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"It would depend on if you actually were telling the truth to be fair. But at the same time you kinda lose respect for being so desperate to be shagging somone you found repulsive. So i dunno neutral? But part of me thinks this may well be an episode of "shit that never happened"" Interesting...... so you never had sex with someone you were not attracted too.... I’m basically saying I had sex with someone ugly.... | |||
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"I’m not sure why you would tell a mate what the lady was like in bed. I would lose respect at that point. " You do realize he asked me? | |||
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"I’m not sure why you would tell a mate what the lady was like in bed. I would lose respect at that point. You do realize he asked me?" Yes I do but you didn’t have to answer and it kind of tells you everything you need to know about him as well I suppose. | |||
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"I’m not sure why you would tell a mate what the lady was like in bed. I would lose respect at that point. You do realize he asked me? Yes I do but you didn’t have to answer and it kind of tells you everything you need to know about him as well I suppose. " I guess he was trying to measure up to me or find out if she was kinky.... Who knows.... But do you think me telling him this comes off as sour grapes? | |||
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"Why would I have sex with someone I'm not attracted to...? "Because sometimes you want a steak but only a hot dog is available.... If you’re hungry, you have to eat.... | |||
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"It would depend on if you actually were telling the truth to be fair. But at the same time you kinda lose respect for being so desperate to be shagging somone you found repulsive. So i dunno neutral? But part of me thinks this may well be an episode of "shit that never happened" Interesting...... so you never had sex with someone you were not attracted too.... I’m basically saying I had sex with someone ugly...." Never with somone i found so repulsive i had to be drugged/d*unk no... | |||
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"Why would I have sex with someone I'm not attracted to...?
Because sometimes you want a steak but only a hot dog is available....
If you’re hungry, you have to eat...."I have toys if I feel the need. Thank you. | |||
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"Why would I have sex with someone I'm not attracted to...? "Testosterone is the devil | |||
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"I’m not sure why you would tell a mate what the lady was like in bed. I would lose respect at that point. You do realize he asked me? Yes I do but you didn’t have to answer and it kind of tells you everything you need to know about him as well I suppose. I guess he was trying to measure up to me or find out if she was kinky.... Who knows.... But do you think me telling him this comes off as sour grapes?" Yes unfortunately because why would you have sex with someone you’re not attracted to and why give the information away so readily? Just my take on it. | |||
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"It would depend on if you actually were telling the truth to be fair. But at the same time you kinda lose respect for being so desperate to be shagging somone you found repulsive. So i dunno neutral? But part of me thinks this may well be an episode of "shit that never happened" Interesting...... so you never had sex with someone you were not attracted too.... I’m basically saying I had sex with someone ugly.... Never with somone i found so repulsive i had to be drugged/d*unk no... " Ok fair point..... | |||
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"Erm Yes to honesty. I can take that so much easier as I’m slightly autistic and people not telling the truth confuses me. However- we have to be subtle and tactful sometimes... this could be the future missus you’re blaspheming... Mrs P x" Good point, but I don’t think I’ll be invited to this wedding... | |||
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"Erm Yes to honesty. I can take that so much easier as I’m slightly autistic and people not telling the truth confuses me. However- we have to be subtle and tactful sometimes... this could be the future missus you’re blaspheming... Mrs P x Good point, but I don’t think I’ll be invited to this wedding..." Not if you’re still shagging her out of pity No!  | |||
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"Why would I have sex with someone I'm not attracted to...?
Because sometimes you want a steak but only a hot dog is available....
If you’re hungry, you have to eat....
I have toys if I feel the need. Thank you."I’m sorry, I forgot you’re a attractive woman on Fab.... you will have more options.... Some of us less fortunate have to work with what we have in front of us... | |||
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"I’m not sure why you would tell a mate what the lady was like in bed. I would lose respect at that point. You do realize he asked me? Yes I do but you didn’t have to answer and it kind of tells you everything you need to know about him as well I suppose. I guess he was trying to measure up to me or find out if she was kinky.... Who knows.... But do you think me telling him this comes off as sour grapes? Yes unfortunately because why would you have sex with someone you’re not attracted to and why give the information away so readily? Just my take on it. " Well he asked a question and I gave a honest answer.... If someone asks me a question.... I will readily give a honest answer..... | |||
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"Erm Yes to honesty. I can take that so much easier as I’m slightly autistic and people not telling the truth confuses me. However- we have to be subtle and tactful sometimes... this could be the future missus you’re blaspheming... Mrs P x Good point, but I don’t think I’ll be invited to this wedding... Not if you’re still shagging her out of pity No! "No that ship has sailed... I ghosted her around August... she has been blocked on my phone and all social media since then... | |||
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"Why would I have sex with someone I'm not attracted to...?
Because sometimes you want a steak but only a hot dog is available....
If you’re hungry, you have to eat....
I have toys if I feel the need. Thank you.
I’m sorry, I forgot you’re a attractive woman on Fab.... you will have more options....
Some of us less fortunate have to work with what we have in front of us..."Personally speaking it’s not about if we would have respect after you told a friend what you thought of a women he was going to date !!!!! It’s about if we think your a prick !!!! And that’s a definitely from me  | |||
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"Why would I have sex with someone I'm not attracted to...?
Because sometimes you want a steak but only a hot dog is available....
If you’re hungry, you have to eat....
I have toys if I feel the need. Thank you.
I’m sorry, I forgot you’re a attractive woman on Fab.... you will have more options....
Some of us less fortunate have to work with what we have in front of us..."How do you know if I'm attractive? My options are - I will only have sex with someone I fancy and feel the mutual attraction is present. Being horny never made me do anything I wouldn't be happy with. Perhaps I'm different. | |||
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"Did you tell the woman what you thought of her, in an honest way ?" Nobody has time for that.... I just ghosted her. | |||
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"Erm Yes to honesty. I can take that so much easier as I’m slightly autistic and people not telling the truth confuses me. However- we have to be subtle and tactful sometimes... this could be the future missus you’re blaspheming... Mrs P x Good point, but I don’t think I’ll be invited to this wedding... Not if you’re still shagging her out of pity No!
No that ship has sailed... I ghosted her around August... she has been blocked on my phone and all social media since then..."Please tell me you at least politely ended things with her? Everyone has the right to chose to date/ have sex etc with whomever they want and to end it for whatever you want However- it’s human decency to clearly end the relationship Mrs P x | |||
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"Why would I have sex with someone I'm not attracted to...?
Because sometimes you want a steak but only a hot dog is available....
If you’re hungry, you have to eat....
I have toys if I feel the need. Thank you.
I’m sorry, I forgot you’re a attractive woman on Fab.... you will have more options....
Some of us less fortunate have to work with what we have in front of us...
How do you know if I'm attractive?
My options are - I will only have sex with someone I fancy and feel the mutual attraction is present. Being horny never made me do anything I wouldn't be happy with. Perhaps I'm different. "Attractive is only my opinion by looking at your pics... I would have to see your face to determine if you’re beautiful/stunning... Please don’t take this as a come on... I’m just answering your question... Now if a friend told you this about a guy you’re about to date... how you feel about her? | |||
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"I’m not sure why you would tell a mate what the lady was like in bed. I would lose respect at that point. You do realize he asked me? Yes I do but you didn’t have to answer and it kind of tells you everything you need to know about him as well I suppose. I guess he was trying to measure up to me or find out if she was kinky.... Who knows.... But do you think me telling him this comes off as sour grapes? Yes unfortunately because why would you have sex with someone you’re not attracted to and why give the information away so readily? Just my take on it. Well he asked a question and I gave a honest answer.... If someone asks me a question.... I will readily give a honest answer....." Where does discretion come into it? Did you give any thought to the lady? | |||
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"Did you tell the woman what you thought of her, in an honest way ? Nobody has time for that.... I just ghosted her." I’m sad for you. I’m sad that you haven’t developed a mature enough outlook on life yet. Time will hopefully give you experiences that will make you realise human interaction is THE best thing on this planet. Mrs P | |||
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"Erm Yes to honesty. I can take that so much easier as I’m slightly autistic and people not telling the truth confuses me. However- we have to be subtle and tactful sometimes... this could be the future missus you’re blaspheming... Mrs P x Good point, but I don’t think I’ll be invited to this wedding... Not if you’re still shagging her out of pity No!
No that ship has sailed... I ghosted her around August... she has been blocked on my phone and all social media since then...
Please tell me you at least politely ended things with her?
Everyone has the right to chose to date/ have sex etc with whomever they want and to end it for whatever you want
However- it’s human decency to clearly end the relationship
Mrs P x"Honestly I don’t like to lie to people and say let’s be friends... it’s much better to ghost and not have to deal with awkward conversations in the future..... If you ghost someone.... in their minds they can feel like you’re dead.... so they actually feel better about themselves... | |||
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"Did you tell the woman what you thought of her, in an honest way ? Nobody has time for that.... I just ghosted her. I’m sad for you. I’m sad that you haven’t developed a mature enough outlook on life yet. Time will hopefully give you experiences that will make you realise human interaction is THE best thing on this planet. Mrs P " I get the feeling he’s taking the piss here and checked out his profile and public pics he’s at a meet with his mum !!!!! Take it with a pinch of salt  | |||
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"Did you tell the woman what you thought of her, in an honest way ? Nobody has time for that.... I just ghosted her. I’m sad for you. I’m sad that you haven’t developed a mature enough outlook on life yet. Time will hopefully give you experiences that will make you realise human interaction is THE best thing on this planet. Mrs P I get the feeling he’s taking the piss here and checked out his profile and public pics he’s at a meet with his mum !!!!! Take it with a pinch of salt "Oh!  | |||
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"But you say at start of thread " I believe in earning people’s respect above everything in life...So I try to be as honest as possible with anyone I meet...." So should of told woman what you thought of her, if this is true." Look she never asked me what I think of her... if she did I would have told her the truth... This woman is highly intelligent with a good paying corporate job.... If she only came over after I was d*unk , never spent the night, and was never seen in day light or public with me... she should know how I felt about her.... | |||
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"Erm Yes to honesty. I can take that so much easier as I’m slightly autistic and people not telling the truth confuses me. However- we have to be subtle and tactful sometimes... this could be the future missus you’re blaspheming... Mrs P x Good point, but I don’t think I’ll be invited to this wedding... Not if you’re still shagging her out of pity No!
No that ship has sailed... I ghosted her around August... she has been blocked on my phone and all social media since then...
Please tell me you at least politely ended things with her?
Everyone has the right to chose to date/ have sex etc with whomever they want and to end it for whatever you want
However- it’s human decency to clearly end the relationship
Mrs P x
Honestly I don’t like to lie to people and say let’s be friends... it’s much better to ghost and not have to deal with awkward conversations in the future.....
If you ghost someone.... in their minds they can feel like you’re dead.... so they actually feel better about themselves..."I’m baffled. Confused. Bafffled and confused?! Why would you lie and say you want to be friends? | |||
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"I’m not sure why you would tell a mate what the lady was like in bed. I would lose respect at that point. You do realize he asked me? Yes I do but you didn’t have to answer and it kind of tells you everything you need to know about him as well I suppose. I guess he was trying to measure up to me or find out if she was kinky.... Who knows.... But do you think me telling him this comes off as sour grapes? Yes unfortunately because why would you have sex with someone you’re not attracted to and why give the information away so readily? Just my take on it. Well he asked a question and I gave a honest answer.... If someone asks me a question.... I will readily give a honest answer..... Where does discretion come into it? Did you give any thought to the lady? " Now you have utterly confused me... Why would I have to be discreet when speaking to a friend? | |||
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"Did you tell the woman what you thought of her, in an honest way ? Nobody has time for that.... I just ghosted her. I’m sad for you. I’m sad that you haven’t developed a mature enough outlook on life yet. Time will hopefully give you experiences that will make you realise human interaction is THE best thing on this planet. Mrs P " I love people... honestly I do | |||
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"I’m not sure why you would tell a mate what the lady was like in bed. I would lose respect at that point. You do realize he asked me? Yes I do but you didn’t have to answer and it kind of tells you everything you need to know about him as well I suppose. I guess he was trying to measure up to me or find out if she was kinky.... Who knows.... But do you think me telling him this comes off as sour grapes? Yes unfortunately because why would you have sex with someone you’re not attracted to and why give the information away so readily? Just my take on it. Well he asked a question and I gave a honest answer.... If someone asks me a question.... I will readily give a honest answer..... Where does discretion come into it? Did you give any thought to the lady? Now you have utterly confused me... Why would I have to be discreet when speaking to a friend?" If you don’t get it then there’s no more to be said 
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"Did you tell the woman what you thought of her, in an honest way ? Nobody has time for that.... I just ghosted her. I’m sad for you. I’m sad that you haven’t developed a mature enough outlook on life yet. Time will hopefully give you experiences that will make you realise human interaction is THE best thing on this planet. Mrs P I get the feeling he’s taking the piss here and checked out his profile and public pics he’s at a meet with his mum !!!!! Take it with a pinch of salt "Hi fine Sir... thank you for contributing to this thread... I will like to advise you that this is not North Korea and you’re not compelled to read the writings of the dear leader Rudeboycane... There is a send a dirty picture to the person above thread with your name on it.... | |||
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"Erm Yes to honesty. I can take that so much easier as I’m slightly autistic and people not telling the truth confuses me. However- we have to be subtle and tactful sometimes... this could be the future missus you’re blaspheming... Mrs P x Good point, but I don’t think I’ll be invited to this wedding... Not if you’re still shagging her out of pity No!
No that ship has sailed... I ghosted her around August... she has been blocked on my phone and all social media since then...
Please tell me you at least politely ended things with her?
Everyone has the right to chose to date/ have sex etc with whomever they want and to end it for whatever you want
However- it’s human decency to clearly end the relationship
Mrs P x
Honestly I don’t like to lie to people and say let’s be friends... it’s much better to ghost and not have to deal with awkward conversations in the future.....
If you ghost someone.... in their minds they can feel like you’re dead.... so they actually feel better about themselves...
I’m baffled. Confused. Bafffled and confused?!
Why would you lie and say you want to be friends?
"What happens when a fling ends these days is that you tend to stay in contact with people via social media.... So if you don’t want anything to do with someone... they will still stalk your time line , like your pics , and write uncomfortable replies to anything you post.... It becomes kinda creepy.... so ghosting and blocking is the only answer.... | |||
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"If someone has sex with a person they find their body repulsive and only do it because they're d*unk and horny, I wouldn't go near them. Talking about respect for self and the others. Animals have sex where they don't need another option. Humans can choose. Good day!" So I’m wrong for just liking her vagina and not her as a person? | |||
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"I’m not sure why you would tell a mate what the lady was like in bed. I would lose respect at that point. You do realize he asked me? Yes I do but you didn’t have to answer and it kind of tells you everything you need to know about him as well I suppose. I guess he was trying to measure up to me or find out if she was kinky.... Who knows.... But do you think me telling him this comes off as sour grapes? Yes unfortunately because why would you have sex with someone you’re not attracted to and why give the information away so readily? Just my take on it. Well he asked a question and I gave a honest answer.... If someone asks me a question.... I will readily give a honest answer..... Where does discretion come into it? Did you give any thought to the lady? Now you have utterly confused me... Why would I have to be discreet when speaking to a friend? If you don’t get it then there’s no more to be said
The scenario is a curious one but quite simple really ... she’s better off without both of you "This statement is totally not fair.... | |||
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"Erm Yes to honesty. I can take that so much easier as I’m slightly autistic and people not telling the truth confuses me. However- we have to be subtle and tactful sometimes... this could be the future missus you’re blaspheming... Mrs P x Good point, but I don’t think I’ll be invited to this wedding... Not if you’re still shagging her out of pity No!
No that ship has sailed... I ghosted her around August... she has been blocked on my phone and all social media since then...
Please tell me you at least politely ended things with her?
Everyone has the right to chose to date/ have sex etc with whomever they want and to end it for whatever you want
However- it’s human decency to clearly end the relationship
Mrs P x
Honestly I don’t like to lie to people and say let’s be friends... it’s much better to ghost and not have to deal with awkward conversations in the future.....
If you ghost someone.... in their minds they can feel like you’re dead.... so they actually feel better about themselves...
I’m baffled. Confused. Bafffled and confused?!
Why would you lie and say you want to be friends?
What happens when a fling ends these days is that you tend to stay in contact with people via social media....
So if you don’t want anything to do with someone... they will still stalk your time line , like your pics , and write uncomfortable replies to anything you post....
It becomes kinda creepy.... so ghosting and blocking is the only answer...."You see- I agree with you that you don’t want people to follow you etc And blocking may be the answer... But not ghosting. That says more about your lack of confidence in yourself being ‘honest’ and being able to clearly explain your thoughts in an articulate and mature manner. Mrs P | |||
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"I’m not sure why you would tell a mate what the lady was like in bed. I would lose respect at that point. You do realize he asked me? Yes I do but you didn’t have to answer and it kind of tells you everything you need to know about him as well I suppose. I guess he was trying to measure up to me or find out if she was kinky.... Who knows.... But do you think me telling him this comes off as sour grapes? Yes unfortunately because why would you have sex with someone you’re not attracted to and why give the information away so readily? Just my take on it. Well he asked a question and I gave a honest answer.... If someone asks me a question.... I will readily give a honest answer..... Where does discretion come into it? Did you give any thought to the lady? Now you have utterly confused me... Why would I have to be discreet when speaking to a friend? If you don’t get it then there’s no more to be said
The scenario is a curious one but quite simple really ... she’s better off without both of you
This statement is totally not fair...."Neither of you have considered the lady. You’re gossiping amongst yourselves (if this is all true) so no I don’t think it’s unfair. So we should agree to disagree I think | |||
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"Erm Yes to honesty. I can take that so much easier as I’m slightly autistic and people not telling the truth confuses me. However- we have to be subtle and tactful sometimes... this could be the future missus you’re blaspheming... Mrs P x Good point, but I don’t think I’ll be invited to this wedding... Not if you’re still shagging her out of pity No!
No that ship has sailed... I ghosted her around August... she has been blocked on my phone and all social media since then...
Please tell me you at least politely ended things with her?
Everyone has the right to chose to date/ have sex etc with whomever they want and to end it for whatever you want
However- it’s human decency to clearly end the relationship
Mrs P x
Honestly I don’t like to lie to people and say let’s be friends... it’s much better to ghost and not have to deal with awkward conversations in the future.....
If you ghost someone.... in their minds they can feel like you’re dead.... so they actually feel better about themselves...
I’m baffled. Confused. Bafffled and confused?!
Why would you lie and say you want to be friends?
What happens when a fling ends these days is that you tend to stay in contact with people via social media....
So if you don’t want anything to do with someone... they will still stalk your time line , like your pics , and write uncomfortable replies to anything you post....
It becomes kinda creepy.... so ghosting and blocking is the only answer....
You see- I agree with you that you don’t want people to follow you etc
And blocking may be the answer...
But not ghosting.
That says more about your lack of confidence in yourself being ‘honest’ and being able to clearly explain your thoughts in an articulate and mature manner.
Mrs P"Honesty can come off as rudeness sometimes and in a situation like this... I’d rather be remembered as a coward than a rude person.... | |||
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"I suppose it depends on what your real reasons are for being that brutally honest with your friend. Anybody with any emotional intelligence would know how disrespectful and bitter it comes across towards the lady. Are you frightened of losing your friend that you felt like you had to sabbotage the start of a new relationship? You sound deeply unhappy to fuck someone you found so repulsive. Does it sound like sourgrapes? Maybe. Let's hope your friend has found something special. One man's trash is another man's treasure. " Honestly, if I told him she was very kinky in bed and all the graphic details of our bedroom antics.... would I still come off as bitter? Would he maybe question his new relationship? There is always two sides to a coin.... | |||
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"I would be wondering why you had sex with a woman who's only redeeming feature you think is her vagina. Smacks of desperation." I beg to differ...... when you’re horny and d*unk things just kinda happen.... It’s the heat of the moment kinda thing... | |||
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"I’m not sure why you would tell a mate what the lady was like in bed. I would lose respect at that point. " This.. bit shitty if you ask me | |||
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"I would be wondering why you had sex with a woman who's only redeeming feature you think is her vagina. Smacks of desperation. I beg to differ...... when you’re horny and d*unk things just kinda happen.... It’s the heat of the moment kinda thing..." Didnt matter how d*unk i was id never have sex with anyone i didnt fancy.. never | |||
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"I would be wondering why you had sex with a woman who's only redeeming feature you think is her vagina. Smacks of desperation. I beg to differ...... when you’re horny and d*unk things just kinda happen.... It’s the heat of the moment kinda thing..." So you spent a lot of time over the summer d*unk and horny then. | |||
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"I would be wondering why you had sex with a woman who's only redeeming feature you think is her vagina. Smacks of desperation. I beg to differ...... when you’re horny and d*unk things just kinda happen.... It’s the heat of the moment kinda thing... Didnt matter how d*unk i was id never have sex with anyone i didnt fancy.. never" But what if you only liked their penis? Should that matter? | |||
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"I would be wondering why you had sex with a woman who's only redeeming feature you think is her vagina. Smacks of desperation. I beg to differ...... when you’re horny and d*unk things just kinda happen.... It’s the heat of the moment kinda thing... So you spent a lot of time over the summer d*unk and horny then." Do you ever stay on topic of the thread? You really like to take conversations on tangents.... | |||
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"It would depend on if you actually were telling the truth to be fair. But at the same time you kinda lose respect for being so desperate to be shagging somone you found repulsive. So i dunno neutral? But part of me thinks this may well be an episode of "shit that never happened" Interesting...... so you never had sex with someone you were not attracted too.... I’m basically saying I had sex with someone ugly...." Hopefully your pal isn't as shallow as you, if so then the lass needs a new pool of blokes | |||
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"It would depend on if you actually were telling the truth to be fair. But at the same time you kinda lose respect for being so desperate to be shagging somone you found repulsive. So i dunno neutral? But part of me thinks this may well be an episode of "shit that never happened" Interesting...... so you never had sex with someone you were not attracted too.... I’m basically saying I had sex with someone ugly.... Hopefully your pal isn't as shallow as you, if so then the lass needs a new pool of blokes " So by not being attracted to someone facially but just liking their sex organ ... I’m now considered shallow... that’s rich... So let me guess ... you meet every faceless person that emails you? | |||
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"I would be wondering why you had sex with a woman who's only redeeming feature you think is her vagina. Smacks of desperation. I beg to differ...... when you’re horny and d*unk things just kinda happen.... It’s the heat of the moment kinda thing... So you spent a lot of time over the summer d*unk and horny then. Do you ever stay on topic of the thread? You really like to take conversations on tangents...." I like to expand on thing's and learn,it's what makes me a well rounded human being. You've got your inital answer from people,do you just want a thread full of yes answers? No need to answer that it's clear what the answer is. | |||
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"I would be wondering why you had sex with a woman who's only redeeming feature you think is her vagina. Smacks of desperation. I beg to differ...... when you’re horny and d*unk things just kinda happen.... It’s the heat of the moment kinda thing... So you spent a lot of time over the summer d*unk and horny then. Do you ever stay on topic of the thread? You really like to take conversations on tangents.... I like to expand on thing's and learn,it's what makes me a well rounded human being. You've got your inital answer from people,do you just want a thread full of yes answers? No need to answer that it's clear what the answer is." No not at all... I’m looking for peoples honest opinions on how I looked to my friend after I said that statement.... Calling me desperate was a cheap shot | |||
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"If someone has sex with a person they find their body repulsive and only do it because they're d*unk and horny, I wouldn't go near them. Talking about respect for self and the others. Animals have sex where they don't need another option. Humans can choose. Good day! So I’m wrong for just liking her vagina and not her as a person?" Did you meet her vagina first or did you meet a woman initially? | |||
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"I would be wondering why you had sex with a woman who's only redeeming feature you think is her vagina. Smacks of desperation. I beg to differ...... when you’re horny and d*unk things just kinda happen.... It’s the heat of the moment kinda thing... So you spent a lot of time over the summer d*unk and horny then. Do you ever stay on topic of the thread? You really like to take conversations on tangents.... I like to expand on thing's and learn,it's what makes me a well rounded human being. You've got your inital answer from people,do you just want a thread full of yes answers? No need to answer that it's clear what the answer is. No not at all... I’m looking for peoples honest opinions on how I looked to my friend after I said that statement.... Calling me desperate was a cheap shot" No it wasn't a cheap shot and I didn't call you desperate. However if you had sex with someone that you think is ugly then you are indeed...desperate. How do you get an erection in that case? | |||
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"I don't believe that most of these people that are shocked by the op's discussion with his mate have never had similar frank discussions! Op whilst I like to think I wouldn't find myself in your situation of having sex with someone I didn't find attractive, it does happen. And if a friend asked me the same I think I'd also have to be honest with them... maybe not quite as brutal as you implied you were... I'd choose my words carefully. " Thank you very much.... I notice hypocrisy is rife on the forums | |||
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"Assuming this is true, it's his fault for asking what she's like in bed. That automatically shows that he only sees her as a sex partner, a shag. No way in hell would I ask someone what a woman is like in bed because I only care about what she's like in bed with ME, and I'll do my own groundwork of building that relationship or arrangement with her. Your mate probably gets off on hearing about your sexual encounters and seeing that he's pursuing your previous partner, he probably finds it easier having a third party or triangulating to make new connections because he's too insecure to do it on his own. The fact that you've been with this lady and he's your friend legitimises the connection in some way. Just seems weird if a relationship is what he wants. I doubt it. " High Five... you get it... Don’t ask a question if you might not like the answer.... | |||
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"I would be wondering why you had sex with a woman who's only redeeming feature you think is her vagina. Smacks of desperation. I beg to differ...... when you’re horny and d*unk things just kinda happen.... It’s the heat of the moment kinda thing... So you spent a lot of time over the summer d*unk and horny then. Do you ever stay on topic of the thread? You really like to take conversations on tangents.... I like to expand on thing's and learn,it's what makes me a well rounded human being. You've got your inital answer from people,do you just want a thread full of yes answers? No need to answer that it's clear what the answer is. No not at all... I’m looking for peoples honest opinions on how I looked to my friend after I said that statement.... Calling me desperate was a cheap shot No it wasn't a cheap shot and I didn't call you desperate. However if you had sex with someone that you think is ugly then you are indeed...desperate. How do you get an erection in that case?" I turn off one of my senses to elevate another of my senses.... That means close my eyes and just feel..... | |||
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"So you used this poor woman for sex then later slag her off because you weren’t attracted to her. You don’t deserve respect for being honest. you didn’t respect that poor girl you slated. you didn’t respect your friends new relationship Your attitude is frankly disgusting " So lying to him or avoiding the question would be a better solution? | |||
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"I would be wondering why you had sex with a woman who's only redeeming feature you think is her vagina. Smacks of desperation. I beg to differ...... when you’re horny and d*unk things just kinda happen.... It’s the heat of the moment kinda thing... So you spent a lot of time over the summer d*unk and horny then. Do you ever stay on topic of the thread? You really like to take conversations on tangents.... I like to expand on thing's and learn,it's what makes me a well rounded human being. You've got your inital answer from people,do you just want a thread full of yes answers? No need to answer that it's clear what the answer is. No not at all... I’m looking for peoples honest opinions on how I looked to my friend after I said that statement.... Calling me desperate was a cheap shot No it wasn't a cheap shot and I didn't call you desperate. However if you had sex with someone that you think is ugly then you are indeed...desperate. How do you get an erection in that case? I turn off one of my senses to elevate another of my senses.... That means close my eyes and just feel....." Thankyou for answering my question and not coming out with your usual reply. It makes a nice change. | |||
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Because sometimes you want a steak but only a hot dog is available....
If you’re hungry, you have to eat...."Thanks, but I'd rather go hungry than put up with something unappetising. And there are more tactful ways of answering your friend's question; you could have just said something like "mmm, gorgeous pussy" (or whatever your favoured terminology) and said what a lovely personality she had (if that was the case). It's possible to be both honest and respectful of the woman and your friend's taste | |||
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"If someone has sex with a person they find their body repulsive and only do it because they're d*unk and horny, I wouldn't go near them. Talking about respect for self and the others. Animals have sex where they don't need another option. Humans can choose. Good day! So I’m wrong for just liking her vagina and not her as a person? Did you meet her vagina first or did you meet a woman initially? " I honestly don’t remember.... I was 3 sheets to the wind that night | |||
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"I respect people's honesty and spade is a spade approach. However, I'd think you were a bit of a prick for being so derogatory about someone in that way. So let me get this straight.... you like the truth only if it’s not derogatory? Wonder what the girl would say about you?" That’s a little out of order.... | |||
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"Why would I have sex with someone I'm not attracted to...?
Because sometimes you want a steak but only a hot dog is available....
If you’re hungry, you have to eat....
Thanks, but I'd rather go hungry than put up with something unappetising.
And there are more tactful ways of answering your friend's question; you could have just said something like "mmm, gorgeous pussy" (or whatever your favoured terminology) and said what a lovely personality she had (if that was the case). It's possible to be both honest and respectful of the woman and your friend's taste"I’m sorry but I don’t lie to my friends..... if they ask , they shall receive the truth.... | |||
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"It would depend on if you actually were telling the truth to be fair. But at the same time you kinda lose respect for being so desperate to be shagging somone you found repulsive. So i dunno neutral? But part of me thinks this may well be an episode of "shit that never happened" Interesting...... so you never had sex with someone you were not attracted too.... I’m basically saying I had sex with someone ugly.... Hopefully your pal isn't as shallow as you, if so then the lass needs a new pool of blokes " She needs to stop picking friends to fk! I mean how old is she, a teenager - or maybe just kinky  | |||
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"I respect people's honesty and spade is a spade approach. However, I'd think you were a bit of a prick for being so derogatory about someone in that way. So let me get this straight.... you like the truth only if it’s not derogatory? Wonder what the girl would say about you? That’s a little out of order.... Why? Surely if you're able to be honest about her, she should be able to do the same? " Let’s just say , she wouldn’t have nice things to say about me... | |||
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"Talking about an ex partner in such a shitty way? If he didn’t walk away thinking less of you then he’s probably on the same level. And if he falls for her and it gets serious he’s always going to remember what you said about his girl?? If you can’t say something nice don’t say anything at all " So you only like the truth if it’s nice.... | |||
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"Verifications openly state sex acts and ratings of sexual performance, for thousands of people to read. Yet when 2 men discuss the same it's considered a bad thing. That's weird." Glass houses springs to mind..... | |||
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"So you used this poor woman for sex then later slag her off because you weren’t attracted to her. You don’t deserve respect for being honest. you didn’t respect that poor girl you slated. you didn’t respect your friends new relationship Your attitude is frankly disgusting So lying to him or avoiding the question would be a better solution?" What you got up to sexually was between you and her. No one else’s business. Your friend can find out for himself what she is like. It’s not lying or avoiding the question it’s about being respectful to your playmate and discreet | |||
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"I respect people's honesty and spade is a spade approach. However, I'd think you were a bit of a prick for being so derogatory about someone in that way. So let me get this straight.... you like the truth only if it’s not derogatory? Wonder what the girl would say about you? That’s a little out of order.... Why? Surely if you're able to be honest about her, she should be able to do the same? Let’s just say , she wouldn’t have nice things to say about me... " Can't blame her for that. So perhaps that answers your own question? | |||
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"Absolutely no respect from me ... all you had to say was that you didn't fancy each other and leave it at that! You spoke about someone behind their back = not nice and makes you seem untrustworthy You might have lost a friend in the future = fickle And have no diplomacy ... all the above traits I don't find particularly attractive in anyone, sorry! " Thank you for being honest | |||
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"Verifications openly state sex acts and ratings of sexual performance, for thousands of people to read. Yet when 2 men discuss the same it's considered a bad thing. That's weird. Glass houses springs to mind....." I think many verifications are disrespectful. | |||
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"So you used this poor woman for sex then later slag her off because you weren’t attracted to her. You don’t deserve respect for being honest. you didn’t respect that poor girl you slated. you didn’t respect your friends new relationship Your attitude is frankly disgusting So lying to him or avoiding the question would be a better solution? What you got up to sexually was between you and her. No one else’s business. Your friend can find out for himself what she is like. It’s not lying or avoiding the question it’s about being respectful to your playmate and discreet " So you don’t talk to your girlfriends about your sex life? | |||
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"I respect people's honesty and spade is a spade approach. However, I'd think you were a bit of a prick for being so derogatory about someone in that way. So let me get this straight.... you like the truth only if it’s not derogatory? Wonder what the girl would say about you? That’s a little out of order.... Why? Surely if you're able to be honest about her, she should be able to do the same? Let’s just say , she wouldn’t have nice things to say about me... Can't blame her for that. So perhaps that answers your own question? " But I would still respect her honesty | |||
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"So you used this poor woman for sex then later slag her off because you weren’t attracted to her. You don’t deserve respect for being honest. you didn’t respect that poor girl you slated. you didn’t respect your friends new relationship Your attitude is frankly disgusting So lying to him or avoiding the question would be a better solution? What you got up to sexually was between you and her. No one else’s business. Your friend can find out for himself what she is like. It’s not lying or avoiding the question it’s about being respectful to your playmate and discreet So you don’t talk to your girlfriends about your sex life?" No I don’t actually and I really don’t want to hear about theirs You weren’t discussing just your sex life. You were slagging a girl off for being unattractive but you dipped it anyway and boast about it. You obviously think this is acceptable. I think you have a poor attitude and you are trying to cover it up with your ‘honesty’ talk You clearly aren’t interested in peoples opinion on the matter | |||
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"Erm Yes to honesty. I can take that so much easier as I’m slightly autistic and people not telling the truth confuses me. However- we have to be subtle and tactful sometimes... this could be the future missus you’re blaspheming... Mrs P x Good point, but I don’t think I’ll be invited to this wedding... Not if you’re still shagging her out of pity No!
No that ship has sailed... I ghosted her around August... she has been blocked on my phone and all social media since then...
Please tell me you at least politely ended things with her?
Everyone has the right to chose to date/ have sex etc with whomever they want and to end it for whatever you want
However- it’s human decency to clearly end the relationship
Mrs P x
Honestly I don’t like to lie to people and say let’s be friends... it’s much better to ghost and not have to deal with awkward conversations in the future.....
If you ghost someone.... in their minds they can feel like you’re dead.... so they actually feel better about themselves...
I’m baffled. Confused. Bafffled and confused?!
Why would you lie and say you want to be friends?
What happens when a fling ends these days is that you tend to stay in contact with people via social media....
So if you don’t want anything to do with someone... they will still stalk your time line , like your pics , and write uncomfortable replies to anything you post....
It becomes kinda creepy.... so ghosting and blocking is the only answer....
You see- I agree with you that you don’t want people to follow you etc
And blocking may be the answer...
But not ghosting.
That says more about your lack of confidence in yourself being ‘honest’ and being able to clearly explain your thoughts in an articulate and mature manner.
Mrs P
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"Why would I have sex with someone I'm not attracted to...?
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If you’re hungry, you have to eat...."Yuck. All respect lost there. I would never ever have sex with someone I’m not attracted to. | |||
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"It would depend on if you actually were telling the truth to be fair. But at the same time you kinda lose respect for being so desperate to be shagging somone you found repulsive. So i dunno neutral? But part of me thinks this may well be an episode of "shit that never happened"" Me and my best friend had sex with the same guy at two separate occasions and swapped notes. My experience with him was a great one whilst hers was disappointing. Attraction and sexual chemistry plays a huge role in this and whilst this girl wasn't for you she might be for him. I wouldn't think less of you for being honest, your views are your own and he may think differently. | |||
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"For some people it’s very hard to hear the truth... So sometimes people lie to them in a effort to spare their fragile feelings.... I believe in earning people’s respect above everything in life...So I try to be as honest as possible with anyone I meet.... A friend of mine asked me tonight if it was okay to start dating a girl I used to hook up with over the summer.... I told him it’s fine and I wish him the best of luck.... He then asked me what she was like in bed.... I told him ..... I wasn’t really attracted to her , I didn’t like to kiss her , I found her body repulsive, I could only have sex with her if I was d*unk , But I did love her vagina..... So I basically told him the woman he is going to build a relationship with , only good and redeeming quality is her vagina.... Now would you respect me for telling the truth or would you think I was only saying this because of sour grapes......" There’s being honest and there’s being tactful with it . But I’ll be brutally honest with you and say ,,,, you and your mate sound like a pair of immature 15 yr olds in the school playground !!! | |||
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"For some people it’s very hard to hear the truth... So sometimes people lie to them in a effort to spare their fragile feelings.... I believe in earning people’s respect above everything in life...So I try to be as honest as possible with anyone I meet.... A friend of mine asked me tonight if it was okay to start dating a girl I used to hook up with over the summer.... I told him it’s fine and I wish him the best of luck.... He then asked me what she was like in bed.... I told him ..... I wasn’t really attracted to her , I didn’t like to kiss her , I found her body repulsive, I could only have sex with her if I was d*unk , But I did love her vagina..... So I basically told him the woman he is going to build a relationship with , only good and redeeming quality is her vagina.... Now would you respect me for telling the truth or would you think I was only saying this because of sour grapes......" Poor woman! I think she deserves better than both of you. If she stole your money and shat in your bed then yeah, I'd warn him about her. For him to ask about her prowess in bed and you to be so derogatory...and you seem quite proud of being a nasty piece of work and the any hole a goal type, "respect" is not a word I'd associate with you. Yuk! | |||
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"For some people it’s very hard to hear the truth... So sometimes people lie to them in a effort to spare their fragile feelings.... I believe in earning people’s respect above everything in life...So I try to be as honest as possible with anyone I meet.... A friend of mine asked me tonight if it was okay to start dating a girl I used to hook up with over the summer.... I told him it’s fine and I wish him the best of luck.... He then asked me what she was like in bed.... I told him ..... I wasn’t really attracted to her , I didn’t like to kiss her , I found her body repulsive, I could only have sex with her if I was d*unk , But I did love her vagina..... So I basically told him the woman he is going to build a relationship with , only good and redeeming quality is her vagina.... Now would you respect me for telling the truth or would you think I was only saying this because of sour grapes......" A Gentleman never tells Homie so I wouldn't appreciate that. I Would rather find out myself. | |||
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"im all for honesty but seriousy there was absolutly no reason for you to say that about the poor girl you could have just said you werent compatable. To be perfectly honest if your shagging someone you find repulsive it shows your a desperado who shags any hole is a goal. I like your threads and postings but youve really gone down in my estimation with this one" He didn't say what the sex was like either. | |||
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"It would depend on if you actually were telling the truth to be fair. But at the same time you kinda lose respect for being so desperate to be shagging somone you found repulsive. So i dunno neutral? But part of me thinks this may well be an episode of "shit that never happened" Interesting...... so you never had sex with someone you were not attracted too.... I’m basically saying I had sex with someone ugly...." Lmao...you didn't have to tell him tho did ya... Sounds in truth like you were jealous. . She was yr booty call after all.. But I wouldn't worry. .he wont be seeing you if he gets with her...  | |||
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"im all for honesty but seriousy there was absolutly no reason for you to say that about the poor girl you could have just said you werent compatable. To be perfectly honest if your shagging someone you find repulsive it shows your a desperado who shags any hole is a goal. I like your threads and postings but youve really gone down in my estimation with this one" Boom ! | |||
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Just say love I'm not feeling it and sorry for wasting your time and block her. Its not hard or difficult!
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"You can still be truthfully without being so blunt, by just saying she wasn’t your type and not going into any detail, that’s why we have filters, we don’t say everything we think and with good reason. People who say, they say how it is, think it’s a badge of honour or something, it isn’t, showing respect for other people’s feelings is. " | |||
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"Assuming this is true, it's his fault for asking what she's like in bed. That automatically shows that he only sees her as a sex partner, a shag. No way in hell would I ask someone what a woman is like in bed because I only care about what she's like in bed with ME, and I'll do my own groundwork of building that relationship or arrangement with her. Your mate probably gets off on hearing about your sexual encounters and seeing that he's pursuing your previous partner, he probably finds it easier having a third party or triangulating to make new connections because he's too insecure to do it on his own. The fact that you've been with this lady and he's your friend legitimises the connection in some way. Just seems weird if a relationship is what he wants. I doubt it. High Five... you get it... Don’t ask a question if you might not like the answer...." Yeah, mind you, I'm not condoning your response to him, I'm just saying that I don't believe his line of questioning is coming from the right place. He's your mate so I get that you can have whatever private conversation with him that you like so no comment there. Me personally, I would have advised him that it might not be wise to begin where I left off with her and I would have mentored him on his confidence and self-referral. That's assuming he wants a relationship. His question is borderline objectifying in my opinion. It's just not my style to discuss what happens my harem unless we've been there together to high-five as it's all going down. | |||
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"I made this thread after watching the movie bird box. It gave me inspiration to make this forum a better place.....and show people the error of their ways.. call me the Diogenes of Fab... Whenever the subject of bi men comes up on any thread..... these comments are always posted “ I’m not attracted to men , I don’t want to kiss a man , I don’t want a relationship with a man , I JUST WANT HIS COCK “ “ I would never meet a man alone , and I don’t play with men unless a female is involved “ “ I met a couple and the husband started sucking me in the heat of the moment, and I went with it “ “ Labels shouldn’t matter, IF IT FEELS GOOD , JUST ENJOY IT “ Now in this thread I’ve been called desperate, and a few other things ... by stating that I only liked this woman for her vagina and nothing else? Why do bi men on Fab get a free pass for stating the exact same things I said about this woman? Is this how all of you subconsciously feel about bi men? But are afraid to post it..." Bird Box is a great thriller by the way. | |||
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"I made this thread after watching the movie bird box. It gave me inspiration to make this forum a better place.....and show people the error of their ways.. call me the Diogenes of Fab... Whenever the subject of bi men comes up on any thread..... these comments are always posted “ I’m not attracted to men , I don’t want to kiss a man , I don’t want a relationship with a man , I JUST WANT HIS COCK “ “ I would never meet a man alone , and I don’t play with men unless a female is involved “ “ I met a couple and the husband started sucking me in the heat of the moment, and I went with it “ “ Labels shouldn’t matter, IF IT FEELS GOOD , JUST ENJOY IT “ Now in this thread I’ve been called desperate, and a few other things ... by stating that I only liked this woman for her vagina and nothing else? Why do bi men on Fab get a free pass for stating the exact same things I said about this woman? Is this how all of you subconsciously feel about bi men? But are afraid to post it... " What are you even talking about??
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"I made this thread after watching the movie bird box. It gave me inspiration to make this forum a better place.....and show people the error of their ways.. call me the Diogenes of Fab... Whenever the subject of bi men comes up on any thread..... these comments are always posted “ I’m not attracted to men , I don’t want to kiss a man , I don’t want a relationship with a man , I JUST WANT HIS COCK “ “ I would never meet a man alone , and I don’t play with men unless a female is involved “ “ I met a couple and the husband started sucking me in the heat of the moment, and I went with it “ “ Labels shouldn’t matter, IF IT FEELS GOOD , JUST ENJOY IT “ Now in this thread I’ve been called desperate, and a few other things ... by stating that I only liked this woman for her vagina and nothing else? Why do bi men on Fab get a free pass for stating the exact same things I said about this woman? Is this how all of you subconsciously feel about bi men? But are afraid to post it... What are you even talking about??
"Read my opening post again but replace the word vagina with the word cock.... This will put into context what bi men on the forums say about other men when the subject of why people don’t like meeting bi guys.... It’s perfectly acceptable for them to say things of this nature and people will agree with them ... some will even defend these bi men after making such statements.... I just wanted to show people the hypocrisy that is rife around here..... I not looking to make friends around here nor curry favor..... But if I’ve earned some respect, my work is done.... | |||
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"I made this thread after watching the movie bird box. It gave me inspiration to make this forum a better place.....and show people the error of their ways.. call me the Diogenes of Fab... Whenever the subject of bi men comes up on any thread..... these comments are always posted “ I’m not attracted to men , I don’t want to kiss a man , I don’t want a relationship with a man , I JUST WANT HIS COCK “ “ I would never meet a man alone , and I don’t play with men unless a female is involved “ “ I met a couple and the husband started sucking me in the heat of the moment, and I went with it “ “ Labels shouldn’t matter, IF IT FEELS GOOD , JUST ENJOY IT “ Now in this thread I’ve been called desperate, and a few other things ... by stating that I only liked this woman for her vagina and nothing else? Why do bi men on Fab get a free pass for stating the exact same things I said about this woman? Is this how all of you subconsciously feel about bi men? But are afraid to post it... " Because they are talking about men and not women. Men can handle being used. It's never OK to use a woman. I can't anyway, I have to like a woman in numerous ways to want to have sex with them. A good vagina alone would not suffice. | |||
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"I made this thread after watching the movie bird box. It gave me inspiration to make this forum a better place.....and show people the error of their ways.. call me the Diogenes of Fab... Whenever the subject of bi men comes up on any thread..... these comments are always posted “ I’m not attracted to men , I don’t want to kiss a man , I don’t want a relationship with a man , I JUST WANT HIS COCK “ “ I would never meet a man alone , and I don’t play with men unless a female is involved “ “ I met a couple and the husband started sucking me in the heat of the moment, and I went with it “ “ Labels shouldn’t matter, IF IT FEELS GOOD , JUST ENJOY IT “ Now in this thread I’ve been called desperate, and a few other things ... by stating that I only liked this woman for her vagina and nothing else? Why do bi men on Fab get a free pass for stating the exact same things I said about this woman? Is this how all of you subconsciously feel about bi men? But are afraid to post it... " Nicely played. Interesting points that you make about bi guys there OP | |||
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"Talking about an ex partner in such a shitty way? If he didn’t walk away thinking less of you then he’s probably on the same level. And if he falls for her and it gets serious he’s always going to remember what you said about his girl?? If you can’t say something nice don’t say anything at all So you only like the truth if it’s nice...." That's not the point - perhaps it's an English manners thing, but you could only mention the true aspects which are not potentially upsetting or disrespectful to the other person. You can still be honest without giving a full "warts and all" opinion. But it's up to you how you choose to behave | |||
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"For some people it’s very hard to hear the truth... So sometimes people lie to them in a effort to spare their fragile feelings.... I believe in earning people’s respect above everything in life...So I try to be as honest as possible with anyone I meet.... He asked, you told him, end of. A friend of mine asked me tonight if it was okay to start dating a girl I used to hook up with over the summer.... I told him it’s fine and I wish him the best of luck.... He then asked me what she was like in bed.... I told him ..... I wasn’t really attracted to her , I didn’t like to kiss her , I found her body repulsive, I could only have sex with her if I was d*unk , But I did love her vagina..... So I basically told him the woman he is going to build a relationship with , only good and redeeming quality is her vagina.... Now would you respect me for telling the truth or would you think I was only saying this because of sour grapes......" | |||
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"Talking about an ex partner in such a shitty way? If he didn’t walk away thinking less of you then he’s probably on the same level. And if he falls for her and it gets serious he’s always going to remember what you said about his girl?? If you can’t say something nice don’t say anything at all So you only like the truth if it’s nice.... That's not the point - perhaps it's an English manners thing, but you could only mention the true aspects which are not potentially upsetting or disrespectful to the other person. You can still be honest without giving a full "warts and all" opinion. But it's up to you how you choose to behave" Agree. I wouldn't respect you for disrespecting someone else / telling the truth and neither would I think it was sour grapes. You are entitled to your opinion, but that doesn't mean it has to be voiced. I would use the phrase 'repulsive' to describe someone's attitude or actions that I felt to abhorrent, but that's me. Your call on what you do. | |||
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"For some people it’s very hard to hear the truth... So sometimes people lie to them in a effort to spare their fragile feelings.... I believe in earning people’s respect above everything in life...So I try to be as honest as possible with anyone I meet.... A friend of mine asked me tonight if it was okay to start dating a girl I used to hook up with over the summer.... I told him it’s fine and I wish him the best of luck.... He then asked me what she was like in bed.... I told him ..... I wasn’t really attracted to her , I didn’t like to kiss her , I found her body repulsive, I could only have sex with her if I was d*unk , But I did love her vagina..... So I basically told him the woman he is going to build a relationship with , only good and redeeming quality is her vagina.... Now would you respect me for telling the truth or would you think I was only saying this because of sour grapes......" I think my response to a mate asking what a girl is like in bed that I’d fucked, would be he needs to find out himself. Tact is sometimes better than being blunt. I notice you’re American, remember us brits are generally more reserved, so asking opinions on a prodominantly uk site ,will get different answers than you’d get on a USA site. I dated an American girl for a while,and she had zero tact. | |||
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"I’m not sure why you would tell a mate what the lady was like in bed. I would lose respect at that point. You do realize he asked me? Yes I do but you didn’t have to answer and it kind of tells you everything you need to know about him as well I suppose. " You could have answered the question with tact & discretion , instead of slaughtering the woman. A simple ‘ She was just a hookup, not really the type I’m attracted to ‘ That way ,You don’t come across as sour grapes , and a pig being derogatory about another human being that’s done you no harm. It also wouldn’t have put the friendship in an awkward position, if your friend really winds up liking the woman and in a relationship. Instead you’ve come across as an immature frat boy, passing his leavings on . | |||
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"For some people it’s very hard to hear the truth... So sometimes people lie to them in a effort to spare their fragile feelings.... I believe in earning people’s respect above everything in life...So I try to be as honest as possible with anyone I meet.... A friend of mine asked me tonight if it was okay to start dating a girl I used to hook up with over the summer.... I told him it’s fine and I wish him the best of luck.... He then asked me what she was like in bed.... I told him ..... I wasn’t really attracted to her , I didn’t like to kiss her , I found her body repulsive, I could only have sex with her if I was d*unk , But I did love her vagina..... So I basically told him the woman he is going to build a relationship with , only good and redeeming quality is her vagina.... Now would you respect me for telling the truth or would you think I was only saying this because of sour grapes......" You had no respect for her by sounds if it if you were happy to use her for sex whilst finding her repulsive | |||
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"I’m not sure why you would tell a mate what the lady was like in bed. I would lose respect at that point. You do realize he asked me? Yes I do but you didn’t have to answer and it kind of tells you everything you need to know about him as well I suppose. " Was just thinking that. Says a lot about both guys. And just cos u wernt sexually attracted to her OP doesn't mean he won't be. X | |||
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You can be honest and still be tactful.
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Because sometimes you want a steak but only a hot dog is available....
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"It would depend on if you actually were telling the truth to be fair. But at the same time you kinda lose respect for being so desperate to be shagging somone you found repulsive. So i dunno neutral? But part of me thinks this may well be an episode of "shit that never happened" Interesting...... so you never had sex with someone you were not attracted too.... I’m basically saying I had sex with someone ugly...." No, sorry. I have to be attracted to someone to want to sleep with them. It’s never just about the act for me. Not judging others but you asked for opinions. Personally I wouldn’t have been quite so honest with your mate. Firstly, for me, it’s admitting I’d not got standards I’d adhere to. And secondly, perhaps by saying something like, “I’m not with her now, it’s not fair to comment as everyone likes different things. Make your own mind up when you get there.” might have been more tactful. Hey...I’m single, so what do I know about it!? | |||
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"I made this thread after watching the movie bird box. It gave me inspiration to make this forum a better place.....and show people the error of their ways.. call me the Diogenes of Fab... Whenever the subject of bi men comes up on any thread..... these comments are always posted “ I’m not attracted to men , I don’t want to kiss a man , I don’t want a relationship with a man , I JUST WANT HIS COCK “ “ I would never meet a man alone , and I don’t play with men unless a female is involved “ “ I met a couple and the husband started sucking me in the heat of the moment, and I went with it “ “ Labels shouldn’t matter, IF IT FEELS GOOD , JUST ENJOY IT “ Now in this thread I’ve been called desperate, and a few other things ... by stating that I only liked this woman for her vagina and nothing else? Why do bi men on Fab get a free pass for stating the exact same things I said about this woman? Is this how all of you subconsciously feel about bi men? But are afraid to post it... " Was this was all a lie? A little social experiment OP? Or did it actually take place? | |||
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"I made this thread after watching the movie bird box. It gave me inspiration to make this forum a better place.....and show people the error of their ways.. call me the Diogenes of Fab... Whenever the subject of bi men comes up on any thread..... these comments are always posted “ I’m not attracted to men , I don’t want to kiss a man , I don’t want a relationship with a man , I JUST WANT HIS COCK “ “ I would never meet a man alone , and I don’t play with men unless a female is involved “ “ I met a couple and the husband started sucking me in the heat of the moment, and I went with it “ “ Labels shouldn’t matter, IF IT FEELS GOOD , JUST ENJOY IT “ Now in this thread I’ve been called desperate, and a few other things ... by stating that I only liked this woman for her vagina and nothing else? Why do bi men on Fab get a free pass for stating the exact same things I said about this woman? Is this how all of you subconsciously feel about bi men? But are afraid to post it... What are you even talking about??
Read my opening post again but replace the word vagina with the word cock....
This will put into context what bi men on the forums say about other men when the subject of why people don’t like meeting bi guys....
It’s perfectly acceptable for them to say things of this nature and people will agree with them ... some will even defend these bi men after making such statements....
I just wanted to show people the hypocrisy that is rife around here.....
I not looking to make friends around here nor curry favor.....
But if I’ve earned some respect, my work is done...."He has a point.... Everybody overlooked the fem in his original post except me! I don't respect the woman, if she's 'aware' these two men are friends! This situation isn't a swinging one, more vanilla - the OP has been slated like crazy, but the woman who's passing herself around to friends, is the 'victim' of being humiliated behind her back! Whats a matter with her, can't she find a fella outside the circle of friends! .... Hahaha oh myyyy! Hilarious!!! | |||
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"I made this thread after watching the movie bird box. It gave me inspiration to make this forum a better place.....and show people the error of their ways.. call me the Diogenes of Fab... Whenever the subject of bi men comes up on any thread..... these comments are always posted “ I’m not attracted to men , I don’t want to kiss a man , I don’t want a relationship with a man , I JUST WANT HIS COCK “ “ I would never meet a man alone , and I don’t play with men unless a female is involved “ “ I met a couple and the husband started sucking me in the heat of the moment, and I went with it “ “ Labels shouldn’t matter, IF IT FEELS GOOD , JUST ENJOY IT “ Now in this thread I’ve been called desperate, and a few other things ... by stating that I only liked this woman for her vagina and nothing else? Why do bi men on Fab get a free pass for stating the exact same things I said about this woman? Is this how all of you subconsciously feel about bi men? But are afraid to post it... What are you even talking about??
Read my opening post again but replace the word vagina with the word cock....
This will put into context what bi men on the forums say about other men when the subject of why people don’t like meeting bi guys....
It’s perfectly acceptable for them to say things of this nature and people will agree with them ... some will even defend these bi men after making such statements....
I just wanted to show people the hypocrisy that is rife around here.....
I not looking to make friends around here nor curry favor.....
But if I’ve earned some respect, my work is done....
He has a point....
Everybody overlooked the fem in his original post except me!
I don't respect the woman, if she's 'aware' these two men are friends! This situation isn't a swinging one, more vanilla - the OP has been slated like crazy, but the woman who's passing herself around to friends, is the 'victim' of being humiliated behind her back!
Whats a matter with her, can't she find a fella outside the circle of friends! .... Hahaha oh myyyy! Hilarious!!! "No he doesn't in my opinion of course. He talks about respect yeah I don't see much of that myself. | |||
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"I made this thread after watching the movie bird box. It gave me inspiration to make this forum a better place.....and show people the error of their ways.. call me the Diogenes of Fab... Whenever the subject of bi men comes up on any thread..... these comments are always posted “ I’m not attracted to men , I don’t want to kiss a man , I don’t want a relationship with a man , I JUST WANT HIS COCK “ “ I would never meet a man alone , and I don’t play with men unless a female is involved “ “ I met a couple and the husband started sucking me in the heat of the moment, and I went with it “ “ Labels shouldn’t matter, IF IT FEELS GOOD , JUST ENJOY IT “ Now in this thread I’ve been called desperate, and a few other things ... by stating that I only liked this woman for her vagina and nothing else? Why do bi men on Fab get a free pass for stating the exact same things I said about this woman? Is this how all of you subconsciously feel about bi men? But are afraid to post it... What are you even talking about??
Read my opening post again but replace the word vagina with the word cock....
This will put into context what bi men on the forums say about other men when the subject of why people don’t like meeting bi guys....
It’s perfectly acceptable for them to say things of this nature and people will agree with them ... some will even defend these bi men after making such statements....
I just wanted to show people the hypocrisy that is rife around here.....
I not looking to make friends around here nor curry favor.....
But if I’ve earned some respect, my work is done....
He has a point....
Everybody overlooked the fem in his original post except me!
I don't respect the woman, if she's 'aware' these two men are friends! This situation isn't a swinging one, more vanilla - the OP has been slated like crazy, but the woman who's passing herself around to friends, is the 'victim' of being humiliated behind her back!
Whats a matter with her, can't she find a fella outside the circle of friends! .... Hahaha oh myyyy! Hilarious!!! ".... Because hooking up with a guy a few times means that you are then disqualified from getting involved with anyone that may know this guy. And if you do there is something the 'matter' with you and you don't deserve any respect. Sure. | |||
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"I made this thread after watching the movie bird box. It gave me inspiration to make this forum a better place.....and show people the error of their ways.. call me the Diogenes of Fab... Whenever the subject of bi men comes up on any thread..... these comments are always posted “ I’m not attracted to men , I don’t want to kiss a man , I don’t want a relationship with a man , I JUST WANT HIS COCK “ “ I would never meet a man alone , and I don’t play with men unless a female is involved “ “ I met a couple and the husband started sucking me in the heat of the moment, and I went with it “ “ Labels shouldn’t matter, IF IT FEELS GOOD , JUST ENJOY IT “ Now in this thread I’ve been called desperate, and a few other things ... by stating that I only liked this woman for her vagina and nothing else? Why do bi men on Fab get a free pass for stating the exact same things I said about this woman? Is this how all of you subconsciously feel about bi men? But are afraid to post it... What are you even talking about??
Read my opening post again but replace the word vagina with the word cock....
This will put into context what bi men on the forums say about other men when the subject of why people don’t like meeting bi guys....
It’s perfectly acceptable for them to say things of this nature and people will agree with them ... some will even defend these bi men after making such statements....
I just wanted to show people the hypocrisy that is rife around here.....
I not looking to make friends around here nor curry favor.....
But if I’ve earned some respect, my work is done....
He has a point....
Everybody overlooked the fem in his original post except me!
I don't respect the woman, if she's 'aware' these two men are friends! This situation isn't a swinging one, more vanilla - the OP has been slated like crazy, but the woman who's passing herself around to friends, is the 'victim' of being humiliated behind her back!
Whats a matter with her, can't she find a fella outside the circle of friends! .... Hahaha oh myyyy! Hilarious!!!
.... Because hooking up with a guy a few times means that you are then disqualified from getting involved with anyone that may know this guy. And if you do there is something the 'matter' with you and you don't deserve any respect. Sure.
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"I made this thread after watching the movie bird box. It gave me inspiration to make this forum a better place.....and show people the error of their ways.. call me the Diogenes of Fab... Whenever the subject of bi men comes up on any thread..... these comments are always posted “ I’m not attracted to men , I don’t want to kiss a man , I don’t want a relationship with a man , I JUST WANT HIS COCK “ “ I would never meet a man alone , and I don’t play with men unless a female is involved “ “ I met a couple and the husband started sucking me in the heat of the moment, and I went with it “ “ Labels shouldn’t matter, IF IT FEELS GOOD , JUST ENJOY IT “ Now in this thread I’ve been called desperate, and a few other things ... by stating that I only liked this woman for her vagina and nothing else? Why do bi men on Fab get a free pass for stating the exact same things I said about this woman? Is this how all of you subconsciously feel about bi men? But are afraid to post it... What are you even talking about??
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"I made this thread after watching the movie bird box. It gave me inspiration to make this forum a better place.....and show people the error of their ways.. call me the Diogenes of Fab... Whenever the subject of bi men comes up on any thread..... these comments are always posted “ I’m not attracted to men , I don’t want to kiss a man , I don’t want a relationship with a man , I JUST WANT HIS COCK “ “ I would never meet a man alone , and I don’t play with men unless a female is involved “ “ I met a couple and the husband started sucking me in the heat of the moment, and I went with it “ “ Labels shouldn’t matter, IF IT FEELS GOOD , JUST ENJOY IT “ Now in this thread I’ve been called desperate, and a few other things ... by stating that I only liked this woman for her vagina and nothing else? Why do bi men on Fab get a free pass for stating the exact same things I said about this woman? Is this how all of you subconsciously feel about bi men? But are afraid to post it... What are you even talking about??
Read my opening post again but replace the word vagina with the word cock....
This will put into context what bi men on the forums say about other men when the subject of why people don’t like meeting bi guys....
It’s perfectly acceptable for them to say things of this nature and people will agree with them ... some will even defend these bi men after making such statements....
I just wanted to show people the hypocrisy that is rife around here.....
I not looking to make friends around here nor curry favor.....
But if I’ve earned some respect, my work is done....
He has a point....
Everybody overlooked the fem in his original post except me!
I don't respect the woman, if she's 'aware' these two men are friends! This situation isn't a swinging one, more vanilla - the OP has been slated like crazy, but the woman who's passing herself around to friends, is the 'victim' of being humiliated behind her back!
Whats a matter with her, can't she find a fella outside the circle of friends! .... Hahaha oh myyyy! Hilarious!!!
.... Because hooking up with a guy a few times means that you are then disqualified from getting involved with anyone that may know this guy. And if you do there is something the 'matter' with you and you don't deserve any respect. Sure.
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"I made this thread after watching the movie bird box. It gave me inspiration to make this forum a better place.....and show people the error of their ways.. call me the Diogenes of Fab... Whenever the subject of bi men comes up on any thread..... these comments are always posted “ I’m not attracted to men , I don’t want to kiss a man , I don’t want a relationship with a man , I JUST WANT HIS COCK “ “ I would never meet a man alone , and I don’t play with men unless a female is involved “ “ I met a couple and the husband started sucking me in the heat of the moment, and I went with it “ “ Labels shouldn’t matter, IF IT FEELS GOOD , JUST ENJOY IT “ Now in this thread I’ve been called desperate, and a few other things ... by stating that I only liked this woman for her vagina and nothing else? Why do bi men on Fab get a free pass for stating the exact same things I said about this woman? Is this how all of you subconsciously feel about bi men? But are afraid to post it... What are you even talking about??
Read my opening post again but replace the word vagina with the word cock....
This will put into context what bi men on the forums say about other men when the subject of why people don’t like meeting bi guys....
It’s perfectly acceptable for them to say things of this nature and people will agree with them ... some will even defend these bi men after making such statements....
I just wanted to show people the hypocrisy that is rife around here.....
I not looking to make friends around here nor curry favor.....
But if I’ve earned some respect, my work is done....
He has a point....
Everybody overlooked the fem in his original post except me!
I don't respect the woman, if she's 'aware' these two men are friends! This situation isn't a swinging one, more vanilla - the OP has been slated like crazy, but the woman who's passing herself around to friends, is the 'victim' of being humiliated behind her back!
Whats a matter with her, can't she find a fella outside the circle of friends! .... Hahaha oh myyyy! Hilarious!!!
.... Because hooking up with a guy a few times means that you are then disqualified from getting involved with anyone that may know this guy. And if you do there is something the 'matter' with you and you don't deserve any respect. Sure.
Well expect to be spoken. It's naive to think the woman wouldn't be, even if it positive or negative....
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"It would depend on if you actually were telling the truth to be fair. But at the same time you kinda lose respect for being so desperate to be shagging somone you found repulsive. So i dunno neutral? But part of me thinks this may well be an episode of "shit that never happened""
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"I’m not sure why you would tell a mate what the lady was like in bed. I would lose respect at that point. You do realize he asked me? Yes I do but you didn’t have to answer and it kind of tells you everything you need to know about him as well I suppose. I guess he was trying to measure up to me or find out if she was kinky.... Who knows.... But do you think me telling him this comes off as sour grapes? Yes unfortunately because why would you have sex with someone you’re not attracted to and why give the information away so readily? Just my take on it. Well he asked a question and I gave a honest answer.... If someone asks me a question.... I will readily give a honest answer....." So will I, but I will try to do it in a way that's kind. It would've been much kinder to both to just say something non-specific like 'She was not really what I was looking for...' or similar. Be honest, but be kind. | |||
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"For some people it’s very hard to hear the truth... So sometimes people lie to them in a effort to spare their fragile feelings.... I believe in earning people’s respect above everything in life...So I try to be as honest as possible with anyone I meet.... A friend of mine asked me tonight if it was okay to start dating a girl I used to hook up with over the summer.... I told him it’s fine and I wish him the best of luck.... He then asked me what she was like in bed.... I told him ..... I wasn’t really attracted to her , I didn’t like to kiss her , I found her body repulsive, I could only have sex with her if I was d*unk , But I did love her vagina..... So I basically told him the woman he is going to build a relationship with , only good and redeeming quality is her vagina.... Now would you respect me for telling the truth or would you think I was only saying this because of sour grapes......" For someone who "Believes in earning people's respect" Is of importance to him. You've an interesting way of earning it. I'd have more respect for someone who was politely honest about not finding me attractive. Than being dehumanized by a complete troll. If it helps, I've about as much respect for your mate, who felt like he needed to ask. | |||
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