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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey.
So came out of a swinging relationship that he shared for 3/4 years about 2 months ago.
It was about a month before we split that I last went.
I have always been the one to go to the club.
Now feels like I make excuses not to go as a single lad.
Any advice? Anyone go through this as well?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'm reading this correctly, you are looking for advice on going alone to club?
I'm not sure what advice I can give you as if you have been before as a couple you will know the ropes.
Obviously go on a night when single guys are permitted. Chat to people and smile so as to come across as friendly.
Don't expect play, just see it as a bonus if it happens. |
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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago
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"Hey.
So came out of a swinging relationship that he shared for 3/4 years about 2 months ago.
It was about a month before we split that I last went.
I have always been the one to go to the club.
Now feels like I make excuses not to go as a single lad.
Any advice? Anyone go through this as well?
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Aww sorry to hear OP.... however don't isolate yourself. You can still enjoy the social side without becoming a wanking single male zombie.
It's always tough after a break up esp as it wss something you shared and the first few times will probably be really hard because you'll miss them and almost be a bit resentful they aren't there to share/experience it with you.
I hated it and stopped swinging for a time but was miserable as I missed friends I'd made (zero sex just friendship)
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Yeah probably not the best forum post to put at 7 am lol especially if just waking up, lol
No I’ve been as a single lad many times. I know the drill, don’t know just feeling apprehensive going now single again lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Relationship changes can massively effect a person (some people adjust quickly).
Just socialise with people dude, just like you’ve probably always done. Don’t look at sex as a necessity, you know?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hey.
So came out of a swinging relationship that he shared for 3/4 years about 2 months ago.
It was about a month before we split that I last went.
I have always been the one to go to the club.
Now feels like I make excuses not to go as a single lad.
Any advice? Anyone go through this as well?
Aww sorry to hear OP.... however don't isolate yourself. You can still enjoy the social side without becoming a wanking single male zombie.
It's always tough after a break up esp as it wss something you shared and the first few times will probably be really hard because you'll miss them and almost be a bit resentful they aren't there to share/experience it with you.
I hated it and stopped swinging for a time but was miserable as I missed friends I'd made (zero sex just friendship)
Life is short... do what makes you happy "
Im hopefully headed back to Uk for a few months soon. So hopefully pick it back up again. Spain has zero social events. The community on the Costa del sol is so small that idiots ruin it for those who like the social side of the lifestyle. |
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