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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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do most of you like to a list of whos going before you go just to check out there profiles
i have always tried to do this as you never know .had one where someone accepted late on on day of party when they arrived it was father and new wife showed up but his son and g/f were already at the party really killed the night for them and all anyone could say was jerry springer moment
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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago
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"do most of you like to a list of whos going before you go just to check out there profiles
i have always tried to do this as you never know .had one where someone accepted late on on day of party when they arrived it was father and new wife showed up but his son and g/f were already at the party really killed the night for them and all anyone could say was jerry springer moment
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If its a private house party, then yes  |
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"do most of you like to a list of whos going before you go just to check out there profiles
i have always tried to do this as you never know .had one where someone accepted late on on day of party when they arrived it was father and new wife showed up but his son and g/f were already at the party really killed the night for them and all anyone could say was jerry springer moment
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I was invited to one the other day and tried to find out who was attending as i prefer to know.
They were not keen to tell me so i decided not to attend. |
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I'm going to a party in May (hopefully), it will be my first one and I wasn't sure of the 'etiquette' ... is it ok to ask who's going?
I would like to know as I'm going as a single |
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"I'm going to a party in May (hopefully), it will be my first one and I wasn't sure of the 'etiquette' ... is it ok to ask who's going?
I would like to know as I'm going as a single "
i always liked to tell the people whos going some dont like to give others names out depends on the host of party xx |
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i host partys on a reguler basis i am always being asked who is attending
i do not let anyone know reason being
would you like me to let all n sundrey you areattending a private party ?
its not discreet to tell others who is attending
and if anyone turns up and dont like what they see well they can bugger off !
as it is ive never encountered any problems but i have come to also realise that the one who ask who dont get told never seem to come ! timewasters n picture collectors comes to mind
take my advice
build it and they will come lol
ie advertise but dont inform anyone who is coming other than a general 3 couples 2 females and 5 guys etc |
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When I was on here as a couple we went to a party and our neighbours turned up. Not exactly next door neighbours but they were from just around the corner. The ex was mortified. To make things worse they had got the train up and I'd drove so I thought it only polite to offer them a lift home, the ex wasn't keen but I eventually made her see sense. We were all there for the same reason after all.
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I only go to house parties which have an 'attending' list. But then again I don't go to parties with open invites posted on forums for every man and his dog to turn up to.
I want to know if there's a chance there will be people there who I am happy to play with and vice versa. Not all hosts are good and choosing to invite people with a good match preference wise.
To me, a private list of who's going is not the same as a list of who fucked who, who did what or a post stating "guess who I'm shagging now".
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"... but i have come to also realise that the one who ask who dont get told never seem to come ! timewasters n picture collectors comes to mind
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So the obvious thought of... they weren't told so they chose not to go totally escapes you.
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By (user no longer on site)
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Once you have a confirmed list of people I dont see any harm in sharing it as it gives peep a chance to chat a little before hand and I cant see anyone having any privacy issues as only the people who are going anyway are going to get this list x  |
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"I'm going to a party in May (hopefully), it will be my first one and I wasn't sure of the 'etiquette' ... is it ok to ask who's going?
I would like to know as I'm going as a single "
Yes it is OK. For all you know it could be one couple in their 60's and 14 single guys. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I only go to house parties which have an 'attending' list. But then again I don't go to parties with open invites posted on forums for every man and his dog to turn up to.
I want to know if there's a chance there will be people there who I am happy to play with and vice versa. Not all hosts are good and choosing to invite people with a good match preference wise.
To me, a private list of who's going is not the same as a list of who fucked who, who did what or a post stating "guess who I'm shagging now".
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thats what i was getting at thank you i invite a group of people that i hope will get on ,never a open list i find that if you have a set preference list you look for just that type party goes so well |
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We wouldn't fancy going to a private house party without seeing a list first.
Its nice to know there's a good chance of compatibility with others attending. 
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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago
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"I only go to house parties which have an 'attending' list. But then again I don't go to parties with open invites posted on forums for every man and his dog to turn up to.
I want to know if there's a chance there will be people there who I am happy to play with and vice versa. Not all hosts are good and choosing to invite people with a good match preference wise.
To me, a private list of who's going is not the same as a list of who fucked who, who did what or a post stating "guess who I'm shagging now".
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"do most of you like to a list of whos going before you go just to check out there profiles
i have always tried to do this as you never know .had one where someone accepted late on on day of party when they arrived it was father and new wife showed up but his son and g/f were already at the party really killed the night for them and all anyone could say was jerry springer moment
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It wasn't on an island was it?  |
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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago
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"do most of you like to a list of whos going before you go just to check out there profiles
i have always tried to do this as you never know .had one where someone accepted late on on day of party when they arrived it was father and new wife showed up but his son and g/f were already at the party really killed the night for them and all anyone could say was jerry springer moment
It wasn't on an island was it? "
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