Hey guys. I'm new here, having trouble getting meets as a single guy lol. Any tips? I'm a good looking young lad whos willing to be used to most things so struggling to get the verifications up lol. Any advice? |
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"Hey guys. I'm new here, having trouble getting meets as a single guy lol. Any tips? I'm a good looking young lad whos willing to be used to most things so struggling to get the verifications up lol. Any advice?"
Just relax it will happen can take a little time  |
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"Hey guys. I'm new here, having trouble getting meets as a single guy lol. Any tips? I'm a good looking young lad whos willing to be used to most things so struggling to get the verifications up lol. Any advice?"
Advice - go somewhere else - you will not get a meet on here guaranteed - it is now a chat site |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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"Hey guys. I'm new here, having trouble getting meets as a single guy lol. Any tips? I'm a good looking young lad whos willing to be used to most things so struggling to get the verifications up lol. Any advice?
Advice - go somewhere else - you will not get a meet on here guaranteed - it is now a chat site"
You're doing OK as well, you've had two lol. So not meeting isn't guaranteed.  |
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"Hey guys. I'm new here, having trouble getting meets as a single guy lol. Any tips? I'm a good looking young lad whos willing to be used to most things so struggling to get the verifications up lol. Any advice?"
Get used to it. |
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"You're doing OK as well, you've had two lol. So not meeting isn't guaranteed. "
Ah but all is not as it seems - they could be verifications from people we met under a previous profile. The site has had it from a meetings perspective. Hours and hours of effort for nil result.  |
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"Lol mixed comments here, I'm finding the main problem is people just read messages and don't reply "
You might find that some people might read your message then mark it unread again.
A no response usually means no thank you.
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"You're doing OK as well, you've had two lol. So not meeting isn't guaranteed.
Ah but all is not as it seems - they could be verifications from people we met under a previous profile. The site has had it from a meetings perspective. Hours and hours of effort for nil result. "
We always amazed at how negative some people are on the site.
If you truly believe this is no longer a meeting site why not just leave.
Yes you have to do the hard work but there are rewards |
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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago
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If the site isn't working for people no one is forcing them to stay. All the tools are there to use to help with meeting. There's an awful lot of people who complain but don't use common sense or their gut instinct. |
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"If the site isn't working for people no one is forcing them to stay. All the tools are there to use to help with meeting. There's an awful lot of people who complain but don't use common sense or their gut instinct. "
Totally agree. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have been on here for two years. We also both have single profiles.
The thing always to take into account it is hard work to everyone on here.
Be you a single male female or couples
There are fantasists on here, those that just want a whole or a cock, those that just like to message people around but then there are genuine swingers on here.
The way forward is hard work and getting out there and letting people see your genuine.
Get to clubs. Be active and positive in forums.
Read profiles and if you meet their wants write a messages aimed at them or no copy and paste.
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"Hey guys. I'm new here, having trouble getting meets as a single guy lol. Any tips? I'm a good looking young lad whos willing to be used to most things so struggling to get the verifications up lol. Any advice?
Advice - go somewhere else - you will not get a meet on here guaranteed - it is now a chat site"
I chat and meet. It is possible to multitask! |
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Your chances are virtually nil. 99% of woman don't seem to be interested in meeting, and delete messages as soon as you send them or just ignore them. There's still that 1% though, so it's possible for a meet, just unlikely. |
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"What a pessimistic view so many have.
About 90% of woman on this site meet. Don't blame woman for the fact you are not having any success. "
Totally agree.
I think some just believe they are going to have it handed to them on a plate without any effort x |
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"What a pessimistic view so many have.
About 90% of woman on this site meet. Don't blame woman for the fact you are not having any success.
Totally agree.
I think some just believe they are going to have it handed to them on a plate without any effort x"
Indeed. Then its everyone else's fault. If I wasn't getting anywhere I would change my approach. |
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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago
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It’s normally people with virtually no profile text or public pictures that tend to do all the moaning about lack of meets!
I never understand why they never equate the two together 
I find the more effort you put in to your profile the easier you will find the site will work for you |
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"What a pessimistic view so many have.
About 90% of woman on this site meet. Don't blame woman for the fact you are not having any success.
Totally agree.
I think some just believe they are going to have it handed to them on a plate without any effort x
Indeed. Then its everyone else's fault. If I wasn't getting anywhere I would change my approach. "
Isn't insanity to try the same thing over and over and expect a different result?
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"What a pessimistic view so many have.
About 90% of woman on this site meet. Don't blame woman for the fact you are not having any success.
Totally agree.
I think some just believe they are going to have it handed to them on a plate without any effort x
Indeed. Then its everyone else's fault. If I wasn't getting anywhere I would change my approach.
Isn't insanity to try the same thing over and over and expect a different result?
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Yes it is but some will never learn lol |
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"What a pessimistic view so many have.
About 90% of woman on this site meet. Don't blame woman for the fact you are not having any success.
Totally agree.
I think some just believe they are going to have it handed to them on a plate without any effort x
Indeed. Then its everyone else's fault. If I wasn't getting anywhere I would change my approach.
Isn't insanity to try the same thing over and over and expect a different result?
Yes it is but some will never learn lol "
When I get into a rut, I always try a different plan. |
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"You're doing OK as well, you've had two lol. So not meeting isn't guaranteed.
Ah but all is not as it seems - they could be verifications from people we met under a previous profile. The site has had it from a meetings perspective. Hours and hours of effort for nil result. "
It's amazing the difference a positive attitude makes...
I find that negativity is unlikely to attract people.
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