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"I have to be completely honest and I'm assuming this is tongue-in-cheek but if not I don't like the idea of someone starting a thread asking whether Men really like larger ladies or whether we're just any hole is a goal!" | |||
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"I have to be completely honest and I'm assuming this is tongue-in-cheek but if not I don't like the idea of someone starting a thread asking whether Men really like larger ladies or whether we're just any hole is a goal!" It's a serious question | |||
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"Men Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal? Would you be seen with us in public? I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive. I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious. Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji ) " Drop ya age too 30 and I'll prove 2 you I'd be happy 2 be seen with you | |||
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"I have to be completely honest and I'm assuming this is tongue-in-cheek but if not I don't like the idea of someone starting a thread asking whether Men really like larger ladies or whether we're just any hole is a goal! It's a serious question" I just don't understand why you would ask something like that because that's suggesting only men that are desperate would consider going near a larger woman. | |||
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"I don't believe OP meant any disrespect, we all have a moment of low self esteem from time to time! Just didn't read very well x" i understand that was i've been some very contentious threads about this recently so i don't understand why another 1 would be started. | |||
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"I have to be completely honest and I'm assuming this is tongue-in-cheek but if not I don't like the idea of someone starting a thread asking whether Men really like larger ladies or whether we're just any hole is a goal! It's a serious question" You can see why this would be offensive to bigger women right? It's down to what people like individually, what floats ones boat, won't float another's. What doesn't tickle one's pickle will tickle another's. I thought that was obvious. | |||
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"I have to be completely honest and I'm assuming this is tongue-in-cheek but if not I don't like the idea of someone starting a thread asking whether Men really like larger ladies or whether we're just any hole is a goal! It's a serious question I just don't understand why you would ask something like that because that's suggesting only men that are desperate would consider going near a larger woman. " It’s something she is thinking out loud, what better place to ask than an (almost) anonymous multi media platform x | |||
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"I know where you’re coming from Poca, when I first joined a few years back, that was my mind set. But now, I just enjoy it. I’ve met some amazing men on here, a few I would class as very close friends where it’s not just about sex. I wouldn’t trade my experiences on here for anything, get more hassle from jealous women than blokes lol BTW, you’re a beaut from what I can see! Amazing boobs " I wish I could just get over myself! I used to see it as fun but I've put on a couple of stone and just feel that anyone interested is taking the piss Isheeeeeews! | |||
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"I know where you’re coming from Poca, when I first joined a few years back, that was my mind set. But now, I just enjoy it. I’ve met some amazing men on here, a few I would class as very close friends where it’s not just about sex. I wouldn’t trade my experiences on here for anything, get more hassle from jealous women than blokes lol BTW, you’re a beaut from what I can see! Amazing boobs I wish I could just get over myself! I used to see it as fun but I've put on a couple of stone and just feel that anyone interested is taking the piss Isheeeeeews! " I'm sorry you feel that way but again the way you have worded it is fairly offensive to anybody that's a little bit overweight or very overweight for that matter. I just feel you could have worded that a bit better. | |||
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"I don't believe OP meant any disrespect, we all have a moment of low self esteem from time to time! Just didn't read very well x" Thanks gorgeous X I was thinking out loud after too much wine and a cancelled meet because I feel shit about myself. It was an honest question x | |||
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"I know where you’re coming from Poca, when I first joined a few years back, that was my mind set. But now, I just enjoy it. I’ve met some amazing men on here, a few I would class as very close friends where it’s not just about sex. I wouldn’t trade my experiences on here for anything, get more hassle from jealous women than blokes lol BTW, you’re a beaut from what I can see! Amazing boobs I wish I could just get over myself! I used to see it as fun but I've put on a couple of stone and just feel that anyone interested is taking the piss Isheeeeeews! I'm sorry you feel that way but again the way you have worded it is fairly offensive to anybody that's a little bit overweight or very overweight for that matter. I just feel you could have worded that a bit better. " I’m not offended in the slightest and i’m Fatter than Poca x | |||
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"I know where you’re coming from Poca, when I first joined a few years back, that was my mind set. But now, I just enjoy it. I’ve met some amazing men on here, a few I would class as very close friends where it’s not just about sex. I wouldn’t trade my experiences on here for anything, get more hassle from jealous women than blokes lol BTW, you’re a beaut from what I can see! Amazing boobs I wish I could just get over myself! I used to see it as fun but I've put on a couple of stone and just feel that anyone interested is taking the piss Isheeeeeews! " Oh of course, we all get like that. Even slimmer women do. I know the guys get like that too sweet. Honestly, don’t look on it as are you good enough for them, sod that! Are they good enough for you darlin x | |||
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"I love fat birds, but it's a shame that when you're in bed you have to roll them in flour to find the wet spot. " You’re obviously doing it wrong then sweetcheeks! | |||
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" I'm sorry you feel that way but again the way you have worded it is fairly offensive to anybody that's a little bit overweight or very overweight for that matter. I just feel you could have worded that a bit better. " I didn't mean to offend I was asking a question. X | |||
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"I know where you’re coming from Poca, when I first joined a few years back, that was my mind set. But now, I just enjoy it. I’ve met some amazing men on here, a few I would class as very close friends where it’s not just about sex. I wouldn’t trade my experiences on here for anything, get more hassle from jealous women than blokes lol BTW, you’re a beaut from what I can see! Amazing boobs I wish I could just get over myself! I used to see it as fun but I've put on a couple of stone and just feel that anyone interested is taking the piss Isheeeeeews! Oh of course, we all get like that. Even slimmer women do. I know the guys get like that too sweet. Honestly, don’t look on it as are you good enough for them, sod that! Are they good enough for you darlin x " Thanks lovely X I think it's maybe time for me to have a Fab break! Xx | |||
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"Pixie you look good!! " Thank you kindly *bows | |||
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" I'm sorry you feel that way but again the way you have worded it is fairly offensive to anybody that's a little bit overweight or very overweight for that matter. I just feel you could have worded that a bit better. I didn't mean to offend I was asking a question. X" I do understand that and I'm sorry genuinely that you feel that. It's a bit of a sensitive subject for me anyway because I get abuse semi regularly from people on this site because of my way so I just get a little bit sensitive I guess. I hope you feel better about yourself very soon and if a guy only wants you because he just wants any pussy and he's not worth your time regardless of your size. X | |||
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" I'm sorry you feel that way but again the way you have worded it is fairly offensive to anybody that's a little bit overweight or very overweight for that matter. I just feel you could have worded that a bit better. I didn't mean to offend I was asking a question. X I do understand that and I'm sorry genuinely that you feel that. It's a bit of a sensitive subject for me anyway because I get abuse semi regularly from people on this site because of my way so I just get a little bit sensitive I guess. I hope you feel better about yourself very soon and if a guy only wants you because he just wants any pussy and he's not worth your time regardless of your size. X " Really??? What is with people? Mannn I don’t get why people are given abuse on here, I know it happens as it’s happened to me in the past but now I just report & block. There will always be someone who has to try and dim your light, bugger to them. You do you and crack on | |||
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" I'm sorry you feel that way but again the way you have worded it is fairly offensive to anybody that's a little bit overweight or very overweight for that matter. I just feel you could have worded that a bit better. I didn't mean to offend I was asking a question. X I do understand that and I'm sorry genuinely that you feel that. It's a bit of a sensitive subject for me anyway because I get abuse semi regularly from people on this site because of my way so I just get a little bit sensitive I guess. I hope you feel better about yourself very soon and if a guy only wants you because he just wants any pussy and he's not worth your time regardless of your size. X Really??? What is with people? Mannn I don’t get why people are given abuse on here, I know it happens as it’s happened to me in the past but now I just report & block. There will always be someone who has to try and dim your light, bugger to them. You do you and crack on " I guess I shouldn't have even entered the thread because I know it can be a bit like a red rag to a bull to me sometimes. of course I do that one it's private messages it's just some of the abuses come on the forums so like I said it's probably my own fault for entering the thread. | |||
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"Men Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal? Would you be seen with us in public? I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive. I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious. Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji ) " It's not just you women who have body confidence issues. Us men are just the same though most don't admit it. Though I can only speak for myself. When I see a gorgeous,sexy and attractive woman I just see what I see. It bares no relevance to the size or shape you think you are. It is everything that is you. Body, mind and soul!! Beauty comes from within and follows from there | |||
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" I'm sorry you feel that way but again the way you have worded it is fairly offensive to anybody that's a little bit overweight or very overweight for that matter. I just feel you could have worded that a bit better. I didn't mean to offend I was asking a question. X I do understand that and I'm sorry genuinely that you feel that. It's a bit of a sensitive subject for me anyway because I get abuse semi regularly from people on this site because of my way so I just get a little bit sensitive I guess. I hope you feel better about yourself very soon and if a guy only wants you because he just wants any pussy and he's not worth your time regardless of your size. X Really??? What is with people? Mannn I don’t get why people are given abuse on here, I know it happens as it’s happened to me in the past but now I just report & block. There will always be someone who has to try and dim your light, bugger to them. You do you and crack on I guess I shouldn't have even entered the thread because I know it can be a bit like a red rag to a bull to me sometimes. of course I do that one it's private messages it's just some of the abuses come on the forums so like I said it's probably my own fault for entering the thread. " You should never feel like you can’t comment on a thread sweet, that’s absurd! Feel like I need to start a thread about getting women’s confidence up. You have great pics, your veris are good, I don’t think you have anything to doubt darlin x Someone will always try n bring you down, women as well as men. Hold your head up cause you know you got this xx | |||
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"Men Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal? Would you be seen with us in public? I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive. I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious. Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji ) It's not just you women who have body confidence issues. Us men are just the same though most don't admit it. Though I can only speak for myself. When I see a gorgeous,sexy and attractive woman I just see what I see. It bares no relevance to the size or shape you think you are. It is everything that is you. Body, mind and soul!! Beauty comes from within and follows from there " You Sir, win the t’internets today! Couldnt have said it better myself. It’s taken me a while to feel totally confident in myself, helped by a wonderful man friend. But now i won’t let anyone drag me down x | |||
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" I'm sorry you feel that way but again the way you have worded it is fairly offensive to anybody that's a little bit overweight or very overweight for that matter. I just feel you could have worded that a bit better. I didn't mean to offend I was asking a question. X I do understand that and I'm sorry genuinely that you feel that. It's a bit of a sensitive subject for me anyway because I get abuse semi regularly from people on this site because of my way so I just get a little bit sensitive I guess. I hope you feel better about yourself very soon and if a guy only wants you because he just wants any pussy and he's not worth your time regardless of your size. X Really??? What is with people? Mannn I don’t get why people are given abuse on here, I know it happens as it’s happened to me in the past but now I just report & block. There will always be someone who has to try and dim your light, bugger to them. You do you and crack on I guess I shouldn't have even entered the thread because I know it can be a bit like a red rag to a bull to me sometimes. of course I do that one it's private messages it's just some of the abuses come on the forums so like I said it's probably my own fault for entering the thread. You should never feel like you can’t comment on a thread sweet, that’s absurd! Feel like I need to start a thread about getting women’s confidence up. You have great pics, your veris are good, I don’t think you have anything to doubt darlin x Someone will always try n bring you down, women as well as men. Hold your head up cause you know you got this xx" That's the point last weekend I was told to get off a thread because it was for thin people and people that appreciated them and that I should stick with my little band of Desperate merry men and leave everybody else alone so I feel a bit embarrassed that I reacted the way I did initially on this thread. | |||
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"Men Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal? Would you be seen with us in public? I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive. I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious. Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji ) " Some fellas on here would stick their willies in the crack of a pavement and hump it, so you should be O.K. | |||
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"But, and this is something I've commented on before, why are there never threads on how great fat blokes are. " But this wasn't a thread about how great fat women are! | |||
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"But, and this is something I've commented on before, why are there never threads on how great fat blokes are. " There's loads, just search for BHM on the forum search. | |||
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"Men Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal? Would you be seen with us in public? I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive. I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious. Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji ) " Ffs if your fat I'm fucking massive and don't have the balls to do a full body half naked photo. I don't like my body I wouldn't expect anyone else to do so. | |||
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" That's the point last weekend I was told to get off a thread because it was for thin people and people that appreciated them and that I should stick with my little band of Desperate merry men and leave everybody else alone so I feel a bit embarrassed that I reacted the way I did initially on this thread. " Are you kidding? I hope you reported it! There’s no need for that. | |||
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" That's the point last weekend I was told to get off a thread because it was for thin people and people that appreciated them and that I should stick with my little band of Desperate merry men and leave everybody else alone so I feel a bit embarrassed that I reacted the way I did initially on this thread. Are you kidding? I hope you reported it! There’s no need for that." I did. | |||
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" That's the point last weekend I was told to get off a thread because it was for thin people and people that appreciated them and that I should stick with my little band of Desperate merry men and leave everybody else alone so I feel a bit embarrassed that I reacted the way I did initially on this thread. Are you kidding? I hope you reported it! There’s no need for that. I did. " I'm always getting reported. Snowflakes | |||
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" That's the point last weekend I was told to get off a thread because it was for thin people and people that appreciated them and that I should stick with my little band of Desperate merry men and leave everybody else alone so I feel a bit embarrassed that I reacted the way I did initially on this thread. Are you kidding? I hope you reported it! There’s no need for that. I did. I'm always getting reported. Snowflakes" Not tolerating abuse or offensive comment does not make someone a snowflake! | |||
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" That's the point last weekend I was told to get off a thread because it was for thin people and people that appreciated them and that I should stick with my little band of Desperate merry men and leave everybody else alone so I feel a bit embarrassed that I reacted the way I did initially on this thread. Are you kidding? I hope you reported it! There’s no need for that. I did. I'm always getting reported. Snowflakes" You get reported for being a snowflake?? But your profile says easy going.... don’t get it | |||
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" That's the point last weekend I was told to get off a thread because it was for thin people and people that appreciated them and that I should stick with my little band of Desperate merry men and leave everybody else alone so I feel a bit embarrassed that I reacted the way I did initially on this thread. Are you kidding? I hope you reported it! There’s no need for that. I did. I'm always getting reported. Snowflakes You get reported for being a snowflake?? But your profile says easy going.... don’t get it " Sorry but I didn't laugh out loud to your post. | |||
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"Men Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal? Would you be seen with us in public? I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive. I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious. Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji ) Ffs if your fat I'm fucking massive and don't have the balls to do a full body half naked photo. I don't like my body I wouldn't expect anyone else to do so. " You have your partner. And I fail to see how you're any bigger than me I'm envious of you - you're gorgeous and kind and have someone that loves you. Regardless of how fat you Are! Xx | |||
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"I love women of all shapes and sizes, I can’t explain it but I find women with a voluptuous figure more appealing outgoing and fun to be with, might just be the women I know, (bones for dogs meat for men).... sorry that might have been derogatory. " Your post is your opinion and you're entitled to it but your "bones for digs meat for men" comment is incredibly derogatory. | |||
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"Men Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal? Would you be seen with us in public? I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive. I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious. Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji ) Ffs if your fat I'm fucking massive and don't have the balls to do a full body half naked photo. I don't like my body I wouldn't expect anyone else to do so. You have your partner. And I fail to see how you're any bigger than me I'm envious of you - you're gorgeous and kind and have someone that loves you. Regardless of how fat you Are! Xx" Bless you that's very kind. I got him via my mind not my size, it fluctuates a lot. | |||
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"*dogs" Apologies for any offence caused I know people of all shapes and sizes have body confidence issues (yes should sometimes keep my thoughts to my self) I myself am far from perfect, what I said was tongue and cheek!!!..... | |||
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"What I find incredible is that a woman makes a post on here which asks a simple question . The very same question so many women ask themselves on a daily basis . Then she gets grief for asking it by other women ! I applaud the op . For asking the question , for being so honest , for showing photos of herself that aren’t the result of hours of trying to show the most flattering shots . For simply having the gumption to ask the question that most women ask themselves . And the answer is this . There are plenty of me who wouldn’t be seen dead with a fat woman in public , but who will happily fuck them in private . And sometimes that’s ok as it’s just sex . But if anyone wants more than that , look for the guys who genuinely don’t care what size the lady is , and who would be proud to take them out . There are plenty of men like this too ." Deep | |||
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"*dogs Apologies for any offence caused I know people of all shapes and sizes have body confidence issues (yes should sometimes keep my thoughts to my self) I myself am far from perfect, what I said was tongue and cheek!!!..... " Then I suggest that when you're talking about women's bodies (or anyone's for that matter) you refrain from saying that certain shapes are suitable only for dogs. No need to apologise but its appreciated | |||
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"What I find incredible is that a woman makes a post on here which asks a simple question . The very same question so many women ask themselves on a daily basis . Then she gets grief for asking it by other women ! I applaud the op . For asking the question , for being so honest , for showing photos of herself that aren’t the result of hours of trying to show the most flattering shots . For simply having the gumption to ask the question that most women ask themselves . And the answer is this . There are plenty of me who wouldn’t be seen dead with a fat woman in public , but who will happily fuck them in private . And sometimes that’s ok as it’s just sex . But if anyone wants more than that , look for the guys who genuinely don’t care what size the lady is , and who would be proud to take them out . There are plenty of men like this too ." This don't just be used. | |||
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"*dogs Apologies for any offence caused I know people of all shapes and sizes have body confidence issues (yes should sometimes keep my thoughts to my self) I myself am far from perfect, what I said was tongue and cheek!!!..... Then I suggest that when you're talking about women's bodies (or anyone's for that matter) you refrain from saying that certain shapes are suitable only for dogs. No need to apologise but its appreciated " some times there is as I’m sure you know us men don’t always think first | |||
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"*dogs Apologies for any offence caused I know people of all shapes and sizes have body confidence issues (yes should sometimes keep my thoughts to my self) I myself am far from perfect, what I said was tongue and cheek!!!..... Then I suggest that when you're talking about women's bodies (or anyone's for that matter) you refrain from saying that certain shapes are suitable only for dogs. No need to apologise but its appreciated some times there is as I’m sure you know us men don’t always think first " Neither do women. You're not the first to use that phrase and it's not always men who do. Anyway it's over. Move forward older and wiser in my case flaming old | |||
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"I love women of all shapes and sizes, I can’t explain it but I find women with a voluptuous figure more appealing outgoing and fun to be with, might just be the women I know, (bones for dogs meat for men).... sorry that might have been derogatory. " My kind of man! | |||
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"*dogs Apologies for any offence caused I know people of all shapes and sizes have body confidence issues (yes should sometimes keep my thoughts to my self) I myself am far from perfect, what I said was tongue and cheek!!!..... Then I suggest that when you're talking about women's bodies (or anyone's for that matter) you refrain from saying that certain shapes are suitable only for dogs. No need to apologise but its appreciated some times there is as I’m sure you know us men don’t always think first Neither do women. You're not the first to use that phrase and it's not always men who do. Anyway it's over. Move forward older and wiser in my case flaming old " Experienced not old | |||
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"*dogs Apologies for any offence caused I know people of all shapes and sizes have body confidence issues (yes should sometimes keep my thoughts to my self) I myself am far from perfect, what I said was tongue and cheek!!!..... Then I suggest that when you're talking about women's bodies (or anyone's for that matter) you refrain from saying that certain shapes are suitable only for dogs. No need to apologise but its appreciated some times there is as I’m sure you know us men don’t always think first Neither do women. You're not the first to use that phrase and it's not always men who do. Anyway it's over. Move forward older and wiser in my case flaming old Experienced not old " . I'll take that | |||
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"Men Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal? Would you be seen with us in public? I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive. I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious. Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji ) " Great pics great figure far from fat from what I can see. But everyone has an opinion and people like and dislike what suits them the way I see it if someone doesn't want to be with me because of my size that's ok, that's their choice. I'm fat but I am strong both physically and mentally. Go to the gym regularly, last very dead lofts love doing squats but I love my food. I have a Good job, raised a kid alone, own house and am happy with my life and one thing I've noticed as I have got older no matter what size you are, what sex you are etc people will like you or they won't. So op don't worry about it keep your head up and wiggle that sassy ass | |||
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"I love BBW ladies Skinny does nothing for me Xx" Well done you, what a hero. Oh, the term is slim. | |||
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"I love BBW ladies Skinny does nothing for me Xx Well done you, what a hero. Oh, the term is slim. " How about the term lady end of | |||
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"I love BBW ladies Skinny does nothing for me Xx Well done you, what a hero. Oh, the term is slim. How about the term lady end of " Tell that to the lady who started a thread on BBWs | |||
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"I know where you’re coming from Poca, when I first joined a few years back, that was my mind set. But now, I just enjoy it. I’ve met some amazing men on here, a few I would class as very close friends where it’s not just about sex. I wouldn’t trade my experiences on here for anything, get more hassle from jealous women than blokes lol BTW, you’re a beaut from what I can see! Amazing boobs I wish I could just get over myself! I used to see it as fun but I've put on a couple of stone and just feel that anyone interested is taking the piss Isheeeeeews! " As a female in a couple I too have these moments. Confidence can slip or peak. Unfortunately from time to time I can feel the most unsexiest in the world, other times I can parade like a peacock. A lot is to do with your mind set. One thing I learnt from swinging is that usually if u think it then others see it. Think u look sexy and should have confidence to show it. Have a wobble but get back up and throw your knickers in the air like you really don't care | |||
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"I know where you’re coming from Poca, when I first joined a few years back, that was my mind set. But now, I just enjoy it. I’ve met some amazing men on here, a few I would class as very close friends where it’s not just about sex. I wouldn’t trade my experiences on here for anything, get more hassle from jealous women than blokes lol BTW, you’re a beaut from what I can see! Amazing boobs I wish I could just get over myself! I used to see it as fun but I've put on a couple of stone and just feel that anyone interested is taking the piss Isheeeeeews! As a female in a couple I too have these moments. Confidence can slip or peak. Unfortunately from time to time I can feel the most unsexiest in the world, other times I can parade like a peacock. A lot is to do with your mind set. One thing I learnt from swinging is that usually if u think it then others see it. Think u look sexy and should have confidence to show it. Have a wobble but get back up and throw your knickers in the air like you really don't care " | |||
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"I love BBW ladies Skinny does nothing for me Xx Well done you, what a hero. Oh, the term is slim. " Wondered when you would find the thread | |||
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"I know where you’re coming from Poca, when I first joined a few years back, that was my mind set. But now, I just enjoy it. I’ve met some amazing men on here, a few I would class as very close friends where it’s not just about sex. I wouldn’t trade my experiences on here for anything, get more hassle from jealous women than blokes lol BTW, you’re a beaut from what I can see! Amazing boobs I wish I could just get over myself! I used to see it as fun but I've put on a couple of stone and just feel that anyone interested is taking the piss Isheeeeeews! As a female in a couple I too have these moments. Confidence can slip or peak. Unfortunately from time to time I can feel the most unsexiest in the world, other times I can parade like a peacock. A lot is to do with your mind set. One thing I learnt from swinging is that usually if u think it then others see it. Think u look sexy and should have confidence to show it. Have a wobble but get back up and throw your knickers in the air like you really don't care " Known my luck they'd knock someone out | |||
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"I know where you’re coming from Poca, when I first joined a few years back, that was my mind set. But now, I just enjoy it. I’ve met some amazing men on here, a few I would class as very close friends where it’s not just about sex. I wouldn’t trade my experiences on here for anything, get more hassle from jealous women than blokes lol BTW, you’re a beaut from what I can see! Amazing boobs I wish I could just get over myself! I used to see it as fun but I've put on a couple of stone and just feel that anyone interested is taking the piss Isheeeeeews! As a female in a couple I too have these moments. Confidence can slip or peak. Unfortunately from time to time I can feel the most unsexiest in the world, other times I can parade like a peacock. A lot is to do with your mind set. One thing I learnt from swinging is that usually if u think it then others see it. Think u look sexy and should have confidence to show it. Have a wobble but get back up and throw your knickers in the air like you really don't care Known my luck they'd knock someone out " One way of knocking some one off their feet then just pounce | |||
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"I know where you’re coming from Poca, when I first joined a few years back, that was my mind set. But now, I just enjoy it. I’ve met some amazing men on here, a few I would class as very close friends where it’s not just about sex. I wouldn’t trade my experiences on here for anything, get more hassle from jealous women than blokes lol BTW, you’re a beaut from what I can see! Amazing boobs I wish I could just get over myself! I used to see it as fun but I've put on a couple of stone and just feel that anyone interested is taking the piss Isheeeeeews! As a female in a couple I too have these moments. Confidence can slip or peak. Unfortunately from time to time I can feel the most unsexiest in the world, other times I can parade like a peacock. A lot is to do with your mind set. One thing I learnt from swinging is that usually if u think it then others see it. Think u look sexy and should have confidence to show it. Have a wobble but get back up and throw your knickers in the air like you really don't care Known my luck they'd knock someone out One way of knocking some one off their feet then just pounce " May have to try that tactic nothing else working | |||
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"I’ve never felt like a chap was with me because I was the only thing available. I don’t see much of that attitude around. " Likewise in relation to fab and "the real world" | |||
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"I know where you’re coming from Poca, when I first joined a few years back, that was my mind set. But now, I just enjoy it. I’ve met some amazing men on here, a few I would class as very close friends where it’s not just about sex. I wouldn’t trade my experiences on here for anything, get more hassle from jealous women than blokes lol BTW, you’re a beaut from what I can see! Amazing boobs I wish I could just get over myself! I used to see it as fun but I've put on a couple of stone and just feel that anyone interested is taking the piss Isheeeeeews! As a female in a couple I too have these moments. Confidence can slip or peak. Unfortunately from time to time I can feel the most unsexiest in the world, other times I can parade like a peacock. A lot is to do with your mind set. One thing I learnt from swinging is that usually if u think it then others see it. Think u look sexy and should have confidence to show it. Have a wobble but get back up and throw your knickers in the air like you really don't care Known my luck they'd knock someone out One way of knocking some one off their feet then just pounce May have to try that tactic nothing else working " Can't see why not. Looking good to me. Proberly the lull before the Storm. Either That or it's too cold to meet lol | |||
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"I know where you’re coming from Poca, when I first joined a few years back, that was my mind set. But now, I just enjoy it. I’ve met some amazing men on here, a few I would class as very close friends where it’s not just about sex. I wouldn’t trade my experiences on here for anything, get more hassle from jealous women than blokes lol BTW, you’re a beaut from what I can see! Amazing boobs I wish I could just get over myself! I used to see it as fun but I've put on a couple of stone and just feel that anyone interested is taking the piss Isheeeeeews! As a female in a couple I too have these moments. Confidence can slip or peak. Unfortunately from time to time I can feel the most unsexiest in the world, other times I can parade like a peacock. A lot is to do with your mind set. One thing I learnt from swinging is that usually if u think it then others see it. Think u look sexy and should have confidence to show it. Have a wobble but get back up and throw your knickers in the air like you really don't care Known my luck they'd knock someone out One way of knocking some one off their feet then just pounce May have to try that tactic nothing else working Can't see why not. Looking good to me. Proberly the lull before the Storm. Either That or it's too cold to meet lol " Irish men are dreadful lol | |||
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"Men Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal? Would you be seen with us in public? I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive. I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious. Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji ) " Guys fuck me too so it really could be a goal thing. | |||
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"I love women of all shapes and sizes, I can’t explain it but I find women with a voluptuous figure more appealing outgoing and fun to be with, might just be the women I know, (bones for dogs meat for men).... sorry that might have been derogatory. " Yes it is and you knew that before you hit post, so no point back tracking now. | |||
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"I love BBW ladies Skinny does nothing for me Xx Well done you, what a hero. Oh, the term is slim. Wondered when you would find the thread " Took a while, but I’m here now. | |||
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"Men Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal? Would you be seen with us in public? I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive. I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious. Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji ) " Your not fat u have a lovely figure wish I had your figure! | |||
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"Men Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal? Would you be seen with us in public? I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive. I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious. Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji ) Some fellas on here would stick their willies in the crack of a pavement and hump it, so you should be O.K. " WTF! Are you for real? | |||
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"Try being a man with a fat belly instead of abs lol,seems us men do genuinely love bbw but not vice versa " I love a dad bod! The abs are nice to look at but even then I prefer a stocky rugby build type of guy | |||
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"Hope you're feeling better today Op. I always get the 'I'm fat' wobbles because, well, I am. But I try and remember that I'm still attractive - men might just want to fuck you (and you them!) but sometimes they don't give a toss about being seen with you in public and actively encourage it. They fancy you wobbles and all. Fingers crossed you don't feel so self conscious soon and have lots of great sex, x" Thanks chick I had too much wine last night after cancelling on a lovely guy that has been so nice to me. I'm missing out on life because I feel so bad about myself at the moment. It's a major overshare on a swingers site but fuck it | |||
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"Try being a man with a fat belly instead of abs lol,seems us men do genuinely love bbw but not vice versa I love a dad bod! The abs are nice to look at but even then I prefer a stocky rugby build type of guy " I like a dad bod too | |||
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"Try being a man with a fat belly instead of abs lol,seems us men do genuinely love bbw but not vice versa I love a dad bod! The abs are nice to look at but even then I prefer a stocky rugby build type of guy I like a dad bod too " Same here | |||
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"I find lots of things nice or attractive about women. I don't think I've ever thought of anyone as "any hole is a goal" Confidence is a plus for me, so head up high OP and don't let any insecurities trip you up. " You're so right- confidence is attractive but I just haven't got any at the moment | |||
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"I find lots of things nice or attractive about women. I don't think I've ever thought of anyone as "any hole is a goal" Confidence is a plus for me, so head up high OP and don't let any insecurities trip you up. You're so right- confidence is attractive but I just haven't got any at the moment " You look good and like I’ve said to you before your curves look great | |||
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"i can only answer for myself but i love girls size 22 plus you look so feminine and sexy .much nicer than an ironing board .enjoy your curves and be proud of them mr40 xx" Ironing boards!? | |||
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"Men Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal? Would you be seen with us in public? I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive. I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious. Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji ) " But you're not fat | |||
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"We all feel like this sometimes. It's more about how we feel about ourselves than actually look. Sometimes a break does wonders. Take care of yourself x " Whole heartedly agree with this, most people at some point will feel like this regardless of their body type. I know I feel like you sometimes and I’m determined to do something about it. Have started eating healthier again which isn’t too hard my worst problem is fluid intake I struggle to drink enough water, set my self goals now that if I drink at least two litres a day that I will have a treat on Friday. It might not be a big treat but it’s something to strive for. Think positive if you can, there are some lovely men out there. | |||
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"Try being a man with a fat belly instead of abs lol,seems us men do genuinely love bbw but not vice versa I disagree, there are many women like myself that prefer chunkier guys" Bring them to me pleeeease | |||
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"i can only answer for myself but i love girls size 22 plus you look so feminine and sexy .much nicer than an ironing board .enjoy your curves and be proud of them mr40 xx Ironing boards!? " My thoughts exactly! | |||
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"i can only answer for myself but i love girls size 22 plus you look so feminine and sexy .much nicer than an ironing board .enjoy your curves and be proud of them mr40 xx Ironing boards!? My thoughts exactly! " Incredible isn't it. On a thread offering reassurance to one group of women some find it necessary to put another group of women down. | |||
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"Men Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal? Would you be seen with us in public? I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive. I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious. Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji ) " I personally wouldnt want to sleep with anyone I wouldnt be seen with...and why wouldnt I be seen with a bbw? They are people and most of the ones I have met are very nice people albeit with 'fat' issues cos they have been told for most of their lives that being fat is wrong and they are ugly stupid lazy and all the rest of the bollocks that ingnoramus twats spout about being bigger. Well I love bigger women and I'm proud and happy to be seen with one on my arm...proves I am able to cope with a real woman rather than a barbie doll. So fuck the ignoramuses and be loud and proud of who you are! | |||
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"Men Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal? Would you be seen with us in public? I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive. I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious. Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji ) " Can't speak for all men, but yes, I like 'fat' women (though I must say, you wouldn't fall into the Fat category in my opinion). What's more, your full body pics are my favourites of yours. | |||
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"I would say it's more about confidence. I'm definitely a bbw and I'm confident in who I am and what I look like and that guys are attracted to me! That beimg said sometimes I definitely have moments of insecurity and hating what I'm looking at in the mirror, but then you just have to think of all the times someone has called you beautiful and genuinley meant it x " You are gorgeous hunni xx | |||
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"I would say it's more about confidence. I'm definitely a bbw and I'm confident in who I am and what I look like and that guys are attracted to me! That beimg said sometimes I definitely have moments of insecurity and hating what I'm looking at in the mirror, but then you just have to think of all the times someone has called you beautiful and genuinley meant it x You are gorgeous hunni xx" Thank you my lovely xx | |||
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"Hope you're feeling better today Op. I always get the 'I'm fat' wobbles because, well, I am. But I try and remember that I'm still attractive - men might just want to fuck you (and you them!) but sometimes they don't give a toss about being seen with you in public and actively encourage it. They fancy you wobbles and all. Fingers crossed you don't feel so self conscious soon and have lots of great sex, x Thanks chick I had too much wine last night after cancelling on a lovely guy that has been so nice to me. I'm missing out on life because I feel so bad about myself at the moment. It's a major overshare on a swingers site but fuck it " I know it sounds corny but, work on your self esteem. Only you can love you. Some guys will see your vulnerability and use that. You are beautiful. Ms | |||
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"Men Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal? Would you be seen with us in public? I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive. I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious. Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji ) " I have no problem with larger ladies. Have no problem being seen in public with larger ladies. Lets make a date | |||
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"I have to be completely honest and I'm assuming this is tongue-in-cheek but if not I don't like the idea of someone starting a thread asking whether Men really like larger ladies or whether we're just any hole is a goal!" Some men do actually have the ' any hole is a goal' mentality. By his own admission my ex was one of them but i think it is unfair to ask if this is the sole reason why men meet the more fuller figured lady. If men genuinely disliked this demographic and only viewed them as holes within which to pleadure themselves, every BBW in the world would be single! | |||
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"I have to be completely honest and I'm assuming this is tongue-in-cheek but if not I don't like the idea of someone starting a thread asking whether Men really like larger ladies or whether we're just any hole is a goal!" Besides, you could look like Meghan Fox, but by virtue of being on Fab there are men who wouldn't be seen dead with you. You only have to read certain threads. There are men, who will happily fuck a gorgeous married women but have no respect for the couples and would never share! | |||
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"Hope you're feeling better today Op. I always get the 'I'm fat' wobbles because, well, I am. But I try and remember that I'm still attractive - men might just want to fuck you (and you them!) but sometimes they don't give a toss about being seen with you in public and actively encourage it. They fancy you wobbles and all. Fingers crossed you don't feel so self conscious soon and have lots of great sex, x Thanks chick I had too much wine last night after cancelling on a lovely guy that has been so nice to me. I'm missing out on life because I feel so bad about myself at the moment. It's a major overshare on a swingers site but fuck it I know it sounds corny but, work on your self esteem. Only you can love you. Some guys will see your vulnerability and use that. You are beautiful. Ms" Aw thankyou - I don't feel it. I am taking on board what everyone is saying about confidence. But I just don't know where to start. I have tried to diet a million times sometimes reaching my "goal weight" but I always put it all plus some back on again. Even when I was slimmer I wasn't happy. I'm tired of trying to be someone else and just want to find someone that likes me as I am. | |||
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"Hope you're feeling better today Op. I always get the 'I'm fat' wobbles because, well, I am. But I try and remember that I'm still attractive - men might just want to fuck you (and you them!) but sometimes they don't give a toss about being seen with you in public and actively encourage it. They fancy you wobbles and all. Fingers crossed you don't feel so self conscious soon and have lots of great sex, x Thanks chick I had too much wine last night after cancelling on a lovely guy that has been so nice to me. I'm missing out on life because I feel so bad about myself at the moment. It's a major overshare on a swingers site but fuck it I know it sounds corny but, work on your self esteem. Only you can love you. Some guys will see your vulnerability and use that. You are beautiful. Ms Aw thankyou - I don't feel it. I am taking on board what everyone is saying about confidence. But I just don't know where to start. I have tried to diet a million times sometimes reaching my "goal weight" but I always put it all plus some back on again. Even when I was slimmer I wasn't happy. I'm tired of trying to be someone else and just want to find someone that likes me as I am. " That person has got to be you. Once you like yourself you will stop thinking everyone else dislikes you. | |||
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"i can only answer for myself but i love girls size 22 plus you look so feminine and sexy .much nicer than an ironing board .enjoy your curves and be proud of them mr40 xx Ironing boards!? My thoughts exactly! Incredible isn't it. On a thread offering reassurance to one group of women some find it necessary to put another group of women down. " Absolutely! They obviously don't get called out on it enough to keep repeating it | |||
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"i can only answer for myself but i love girls size 22 plus you look so feminine and sexy .much nicer than an ironing board .enjoy your curves and be proud of them mr40 xx Ironing boards!? My thoughts exactly! Incredible isn't it. On a thread offering reassurance to one group of women some find it necessary to put another group of women down. Absolutely! They obviously don't get called out on it enough to keep repeating it " Ironing boards... damn | |||
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"I don't believe OP meant any disrespect, we all have a moment of low self esteem from time to time! Just didn't read very well x" Agreed. I will add there is nothing more powerful than loving yourself. Beauty truly does come from within. Always be yourself and proud. Going to release a new tag... #OwnIt | |||
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"Aw thankyou - I don't feel it. I am taking on board what everyone is saying about confidence. But I just don't know where to start. I have tried to diet a million times sometimes reaching my "goal weight" but I always put it all plus some back on again. Even when I was slimmer I wasn't happy. I'm tired of trying to be someone else and just want to find someone that likes me as I am. " YOU. ARE. NOT. FAT. And fuck those who say so | |||
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"Men Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal? Would you be seen with us in public? I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive. I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious. Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji ) " I find you are actually the ideal woman I'm looking for on fabs. I genuinely love everything I've seen x im not saying that because I'm cuddly myself. It's because I am attracted to women like you I would love to get to know you anyday x | |||
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"Doesn't help the confidence of us BBW when we get stood up like I was last night. Bad enough anyway...but on my birthday too " Hugs and happy birthday Damn shame we not closer no way would we stand you guys up x | |||
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"Doesn't help the confidence of us BBW when we get stood up like I was last night. Bad enough anyway...but on my birthday too " It's not nice for anybody to get stood up. | |||
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"Doesn't help the confidence of us BBW when we get stood up like I was last night. Bad enough anyway...but on my birthday too " I can imagine that could knock anyones confidence | |||
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"Doesn't help the confidence of us BBW when we get stood up like I was last night. Bad enough anyway...but on my birthday too I can imagine that could knock anyones confidence " Yes sat waiting in the pub for an hour on my own. Still looking for a younger guy to join us at pleasures tomorrow...nobody seems interested. I'm beginning to wonder why I bother X | |||
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"I am taking on board what everyone is saying about confidence. But I just don't know where to start. I have tried to diet a million times sometimes reaching my "goal weight" but I always put it all plus some back on again. Even when I was slimmer I wasn't happy. I'm tired of trying to be someone else and just want to find someone that likes me as I am. " Read that back. It says your happiness is not dependent on your weight. That's the way it should be. I try and control my weight for health reasons, and deal with my self-confidence issues separately. Easier said than done. But next time you're having a good day a) take more pics b) message the guy you cancelled on and reschedule... | |||
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"Doesn't help the confidence of us BBW when we get stood up like I was last night. Bad enough anyway...but on my birthday too " You're part of a couple, you have all your mother gave you on show on a sex site, you have over 100 verifications...I don't lack confidence but would not pose as you do, so I'm not understanding your comment if I'm honest. Disappointment at missing out on a birthday treat - that I get, but confidence denting?!! | |||
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"Doesn't help the confidence of us BBW when we get stood up like I was last night. Bad enough anyway...but on my birthday too You're part of a couple, you have all your mother gave you on show on a sex site, you have over 100 verifications...I don't lack confidence but would not pose as you do, so I'm not understanding your comment if I'm honest. Disappointment at missing out on a birthday treat - that I get, but confidence denting?!!" Just because I have pictures that show my figure doesn't mean I don't have confidence issues. And it's hard to take it personally when you get stood up. Obviously he didn't want a social X | |||
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"Men Do you really like us fat women or is any hole a goal? Would you be seen with us in public? I didn't meet someone tonight because I feel massive. I have full body pics on my profile - but can't help but feel self conscious. Maybe it's because it's all the Nachos with stuff on them ( pig emoji ) " I proudly take out my BBW partners in public, make out with them, show the world I adore them. Love your curves. I'd adore them. | |||
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"Doesn't help the confidence of us BBW when we get stood up like I was last night. Bad enough anyway...but on my birthday too You're part of a couple, you have all your mother gave you on show on a sex site, you have over 100 verifications...I don't lack confidence but would not pose as you do, so I'm not understanding your comment if I'm honest. Disappointment at missing out on a birthday treat - that I get, but confidence denting?!! Just because I have pictures that show my figure doesn't mean I don't have confidence issues. And it's hard to take it personally when you get stood up. Obviously he didn't want a social X" My point is, why would you automatically assume it's because of your size? You have full, clear, pictures. Earlier in this thread I posted that for some men, even if you looked like Meghan Fox they won't meet you in public, regardless of what they say, in case they bump into someone they know. | |||
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" for some men, even if you looked like Meghan Fox they won't meet you in public, regardless of what they say, in case they bump into someone they know. " You're right. It's not even just about my weight anymore - it's about being a dirty secret. | |||
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" for some men, even if you looked like Meghan Fox they won't meet you in public, regardless of what they say, in case they bump into someone they know. You're right. It's not even just about my weight anymore - it's about being a dirty secret. " It really is down to how you choose to look at things. I prefer to keep my Fab life separate from my home/family life. I therefore wouldn't see myself/playmates as a "dirty secret" - just part of my private life. We are all different, and it's not for me to tell people how they should feel, but who do you think has a happier frame of mind? | |||
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" for some men, even if you looked like Meghan Fox they won't meet you in public, regardless of what they say, in case they bump into someone they know. You're right. It's not even just about my weight anymore - it's about being a dirty secret. It really is down to how you choose to look at things. I prefer to keep my Fab life separate from my home/family life. I therefore wouldn't see myself/playmates as a "dirty secret" - just part of my private life. We are all different, and it's not for me to tell people how they should feel, but who do you think has a happier frame of mind? " I don't have a family so we probably see things differently | |||
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