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By *urfdude OP Man
over a year ago
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Hi, I have a question for the lady members here and hope you can answer.
In my job I deal with the public alot, especially some nice women - no matter how hard that I try not to look I am always getting caught look at their boobs ! I know I am a pervert + a man so it cant be helped.
How do you women know that we are looking at them no matter how discreet we try to be  Or how can I not get caught ??
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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try not looking directly at the tits and using your peripheral vision to admire them alternatively just be blatant and hope they take it as a compliment of their amazing assets... if they didn't want people to look they wouldn't put them on show...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nothing to do with being a pervert and a man, a lot to do with immature disrespectful attitudes to women.
If you cant act appropriately in your job, there are thousands unemployed who can  "
i am one of those unemployed people you refer to and also a woman... if i put my cleavage on show i expect to be looked at.. why else would i wear a lower cut top... if i didn't want people to look i would cover up like a nun... if i walked into a shop and someone looked at my boobs it would make me smile because they are worth looking at.. its a confidence boost when people check you out...
you seem to be very angry today jemima... would you like a cup of chamomile tea and a hug ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Doesn't bother me in the slightest when people stare and..... Girls are worse than men!!!"
i would stare definitely stare if i saw you in the street *hubba hubba* |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Doesn't bother me in the slightest when people stare and..... Girls are worse than men!!!"
Totally agree, but to be honest isn't it terrible when someone is talking to you looking you in the eye the whole time? feels more like an interogation than a conversation if there is no eye movement... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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they were invented for blokes to talk to and blow raspberries between when we think we are being amusing.
In 12 years I have no idea what mrs scoots looks like, think she's a blonde but couldn't be 100% sure. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Doesn't bother me in the slightest when people stare and..... Girls are worse than men!!!
Totally agree, but to be honest isn't it terrible when someone is talking to you looking you in the eye the whole time? feels more like an interogation than a conversation if there is no eye movement..."
Your right, I prefer when they talk to my boobs, it really turns me on. Mind you an old fat hairy bloke looking wouldn't turn me on, lol.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't look when talking to them, pretend your reading something and look under your eyebrows...
They know when you do, doesn't matter how you try, that's why they move their shoulders to the left or right, and see if your eyes/head moves, lololol
On a similar note, I found the best way to stop women looking at my willy when talking to me, was to put it back in and do up the zip  |
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"nothing to do with being a pervert and a man, a lot to do with immature disrespectful attitudes to women.
If you cant act appropriately in your job, there are thousands unemployed who can
i am one of those unemployed people you refer to and also a woman... if i put my cleavage on show i expect to be looked at.. why else would i wear a lower cut top... if i didn't want people to look i would cover up like a nun... if i walked into a shop and someone looked at my boobs it would make me smile because they are worth looking at.. its a confidence boost when people check you out...
you seem to be very angry today jemima... would you like a cup of chamomile tea and a hug ? "
i will have the hug, but im in a fab mood...
thing is, i have big boobs, i dont need to be in a cleavage hugging top to get stared at. Dont want to hijack a lighthearted thread, but staring doesnt just happen when women want it. Many feel uncomfortable under a gaze that treats them as boobs not a person.
i love attention when i am clearly dressed for it, but in a work situation then it is inappropriate unless you are a stripper
How would you feel ,no matter what you were wearing, if you went into a meeting about your mortage with your bank manager,and all he did as stare at your boobs? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"nothing to do with being a pervert and a man, a lot to do with immature disrespectful attitudes to women.
If you cant act appropriately in your job, there are thousands unemployed who can
i am one of those unemployed people you refer to and also a woman... if i put my cleavage on show i expect to be looked at.. why else would i wear a lower cut top... if i didn't want people to look i would cover up like a nun... if i walked into a shop and someone looked at my boobs it would make me smile because they are worth looking at.. its a confidence boost when people check you out...
you seem to be very angry today jemima... would you like a cup of chamomile tea and a hug ?
i will have the hug, but im in a fab mood...
thing is, i have big boobs, i dont need to be in a cleavage hugging top to get stared at. Dont want to hijack a lighthearted thread, but staring doesnt just happen when women want it. Many feel uncomfortable under a gaze that treats them as boobs not a person.
i love attention when i am clearly dressed for it, but in a work situation then it is inappropriate unless you are a stripper
How would you feel ,no matter what you were wearing, if you went into a meeting about your mortage with your bank manager,and all he did as stare at your boobs?"
Better about my chances of getting a loan ? LOL
I know how you feel i have huge boobs, but i tend to wear baggy jumpers if i dont want people to stare... or just mess up my hair and put on my "ugly face" lol that usually puts people off...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have over the years come across women who do it on purpose just to go "see! you looked!"
However I have a wide field of vision and this extends to admiring the boobage without being caught.
Girl I worked with said "steve do my boobs look bigger?"
I did not look and she was doing it for a laugh but then I moved my face within 2 inches of them. "yup"
Dont tempt me! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If I'm in a swinging club then I don't mind being ogled, I am dressed for ogling. I wouldn't even mind if guys had a quick grope.
If I'm not and I'm at work, in the supermarket etc, then I don't like my boobs to be stared and I wouldn't smile if I caught guys doing it.
At work I expect the men I work with to be professional and not letch at me. If they did and I was uncomfortable then I'd challenge them.
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
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Doesnt bother me if I have a low cut top on or showing them off, however, Im with jemima on this one...
I used to work in a male dominated environment and have always had extra boobage. I had to deal with having my chest spoken to instead of my face. And that was when I was wearing a very unflattering uniform, so Id bend down a bit to make eye contact which could leave some red faced.
If I was talking to someone in a shop or place of work and they were staring at my chest, unless it was brad pitt or mark webber Id walk out and wouldnt return.
Time and place in my opinion.
Apologies if that was a bit of a rant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys can look at my boobs, bum legs or whatever they like if it makes them happy.
I know there will come a time when nobody bothers looking, so I'll make the most of it while I can.  T
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys can look at my boobs, bum legs or whatever they like if it makes them happy.
I know there will come a time when nobody bothers looking, so I'll make the most of it while I can. T
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I totally agree with you xxx |
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
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"Boobs on display... stare away.
Boobs not on show... here is my face 'hello'"
Exactly. It is nice to be looked at dont get me wrong (hence my pro pic lol) but there's a time and place I think.
Maybe Im just a fuddy duddy |
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"Guys can look at my boobs, bum legs or whatever they like if it makes them happy.
I know there will come a time when nobody bothers looking, so I'll make the most of it while I can. T
XXX
I totally agree with you xxx"
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By *ynandiCouple
over a year ago
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"Guys can look at my boobs, bum legs or whatever they like if it makes them happy.
I know there will come a time when nobody bothers looking, so I'll make the most of it while I can. T
XXX"
Totally agree im not overly blessed with boobs, but i do wear a low cut top when i can and if they get looked at its makes me feel good they are boobs, and they are only looking, ok if they ripped your top off to admire then they are crossing a line, but simply havin a bit of a stare is just what it is, a peek. no touching, and no ones being hurt. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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End of the day if women didnt want anyone to stare at their boobs they would cover them up not flash them about in my work i deal with thousands of pounds everday and you can tell when a female wants more than the business is offering as i have seen a few very low cut tops and the bend over into my bag and show you everything move doesnt work on me  but im definately having a good eye full and im proud but if im talking to a women that is flashing a bit i wouldnt make it obvious im looking |
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By *udiguyMan
over a year ago
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so.. we are allowed to look when its ok for you , but not when its not ok? women eh? listen its an inbuilt response , we cant help it a work colleuege of mine said " you just stared at my tits" i said "did i ? sorry" .. did nt even know i had , and shes flat as a board |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"End of the day if women didnt want anyone to stare at their boobs they would cover them up not flash them about"
In all fairness even when I cover mine up (which makes them looks even more mahossive BTW)... they still get stared at!! 'Just saying'  |
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By *udiguyMan
over a year ago
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there is that , big boobs look big in anythin , and we guys like to use or imaginations ... nowt better than a lass in a big coat wi big boobs....... " by eck shes got summat in there tha knows" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi, I have a question for the lady members here and hope you can answer.
In my job I deal with the public alot, especially some nice women - no matter how hard that I try not to look I am always getting caught look at their boobs ! I know I am a pervert + a man so it cant be helped.
How do you women know that we are looking at them no matter how discreet we try to be Or how can I not get caught ??
Thanks in advance ! "
We know.... cos you are male.
With a pulse.
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By *odareyouMan
over a year ago
not far from iceland,,,,,, tescos is nearer though :-) (near leeds) |
You're at an awkward age, too young to be a dirty old man ( expected) .. too old to get away with the embarrassed look of a teenager, you need to learn the art of distraction .... 'what's that over there..? ' as her head turns .. good gawp ... , as she's turns back ...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My boobs get me served at the bar faster so thats good lol"
It works the other way round for me... I swear they leave me standing there longer so they can perv more!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On the flip side ladies, how many confess to having a glimps at the male "bulge and bum"
Hands up here and ive been caught!! the more I try and stop myself, the more I do it
Willy watcher Minx lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"On the flip side ladies, how many confess to having a glimps at the male "bulge and bum"
Hands up here and ive been caught!! the more I try and stop myself, the more I do it
Willy watcher Minx lol
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i look, never been caught though |
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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago
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"On the flip side ladies, how many confess to having a glimps at the male "bulge and bum"
Hands up here and ive been caught!! the more I try and stop myself, the more I do it
Willy watcher Minx lol
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Puts hand up and admits to getting caught a number of times |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i know i am gonna get some stick for this , but ----
always be on the left of a lady in a blouse ,
as it does up right over left the gape (if any )will always be on show
also less obviouse than straight on oggle of the boobies |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i know i am gonna get some stick for this , but ----
always be on the left of a lady in a blouse ,
as it does up right over left the gape (if any )will always be on show
also less obviouse than straight on oggle of the boobies"
Very good tip
Thats why I sew my gap up, such a spoil sport |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Another hint.. stand next to ladies that are substantially taller than you...
must admit i dont have much choice here, i'm only 5ft4"
+1
Love friendly hugs! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"nothing to do with being a pervert and a man, a lot to do with immature disrespectful attitudes to women.
If you cant act appropriately in your job, there are thousands unemployed who can
i am one of those unemployed people you refer to and also a woman... if i put my cleavage on show i expect to be looked at.. why else would i wear a lower cut top... if i didn't want people to look i would cover up like a nun... if i walked into a shop and someone looked at my boobs it would make me smile because they are worth looking at.. its a confidence boost when people check you out...
you seem to be very angry today jemima... would you like a cup of chamomile tea and a hug ? "
I was just about to write pretty much this, I know it's the norm these days, but if you walk around with half your tits out in the air what do you expect?
If guys walked around with half their round asses showing, and then told you women to stop looking, what would you say to us? "blooming put it away then!"
That said, it's not an impossible task and I'm pretty good at ignoring them, but sometimes its like a moth to a flame, and not because we're perverts, it's mostly because we know we aren't supposed to! |
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"nothing to do with being a pervert and a man, a lot to do with immature disrespectful attitudes to women.
If you cant act appropriately in your job, there are thousands unemployed who can
i am one of those unemployed people you refer to and also a woman... if i put my cleavage on show i expect to be looked at.. why else would i wear a lower cut top... if i didn't want people to look i would cover up like a nun... if i walked into a shop and someone looked at my boobs it would make me smile because they are worth looking at.. its a confidence boost when people check you out...
you seem to be very angry today jemima... would you like a cup of chamomile tea and a hug ?
I was just about to write pretty much this, I know it's the norm these days, but if you walk around with half your tits out in the air what do you expect?
If guys walked around with half their round asses showing, and then told you women to stop looking, what would you say to us? "blooming put it away then!"
That said, it's not an impossible task and I'm pretty good at ignoring them, but sometimes its like a moth to a flame, and not because we're perverts, it's mostly because we know we aren't supposed to!"
To be honest it would be a tad hypocritical of me to have tit pics on my profile, and then be over-sensitive to guys looking at them in the 'real' world.. that said, there are guys who manage to carry it off with aplomb..others pitifully blatant.
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By (user no longer on site)
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When me or my hubby see a guy enjoying a good look at my boobs we take it as a compliment as we r both proud of my 34E boobs ,,,,,,,,,,,
besides if I didnt want anyone to admire my boobs I wouldnt be wearing tops to show them off as much as poss !!
Our motto is if uv got it flaunt it !
Or is it that we r just nawty exhibitionists ? Lol !
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I remember when I was younger, my old told me that being blunt sometimes worked the best. He had told me a story about walking up to a girl and saying, "Hey love, nice tits". He then said that either two things would happen, a slap in the face or "How Dare you".
It's at this point where you can say, "Well would you have preferred me to say they were atrocious looking?" - at which point they either slap you again, or start talking to you...
It's worked two or three times when I've been half cut, and I've yet to get a "How dare you" or a slap. Why not try it mate lol |
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"When me or my hubby see a guy enjoying a good look at my boobs we take it as a compliment as we r both proud of my 34E boobs ,,,,,,,,,,,
besides if I didnt want anyone to admire my boobs I wouldnt be wearing tops to show them off as much as poss !!
Our motto is if uv got it flaunt it !
Or is it that we r just nawty exhibitionists ? Lol !
XX "
Come on people as soon as you read 34 E you did exactly what I did |
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"I remember when I was younger, my old told me that being blunt sometimes worked the best. He had told me a story about walking up to a girl and saying, "Hey love, nice tits". He then said that either two things would happen, a slap in the face or "How Dare you".
It's at this point where you can say, "Well would you have preferred me to say they were atrocious looking?" - at which point they either slap you again, or start talking to you...
It's worked two or three times when I've been half cut, and I've yet to get a "How dare you" or a slap. Why not try it mate lol"
And that is why women are more intelligent than us Jesus Christ isn't that sexual Harrassment?  |
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"My boobs get me served at the bar faster so thats good lol
It works the other way round for me... I swear they leave me standing there longer so they can perv more!! "
oooooh i want a barjob were you drink haha x |
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"I remember when I was younger, my old told me that being blunt sometimes worked the best. He had told me a story about walking up to a girl and saying, "Hey love, nice tits". He then said that either two things would happen, a slap in the face or "How Dare you".
It's at this point where you can say, "Well would you have preferred me to say they were atrocious looking?" - at which point they either slap you again, or start talking to you...
It's worked two or three times when I've been half cut, and I've yet to get a "How dare you" or a slap. Why not try it mate lol And that is why women are more intelligent than us Jesus Christ isn't that sexual Harrassment? "
Sexual harassment only occurs if the woman doesn't fancy the guy doing the "harassing"!  R |
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