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over a year ago
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You must be picking the wrong people. Be careful who you reply to and arrange meets. Never been stood up. Having said that I also don't meet we the drop of a hat so we've chatted a while before a meet as been arranged |
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"Very. I'm trying to get more ruthless about it...in a one strike and you're out kind of way. i.e back out of a meet and you're unfriended. End of. "
So we've arranged to meet and I've got the flu, that's it?? |
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over a year ago
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I'm betting a lot of men think I mess them about, as I can't always decide if I want to meet them.
I don't want to dismiss them right away, in case I warm to them.
Sometimes my life gets so busy (at the drop of a hat) that I can't do what I said I would.
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"I'm betting a lot of men think I mess them about, as I can't always decide if I want to meet them.
I don't want to dismiss them right away, in case I warm to them.
Sometimes my life gets so busy (at the drop of a hat) that I can't do what I said I would.
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"Very. I'm trying to get more ruthless about it...in a one strike and you're out kind of way. i.e back out of a meet and you're unfriended. End of.
So we've arranged to meet and I've got the flu, that's it?? "
Never been that ruthless. I'm thinking more of the ones who have for a long time said they want to meet, then on more than one occasion when we have agreed to meet they back out for one reason or another. This despite the fact they know our opportunities for meets are very limited. |
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"Very. I'm trying to get more ruthless about it...in a one strike and you're out kind of way. i.e back out of a meet and you're unfriended. End of.
So we've arranged to meet and I've got the flu, that's it?? "
Yes, last Saturday I was supposed to be meeting a couple I've met before but a few days before I got this bug that's been doing the rounds, felt awful. I was dreading telling them and for a couple of days hoped i'd pick up. However the day before we were due to meet I contacted them, turned out he had the same thing too. |
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"Way to many time wasters on this site and let downs just standard.
Some may have genuine reasons but just all to frequent"
I find it hard to understand how many people get called into work last minute on a Saturday night |
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over a year ago
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The time wasters I can deal with ... It's just the selfish low life women that give me abuse and being body shamed for being stocky that are really getting to me at the moment. A real confidence knock and a half that was.  |
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"Way to many time wasters on this site and let downs just standard.
Some may have genuine reasons but just all to frequent
I find it hard to understand how many people get called into work last minute on a Saturday night"
It’s hard for married people to get out on the weekends..... |
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"The time wasters I can deal with ... It's just the selfish low life women that give me abuse and being body shamed for being stocky that are really getting to me at the moment. A real confidence knock and a half that was. "
Don’t let these women get you down.....
It’s their loss |
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"Anyone else get absolutely sick of people messing them about? "
Absolutely. There's a never ending plethora of time wasters in Leeds and surrounding areas. As others have said it's now one strike and they're out. No accepting friend requests from anyone without private pics and if they just waffle on asking personal questions we just assume they're having a tug and block them (everyone hates a cliffhanger lol). |
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