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Would something like this get someones attention/interest?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondering if this could work and grab a woman's attention/interest.
Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different. |
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"Just wondering if this could work and grab a woman's attention/interest.
Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different."
It's too impersonal and will come across as an obvious copy and paste message, I've had loads on C&P messages over the past 18months and they do stick out like a sore thumb.
The general tone is good, but rather than asking if they want a conversation, try and start one, if they want one they will engage with it. |
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over a year ago
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"Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different."
I'm very well thank you. No. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's awful...don't do it"
Don't worry I'm not, was just curious as to what people think ... Need to try something new because usually I read people's profiles and pick bits and bobs out to talk about .... Turns out they can hardly hold a conversation themselves or I get short worded answers and it's like, where do I go from here? You're not giving me anything to work from or further progress a convo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's awful...don't do it
Don't worry I'm not, was just curious as to what people think ... Need to try something new because usually I read people's profiles and pick bits and bobs out to talk about .... Turns out they can hardly hold a conversation themselves or I get short worded answers and it's like, where do I go from here? You're not giving me anything to work from or further progress a convo."
Change your message and try messaging different kind of women but saying this in a forum might annoy people and less likely to message you in the future |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It's awful...don't do it
Don't worry I'm not, was just curious as to what people think ... Need to try something new because usually I read people's profiles and pick bits and bobs out to talk about .... Turns out they can hardly hold a conversation themselves or I get short worded answers and it's like, where do I go from here? You're not giving me anything to work from or further progress a convo.
Change your message and try messaging different kind of women but saying this in a forum might annoy people and less likely to message you in the future "
If it annoys people let it. Everyone gets annoyed at something on here anyways.
We're always adapting and changing what we do to get a better understanding and experiment with new ideas. |
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"Just wondering if this could work and grab a woman's attention/interest.
Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different."
I personally hate messages that say hey beautiful/gorgeous/sexy. It just looks like you’re trying to blow smoke up my arse especially as I have no face pics on public and in reality could look like a bulldog chewing a wasp.
‘Is it ok if I can talk to you’ comes across as needy and not very confident/assertive.
Putting the majority of women down by saying they can’t hold a convo comes across like a bitter person who can’t get meets so blames it on the women he speaks to. Also saying after that you want to see how it goes chatting to said message recipient comes across as condescending and like you will decide if their chat is quality enough to engage with.
Lastly copy and paste messages will get you absolutely hee haw on here because it looks like you’re casting your net as wide as possible and will fuck anyone who replies
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This is the kind of conversation I like, you don't get this with individual chats.
Because you have something to talk about and you get to learn new stuff.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering if this could work and grab a woman's attention/interest.
Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different."
I stopped reading after the second question and skimmed to the middle of the third.
Just no.
I personally find a simple introduction of who you are and what do you want as a good start. But that's just me.
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"It's awful...don't do it
Don't worry I'm not, was just curious as to what people think ... Need to try something new because usually I read people's profiles and pick bits and bobs out to talk about .... Turns out they can hardly hold a conversation themselves or I get short worded answers and it's like, where do I go from here? You're not giving me anything to work from or further progress a convo."
Creepy and a turn off. Maybe its not that people can't hold a convo they just don't want one with you.
You are basically slagging others off in you message. |
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By *exfordMan
over a year ago
discombobulated land |
"Just wondering if this could work and grab a woman's attention/interest.
Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different."
First line screams that you're a cheese ball |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondering if this could work and grab a woman's attention/interest.
Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different."
*shudder*
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wondering if this could work and grab a woman's attention/interest.
Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different.
I personally hate messages that say hey beautiful/gorgeous/sexy. It just looks like you’re trying to blow smoke up my arse especially as I have no face pics on public and in reality could look like a bulldog chewing a wasp.
‘Is it ok if I can talk to you’ comes across as needy and not very confident/assertive.
Putting the majority of women down by saying they can’t hold a convo comes across like a bitter person who can’t get meets so blames it on the women he speaks to. Also saying after that you want to see how it goes chatting to said message recipient comes across as condescending and like you will decide if their chat is quality enough to engage with.
Lastly copy and paste messages will get you absolutely hee haw on here because it looks like you’re casting your net as wide as possible and will fuck anyone who replies
Mrs"
Couldn't agree more.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The fact that it is derogatory about other people means I wouldn't bother making any other opinions about the message nor you, sorry doesn't work for me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op if you change the beautiful to hunni...........
I think you'll become one of those magnets that attract fanny
On a serious note just send a short informative message of who you are what your about and what your offering for an exciting and funfilled fab date
But try not to mention that that you've got a 9 inch cock can breathe through your ears and can fornicate like your favourite Lionel Ritchie song
They've heard it all before I'm afraid |
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"Just wondering if this could work and grab a woman's attention/interest.
Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different."
Why not try ..
A you there with the sad face you what to come to my place and live it up...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd delete that. I want a guy who treats me as an individual not just a standard cut and paste. I want someone confident and chatty not someone who basically asks permission to talk to me. I'm a person not some kind of sacred being. |
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"Just wondering if this could work and grab a woman's attention/interest.
Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different."
It’s creepy and terrible. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wondering if this could work and grab a woman's attention/interest.
Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different."
Insulting others to try and make somone feel special never works just makes you seem like an arse.
Its one of those shitty pick up artist manipulations, the implication being if they dont engage you then they can't hold a conversation.
Some punctuation besides question marks would help too.
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By *amissCouple
over a year ago
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"Just wondering if this could work and grab a woman's attention/interest.
Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different."
No it wouldn't work for me, for all the above reasons  |
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"Just wondering if this could work and grab a woman's attention/interest.
Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different."
 No . Even FAF?? would be better than that . |
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"It's awful...don't do it
Don't worry I'm not, was just curious as to what people think ... Need to try something new because usually I read people's profiles and pick bits and bobs out to talk about .... Turns out they can hardly hold a conversation themselves or I get short worded answers and it's like, where do I go from here? You're not giving me anything to work from or further progress a convo."
Take that as a hint - They're just not into you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Op your profile pic is you on a boat, there has to be something you can make up along the lines of tossing her (a life) ring.
Or semaphore, just avoid the red flags.
Circumnavigating her equator if youre into the bbws
I might just be sticking my oar in but there's bound to be some humour there if you just look beneath the surface.
Im pluming the depths here and trying to fathom out how to make a going down pun but im all put of steam.
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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago
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"Just wondering if this could work and grab a woman's attention/interest.
Hey there beautiful how are you?is it ok if I can talk to you? About random stuff and start up a conversation maybe? It's just not very many women talk or can hold a conversation on here and I'd like to see how things go with you and maybe we can find out something new that we like maybe or something different."
Hey there beautiful how are you? = Sexual harassment
is it ok if I can talk to you? = Is patronising and won't get a lot of response expect the block button.
Sorry like most guys on here you must look like Tom Hardy have tattoos be over 6ft a ripping six pack and not show your cock on site be local and match her tiny unique preferences and that "MAY" get you a hi back.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mr here. Absolutely awful  Try a bit of banter, although my Mrs mainly replies to guys if they float her boat (see what I did there with your boat pic), then she gets bored and stops talking haha. |
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