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Couples where only one of you "plays"?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Are there many of us? And by play I mean engages in any kind of sexual activity with another person apart from your partner (watching or joining in with a threesome where you only touch your partner doesn't count). Cuckold situations also exclude.
How has this worked when playing with other couples? Do the ones who don't play sit there twiddling their thumbs while the ones who do crack on?
Asking for a friend...OK, asking for myself, but seriously, how does it work out? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I mean that I wasn't including where the non playing person is subservient in some way. My partner doesn't play but not because he's cucked - he's very alpha but only has eyes for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My hubby used to join in. Now he'd prefer to just watch or me go out alone. He's not interested in me sexually anymore but knows I have needs. I LOVE him watching."
Doesn’t that make you sad that he’s not interested in you sexually? |
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"My hubby used to join in. Now he'd prefer to just watch or me go out alone. He's not interested in me sexually anymore but knows I have needs. I LOVE him watching.
Doesn’t that make you sad that he’s not interested in you sexually? "
Oh yes. But I'm more or less over the pain. Acceptance of it was hard but needed. |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL |
If its a voyeur, hot wife or cuckold situation then fine. If its a single using a couples profile to get meets without partner ever being present or active on the profile then I would say it's not OK. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi. My husband doesnt play only i do, and thats his choice. He just enjoys watching."
I’ve found I’m a bit of a ‘watcher’ but try to tell me I’m not joining in! It’s all too sexy not to want to dive in. Hotwife/voyeur whatever the label it’s the love of my life being sexy as I can only imagine two feet away from me...I start to get a bit turned on.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s how we play too. Husband joins in but only with me. That’s totally his choice and I would actually like husband to play but he just doesn’t feel the need to. It’s worked OK with couples in the past as no one is left out but is generally easier with singles x |
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I’ve always preferred to watch and although I joined in on many occasions I could take it or leave it .
The assumption by so many is that I couldn’t satisfy my wife , which is nonsense . It was always a joint thing , and we both loved the reclamation sex after a meet . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if I was in a couple this not for me personal I am alpha in the bed room "caveman women here now" type haha but love a women to watch me and play with herself watching me with another women hey a man can dream   |
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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago
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The assumption by so many is that I couldn’t satisfy my wife , which is nonsense . It was always a joint thing , and we both loved the reclamation sex after a meet . "
Totally get where you're coming from with the assumption claim, jeez! It's those with this lack of understanding we try to avoid with a passion. The reclamation sex isn't something that's entered our thoughts (yet), not ruling it out though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I dont play with other men but happy for my mister to play with other women without me there or i do watch. I can be selectively bi too.
single fems only so far |
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We always play as a pair
But a couple we know ,
She had a bit of a wobble when she saw her guy with my mrs
So now we call this or 3 and a bit sum
The girls play FF
Both guys enjoy the lady
But he only enjoys his Mrs and not mine
She does very well
I do very well
My Mrs and the other guy don't do quite so well
But we are all good mates and it works for us |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My hubby used to join in. Now he'd prefer to just watch or me go out alone. He's not interested in me sexually anymore but knows I have needs. I LOVE him watching."
Would love to help .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are there many of us? And by play I mean engages in any kind of sexual activity with another person apart from your partner (watching or joining in with a threesome where you only touch your partner doesn't count). Cuckold situations also exclude.
How has this worked when playing with other couples? Do the ones who don't play sit there twiddling their thumbs while the ones who do crack on?
Asking for a friend...OK, asking for myself, but seriously, how does it work out?"
My husband doesn’t play and has no desire to do so. I arrange my meets, and I’ll let him know when I’m meeting. Easy  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Are there many of us? And by play I mean engages in any kind of sexual activity with another person apart from your partner (watching or joining in with a threesome where you only touch your partner doesn't count). Cuckold situations also exclude.
How has this worked when playing with other couples? Do the ones who don't play sit there twiddling their thumbs while the ones who do crack on?
Asking for a friend...OK, asking for myself, but seriously, how does it work out?
My husband doesn’t play and has no desire to do so. I arrange my meets, and I’ll let him know when I’m meeting. Easy "
He also doesn’t come to any meets or anything so if I was meeting a couple he wouldn’t be there |
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