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how much benefit of doubt is reasonable to give?
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"would you trust a single member profile with no verifications after 5 months and say in messages that their partner wants to watch them suck you tonight?
my instinct is not to trust them. "
Go with your gut.
If in doubt, don’t x |
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"would you trust a single member profile with no verifications after 5 months and say in messages that their partner wants to watch them suck you tonight?
my instinct is not to trust them. "
Itl be some weirdo knocking one out in his bedroom talking to you haha,plenty of them in fab,I take it with a pinch of salt and amuse myself with them usually  |
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"would you trust a single member profile with no verifications after 5 months and say in messages that their partner wants to watch them suck you tonight?
my instinct is not to trust them.
Go with your gut.
If in doubt, don’t x "
thanks sounds like you've had some experience or trust your instincts too |
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"would you trust a single member profile with no verifications after 5 months and say in messages that their partner wants to watch them suck you tonight?
my instinct is not to trust them.
Itl be some weirdo knocking one out in his bedroom talking to you haha,plenty of them in fab,I take it with a pinch of salt and amuse myself with them usually "
Unfortunately I suspect so. have asked for proof with a direct photo but they're claiming that the option isn't available |
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"would you trust a single member profile with no verifications after 5 months and say in messages that their partner wants to watch them suck you tonight?
my instinct is not to trust them.
Itl be some weirdo knocking one out in his bedroom talking to you haha,plenty of them in fab,I take it with a pinch of salt and amuse myself with them usually
Unfortunately I suspect so. have asked for proof with a direct photo but they're claiming that the option isn't available "
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"would you trust a single member profile with no verifications after 5 months and say in messages that their partner wants to watch them suck you tonight?
my instinct is not to trust them.
Itl be some weirdo knocking one out in his bedroom talking to you haha,plenty of them in fab,I take it with a pinch of salt and amuse myself with them usually
Unfortunately I suspect so. have asked for proof with a direct photo but they're claiming that the option isn't available "
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"Take a chance!"
I'm happy to drive 15miles if I have proof, like a picture. I appreciate it's difficult for newbies to get their first verification.
messaging them has not convinced me so I'm not going to pursue. let them chase me for a change |
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"would you trust a single member profile with no verifications after 5 months and say in messages that their partner wants to watch them suck you tonight?
my instinct is not to trust them.
Go with your gut.
If in doubt, don’t x "
BTW you have a wonderful profile description that's tongue in cheek but also polite and articulate. Good luck with finding suitable souls |
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"would you trust a single member profile with no verifications after 5 months and say in messages that their partner wants to watch them suck you tonight?
my instinct is not to trust them.
Go with your gut.
If in doubt, don’t x
thanks sounds like you've had some experience or trust your instincts too "
If I get a bad feeling, I’m out x |
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"would you trust a single member profile with no verifications after 5 months and say in messages that their partner wants to watch them suck you tonight?
my instinct is not to trust them.
Go with your gut.
If in doubt, don’t x
BTW you have a wonderful profile description that's tongue in cheek but also polite and articulate. Good luck with finding suitable souls "
That’s lovely 
Thank you... currently not seeking. I’m happy with the friends I’ve made socially or otherwise |
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"would you trust a single member profile with no verifications after 5 months and say in messages that their partner wants to watch them suck you tonight?
my instinct is not to trust them.
Go with your gut.
If in doubt, don’t x
BTW you have a wonderful profile description that's tongue in cheek but also polite and articulate. Good luck with finding suitable souls
That’s lovely
Thank you... currently not seeking. I’m happy with the friends I’ve made socially or otherwise "
glad to hear you're in a good place. Good luck with the insomnia |
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"would you trust a single member profile with no verifications after 5 months and say in messages that their partner wants to watch them suck you tonight?
my instinct is not to trust them. "
Verifications mean nothing to me. The opinion of a stranger on whether to meet another stranger is beyond the ken. I rely on my own judgement and don't go out of my way for a meet: that works for me.
I certainly wouldn't take any notice of "partners". Had a "woman" contact me once saying "she" got off on hearing "her" husband's sexploits, so could he meet me alone...yeah...right! |
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As a general rule (for us at least) if someone isn’t photo verified after a month, alarm bells start ringing ...some profiles have been on a year with no pics and no verifications ...that’s always a no no for us |
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"would you trust a single member profile with no verifications after 5 months and say in messages that their partner wants to watch them suck you tonight?
my instinct is not to trust them.
Verifications mean nothing to me. The opinion of a stranger on whether to meet another stranger is beyond the ken. I rely on my own judgement and don't go out of my way for a meet: that works for me.
I certainly wouldn't take any notice of "partners". Had a "woman" contact me once saying "she" got off on hearing "her" husband's sexploits, so could he meet me alone...yeah...right!"
Some women do get off on this. For so called open minded people some can have very fixed views on other peoples kinks. Yes some exploit this but it's very easy to root out the genuine ones. |
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"As a general rule (for us at least) if someone isn’t photo verified after a month, alarm bells start ringing ...some profiles have been on a year with no pics and no verifications ...that’s always a no no for us "
This is our approach and is just plain common sense in my opinion.
In the day and age of smart phones and web cams (you must have access to at least one to be on Fab right?) and previous experience with this site , a lack of photo or cam room verification is enough for us to not pay any attention.
We've had our time wasted one to many times in the past have them on block now. If people get at least one form of verification, we'll give them the time of day. |
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"would you trust a single member profile with no verifications after 5 months and say in messages that their partner wants to watch them suck you tonight?
my instinct is not to trust them.
Verifications mean nothing to me. The opinion of a stranger on whether to meet another stranger is beyond the ken. I rely on my own judgement and don't go out of my way for a meet: that works for me.
I certainly wouldn't take any notice of "partners". Had a "woman" contact me once saying "she" got off on hearing "her" husband's sexploits, so could he meet me alone...yeah...right!
Some women do get off on this. For so called open minded people some can have very fixed views on other peoples kinks. Yes some exploit this but it's very easy to root out the genuine ones."
Yes...they do. My wife's one of them and it's how we started swinging to begin with. Cuckqueen's and hot husbanding (I know that will never take off) are real just as there are men and women on the site who dont mind their partner playing solo. Met more than a few of them over the last few years.
You're not wrong about people exploiting it though. At the end of the day, single women are inundated on this site and I can only imagine some of the bullshit stories they do hear :/ |
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