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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’ll generally get messaged first if it’s in response time to something (status, etc). I will message women I like the look of first but it’s nice to receive one out the blue too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It depends on the man. If I’m looking and I see someone I think I’d like to meet, I’ll give them a message "
Where are your public photos? I can't perv on you today  |
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By *ay19720Man
over a year ago
Ashford kent |
"I sent the 1st one to Del. And the rest they say is history. 2 yrs married this Yr. "
Fuck me..you must have been his only message and he snapped you up quick. . 
Im joking dont hang me fabbers..lol   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have never sent the first message......
I like to be hunted not the hunter......
Consequently I only get about 20 messages a week.....
18 are guys offering to suck me off , and 2 are couples profiles with only the husbands in Nyc available to meet...... |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"I have never sent the first message......
I like to be hunted not the hunter......
Consequently I only get about 20 messages a week.....
18 are guys offering to suck me off , and 2 are couples profiles with only the husbands in Nyc available to meet......"
 I'd headhunt you too big boy if we were into that. |
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By *r.BlondeMan
over a year ago
Chester/Wirral |
"I've sent first messages to guys I like the look of or whose profiles I like x this for me too x
Well hello sally it would be my pleasure to meet you"
You're not getting the drift of this thread. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've been steadily chatting to a woman who messaged me first on here. Probably the best conversation anyone has had with me here yet. She's hot too!
If that's how it is every time a woman messages first then please ladies feel free to slide into my inbox!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the problem is you don't really know who you are talking to .anyone can put a picture up the amount of sad guys pretending to be female it's sad really but what do exspect from a site that has little or no vetting in place. |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"I think the problem is you don't really know who you are talking to .anyone can put a picture up the amount of sad guys pretending to be female it's sad really but what do exspect from a site that has little or no vetting in place."
They can but they're usually pretty easy to suss out - can honestly say of the profiles that have messaged me first that are ladies or couples I've maybe had two that were suspect and could spot them a mile off.
There's only so much vetting the site can do though so it will always happen but with a little diligence on the part of us the users it's not that big a problem. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well you have been my lucky then thats all I can say early say morning and early Sunday morning that's when they show themselves.wommen we tell they get texts for guys out of the blue they. Have may of text a year over a year ago .sending pic of there so call hung cocks. sad fuckers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Um I rarely do it.. I am more likely to send a wink, like pictures and if the wink is sent back then I would message. "
Yes what's wroung with that .these individuals that say do t bother sending a wink or a simple hello.what do they want a live story halve of them don't even send a reply .just reply say your not my tipe it's not hard .but there's a lot of rude ignorant people out there . |
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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago
hiding from cock pics. |
"Um I rarely do it.. I am more likely to send a wink, like pictures and if the wink is sent back then I would message.
Yes what's wroung with that .these individuals that say do t bother sending a wink or a simple hello.what do they want a live story halve of them don't even send a reply .just reply say your not my tipe it's not hard .but there's a lot of rude ignorant people out there ."
That should make it a lot easier for you and save your time. If you are suited to their style of writing, just keep on to the next one and don't worry about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I send the odd first message usually in response to forum posts or statuses. Often works out well ."
I think one would be mad not to reply your stunning there's hope yet x |
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"I send the odd first message usually in response to forum posts or statuses. Often works out well .
I think one would be mad not to reply your stunning there's hope yet x"
You're too kind, I never expect a reply so it's always nice to hear back, especially when it turns into a great chat. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Um I rarely do it.. I am more likely to send a wink, like pictures and if the wink is sent back then I would message.
Yes what's wroung with that .these individuals that say do t bother sending a wink or a simple hello.what do they want a live story halve of them don't even send a reply .just reply say your not my tipe it's not hard .but there's a lot of rude ignorant people out there .
That should make it a lot easier for you and save your time. If you are suited to their style of writing, just keep on to the next one and don't worry about it"
Yes I agree, it makes me laugh pepole are more complicated behind screens than they are in person what happend to the good old phone box and the last dance lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I send the odd first message usually in response to forum posts or statuses. Often works out well .
I think one would be mad not to reply your stunning there's hope yet x
You're too kind, I never expect a reply so it's always nice to hear back, especially when it turns into a great chat. "
I think your to modest but it's lovely to see there is genine modesty out there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've sent first messages to guys I like the look of or whose profiles I like x this for me too x
Well hello sally it would be my pleasure to meet you You're not getting the drift of this thread. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've sent first messages to guys I like the look of or whose profiles I like x this for me too x
Well hello sally it would be my pleasure to meet you You're not getting the drift of this thread.
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I total get the thread .but that's beauty of thread everybody has there own interpretation or experiences would you not agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It depends on the man. If I’m looking and I see someone I think I’d like to meet, I’ll give them
a message "
I admired that nothing sexier than women who knows what she wants x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What about messaging couples? Can’t actually remember getting a message from a single female, but 100’s from single men.
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Well with us it dependant on who got the phone but we both reply equally.plus I think females can pick out the difference in how a man will tex compaired to a women
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I never send the 1st one to someone I'd like to possibly meet"
I have the same principle almost all the time as I don't wish to add to a massive heap of unread mail pouring into ladies and couples inboxes daily, apart from when I'm arranging the odd event. Therefore my total number of first contacts I've sent (winks and messages) is under a dozen, compared to thousands received?
It sounds like an insane ratio for a chap, till you bear in mind the principle I have AND the fact I've had 365 days to accumulate that lot lol! |
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"I send the odd first message usually in response to forum posts or statuses. Often works out well .
I think one would be mad not to reply your stunning there's hope yet x
You're too kind, I never expect a reply so it's always nice to hear back, especially when it turns into a great chat.
I think your to modest but it's lovely to see there is genine modesty out there "
I'm just one of many on here and don't believe most of the compliments thrown my way, after all they might just have an ulterior motive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have sent far more over the years than I have received. It's what I've always expected.
A few of the messages I have received from females have asked if I have a big cock. Not something I would expect in a first message, but I guess it must be important. |
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"So who is willing to send the first message? Or does it depend on the guy? X"
I do it all the time you get a better choice that way. I think in it like being able to go into a restaurant and choosing what you want of the menu rather than having what is left over as the kitchen staff often do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I send the odd first message usually in response to forum posts or statuses. Often works out well .
I think one would be mad not to reply your stunning there's hope yet x
You're too kind, I never expect a reply so it's always nice to hear back, especially when it turns into a great chat.
I think your to modest but it's lovely to see there is genine modesty out there
I'm just one of many on here and don't believe most of the compliments thrown my way, after all they might just have an ulterior motive. "
No motive I say it how it is and if the person beloved me and takes the compliment on board .all well and good it cost nothing to be sociable and polite x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So who is willing to send the first message? Or does it depend on the guy? X
I do it all the time you get a better choice that way. I think in it like being able to go into a restaurant and choosing what you want of the menu rather than having what is left over as the kitchen staff often do. "
Have you read this persons profile .what is wrong with a wink or wolf wistle would rather have someone boo you I really do t get a w/o k is hi I'm interested why should I send a long winded message to no fucking reply get life do t judge a book by the cover. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I have sent the first message quite a lot of times
some worked out some never
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I wish pepole could be straight if they don't like you why not just block you it's not hard thsts what we do.if pepole don't have the balls to open conversation behind a screen what chance have they got in person |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who thinks that multiy mida sites such as thease are breeding reclusive pepole hermits that don't know how to socially connect with pepole anymore would love to hear your views
Jo |
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"I can hardly keep up with messages I reveive, let alone generating more by sending out first messages lol "
I honestly think you should consider it lovely! If you’re a fussy biatch like me - the majority of men who message you will be of no interest!
If you’re willing to look (Male hot photos, local updates etc) you can come across some real gems!
I’ve met some amazing guys this way!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can hardly keep up with messages I reveive, let alone generating more by sending out first messages lol
I honestly think you should consider it lovely! If you’re a fussy biatch like me - the majority of men who message you will be of no interest!
If you’re willing to look (Male hot photos, local updates etc) you can come across some real gems!
I’ve met some amazing guys this way! "
My mate keeps saying this ! Yeah maybe I should because almost every message I get is from someone unsuitable lol - thanks xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So who is willing to send the first message? Or does it depend on the guy? X
I do it all the time you get a better choice that way. I think in it like being able to go into a restaurant and choosing what you want of the menu rather than having what is left over as the kitchen staff often do.
Have you read this persons profile .what is wrong with a wink or wolf wistle would rather have someone boo you I really do t get a w/o k is hi I'm interested why should I send a long winded message to no fucking reply get life do t judge a book by the cover. "
Or it's grammar |
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