I’m the kind of person who likes to give feedback to someone if they give a bad interview...
In the same vein I’m very tempted to respond to the shockingly bad messages we receive with some blunt feedback to save the next lady/couple.
Does anyone do this or do you all just instantly block?
Guys - would you appreciate the advice? |
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"I’m the kind of person who likes to give feedback to someone if they give a bad interview...
In the same vein I’m very tempted to respond to the shockingly bad messages we receive with some blunt feedback to save the next lady/couple.
Does anyone do this or do you all just instantly block?
Guys - would you appreciate the advice?"
I do that too  |
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"I’m the kind of person who likes to give feedback to someone if they give a bad interview...
In the same vein I’m very tempted to respond to the shockingly bad messages we receive with some blunt feedback to save the next lady/couple.
Does anyone do this or do you all just instantly block?
Guys - would you appreciate the advice?"
I have in the past |
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"Only one slight problem op your help might only work for contacting you if u understand what I'm saying"
Totally see what you’re saying but I don’t think my tips would be that niche... is there anyone who goes for a pictureless profile with ‘Wanna fuck?’ as the message? |
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No, we never give advice on messages or profile unless it's specifically asked for. I'd rather they sent an abusive or crude message than cover up their nature until we or another unsuspecting soul met them. |
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"I’m the kind of person who likes to give feedback to someone if they give a bad interview...
In the same vein I’m very tempted to respond to the shockingly bad messages we receive with some blunt feedback to save the next lady/couple.
Does anyone do this or do you all just instantly block?
Guys - would you appreciate the advice?
I do that too "
Nice to know I'm not alone! And my apologies for not being more inclusive in my OP  |
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"I’m the kind of person who likes to give feedback to someone if they give a bad interview...
In the same vein I’m very tempted to respond to the shockingly bad messages we receive with some blunt feedback to save the next lady/couple.
Does anyone do this or do you all just instantly block?
Guys - would you appreciate the advice?
I have in the past "
I imagine it gets pretty boring after a while.. |
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"No, we never give advice on messages or profile unless it's specifically asked for. I'd rather they sent an abusive or crude message than cover up their nature until we or another unsuspecting soul met them."
Eek, good point! I hadn’t thought of that  |
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"I’m the kind of person who likes to give feedback to someone if they give a bad interview...
In the same vein I’m very tempted to respond to the shockingly bad messages we receive with some blunt feedback to save the next lady/couple.
Does anyone do this or do you all just instantly block?
Guys - would you appreciate the advice?
I do that too
Nice to know I'm not alone! And my apologies for not being more inclusive in my OP "
I didn't really notice. I do it because I was once younger and more stupid and kinder people took the time to explain things to me. I had/have good role models. |
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Unless they specifically ask for it I wouldn't. Unless it's very general I think most advice is more subjective rather than objective. This in turn may be a bit of a hindrance than helpful. There are so many different approaches on here, and what works for one may not work for another. This can be down to a variety of things not least the individual character and how they pull it off. |
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"No, we never give advice on messages or profile unless it's specifically asked for. I'd rather they sent an abusive or crude message than cover up their nature until we or another unsuspecting soul met them.
Eek, good point! I hadn’t thought of that "
Some may cover up. If I get the slightest inclination that's the case. Then I'd not bother responding at all. Some people are polite and are curious, are genuine and being honest with me.
I may not feel attracted to them at the moment, or ever, but a little helpful advice, given with the best intentions. That can change someone's life. |
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"Unless they specifically ask for it I wouldn't. Unless it's very general I think most advice is more subjective rather than objective. This in turn may be a bit of a hindrance than helpful. There are so many different approaches on here, and what works for one may not work for another. This can be down to a variety of things not least the individual character and how they pull it off. "
I totally agree that everyone has different preferences, and that’s what I love about fab. I don’t mind when someone gets in touch suggesting something we’re just not into. But I don’t think there’s anyone who doesn’t like it when someone has a profile picture, has clearly read your profile and sends a message of more than 3 words? Or do they?? |
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"No, we never give advice on messages or profile unless it's specifically asked for. I'd rather they sent an abusive or crude message than cover up their nature until we or another unsuspecting soul met them.
Eek, good point! I hadn’t thought of that
Some may cover up. If I get the slightest inclination that's the case. Then I'd not bother responding at all. Some people are polite and are curious, are genuine and being honest with me.
I may not feel attracted to them at the moment, or ever, but a little helpful advice, given with the best intentions. That can change someone's life."
I’m going to go forth with this in mind  |
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"Yes please we do
Do it
Someone needs to buy you a bigger Spoon!
You lost me there but at the same time you are in the yanny team "
If they hurt your emotions in a way you bring it up on here there is no reason not to block them so do what you feel is right  |
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"Unless they specifically ask for it I wouldn't. Unless it's very general I think most advice is more subjective rather than objective. This in turn may be a bit of a hindrance than helpful. There are so many different approaches on here, and what works for one may not work for another. This can be down to a variety of things not least the individual character and how they pull it off.
I totally agree that everyone has different preferences, and that’s what I love about fab. I don’t mind when someone gets in touch suggesting something we’re just not into. But I don’t think there’s anyone who doesn’t like it when someone has a profile picture, has clearly read your profile and sends a message of more than 3 words? Or do they??"
I tend to just block. The reason, if they can't read or mostlikely ignored something, no matter how nicely you may say it, they'll chance it with the next target. Most of these people have been shown or told through forums or others and it goes in one ear and flows out the other. The forum is a good place to show things... On about 4 or 5 %*contribute where as about 60% read... (Figures been used often enough over the many years on fab.) |
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"Unless they specifically ask for it I wouldn't. Unless it's very general I think most advice is more subjective rather than objective. This in turn may be a bit of a hindrance than helpful. There are so many different approaches on here, and what works for one may not work for another. This can be down to a variety of things not least the individual character and how they pull it off.
I totally agree that everyone has different preferences, and that’s what I love about fab. I don’t mind when someone gets in touch suggesting something we’re just not into. But I don’t think there’s anyone who doesn’t like it when someone has a profile picture, has clearly read your profile and sends a message of more than 3 words? Or do they??
I tend to just block. The reason, if they can't read or mostlikely ignored something, no matter how nicely you may say it, they'll chance it with the next target. Most of these people have been shown or told through forums or others and it goes in one ear and flows out the other. The forum is a good place to show things... On about 4 or 5 %*contribute where as about 60% read... (Figures been used often enough over the many years on fab.) "
Ooh how interesting- thanks for that. |
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