding people on the same wavelength |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
Merseyside |
"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer.
Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first?
Like lots of married men, lots of married ladies prefer not to do socials and I only know this because a few of my male friends on here have told me it's bit of a giveaway
what about the group who'd shag someone but wouldn't want to be seen with them??? i.e. a older lady i wanted too meet told me she wanted to fuck me but couldn't be seen out with me so refused a social 1st? no 'giveaway' there
I think she made it quite clear that she wouldn't be seen out with you! Isn't that's just being honest?
because of the age difference not because she was married?? your point was people with 'excuses' must be in a relationship or married?? my point is EVERYONE'S circumstances are different and people shouldn't make assumptions
No all I said is it can be a giveaway that a person may not be single if they won't meet for a public social! When looking for red flags it's a good one ... nothing is infallible and on here people will lie simple "
i disagree. but your entitled to your opinion |
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over a year ago
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"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed...
Is this normal ? "
Shame your straight hun I would definitely turn up xx |
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A social meet is the right way forward, who knows what might happen afterwards at a later date, but better to start there.
Maybe I'm just old fashioned.
And If I arrange to meet, I meet. How frustrating not to. |
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over a year ago
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse .
So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims
How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep
I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet.
As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me.
No shes using the time as the idea is to catch him when he's with his partner not just a phone call
No shit Sherlock. I know that. I was saying it doesn’t have to be midnight as you said something about nightworkers...hard work or what!
So you see why its a retarded idea when you dont know somones circumstances.
Not to mention the anything to get a shag line."
I didn’t come up with any idea or mention anything about shagging.
I do agree with the other poster about calling someone at a random time (doesn’t have to be midnight) to see if they answer. But you don’t need to call them, as I find if someone doesn’t give you their phone number full stop, they normally are hiding something.
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
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"If you are a single lady or a couple and a guy wants to meet you and claims to be single just ask him for his mobile and tell him you will ‘ ring him at midnight tonight ‘.
Single guys won’t mind ( anything to get a shag) but married or partnered men simply can’t take the call at that time so will come up with an excuse .
So a single guy should have no self respect and bow to your whims
How does that work for us nightshifter or morning shifts, or you know people who like to sleep
I think she was just using the time as an example and it wasn’t a request that is overly-demanding. You don’t want to do it, you don’t meet.
As someone said, it could be 7.30pm or whatever. A lack of phone number - only kik and Snapchat being offered - are normally red flags to me.
No shes using the time as the idea is to catch him when he's with his partner not just a phone call
No shit Sherlock. I know that. I was saying it doesn’t have to be midnight as you said something about nightworkers...hard work or what!
So you see why its a retarded idea when you dont know somones circumstances.
Not to mention the anything to get a shag line.
I didn’t come up with any idea or mention anything about shagging.
I do agree with the other poster about calling someone at a random time (doesn’t have to be midnight) to see if they answer. But you don’t need to call them, as I find if someone doesn’t give you their phone number full stop, they normally are hiding something.
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so how many times would you call them without them answering but you decided they was hiding something? |
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
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"I don't give out my number here. I've cancelled one meet out of the very many I've had, and I had an exceptionally good reason. "
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I haven't met many people from here, but it's not just women who have this problem. I've had a lot of time wasters who chat and seem keen then just disappear. Cant be bothered to chase them now. Their bloody loss! :D |
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By *onygirlie OP Woman
over a year ago
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"I’ve 4 guys cancel social meets on me during the last week, all but one seemed to have good excuses but beginning to think I am cursed...
Is this normal ?
Shame your straight hun I would definitely turn up xx"
Lol thanks. I am straight but have to say lovely boobs. |
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By *D835Man
over a year ago
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"I don't give out my number here. I've cancelled one meet out of the very many I've had, and I had an exceptionally good reason. "
"I don't give out my number here."
Well according to Mrs Robinson you are hiding something. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe you’re a bad judge of character? Or maybe you are both miscommunicating - and those people didn’t really want to have a social meet, but somehow got talked into it. Then bottled it. |
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"Maybe you’re a bad judge of character? Or maybe you are both miscommunicating - and those people didn’t really want to have a social meet, but somehow got talked into it. Then bottled it."
Have to say that was my thought. Some men just can't be arsed with socials, fair enough, but have the balls to say! |
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"If you can’t interact on a social level how good is a fuck going to be. To many wanting a quick empty "
Horses for courses: some women and couples simply want a "quick empty" too. It's the leading on I think unkind. If it's not for you move on to the next profile: no harm, no foul...just don't waste people's time! |
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"I don't give out my number here. I've cancelled one meet out of the very many I've had, and I had an exceptionally good reason.
"I don't give out my number here."
Well according to Mrs Robinson you are hiding something."
A lot of people are on here. I couldn’t care less about what people are up to, but personally, I do prefer to meet people who have given me their number. |
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hi guys is the mr here I am speaking for both of us.
Mrs is working.
we both genuine couple looking to meet a woman to play with us.
everytime we arrange for a meet they is no show. they are joke.
6 woman . we have arranged and no show.
one of the woman told my girlfriend that she getting ready and she be leaving at the time we arrange then 2 hrs later the arrangements she txt her saying she feel at sleep, what a fruit cake.
we both believe that they is alot of woman who are fake ie they are men and women who are just bullshiters ie is just a fantasy they all talk and action.
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By *ilth500Man
over a year ago
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"I don't give out my number here. I've cancelled one meet out of the very many I've had, and I had an exceptionally good reason.
"I don't give out my number here."
Well according to Mrs Robinson you are hiding something.
A lot of people are on here. I couldn’t care less about what people are up to, but personally, I do prefer to meet people who have given me their number. "
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"Social meets might be the problem. A lot of men have no patience and might get a guaranteed sex offer.
Are there really that many women who will do meets without a social first?
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More than half I’ve met skipped the social. Never had a bad experience |
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"I don't give out my number here. I've cancelled one meet out of the very many I've had, and I had an exceptionally good reason.
"I don't give out my number here."
Well according to Mrs Robinson you are hiding something.
A lot of people are on here. I couldn’t care less about what people are up to, but personally, I do prefer to meet people who have given me their number. "
Me too |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't give out my number here. I've cancelled one meet out of the very many I've had, and I had an exceptionally good reason.
"I don't give out my number here."
Well according to Mrs Robinson you are hiding something.
A lot of people are on here. I couldn’t care less about what people are up to, but personally, I do prefer to meet people who have given me their number.
Me too "
Yes I could never meet people who will only give Kik or Snapchat. I believe FA what people tell me on the internet at the best of times and I need to do a bit of DD first. For safety if nowt else! x |
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"I don't give out my number here. I've cancelled one meet out of the very many I've had, and I had an exceptionally good reason.
"I don't give out my number here."
Well according to Mrs Robinson you are hiding something.
A lot of people are on here. I couldn’t care less about what people are up to, but personally, I do prefer to meet people who have given me their number.
Me too "
So you expect others to give their number out, but you won't?! |
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Had guys disappear which is normal on here, had my number and I have theirs.
But wouldn't dream of following it up any further if they don't turn up, as plenty of others queuing up as it's their loss. |
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