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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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As a gentleman foremost,I always endavour to cover the cost of the whole night from start to finish and the most recent one even took her to a harvester for a nice fill before parting our ways as the hotel we stopped at didn't have a restaurant(If you've not tried the harvester for breakfast do it very yummy indeed)
Guys what's your thoughts and how do you tend to do things
Lady's how does your hotel meets tend to work out
And the lovely hotwife couples etc views and actual stories too
Serious and non serious answers this is fab after all and a bit of banter and laughter goes a long long way in my japs eye(s)
Suppose a lot of fabsters in this day and age would consider the guy paying for everything as actually paying for sex but I can assure you that's not me in any shape or form
Call it being a gentleman or old fashioned values etc etc
*And for all you glass half empty one's and moaning minnies(Minnie the minx/minxy and any other associated name this isn't you btw,you ladys are always glass half full and spilling over) let's not get into the usual nasty and unkind debate that normally happens on threads
**And yes I do have a hotel meet posted for Fri but what's bloody new....I do it most weeks laugh at loud
***Can always do sat as free all weekend
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a gentleman foremost,I always endavour to cover the cost of the whole night from start to finish and the most recent one even took her to a harvester for a nice fill before parting our ways as the hotel we stopped at didn't have a restaurant(If you've not tried the harvester for breakfast do it very yummy indeed)
Guys what's your thoughts and how do you tend to do things
Lady's how does your hotel meets tend to work out
And the lovely hotwife couples etc views and actual stories too
Serious and non serious answers this is fab after all and a bit of banter and laughter goes a long long way in my japs eye(s)
Suppose a lot of fabsters in this day and age would consider the guy paying for everything as actually paying for sex but I can assure you that's not me in any shape or form
Call it being a gentleman or old fashioned values etc etc
*And for all you glass half empty one's and moaning minnies(Minnie the minx/minxy and any other associated name this isn't you btw,you ladys are always glass half full and spilling over) let's not get into the usual nasty and unkind debate that normally happens on threads
**And yes I do have a hotel meet posted for Fri but what's bloody new....I do it most weeks laugh at loud
***Can always do sat as free all weekend
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I’d always like to go 50/50 x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As a gentleman foremost,I always endavour to cover the cost of the whole night from start to finish and the most recent one even took her to a harvester for a nice fill before parting our ways as the hotel we stopped at didn't have a restaurant(If you've not tried the harvester for breakfast do it very yummy indeed)
Guys what's your thoughts and how do you tend to do things
Lady's how does your hotel meets tend to work out
And the lovely hotwife couples etc views and actual stories too
Serious and non serious answers this is fab after all and a bit of banter and laughter goes a long long way in my japs eye(s)
Suppose a lot of fabsters in this day and age would consider the guy paying for everything as actually paying for sex but I can assure you that's not me in any shape or form
Call it being a gentleman or old fashioned values etc etc
*And for all you glass half empty one's and moaning minnies(Minnie the minx/minxy and any other associated name this isn't you btw,you ladys are always glass half full and spilling over) let's not get into the usual nasty and unkind debate that normally happens on threads
**And yes I do have a hotel meet posted for Fri but what's bloody new....I do it most weeks laugh at loud
***Can always do sat as free all weekend
I’d always like to go 50/50 x "
Phone a friend too babe?
Esp if your friend is female |
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
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It depends...
Most of the time the hotel is booked already and I just turn up 
On Sunday evening, I FAF and it was going to be short notice, so I sorted out the hotel booking and paid for it.
Today I FAF and to soothe my aching muscles in a hot tub so made arrangements to go to BGHS with someone. We each paid our own entry and drinks.
It’s fair for me either way... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a gentleman foremost,I always endavour to cover the cost of the whole night from start to finish and the most recent one even took her to a harvester for a nice fill before parting our ways as the hotel we stopped at didn't have a restaurant(If you've not tried the harvester for breakfast do it very yummy indeed)
Guys what's your thoughts and how do you tend to do things
Lady's how does your hotel meets tend to work out
And the lovely hotwife couples etc views and actual stories too
Serious and non serious answers this is fab after all and a bit of banter and laughter goes a long long way in my japs eye(s)
Suppose a lot of fabsters in this day and age would consider the guy paying for everything as actually paying for sex but I can assure you that's not me in any shape or form
Call it being a gentleman or old fashioned values etc etc
*And for all you glass half empty one's and moaning minnies(Minnie the minx/minxy and any other associated name this isn't you btw,you ladys are always glass half full and spilling over) let's not get into the usual nasty and unkind debate that normally happens on threads
**And yes I do have a hotel meet posted for Fri but what's bloody new....I do it most weeks laugh at loud
***Can always do sat as free all weekend
I’d always like to go 50/50 x
Phone a friend too babe?
Esp if your friend is female "
Ask the audience |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with OP, old fashioned values etc. I always offer to pay for everything.
The two times I have had a hotel meet I ended up paying for the hotel, but she insisted on buying dinner and drinks so we were evened out. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It depends...
Most of the time the hotel is booked already and I just turn up
On Sunday evening, I FAF and it was going to be short notice, so I sorted out the hotel booking and paid for it.
Today I FAF and to soothe my aching muscles in a hot tub so made arrangements to go to BGHS with someone. We each paid our own entry and drinks.
It’s fair for me either way... "
Very honest and informative reply there
So to sum it up sometimes you but sometimes half depending on the situation/rendevous/meet etc
Do the guys who you meet tend to offer to pay for the room or club entrance or is that again mixed depending on the circumstances
And love the faf btw just bloody put it out there that's what I tend to do
But am a gentleman and respectful too if you can get that jay xxx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"As a gentleman foremost,I always endavour to cover the cost of the whole night from start to finish and the most recent one even took her to a harvester for a nice fill before parting our ways as the hotel we stopped at didn't have a restaurant(If you've not tried the harvester for breakfast do it very yummy indeed)
Guys what's your thoughts and how do you tend to do things
Lady's how does your hotel meets tend to work out
And the lovely hotwife couples etc views and actual stories too
Serious and non serious answers this is fab after all and a bit of banter and laughter goes a long long way in my japs eye(s)
Suppose a lot of fabsters in this day and age would consider the guy paying for everything as actually paying for sex but I can assure you that's not me in any shape or form
Call it being a gentleman or old fashioned values etc etc
*And for all you glass half empty one's and moaning minnies(Minnie the minx/minxy and any other associated name this isn't you btw,you ladys are always glass half full and spilling over) let's not get into the usual nasty and unkind debate that normally happens on threads
**And yes I do have a hotel meet posted for Fri but what's bloody new....I do it most weeks laugh at loud
***Can always do sat as free all weekend
I’d always like to go 50/50 x
Phone a friend too babe?
Esp if your friend is female
Ask the audience "
Will do....But they might be naked  |
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I don't see any issue in paying for the hotel. (other person might be a little short of cash)
I like to feel that I've paid my way.
I have turned down hotel meets because of this which ia a bit of a contradiction I suppose.
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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago
Redhill |
"It depends...
Most of the time the hotel is booked already and I just turn up
On Sunday evening, I FAF and it was going to be short notice, so I sorted out the hotel booking and paid for it.
Today I FAF and to soothe my aching muscles in a hot tub so made arrangements to go to BGHS with someone. We each paid our own entry and drinks.
It’s fair for me either way...
Very honest and informative reply there
So to sum it up sometimes you but sometimes half depending on the situation/rendevous/meet etc
Do the guys who you meet tend to offer to pay for the room or club entrance or is that again mixed depending on the circumstances
And love the faf btw just bloody put it out there that's what I tend to do
But am a gentleman and respectful too if you can get that jay xxx"
Yes, guys always offer to pay which I think is polite, but I am always prepared to pay my own way.
On Sunday evening I knew it was going to be short notice as I only let the successful applicant with an hour to get his butt to the venue, so I thought it only fair to make the arrangements myself.
I always offer to pay my own way. |
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"I agree with OP, old fashioned values etc. I always offer to pay for everything.
The two times I have had a hotel meet I ended up paying for the hotel, but she insisted on buying dinner and drinks so we were evened out. "
I have worked it that way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anyway, the first time someone allegedly wanted to sweep me off to a hotel, it didn’t happen as I just got a bad vibe from constant messaging...
The second time another was willing, he spat the dummy out as I posted a social verification from before I knew he existed and he blocked me... 
There won’t be a third time... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Anyway, the first time someone allegedly wanted to sweep me off to a hotel, it didn’t happen as I just got a bad vibe from constant messaging...
The second time another was willing, he spat the dummy out as I posted a social verification from before I knew he existed and he blocked me...
There won’t be a third time... "
So he got the arse cause you'd met someone for a drink prior to meeting him
Green eyed monster springs to mind ffg
This is fab not love story
We meet and possibly copulate with other fellow fabsters
Even though yours was just a social obvs xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Always split the bill, we don’t stay and whoever meets us is welcome to, just polite
We’d refuse to meet anyone who wouldn’t split the bill, even a single female 3 ways! That reminds us we still owe a certain lady our share of the room!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Anyway, the first time someone allegedly wanted to sweep me off to a hotel, it didn’t happen as I just got a bad vibe from constant messaging...
The second time another was willing, he spat the dummy out as I posted a social verification from before I knew he existed and he blocked me...
There won’t be a third time...
So he got the arse cause you'd met someone for a drink prior to meeting him
Green eyed monster springs to mind ffg
This is fab not love story
We meet and possibly copulate with other fellow fabsters
Even though yours was just a social obvs xx"
Swear down it was just a social but this lad saw his arse with me... wouldn’t mind but the idiot was married!
Nowt as queer as folk that’s all I can say xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the successful applicant
Again giggling again here lol
Did you check his cv out first "
You need to use reply + quote.
Otherwise no one know who you are addressing |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"the successful applicant
Again giggling again here lol
Did you check his cv out first
You need to use reply + quote.
Otherwise no one know who you are addressing"
I know but thread gets to big
If you read whole of it you'll know x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always offer to pay first. Sometime the lady or couple want to meet me half way. I'm easy.
BTW, I use a certain website (which I cannot mention on here) for hotel rooms during the day.... I get them at a fraction of the normal rate.
I
PM me if you want to know.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I agree with OP, old fashioned values etc. I always offer to pay for everything.
The two times I have had a hotel meet I ended up paying for the hotel, but she insisted on buying dinner and drinks so we were evened out. "
That was very nice and thoughtful of the lady MR T |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I always offer to pay first. Sometime the lady or couple want to meet me half way. I'm easy.
BTW, I use a certain website (which I cannot mention on here) for hotel rooms during the day.... I get them at a fraction of the normal rate.
I
PM me if you want to know.
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There's your first pm on this then pal
Soz its not from a lady
But yes interested in that my friend
Also do they rent the rooms by the.............10 mins |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Always split the bill, we don’t stay and whoever meets us is welcome to, just polite
We’d refuse to meet anyone who wouldn’t split the bill, even a single female 3 ways! That reminds us we still owe a certain lady our share of the room!! "
A threeway split
Can't say that doesn't sound appealing couple
And it's 2/3rds 1/third on the bill asWell yes? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I always offer to pay first. Sometime the lady or couple want to meet me half way. I'm easy.
BTW, I use a certain website (which I cannot mention on here) for hotel rooms during the day.... I get them at a fraction of the normal rate.
I
PM me if you want to know.
There's your first pm on this then pal
Soz its not from a lady
But yes interested in that my friend
Also do they rent the rooms by the.............10 mins "
Can't pm you mate. Tried...
I don't mind that you're not a lady - just happy if I can help.
Secured a room last year normally 280 quid for 60 quid.
It was a fantastic meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Nothing wrong with old fashioned values, I think there’s still a few of us on here that appreciate that approach, you’ll always got someone talking crap about how it’s out of date now... shut up and enjoy the attention we say x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am less likely to want to meet in a hotel because I will only go halves, but this can get costly for me if I am meeting different people a few times a month. I usually prefer to arrange meets where someone can accomm instead of a hotel if I am honest because I have to be responsible with my finances.
If someone is staying in a hotel already I don't mind visiting if they are staying here for work and usually work are paying anyway, in which case they are using the room and sleeping there and I am going home so I will usually bring drinks. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I am less likely to want to meet in a hotel because I will only go halves, but this can get costly for me if I am meeting different people a few times a month. I usually prefer to arrange meets where someone can accomm instead of a hotel if I am honest because I have to be responsible with my finances.
If someone is staying in a hotel already I don't mind visiting if they are staying here for work and usually work are paying anyway, in which case they are using the room and sleeping there and I am going home so I will usually bring drinks. "
That's a fair and honest comment l |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I always offer to pay first. Sometime the lady or couple want to meet me half way. I'm easy.
BTW, I use a certain website (which I cannot mention on here) for hotel rooms during the day.... I get them at a fraction of the normal rate.
I
PM me if you want to know.
There's your first pm on this then pal
Soz its not from a lady
But yes interested in that my friend
Also do they rent the rooms by the.............10 mins
Can't pm you mate. Tried...
I don't mind that you're not a lady - just happy if I can help.
Secured a room last year normally 280 quid for 60 quid.
It was a fantastic meet"
Ok, filters obvs pal
And wow that must have been one posh n fancy hotel
Bet it was just magical eh ?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok, filters obvs pal
And wow that must have been one posh n fancy hotel
Bet it was just magical eh ?
The best 6 hours of my life"
and thanks for hotel details
Sounds good will |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Ok, filters obvs pal
And wow that must have been one posh n fancy hotel
Bet it was just magical eh ?
The best 6 hours of my life
and thanks for hotel details
Sounds good will "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Depends on the situation.
Happy to split the bill 50/50.
Happy to have a drink at the bar before going to the room.
But then again it quite good for a role play scenario if you prearrange it."
Hi matey how are you
All good I hope
Yes roleplay at the bar has got to be the ultimate
110 on that with you pal |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Not intended to use thread for hidden agenda fabsters
But there is one particular couple that I've liked for a while now but a year under your filter
Also seen the film beauty and the beast x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Not intended to use thread for hidden agenda fabsters
But there is one particular couple that I've liked for a while now but a year under your filter
Also seen the film beauty and the beast x"
And something to do with the devil inside her
A great film I seem to remember |
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By *tirluvMan
over a year ago
the right frame of mind -London |
"I always offer to pay first. Sometime the lady or couple want to meet me half way. I'm easy.
BTW, I use a certain website (which I cannot mention on here) for hotel rooms during the day.... I get them at a fraction of the normal rate.
I
PM me if you want to know.
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Wow -that really narrows it down -thanks |
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
Always split all costs of any meet 50/50 - no sense of obligation or expectation that way - have even had meets that have been social with a view to more, where a hotel has been booked in advance and I've made it clear that if we decide not to take things further the other person gets to use the room and I come home but I'll still pay half.
At the end of the day we're both there to have a good time, so why shouldn't we split the costs? In fact if someone *expected* me to pay for everything, I'd not be interested. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wow that is being a gentleman pal
If were all being honest here I'm Not sure I could do that pal
I'd have to have the room myself or at least could have been a social first
Just imagine it if she was on fab 5 mins later
Hotel meet
all paid for
Hurry up
Horny as fuck
(Full English and or continental breakfast Inc to replace all your stamina)
And I'm hoping that has never happened obvs as that would be a right cock knocker
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A huge 5 course meal in a posh restaurant with expensive bottles of wine, then back to the 5 star hotel room where I sleep it off.
Sounds great to me "
Gemini goes home........And then fab once you've woke up refreshed to find a guy who would like a full English .....Gemini you need to up your game my friend |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Okay, We would book a room, and hopefully they would turn up. If they don’t turn up we would be enjoying the hotel and room anyway, so I’d never ask for the cost upfront, but if our friend was to offer to pay half, that would be acceptable, after all I’m sure they would have enjoyed themselves too.
Old fashioned values are lovely, and lots of people like them. Who doesn’t like to be pampered once in a while , keep up what your doing op.
Had a harvester, they are good value. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for that pal
Had a few non fab friends say it's like paying for sex which f'ed me off a bit tbh when one of them,who's just recently got together with a lady after splitting up from his wife,was talking about the new posh restaurant he was taking her too
I argued the same thing he said it wasn't ended up me telling him to f off in no certain terms
Been hurt twice now with ex wife and then ex ex gf who pissed me about in the end by taking her limp useless hubby back for the sake of the kids
This is me now for the foreseeable future
No commitment no arguing
No washing up no painting the shed no clearing the bloody drains
Just naughty and thrilling sex with likeminded ladys
Think this one's done with relationships I'm afraid
Sorry for the long message fabbys x
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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago
There and to the left a bit |
"Wow that is being a gentleman pal
If were all being honest here I'm Not sure I could do that pal
I'd have to have the room myself or at least could have been a social first
Just imagine it if she was on fab 5 mins later
Hotel meet
all paid for
Hurry up
Horny as fuck
(Full English and or continental breakfast Inc to replace all your stamina)
And I'm hoping that has never happened obvs as that would be a right cock knocker
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If that happened it happened, none of my business if it did - nothing to do with needing to "up my game" at all, and to be honest you're somewhat contradicting yourself here - on the one hand you're stating you like to act the "gentleman" and pay for the room yourself, yet here you say you'd "like to have the room for yourself".
The circumstances I described are when we live a distance apart and have met half way - so having a combined social with a view to taking things further if we want to makes sense. The hotel cost is all part of that, and like I said I split costs 50/50 regardless of what happens - no expectation or obligation that way.
I'm also fairly selective with who I meet, so by the time we get to discussing meeting am am fairly sure that we'll get on - either way I'm still happy to do things the way I said above and wouldn't automatically assume that just because the lady has decided she doesn't want to take things further with me that she'll be jumping on Fab looking for someone else.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Wow that is being a gentleman pal
If were all being honest here I'm Not sure I could do that pal
I'd have to have the room myself or at least could have been a social first
Just imagine it if she was on fab 5 mins later
Hotel meet
all paid for
Hurry up
Horny as fuck
(Full English and or continental breakfast Inc to replace all your stamina)
And I'm hoping that has never happened obvs as that would be a right cock knocker
If that happened it happened, none of my business if it did - nothing to do with needing to "up my game" at all, and to be honest you're somewhat contradicting yourself here - on the one hand you're stating you like to act the "gentleman" and pay for the room yourself, yet here you say you'd "like to have the room for yourself".
The circumstances I described are when we live a distance apart and have met half way - so having a combined social with a view to taking things further if we want to makes sense. The hotel cost is all part of that, and like I said I split costs 50/50 regardless of what happens - no expectation or obligation that way.
I'm also fairly selective with who I meet, so by the time we get to discussing meeting am am fairly sure that we'll get on - either way I'm still happy to do things the way I said above and wouldn't automatically assume that just because the lady has decided she doesn't want to take things further with me that she'll be jumping on Fab looking for someone else.
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Just saying it would be a bummer |
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By (user no longer on site)
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For me it depends on the circumstances, if the guy I’m meeting is staying in a hotel for business/work etc then I’m happy for him to pay for it, if it’s planned especially so we can meet I’d offer to pay half or suggest a club instead....usually works out cheaper at a club...he pays entrance and I pick up the bar bill..or visa versa |
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