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By *rblue38 OP Man over a year ago

Maidstone

I got to get this off my chest. It's really wind me up. I sent a polite non rude message to a lady on here. She was old enough to really know better. The response I got was quite shocking she said I looked vulgar and said that I am fat. Even though my profile says average. There is no need for that on here. A simple no thank you or just ignore me but to throw insults that is not on. I wanted to report it but she decided blocking me for her rudeness was enough. I am glad to know that not everyone is like her. Totally shocking really.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree that is rude she should have just deleted your message job done

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Some of these women are so rude and out of order....

Body shaming is never is never called for....

She probably wasn’t gym fit herself.....

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By *lorious hole bs16Man over a year ago

Bristol

Even though she has blocked you,it's still possible to report her.

It's worth thinking about because she will probably do it to someone else and i agree with you it is rude and out of order.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You can still report her either from the message she sent you or from the profile under the menu you see the report option

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By *rblue38 OP Man over a year ago

Maidstone

Thanks. I will do that. I didn't know you could

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By *r.BlondeMan over a year ago

Chester/Wirral

"Some of these women are so rude and out of order....

Body shaming is never is never called for....

She probably wasn’t gym fit herself..... "
She can't of been special as she wouldn't of bothered wasting time replying.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I got to get this off my chest. It's really wind me up. I sent a polite non rude message to a lady on here. She was old enough to really know better. The response I got was quite shocking she said I looked vulgar and said that I am fat. Even though my profile says average. There is no need for that on here. A simple no thank you or just ignore me but to throw insults that is not on. I wanted to report it but she decided blocking me for her rudeness was enough. I am glad to know that not everyone is like her. Totally shocking really. "
It happened to me I got pm off the back of a forum thread she was really nasty then blocked me how very brave these people are x

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By *rblue38 OP Man over a year ago

Maidstone

I know it, the problem is I am too nice. I need to harder up really on here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know it, the problem is I am too nice. I need to harder up really on here "
Dont let rude arseholes drag you down to their level x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Had the same myself, no need to be rude.

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By *rblue38 OP Man over a year ago

Maidstone

Shame you can't like comments on here. I like what you said Nessie. It does show how much care. They seem to get off by hurting others. It's her loss really I am a decent guy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Disgraceful

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By *upidsbowkissWoman over a year ago

City Center

Everyone gets rude messages. Block and move on.

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By *SAchickWoman over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"Everyone gets rude messages. Block and move on. "

Just what I was going to say. If she sees you've made a forum post about it she'll be loving the fact it's bothered you that much. Best to ignore block and report.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Shame you can't like comments on here. I like what you said Nessie. It does show how much care. They seem to get off by hurting others. It's her loss really I am a decent guy. "
You are it’s people like that that give the site a bad name there are some genuinely lovely people on here x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

She was out of order to be so rude

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By *urvymamaWoman over a year ago

Doncaster

You can still report her via the message itself and you can still report a profile that’s blocked you, you just follow the standards reporting procedures even though it says you can’t view the profile the buttons to do so are still available to do it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I had a message once saying I was fat, old , ugly, the usual but they didnt block me. So I replied is that the best you can do. You really need to up your game if you want to upset me.

I didnt block them and had a few more nasty messages but they went UNLOS after a few hours once they realised they didnt have the desired effect.

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By *ovegames42Man over a year ago

london

Sounds like you had a lucky escape “ who really wants to be around people like that “.

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By *ade and VanessaCouple over a year ago

Central Scotland

Definitely uncalled for and you can block her back.

Posting in the forums about it seems uncalled for to me too though.

V x

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By *rblue38 OP Man over a year ago

Maidstone

Thanks guys/girls for the advice. I have taken the appropriate action

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Definitely uncalled for and you can block her back.

Posting in the forums about it seems uncalled for to me too though.

V x"
True but when they block you it’s one way of venting your frustration

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By *entakuruMan over a year ago

Exeter

It's when it comes from people who's profiles state how much they hate rude people etc etc and they turn out to be massively rude and negative themselves...

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By *rblue38 OP Man over a year ago

Maidstone

Anyway I am not going to name and shame that's taking a little too far

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sorry gonna have to drop the c bomb they are just ignorant cunts simple as

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyway I am not going to name and shame that's taking a little too far "

I suffered from a naming and shaming issue. Was being blocked messages by people and has no idea what they were on about then being blocked. Turns out someone with a similar name had been a bit of a knobhead and I copped it by a few who couldn’t read/type

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's normally the quiet ones in real life that get nasty online. Sad aren't they.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's because of things like this that I don't reply to messages from guys I'm not interested in. A polite no thanks ends in a barrage of abuse. You're not fat. She has the problem.

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By *neSouthernKinkyCoupleCouple over a year ago

Portsmouth

"It's because of things like this that I don't reply to messages from guys I'm not interested in. A polite no thanks ends in a barrage of abuse. You're not fat. She has the problem. "

We completely agree, we have been on the receiving end ourselves.

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By *urls and DressesWoman over a year ago

Somewhere near here

How awful! If she wasn’t interested she should have just deleted or said so. I assure you not all of us are like that.

I have had a barrage of abusive messages when I’ve said no thanks or deleted, it’s annoying and uncalled for. There’s no need for anyone to be unkind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I know it, the problem is I am too nice. I need to harder up really on here "

Her problem not your mate. Dont let arseholes spoil it for you

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By *arah_kieran_ukCouple over a year ago

Greater London

That’s absolutely awful! We understand some people especially women and couples get a lot of messages but if there is nothing positive to say just delete the message.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"How awful! If she wasn’t interested she should have just deleted or said so. I assure you not all of us are like that.

I have had a barrage of abusive messages when I’ve said no thanks or deleted, it’s annoying and uncalled for. There’s no need for anyone to be unkind "

A lot of blokes can't take rejection unfortunately. Real shame x

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By *rightonsteveMan over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

If I get a rude message I say ‘fuck off you rude sod’ and that learns them a lesson they don’t forget that’s for sure.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Men do the same. You send polite No thank you and you got lots of abuse in return.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I get a rude message I say ‘fuck off you rude sod’ and that learns them a lesson they don’t forget that’s for sure. "
I like your style

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Anyway I am not going to name and shame that's taking a little too far

Yes sorry about that pal I'm always upforfun but born in 1979

Lets lighten the mood

Not very nice behaviour from this lady putting it midly pal

If you'd done something to wind her up like constant messaging etc or a little abusive yourself then the gloves are off I suppose

but if she did this like you say after a 1st nice initial message then that is just nasty and horrible

What a crying shame that your not allowed to name n shame on here as the person wouldn't probably come on

But there is 2 sides to every story as they say so as long as everything you've said is 110 then yes a naming and shaming would be good...

....in fact it could be a daily thread title

(But in all honesty I don't think anything else would be posted)

Seems like the way the world is going and how

Tough life is for most everyone's got a fab axe to grind in here in one way or another

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I get a rude message I say ‘fuck off you rude sod’ and that learns them a lesson they don’t forget that’s for sure. "

If I get a rude message Steve I'm round there within ten

Am I on the wrong page here pal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Horrible in mind horrible in person, report and then onwards and upwards

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

It happened to me I got pm off the back of a forum thread she was really nasty then blocked me how very brave these people are x"

Wonder if it was the same woman who sent me a nasty message? She was outwardly horrible to TVs on here too, it took ages for her to get banned off the site as well.

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By *rblue38 OP Man over a year ago

Maidstone

If she in her 50s you might be on to something

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

The person i'm on about wasn't that old.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is a weekly event for me I'm afraid, most men are polite, but I do get the odd rude/crude name calling. I just ignore them, but on the odd occasion it has really got to me.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes you get a few that think there the bees knees, and yeah they think they can speak down to those they think are not upto there standard, well I have one word and that is there NASTY.

again it's to do with preference and respect for each other

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